A gambler's family action.

[Z_MBFM]

1. Dis the family of this young man went too extreme in trying to help stop their brother from gambling addiction or not?

Older people always dislike gambling and youth are more prone to gambling. And when any young son or daughter of the family becomes addicted to gambling, the family members try hard to get that boy out of gambling addiction.  They are willing to do anything for him because they know that gambling will darken the future of the young boy.

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?

Money is one thing that everyone is blind to. When someone wins millions of dollars in gambling, that's what anyone who always pressured him to quit gambling knows. He too will love her and be happy to hear about that money. But if something like this happens to me, I will not tell that person, but at that time I will give up gambling and explain to him that I have given up gambling altogether and will use that money for some good business. And will never share this with more people. Because sharing this matter can increase the danger

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[Accardo]

The only thing that I can sell my properties for is Bitcoin, selling your things to gamble is sure to end in disaster for you, because you are betting all that money on luck, I can see that the man in the story of OP is a greedy man who only thinks for himself, that's why he won't listen to his family, they must have been telling him to stop for a long period of time before they decide to print out his photo and spread it around to make him stop gambling, the family are trying to safe themselves before the man causes more damages to their lives, my parents used to say that a gambler as a son is a lost son, as they believe or due to the past experience they have with gamblers, they believe that the son will sell everything for gambling.

Someone said this family went too far but I don't see how, if they don't stop him first he will do harm to them too, for someone who only have a house which he and his family are residing decide to sell the house so that he can gamble, where did he except his family to stay? On the streets? If he is living alone and he decide to do this to himself its better, maybe he want to sleep on the street homeless, but he shouldn't put his family in the same suffering.

I can't imagine the pain the family must have went through, this is a disgrace for them, it's a big shame and when they move out of their home every morning, they will have this feeling of embarrassment in them, as if people are all talking about them, I am sure that they must have use everything they know to make this man stop but as always, some gamblers always went too far, such people shouldn't have become a gambler from the beginning.

Look, spreading his photos around his street, like a lost person, wouldn't solve the difficult problem. He is struggling with addiction and this method can't stop him. By any means he'll be elligible to gambling outside his province. Inviting him to order, is the best tool required to fix a broken person. Although, it's not simple, as it'll need his cooperation. Reading the story, he failed to cooperate with his parents, and it led to a public disgrace of the young gambler. If they had a second thought, working on his resistant would solve a bit of his problem of avoiding them, if he did. Have a rethink on if the boy doesn't return home again forever. Who is going to feel the most pain? his parents of course, as relatives would flood them with millions of questions about their son's where about. It's indeed a shame, but we need to control our actions towards our wards. No matter what they do, they still are our loved ones. His parents are acting out of fear. The reason, because gambling has destroyed many homes. Their son is doing it already, improvising a solution as that as their all. Elaborates how unprepared they are in stopping the bad habit of their son. Investing anger on the boy, will only get them extra disgrace in future. Nobody cares if he wins big later, like OP said. What matters is changing him, first. After that, the family can send him to learn skill. Distracting him from any thought of moving back into gambling.

[Dewi Aries]

Money can be intoxicating sometimes and only a few percentage of persons in the world actually know how to control the pressure and influence that comes with money control. I have had so many friends who were successful in hitting some significant profits in gambling but all end up squandering the fund in different things just because they have this perception that it's actually free money and should be spent anyhow.

It is very difficult to be able to control the money we have no matter how much we have if we can't use it properly of course the money will easily run out and we don't even know where the money is used, when someone wins a bet in the gambling we play of course they have to be able to controlling themselves, it would be better to take the winnings they have got and enjoy them, rather than looking for bigger wins and spending all the winnings they have got.

Most gamblers can't keep that money after they win. As soon as they win, they want to use the money for various purposes and at one point even spend their entire winnings. But they should understand what happens if they lose when gambling again after winning. Where the money will come from at that time? Every gambler should conduct gambling with patience and spend the winnings properly. If the winning money can be invested in any investment or profitable venture then the money can support the gambler in transition from there. Since there is no guarantee of winning in gambling, gambling can be managed well if money is adequate for gambling.

