A gambler's family action.

[Accardo]

Although gambling is not a bad thing but some society and religion sees it as odd and does not allow their people or congregation to partake in it so therefore some parents too do not wish for their child(ren) to also gamble as well. When a child is above 18 it is assumed that the child is matured enough to know what is right and what is wrong to some extent and would know what to do without supervision of the parents to take a decision on their own so therefore any child can take the best decision as it pleases them or seek the consent their parents or anybody they feel is okay to relate anything with in their life.

As for giving a child school fees to pay by themselves now, i think no parents does that for children below 18 who are still under their parents watch only those above that age and most of them are in the university so I believe they would be matured enough to know then right thing to do rather than gambling with their school fees.

I will quote this scriptures which I think is very much important to a child up bringing which says " Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it." Proverbs 22:6

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These days adults are derailing from the ways they were being trained by their parents. Hence, the society gets even more difficult to control. I'd say that despite having greater possibilty of being effective, allowing kids above the age of 18 isn't a nice idea. Because not everyone of them are grown enough to take reasonable decisions against delaying the gravity of making easy money through gambling. Peer pressure still control these youths and only the strong or well trained can withstand the gravity that follows it. The worst part of gambling is playing or staking the money given to us by others, especially our parents. To stay on safe side, it's crucial to hand out spare cash to our kids, as pocket cash. Such that, whatever thing they do with the money won't affect the family financially. Whether they're adults or not. The world is becoming too wild and nobody can be trusted with huge sum of money, not even our kids. Most parents have been through countless heart breaks by their kids, who squander their hard earned money on gambling. However, it's good to test the loyalty and morality of our children, by giving them trust. But, when they begin to act strange, our punctured trust would lead parents to act the ways they do not expect. Hence, when investing money on our children, we have to be there because the money belongs to the parents of that child. Whenever, the child, begin to generate wealth for themselves they can spend their money, how it pleases them. Still it doesn't stop us from teaching them money management and laying strong financial or investment foundation for them to be responsible; money wise. As a bad financial behavior, affects the economic growth of not only the child's family, but the society too.

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[Silberman]

9 out 10, if a gambler won a lot of money, they will come back and play for more, resulting to a big lost. So I doubt that it will crossed his mind to share his winnings, but instead what in his mind is to continue to gamble again until he lose all that money.

This is by far the most likely outcome, and if we are honest I think  everyone has made that mistake, however it is important that if at some point we get a big win, something that every single gambler would like to get at least once, that we do not waste that chance, as that is money that can be used to start something good on your life and allow you to skip a great deal of steps on the process of reaching the financial independence everyone is looking for.

[carlfebz2]

Although gambling is not a bad thing but some society and religion sees it as odd and does not allow their people or congregation to partake in it so therefore some parents too do not wish for their child(ren) to also gamble as well. When a child is above 18 it is assumed that the child is matured enough to know what is right and what is wrong to some extent and would know what to do without supervision of the parents to take a decision on their own so therefore any child can take the best decision as it pleases them or seek the consent their parents or anybody they feel is okay to relate anything with in their life.

As for giving a child school fees to pay by themselves now, i think no parents does that for children below 18 who are still under their parents watch only those above that age and most of them are in the university so I believe they would be matured enough to know then right thing to do rather than gambling with their school fees.

I will quote this scriptures which I think is very much important to a child up bringing which says " Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it." Proverbs 22:6

SOURCE

These days adults are derailing from the ways they were being trained by their parents. Hence, the society gets even more difficult to control. I'd say that despite having greater possibilty of being effective, allowing kids above the age of 18 isn't a nice idea. Because not everyone of them are grown enough to take reasonable decisions against delaying the gravity of making easy money through gambling. Peer pressure still control these youths and only the strong or well trained can withstand the gravity that follows it. The worst part of gambling is playing or staking the money given to us by others, especially our parents. To stay on safe side, it's crucial to hand out spare cash to our kids, as pocket cash. Such that, whatever thing they do with the money won't affect the family financially. Whether they're adults or not. The world is becoming too wild and nobody can be trusted with huge sum of money, not even our kids. Most parents have been through countless heart breaks by their kids, who squander their hard earned money on gambling. However, it's good to test the loyalty and morality of our children, by giving them trust. But, when they begin to act strange, our punctured trust would lead parents to act the ways they do not expect. Hence, when investing money on our children, we have to be there because the money belongs to the parents of that child. Whenever, the child, begin to generate wealth for themselves they can spend their money, how it pleases them. Still it doesn't stop us from teaching them money management and laying strong financial or investment foundation for them to be responsible; money wise. As a bad financial behavior, affects the economic growth of not only the child's family, but the society too.