But as far as I know, usually when they get a win, let alone to spend it, sometimes just to withdraw it they can't, because they are tempted by the bigger winnings they expect, because with a small winnings it makes them more confident with the next winnings they will get and bigger wins, even though it is not necessarily possible to get it, because if like that they can lose the winnings they have got, and in the end they will get a defeat that will make them upset with the lost winnings.
As you said,  gambling cannot guarantee a win that will be easy to get. Because casino gambling also creates the game to make money not to give money to the players easily. So they should be aware of the meaning of gambling which is only for entertainment, not to provide large amounts of winnings. and they should be able to control themselves by when they get the winnings, they immediately cash them out, not playing them again. because if that's the case, they will lose the winnings they have got.

[Cookdata]

If I am very addicted and if my family is trying to help me quit, I won't blame and stop them. But wherever my feet is going to bring me, it's not their problem anymore but mine. So that's how an addicted gambler is and you're not going to stop until you're wholly stopped by your own and these posters or photographs that are given to the casinos just for them to recognize me, that's fine as they're just doing their thing to help me get out of addiction.

The way you say it is not the way addiction is in reality. See gambling addiction as a mad or insane person. When a mentally disturbed person is having problem, when they want to help him out, you will see that he will be resisting help and will be saying that he is fine and there is nothing absolutely wrong with him, that's exactly how gambling addicts behave too. So when you said "if your family members really want to help you, you will gladly accept it the help will not be the case" you will probably reject any help that comes your way and quit will be the last thing you will want to do.

And with winning, I'll still give them their share of course. They're not other people and I have nothing against them, no grudge or what not and that's just me being me when I continue to gamble and all they trying to do is to help me out. So why wouldn't I share some money on them when I have won when I know that they have pure intentions and they don't want me to get to the extent to see me suffering and all they give me is the help that they can for me even if it means of stopping me to get into gambling shops. And if they were successful, I understand that there will be no prize money that shall be shared to them. Again, that's just me being me and I think some of you guys are also like that.

Family is one of the great memories we share but have you experienced when family don't like you and push someone to extreme without love? The only thing that can stop you from giving them attention is when you notice that they really need help.

I have seen someone that is not gambling addict but a kleptomaniac abandoned because they couldn't help him any more, they couldn't help stop his addiction to stealing properties that is not his. You know the problem with these set of people, they pick things they don't even need and the family let him be but along the line, he change but never contacted his family again until he heard that his mother was seriously ill before before he paid them a visit. Just hope you don't get less value by the people you love dearly despite your condition.

[Quidat]

The only thing that I can sell my properties for is Bitcoin, selling your things to gamble is sure to end in disaster for you, because you are betting all that money on luck, I can see that the man in the story of OP is a greedy man who only thinks for himself, that's why he won't listen to his family, they must have been telling him to stop for a long period of time before they decide to print out his photo and spread it around to make him stop gambling, the family are trying to safe themselves before the man causes more damages to their lives, my parents used to say that a gambler as a son is a lost son, as they believe or due to the past experience they have with gamblers, they believe that the son will sell everything for gambling.

Someone said this family went too far but I don't see how, if they don't stop him first he will do harm to them too, for someone who only have a house which he and his family are residing decide to sell the house so that he can gamble, where did he except his family to stay? On the streets? If he is living alone and he decide to do this to himself its better, maybe he want to sleep on the street homeless, but he shouldn't put his family in the same suffering.

I can't imagine the pain the family must have went through, this is a disgrace for them, it's a big shame and when they move out of their home every morning, they will have this feeling of embarrassment in them, as if people are all talking about them, I am sure that they must have use everything they know to make this man stop but as always, some gamblers always went too far, such people shouldn't have become a gambler from the beginning.

Look, spreading his photos around his street, like a lost person, wouldn't solve the difficult problem. He is struggling with addiction and this method can't stop him. By any means he'll be elligible to gambling outside his province. Inviting him to order, is the best tool required to fix a broken person. Although, it's not simple, as it'll need his cooperation. Reading the story, he failed to cooperate with his parents, and it led to a public disgrace of the young gambler. If they had a second thought, working on his resistant would solve a bit of his problem of avoiding them, if he did. Have a rethink on if the boy doesn't return home again forever. Who is going to feel the most pain? his parents of course, as relatives would flood them with millions of questions about their son's where about. It's indeed a shame, but we need to control our actions towards our wards. No matter what they do, they still are our loved ones. His parents are acting out of fear. The reason, because gambling has destroyed many homes. Their son is doing it already, improvising a solution as that as their all. Elaborates how unprepared they are in stopping the bad habit of their son. Investing anger on the boy, will only get them extra disgrace in future. Nobody cares if he wins big later, like OP said. What matters is changing him, first. After that, the family can send him to learn skill. Distracting him from any thought of moving back into gambling.

But at least they are really making or doing some action for them to be able to completely stop one of their family members that had already become addicted to gambling.
It might be looking to be pointless but this is one of the way that they are showing love since they do really care on you then doesnt matter if they would really be making or doing
things which is really just that good for you. It might be somewhat no sense on letting those gambling places prohibits you on gambling just because your family
had told them about on doing so then it is really that shows on how much they do care.It might really be looking that it is too much but it is actually that something
that you could say that your family loves you on which they did really go into such extent.

[passwordnow]

If I am very addicted and if my family is trying to help me quit, I won't blame and stop them. But wherever my feet is going to bring me, it's not their problem anymore but mine. So that's how an addicted gambler is and you're not going to stop until you're wholly stopped by your own and these posters or photographs that are given to the casinos just for them to recognize me, that's fine as they're just doing their thing to help me get out of addiction.

The way you say it is not the way addiction is in reality. See gambling addiction as a mad or insane person. When a mentally disturbed person is having problem, when they want to help him out, you will see that he will be resisting help and will be saying that he is fine and there is nothing absolutely wrong with him, that's exactly how gambling addicts behave too. So when you said "if your family members really want to help you, you will gladly accept it the help will not be the case" you will probably reject any help that comes your way and quit will be the last thing you will want to do.

That's why I'll just bring it on my own and this problem of being addicted, I'll deal alone. I think it varies per person and the ones that you've seen behaved like that is truly a mad and sane addicted gambler. But IMO, we've got differences to our attitude and how we're dealing with this problem. But that's just me.

And with winning, I'll still give them their share of course. They're not other people and I have nothing against them, no grudge or what not and that's just me being me when I continue to gamble and all they trying to do is to help me out. So why wouldn't I share some money on them when I have won when I know that they have pure intentions and they don't want me to get to the extent to see me suffering and all they give me is the help that they can for me even if it means of stopping me to get into gambling shops. And if they were successful, I understand that there will be no prize money that shall be shared to them. Again, that's just me being me and I think some of you guys are also like that.

Family is one of the great memories we share but have you experienced when family don't like you and push someone to extreme without love? The only thing that can stop you from giving them attention is when you notice that they really need help.

I have seen someone that is not gambling addict but a kleptomaniac abandoned because they couldn't help him any more, they couldn't help stop his addiction to stealing properties that is not his. You know the problem with these set of people, they pick things they don't even need and the family let him be but along the line, he change but never contacted his family again until he heard that his mother was seriously ill before before he paid them a visit. Just hope you don't get less value by the people you love dearly despite your condition.

I agree that when someone reaches to the peak of addiction, they can do a lot of crazy things just like the one that you've seen. With that, it's totally going to be abandoned by the family that he's got when he's doing unstoppable crazy stuff. I am not going to justify addiction but as I've said, it varies per person and the difference on it from the kleptomaniac, is that they're addicted to different things but again, that's how addiction can lead someone to. And from the situation that's given by the OP, it's wholly different and not that brutal as the ones you've exampled.

[348Judah]

1. Dis the family of this young man went too extreme in trying to help stop their brother from gambling addiction or not?!

Yes and that's insane, they have taken it too personal and very high, why should the gambling shops be responsible for their son actions with gambling, what if he decides to go other places different from the neighborhood, what if he sent someone there to place the bet for him and bring him the ticket, they should better control their child instead of the gambling platforms and what they are doing is unlawful, it's just an empty threat.

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?

We all know that winning a huge sum of money in gambling is not that common, so we have to understand that this is a rare occasion, but as you've said already, if he won big, it's left to him, because he knows well his family members, if they will still mock him and reject him then he may distant himself from them for some time, make business and go back home to show them he's into something and not that he won a jackpot through gambling in other for them not to despise him.