Due to lots of changes not only on things how they work but also into the community that we are living in on which its never been that the same anymore when it was a decade ago. Lots of changes specially on
the things that we are seeing now.Accessibility is also that too almost instant and information flied around instantly due to social media and advertisements could really be seen easily on the sites that you are hovering into on which means that exposure could really be that anywhere and everywhere on which means that our kids could really be able to make themselves be wary about those things
on which means that even on how strict we are when it comes to things should be followed, it would really be just that too easy to be bypassed.

On the time that we've seen that one of our family members had fell down into that verge of addiction then it would really be normal that we would be doing actions
which it would really be able to cut off that kind of engagement or involvement on which even if it means that they would really be needing
to step on someones right on doing so. Family doesnt care if it doesnt look ethical on other peoples views or not but still they would be continuing on doing that.

[Hirose UK]

9 out 10, if a gambler won a lot of money, they will come back and play for more, resulting to a big lost. So I doubt that it will crossed his mind to share his winnings, but instead what in his mind is to continue to gamble again until he lose all that money.

This is by far the most likely outcome, and if we are honest I think  everyone has made that mistake, however it is important that if at some point we get a big win, something that every single gambler would like to get at least once, that we do not waste that chance, as that is money that can be used to start something good on your life and allow you to skip a great deal of steps on the process of reaching the financial independence everyone is looking for.

Indeed, what always happens to gamblers when they get big win is that they continue playing until they experience even bigger losses.
If gambler wins they should be able to make the best use of that win and when they continue gambling, win is meaningless or can be said to be vain.
When gamblers win it is return that we deserve and we should be able to enjoy it instead of returning it to the casino because when we lose we will definitely spend more money.

But when the gambler still thinks about his family and still makes family the most valuable thing, it is possible that he will definitely share the winnings with people he loves or buy some valuable things for them.
Even though these people reject the gambling they do, when they receive whatever they are given from the winnings, there is definitely feeling of gratitude and emotion because the gambler still cares about them and has forgotten what happened.

[Fiatless]

9 out 10, if a gambler won a lot of money, they will come back and play for more, resulting to a big lost. So I doubt that it will crossed his mind to share his winnings, but instead what in his mind is to continue to gamble again until he lose all that money.

This is by far the most likely outcome, and if we are honest I think  everyone has made that mistake, however it is important that if at some point we get a big win, something that every single gambler would like to get at least once, that we do not waste that chance, as that is money that can be used to start something good on your life and allow you to skip a great deal of steps on the process of reaching the financial independence everyone is looking for.

Many people around me have made such mistakes when they win big. There is a case of a gambler who won about $50,000 and lost the entire money the same day because he lost control. But this doesn't erase the fact that many gamblers have maximized the money they won. One of my friends was able to achieve his lifelong dream of schooling at a European University after he won big. I suggest that every gambler should have a plan on how to use big wins and not waste them on luxury or lose them back. Big wins come a few times in a lifetime, hence we should be set to utilize these wins.

But when the gambler still thinks about his family and still makes family the most valuable thing, it is possible that he will definitely share the winnings with people he loves or buy some valuable things for them.
Even though these people reject the gambling they do, when they receive whatever they are given from the winnings, there is definitely feeling of gratitude and emotion because the gambler still cares about them and has forgotten what happened.

Assisting family members who have needs from a big win is not a bad idea.  Such support will make them know that gambling can sometimes be profitable. This might help to change the perception of some members of society that see gambling as immoral. I have an idea now to drill a water borehole in my rural community whenever I get a big win and I will inform the elders of the community that I got the money from gambling. It will help to reduce the negative view to hold against gamblers.

[Salahmu]

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?
Share your thoughts!

Is a simple question, for me I will come back and help my family especially my siblings because no matter any circumstance family is the only people that can stood by you in difficult times, so if I'm to be in his shoe I will come back and prove them wrong and also by empowering them.

But however listening to the whole story the family never did anything wrong because as a child they love so much they were only trying to stop him from going a wrong way which every parents will do the same to there children and however before the family send hs photographs to all the gambling shop to stop him from gambling was because he has become an addict already and has sold many properties, so the parents felt the only way for them to stop him is by doing what they did, so even if I'm the parents I will do the same.

[Kelvinid]

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?
Share your thoughts!