[Accardo]

Look, spreading his photos around his street, like a lost person, wouldn't solve the difficult problem. He is struggling with addiction and this method can't stop him. By any means he'll be eligible to gambling outside his province. Inviting him to order, is the best tool required to fix a broken person. Although, it's not simple, as it'll need his cooperation. Reading the story, he failed to cooperate with his parents, and it led to a public disgrace of the young gambler. If they had a second thought, working on his resistant would solve a bit of his problem of avoiding them, if he did. Have a rethink on if the boy doesn't return home again forever. Who is going to feel the most pain? his parents of course, as relatives would flood them with millions of questions about their son's where about. It's indeed a shame, but we need to control our actions towards our wards. No matter what they do, they still are our loved ones. His parents are acting out of fear. The reason, because gambling has destroyed many homes. Their son is doing it already, improvising a solution as that as their all. Elaborates how unprepared they are in stopping the bad habit of their son. Investing anger on the boy, will only get them extra disgrace in future. Nobody cares if he wins big later, like OP said. What matters is changing him, first. After that, the family can send him to learn skill. Distracting him from any thought of moving back into gambling.

But at least they are really making or doing some action for them to be able to completely stop one of their family members that had already become addicted to gambling.
It might be looking to be pointless but this is one of the way that they are showing love since they do really care on you then doesnt matter if they would really be making or doing
things which is really just that good for you. It might be somewhat no sense on letting those gambling places prohibits you on gambling just because your family
had told them about on doing so then it is really that shows on how much they do care.It might really be looking that it is too much but it is actually that something
that you could say that your family loves you on which they did really go into such extent.

It's better than not doing anything, yes. We both know that it'll piss the gambler off. When their help affects the addicted person emotionally, would it be seen as help anymore? No. I understand it's their personal way of being caring to their loved one, but that doesn't look like kindness. This is just my opinion, and I'll express my feeling in a way it'll suit me. We all, not sure for you, have been through some misunderstanding with family. And when they extend it to third parties, it always doesn't end well. Nothing is too much for a family to settle internally. Unless the boy appreciates what his parents did. The voice on your text, sound like a situation where the boy is seeking help. Even if he's seeking help from his parent, at some point he'll regret such a rigorous idea of publishing his face on gambling houses. But, from the thread, he wasn't asking for help. I think he's into addiction and not yet ready to quit gambling. Hence, applying the tough strategy won't melt the heart of the gambler. If he already wants to change, and agreed with his parents to do it on his behalf. It'll be better understood by everyone, that stands with the idea of the boy's reputation being mishandled by his parents. Whatever is happening today can determine our future. Who would hire him? even though he changes. The whole neighborhood now know of his bad habit. He'll be ashamed of returning to the street.

[Odusko]

But as far as I know, usually when they get a win, let alone to spend it, sometimes just to withdraw it they can't, because they are tempted by the bigger winnings they expect, because with a small winnings it makes them more confident with the next winnings they will get and bigger wins, even though it is not necessarily possible to get it because if like that they can lose the winnings they have got, and in the end they will get a defeat that will make them upset with the lost winnings.
As you said,  gambling cannot guarantee a win that will be easy to get. Because casino gambling also creates the game to make money not to give money to the players easily. So they should be aware of the meaning of gambling which is only for entertainment, not to provide large amounts of winnings. and they should be able to control themselves by when they get the winnings, they immediately cash them out, not playing them again. because if that's the case, they will lose the winnings they have got.

The thing that kill many gamblers in terms of loses records is their inability to walk away after a test of the winnings,  and casinos are aware of that and that is why their always make every possible attempts to offers you early winning to keep you stick in and eventually losing more in the process, this is a mechanism that many gamblers are not aware of and reason why most of them always end of recording more loses tan winning.
For instance when I placed a vet with an odds of 2.8 and the result came out as winning, I immediately withdrew my winning and walked away looking forward to another great day when and when my luck would shine once again.

[Ben Barubal]

1. Dis the family of this young man went too extreme in trying to help stop their brother from gambling addiction or not?

Older people always dislike gambling and youth are more prone to gambling. And when any young son or daughter of the family becomes addicted to gambling, the family members try hard to get that boy out of gambling addiction.  They are willing to do anything for him because they know that gambling will darken the future of the young boy.

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?

Money is one thing that everyone is blind to. When someone wins millions of dollars in gambling, that's what anyone who always pressured him to quit gambling knows. He too will love her and be happy to hear about that money. But if something like this happens to me, I will not tell that person, but at that time I will give up gambling and explain to him that I have given up gambling altogether and will use that money for some good business. And will never share this with more people. Because sharing this matter can increase the danger

  Then what sane parent wants or would want their child to learn to gamble if they know it will not bring anything good to their child, right? As you mentioned, parents will do anything for their children; that's true, unless the parents are also addicted to gambling. They say what the tree is, so is the fruit, for sure.

  But in a situation like that, I think if I'm the one in that child's situation, of course a parent is a parent; that can't be changed.
I'll just understand them, and I'll still be blessed with what I have, of course.

[klidex]

Now, while I was quietly listening to the story in my head I began to ask myself several possible  questions and one of such questions was; is it not possible that this young man can take a cab away from their location and move to a far area to carry out his gambling since his a compulsive gambler.

Just two questions here:
1. Dis the family of this young man went too extreme in trying to help stop their brother from gambling addiction or not?

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?

Share your thoughts!

I couldn't imagine that nowadays a family still resorts to such methods to prevent him from gambling. It's truly absurd because they can't apply this to all gambling establishments; it only addresses a fraction and confines him within a certain range. Moreover, with online gambling available everywhere, there's no necessity to go to a specific place to engage in gambling, right?

I believe the actions of his family are not extreme but rather unwise. It's just a temporary solution, like scratching where it itches without understanding the root cause of the itch.

I don't know the current circumstances of his life, but there must be deep-rooted reasons leading to his gambling addiction. Understanding these reasons is crucial to comprehensively address the issue.

Indeed, this is an act that is not very wise in giving a firm stance so that family member do not gamble again. As family members, it is true that we must have sympathy and help family members who are involved in compulsive gambling, but if the sibling who gambles has no intention of to stoped gambling, he will continue to do it secretly until no one in his family knows about his activities. And if he has been gambling secretly, we all know that this will pose a greater risk if the family only knows that gambling is like that, let alone openly keep quiet? It will definitely be even more dangerous as family members should give advice and accompany him, not pressure him, forcing him to immediately stop by force.

[ethereumhunter]

Indeed, this is an act that is not very wise in giving a firm stance so that family member do not gamble again. As family members, it is true that we must have sympathy and help family members who are involved in compulsive gambling, but if the sibling who gambles has no intention of to stoped gambling, he will continue to do it secretly until no one in his family knows about his activities. And if he has been gambling secretly, we all know that this will pose a greater risk if the family only knows that gambling is like that, let alone openly keep quiet? It will definitely be even more dangerous as family members should give advice and accompany him, not pressure him, forcing him to immediately stop by force.

Maybe they really need firm action so they can suppress their disturbing gambling habits. There are many other reasons why family members have to do extreme things, in our opinion, because the gambler or his family members can no longer control their gambling. If we don't take firm action, the gambler won't get any warning, even from his friends, because maybe his friends don't care about what happens next. But I agree with advising the gambler to abandon his gambling activities because it has caused him a lot of problems while he is gambling. The gambler may need someone who can understand the circumstances that make him choose to gamble rather than do other things. If they can make the gambler aware of various approaches, the gambler will not feel forced to abandon gambling.

[rachael9385]

But as far as I know, usually when they get a win, let alone to spend it, sometimes just to withdraw it they can't, because they are tempted by the bigger winnings they expect, because with a small winnings it makes them more confident with the next winnings they will get and bigger wins, even though it is not necessarily possible to get it because if like that they can lose the winnings they have got, and in the end they will get a defeat that will make them upset with the lost winnings.
As you said,  gambling cannot guarantee a win that will be easy to get. Because casino gambling also creates the game to make money not to give money to the players easily. So they should be aware of the meaning of gambling which is only for entertainment, not to provide large amounts of winnings. and they should be able to control themselves by when they get the winnings, they immediately cash them out, not playing them again. because if that's the case, they will lose the winnings they have got.

The thing that kill many gamblers in terms of loses records is their inability to walk away after a test of the winnings,  and casinos are aware of that and that is why their always make every possible attempts to offers you early winning to keep you stick in and eventually losing more in the process, this is a mechanism that many gamblers are not aware of and reason why most of them always end of recording more loses tan winning.
For instance when I placed a vet with an odds of 2.8 and the result came out as winning, I immediately withdrew my winning and walked away looking forward to another great day when and when my luck would shine once again.

If not the luck I don't see how a gambler will win millions of dollars with just $10 or $50, but many gamblers don't believe that luck exist in gamble, no one can easily get such luck but trying ones in a while and not always all the time is a good idea, if a gambler gamble all the time the gambler will easily become addicted to gamble.
Living the casino center after doubling up the little money that you came with is the best, if a gambler thinks that he or she can win more at that time then the gambler is fully wrong, no gambler wants to lose in gambling but we can't chase winnings rather losing will chase us, but luck can only help us to double our money or win big.