Is a simple question, for me I will come back and help my family especially my siblings because no matter any circumstance family is the only people that can stood by you in difficult times, so if I'm to be in his shoe I will come back and prove them wrong and also by empowering them.

That was just an assumption from OP but what if that person, that gambler turned his life to nothing and committed huge debts? How could he face his family who wanted to change his gambling style? What I understand with the situation is that they wanted their brother to slow down his gambling habits and the only option they see is to urge casinos not to let him enter and gamble. But it never works and is helpless because the owner of the casinos has no right to decline someone if he never commits any trouble, in fact, they want more gamblers.

[LesterD]

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?
Share your thoughts!

Is a simple question, for me I will come back and help my family especially my siblings because no matter any circumstance family is the only people that can stood by you in difficult times, so if I'm to be in his shoe I will come back and prove them wrong and also by empowering them.

That was just an assumption from OP but what if that person, that gambler turned his life to nothing and committed huge debts? How could he face his family who wanted to change his gambling style? What I understand with the situation is that they wanted their brother to slow down his gambling habits and the only option they see is to urge casinos not to let him enter and gamble. But it never works and is helpless because the owner of the casinos has no right to decline someone if he never commits any trouble, in fact, they want more gamblers.

They came up with the idea of requesting to not let the guy gamble within their area to at least limit his gambling which is for his own good. We understand the reason, it's because they care. That's why if this ever happens, as long as the gambler goes back to his family showing regrets and promises that this will never happen again, I know the family will accept the guy and help him get back on his feet.

[stomachgrowls]

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?
Share your thoughts!

Is a simple question, for me I will come back and help my family especially my siblings because no matter any circumstance family is the only people that can stood by you in difficult times, so if I'm to be in his shoe I will come back and prove them wrong and also by empowering them.

That was just an assumption from OP but what if that person, that gambler turned his life to nothing and committed huge debts? How could he face his family who wanted to change his gambling style? What I understand with the situation is that they wanted their brother to slow down his gambling habits and the only option they see is to urge casinos not to let him enter and gamble. But it never works and is helpless because the owner of the casinos has no right to decline someone if he never commits any trouble, in fact, they want more gamblers.

They came up with the idea of requesting to not let the guy gamble within their area to at least limit his gambling which is for his own good. We understand the reason, it's because they care. That's why if this ever happens, as long as the gambler goes back to his family showing regrets and promises that this will never happen again, I know the family will accept the guy and help him get back on his feet.

Family is family and they do know on whats better for you specially into our mom and  dad on which they do really know on what are the things that needs to be dealt with and to those things which arent really that good to get involved with. They wont really be making out those actions if they arent seeing something bad on your part or the things that you've been doing but if there's one then they would really be needing to assess the situation and would really be finding up ways on whats good for such condition whether they would really be taking up such step or not. They do all those things for the better or whats good for you and this is why
i cant really blame them out if ever the actions made is really just that crossing the line already.

Those actions shows that they do really care, i dont see for it to be wrong on which there are really individuals who doesnt really like to be controlled much or would really be that be watched or traced up
basing up on whats he's doing. There are really just those people who are really that to sensitive when it comes to this and would be saying that it is really that too much.
I do appreciate on what the family had done because they wont really be doing such extent if they werent really showing up some care.

[yazher]

This is by far the most likely outcome, and if we are honest I think  everyone has made that mistake, however it is important that if at some point we get a big win, something that every single gambler would like to get at least once, that we do not waste that chance, as that is money that can be used to start something good on your life and allow you to skip a great deal of steps on the process of reaching the financial independence everyone is looking for.

I know a friend who happens to have the same story but not in gambling but when he hit the jackpot of promoting the right altcoin using bounties and airdrops. he never thought twice to gather his family and tell them about it. He bought his sisters some jewelry and smartphones and they extended their house with that money. He also gives their mother some nice gifts because my friend is really enjoying the scenery of a happy family. Even though he uses all the money he got from that single bounty reward, he never regrets it and now he has a stable job and no longer needs to invest his time doing some random altcoin bounties. mostly when we make others happy with what we can afford, it will come back to us double with lots of freebies.

[Sanitough]

This is by far the most likely outcome, and if we are honest I think  everyone has made that mistake, however it is important that if at some point we get a big win, something that every single gambler would like to get at least once, that we do not waste that chance, as that is money that can be used to start something good on your life and allow you to skip a great deal of steps on the process of reaching the financial independence everyone is looking for.

I know a friend who happens to have the same story but not in gambling but when he hit the jackpot of promoting the right altcoin using bounties and airdrops. he never thought twice to gather his family and tell them about it. He bought his sisters some jewelry and smartphones and they extended their house with that money. He also gives their mother some nice gifts because my friend is really enjoying the scenery of a happy family. Even though he uses all the money he got from that single bounty reward, he never regrets it and now he has a stable job and no longer needs to invest his time doing some random altcoin bounties. mostly when we make others happy with what we can afford, it will come back to us double with lots of freebies.

Bad move. If he didn't give away his bounty reward, he could have used that to start a business rather than going to work, although it's a stable job. You know, when you are running a business, you have a big chance of making it successful, and you can even help people to work with you. I'm not blaming his action, though, as we have different choices in life. Whatever makes us happy is what we should do. I'm just sharing my thoughts on this one.

[ethereumhunter]

They came up with the idea of requesting to not let the guy gamble within their area to at least limit his gambling which is for his own good. We understand the reason, it's because they care. That's why if this ever happens, as long as the gambler goes back to his family showing regrets and promises that this will never happen again, I know the family will accept the guy and help him get back on his feet.

Yes, that's what families will do if they find that a family member is addicted to gambling or often gambles at casinos in their city. They don't want to see any of their members gambling more and more often, even to the point of spending all their money. That wouldn't be good for him because he could lose all his money, even the money he had in his savings, so his family took strict measures just to protect the person from excessive gambling. This is all for the good of the person so that he can remember that excessive gambling will not give the results he wants, so he should be able to realize his mistake and not gamble again.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?

Share your thoughts!

       -  If you don't share what you win with your loved ones, it will appear as if you are the same person to your loved ones or family.
If your loved ones did that, it's because they have concern and care, and it's also for your welfare, as far as I can see.
If you can, don't do that; after all, it is said that family is family; they won't leave in times of your circumstances, for sure.

Yes, that's what families will do if they find that a family member is addicted to gambling or often gambles at casinos in their city. They don't want to see any of their members gambling more and more often, even to the point of spending all their money. That wouldn't be good for him because he could lose all his money, even the money he had in his savings, so his family took strict measures just to protect the person from excessive gambling. This is all for the good of the person so that he can remember that excessive gambling will not give the results he wants, so he should be able to realize his mistake and not gamble again.

Family or blood line is like that, isn't it? There is probably no sane family that will let their family members get addicted to bad vices that can destroy their loved ones, of course.

[YOSHIE]

Just two questions here:
1. Dis the family of this young man went too extreme in trying to help stop their brother from gambling addiction or not?

Yes, that action is too extreme, it's the same as embarrassing yourself, it's a ridiculous action, what's the big deal about having a photo stuck in the casino, The casinos have the right to prohibit sticking photos of the person on the walls of their casino houses and besides there is no law that can sue the owner of the casino, if the person's relatives gamble.

2. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?

No, I don't have a grudge against my brother, even though he forbade me from gambling, maybe I should think positively about something like that, I will show him that I can get rich by gambling and I will share the money for him.

[Rabata]

They came up with the idea of requesting to not let the guy gamble within their area to at least limit his gambling which is for his own good. We understand the reason, it's because they care. That's why if this ever happens, as long as the gambler goes back to his family showing regrets and promises that this will never happen again, I know the family will accept the guy and help him get back on his feet.

Yes, that's what families will do if they find that a family member is addicted to gambling or often gambles at casinos in their city. They don't want to see any of their members gambling more and more often, even to the point of spending all their money. That wouldn't be good for him because he could lose all his money, even the money he had in his savings, so his family took strict measures just to protect the person from excessive gambling. This is all for the good of the person so that he can remember that excessive gambling will not give the results he wants, so he should be able to realize his mistake and not gamble again.

If people weren't addicted to gambling then people wouldn't worry too much about such common activities. But everyone knows that it is difficult to turn those who become addicted to gambling. Gamblers will not stop their addiction until they exhaust all their financial resources. So those who work as guardians of the family must consider these issues and try to warn in advance. An addicted gambler never thinks of himself as an addict. If he is given a piece of advice, he agrees to accept it for a while but then he does not keep his word. This picture is almost the same for any addicted gambler.

[bayu7adi]

Just two questions here:
1. Dis the family of this young man went too extreme in trying to help stop their brother from gambling addiction or not?

That's extreme, but the young man also didn't mention the preventive measures their family took before resorting to such extreme actions. Families usually employ peaceful approaches to change the bad habits of a family member. Cooperative actions are always used to prevent family breakdown, and I consider this extreme action reasonable if the young man had been reminded several times before but still didn't realize.

Remember, patience also has a limit. When the timer runs out, emotions and anger will surface. Everyone expresses anger differently, and the level of extremity varies. I find it reasonable if that's the scenario.

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?

Giving some of the profits, then leaving to start a new life if truly hated by the entire family. Trying to rise in a positive way, like working or starting a business to mend one's reputation. I will still hope to return to my family someday when I've become a useful person.

[Quidat]

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?
Share your thoughts!

Is a simple question, for me I will come back and help my family especially my siblings because no matter any circumstance family is the only people that can stood by you in difficult times, so if I'm to be in his shoe I will come back and prove them wrong and also by empowering them.

That was just an assumption from OP but what if that person, that gambler turned his life to nothing and committed huge debts? How could he face his family who wanted to change his gambling style? What I understand with the situation is that they wanted their brother to slow down his gambling habits and the only option they see is to urge casinos not to let him enter and gamble. But it never works and is helpless because the owner of the casinos has no right to decline someone if he never commits any trouble, in fact, they want more gamblers.

They came up with the idea of requesting to not let the guy gamble within their area to at least limit his gambling which is for his own good. We understand the reason, it's because they care. That's why if this ever happens, as long as the gambler goes back to his family showing regrets and promises that this will never happen again, I know the family will accept the guy and help him get back on his feet.

Family is family and they do know on whats better for you specially into our mom and  dad on which they do really know on what are the things that needs to be dealt with and to those things which arent really that good to get involved with. They wont really be making out those actions if they arent seeing something bad on your part or the things that you've been doing but if there's one then they would really be needing to assess the situation and would really be finding up ways on whats good for such condition whether they would really be taking up such step or not. They do all those things for the better or whats good for you and this is why
i cant really blame them out if ever the actions made is really just that crossing the line already.

Those actions shows that they do really care, i dont see for it to be wrong on which there are really individuals who doesnt really like to be controlled much or would really be that be watched or traced up
basing up on whats he's doing. There are really just those people who are really that to sensitive when it comes to this and would be saying that it is really that too much.
I do appreciate on what the family had done because they wont really be doing such extent if they werent really showing up some care.

Blood is indeed thicker that water and it would really be that your family would be always the best thing that you could have and its true that they do really know on whats best for you
and even if it means on going into those actions which it might be looking that too much but it us really just that for the sake of your safety and avoiding you to end up miserable.
Family would really be that normally be doing on what are the things that they must do. They would really be definitely be doing something which it is for your own good.
They wont really be minding about the things whether it is really that too much or not, as long they could be able to help out someone whose really at verge
of gambling addiction or something issues happen.

[ChiBitCTy]

During the weekend I was listening to an evening programme from one our the local radio stations they were discussing about gambling, the effects and how to manage it if you might be struggling with  addiction. And they had listeners calling in to share personal experiences or of a loved one that gambles and amidst many callers there was this very caller story that caught my interest and curiosity.

She told about how the family members of a particular young man that is like a plunger when it comes to gambling, his compulsive gambling is to the length of him selling his personal properties and gadgets to make sure he gambles. So what he family did was to print a photograph of him and giving it to all the gambling shops within their neighborhood and around the locality, threatening that any of the gambling shops they have pasted the photo of their brother should they find their brother allowed to gamble in the shops they will sue the gamble shop owner to court as one that is abetting their brother's compulsive gambling lifestyle.

Now, while I was quietly listening to the story in my head I began to ask myself several possible  questions and one of such questions was; is it not possible that this young man can take a cab away from their location and move to a far area to carry out his gambling since his a compulsive gambler.

Just two questions here:
1. Dis the family of this young man went too extreme in trying to help stop their brother from gambling addiction or not?

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?

Share your thoughts!

I think anyone with a family that cares enough to go to those sorts of lenths to help out their fellow family members should consider themselves lucky to have people whom truly care.  Today so many parents simply fail at their job, which extends even in to adulthood.  I think what his family did was noble and that he should be proud that he's got family members whom care as much as they do.

[Frankolala]

This is by far the most likely outcome, and if we are honest I think  everyone has made that mistake, however it is important that if at some point we get a big win, something that every single gambler would like to get at least once, that we do not waste that chance, as that is money that can be used to start something good on your life and allow you to skip a great deal of steps on the process of reaching the financial independence everyone is looking for.

I know a friend who happens to have the same story but not in gambling but when he hit the jackpot of promoting the right altcoin using bounties and airdrops. he never thought twice to gather his family and tell them about it. He bought his sisters some jewelry and smartphones and they extended their house with that money. He also gives their mother some nice gifts because my friend is really enjoying the scenery of a happy family. Even though he uses all the money he got from that single bounty reward, he never regrets it and now he has a stable job and no longer needs to invest his time doing some random altcoin bounties. mostly when we make others happy with what we can afford, it will come back to us double with lots of freebies.

your friend case and OP's case study is not similar. This is because I don't think that your friend parent and siblings did everything possible to stop him from altcoin bounties since am not sure if they are aware of what he was doing. However, it is good that we share out joyful moments with our loved ones by sharing our wins with them because they will be the ones for us on our sorrowful days.

I don't see anything wrong with what his family did to him, because nobody will be happy that their family member is a chronic addict and might make life miserable for himself in future if something is not done fast. These are family members trying to pill out their brother from addiction and it turns out that the guy won big, to prove to them that there is sense in what he is doing.

[Accardo]

These days adults are derailing from the ways they were being trained by their parents. Hence, the society gets even more difficult to control. I'd say that despite having greater possibilty of being effective, allowing kids above the age of 18 isn't a nice idea. Because not everyone of them are grown enough to take reasonable decisions against delaying the gravity of making easy money through gambling. Peer pressure still control these youths and only the strong or well trained can withstand the gravity that follows it. The worst part of gambling is playing or staking the money given to us by others, especially our parents. To stay on safe side, it's crucial to hand out spare cash to our kids, as pocket cash. Such that, whatever thing they do with the money won't affect the family financially. Whether they're adults or not. The world is becoming too wild and nobody can be trusted with huge sum of money, not even our kids. Most parents have been through countless heart breaks by their kids, who squander their hard earned money on gambling. However, it's good to test the loyalty and morality of our children, by giving them trust. But, when they begin to act strange, our punctured trust would lead parents to act the ways they do not expect. Hence, when investing money on our children, we have to be there because the money belongs to the parents of that child. Whenever, the child, begin to generate wealth for themselves they can spend their money, how it pleases them. Still it doesn't stop us from teaching them money management and laying strong financial or investment foundation for them to be responsible; money wise. As a bad financial behavior, affects the economic growth of not only the child's family, but the society too.

Due to lots of changes not only on things how they work but also into the community that we are living in on which its never been that the same anymore when it was a decade ago. Lots of changes specially on
the things that we are seeing now.Accessibility is also that too almost instant and information flied around instantly due to social media and advertisements could really be seen easily on the sites that you are hovering into on which means that exposure could really be that anywhere and everywhere on which means that our kids could really be able to make themselves be wary about those things
on which means that even on how strict we are when it comes to things should be followed, it would really be just that too easy to be bypassed.

On the time that we've seen that one of our family members had fell down into that verge of addiction then it would really be normal that we would be doing actions
which it would really be able to cut off that kind of engagement or involvement on which even if it means that they would really be needing
to step on someones right on doing so. Family doesnt care if it doesnt look ethical on other peoples views or not but still they would be continuing on doing that.

From your response, I'd say that parents were taken off guard by the internet and social media. It'll have to take us few more years to have a disciplinary measures for our kids on the internet. But, it looks like a thing that can't be achieved for most families. Because, even in a household kids follow this instruction of limited internet access, they'll definitely be carried away by peers, who have the luxury to visit every site and read different information. The world can get better when parents begin to welcome home schooling for their children. Hence, placing strict restrictions on the activities of the kids; the kind of friends they meet, games they play, and the information they read. Because the after effect of the kind of reckless moves of parents when their kids misbehave is destructive to the future of that ward and his future family too. Every moment we see how parents show poor emotional relationship to their crying kids, shows us how detached the human love has gone in few years. It doesn't start now. Parent's attitude towards their wards, when they need an emotional response as toddlers shapes the child's behavior as an adult. In addition, even if the internet exposes growing teenagers to a wild behavior. It doesn't mean that all internet users, are wild, growing up. You'd see that kids who got close emotional relationship with their parents, tend to control their emotions and don't easily derail from the training of their parents. Hence, they'll definitely discuss whatever they're about to do, with their parents. If they don't get approved, they may or won't do that at all. Lack of good emotional training as kids affects the life of most adults today. Thereby creating the kind of brutal parents and child relationship we see today. The teenager hurts his parents in a harsh manner, and his parents respond weirdly too. Causing more pains to the already dying bond.