[pawanjain]

Just two questions here:
1. Dis the family of this young man went too extreme in trying to help stop their brother from gambling addiction or not?

2. Assuming you are this young man and you had to run to a distant location to carry out your gambling as you are allowed to gambling within your neighborhood and luckily you won huge sum of million dollars. Would you share that money with your loved ones who were barring you from gambling or you will just stay off from them and live new found wealthy live alone?

Share your thoughts!

1. If I was from his family I would do everything I can to save my family member from galing.

But

2. If I were a compulsive gambler I would go as far as wanted so that I can gamble.

So it depends on how strong one's effort.

[Dewi Aries]

But as far as I know, usually when they get a win, let alone to spend it, sometimes just to withdraw it they can't, because they are tempted by the bigger winnings they expect, because with a small winnings it makes them more confident with the next winnings they will get and bigger wins, even though it is not necessarily possible to get it because if like that they can lose the winnings they have got, and in the end they will get a defeat that will make them upset with the lost winnings.
As you said,  gambling cannot guarantee a win that will be easy to get. Because casino gambling also creates the game to make money not to give money to the players easily. So they should be aware of the meaning of gambling which is only for entertainment, not to provide large amounts of winnings. and they should be able to control themselves by when they get the winnings, they immediately cash them out, not playing them again. because if that's the case, they will lose the winnings they have got.

The thing that kill many gamblers in terms of loses records is their inability to walk away after a test of the winnings,  and casinos are aware of that and that is why their always make every possible attempts to offers you early winning to keep you stick in and eventually losing more in the process, this is a mechanism that many gamblers are not aware of and reason why most of them always end of recording more loses tan winning.
For instance when I placed a vet with an odds of 2.8 and the result came out as winning, I immediately withdrew my winning and walked away looking forward to another great day when and when my luck would shine once again.

And that's the reality that many people do, with the difficulty of cashing out or withdrawing the winnings they have gotten, so they continue to play to get a bigger win, and maybe this choice will kill them themselves because the chances of getting another win are very slim and almost impossible to get a bigger win. With the initial win that they get, I think it's just a kasnio trick to attract more people who play so that they will continue to pursue bigger wins.
This is difficult to avoid by people who gamble. But it is natural that they want a bigger win, because everyone who plays also wants it, but unfortunately it is difficult to get and what happens instead they lose more money.

[hedgeh0g]

Indeed, this is an act that is not very wise in giving a firm stance so that family member do not gamble again. As family members, it is true that we must have sympathy and help family members who are involved in compulsive gambling, but if the sibling who gambles has no intention of to stoped gambling, he will continue to do it secretly until no one in his family knows about his activities. And if he has been gambling secretly, we all know that this will pose a greater risk if the family only knows that gambling is like that, let alone openly keep quiet? It will definitely be even more dangerous as family members should give advice and accompany him, not pressure him, forcing him to immediately stop by force.

Maybe they really need firm action so they can suppress their disturbing gambling habits. There are many other reasons why family members have to do extreme things, in our opinion, because the gambler or his family members can no longer control their gambling. If we don't take firm action, the gambler won't get any warning, even from his friends, because maybe his friends don't care about what happens next. But I agree with advising the gambler to abandon his gambling activities because it has caused him a lot of problems while he is gambling. The gambler may need someone who can understand the circumstances that make him choose to gamble rather than do other things. If they can make the gambler aware of various approaches, the gambler will not feel forced to abandon gambling.

I sometimes think that the reason why a player cannot give up games is simply laziness. He wants to get rich and do nothing, pressing a couple of buttons while looking at the monitor, although we all know the value of money and how difficult it is to get, especially not in rich countries. Before that, he will wake up well-rested because he doesn’t have to go to work. He knows that he can borrow money from friends under any pretext. Let him even tell you that mom needs money for pills because of health problems. I consider it important to never, under any pretext, lend money to such dependent people. This will allow him to quickly understand what bottom he is on. Of course, the addicted player does not even admit to himself that he is lazy.

[Marvelman]

I sometimes think that the reason why a player cannot give up games is simply laziness. He wants to get rich and do nothing, pressing a couple of buttons while looking at the monitor, although we all know the value of money and how difficult it is to get, especially not in rich countries. Before that, he will wake up well-rested because he doesn’t have to go to work.

Sure, it'd be nice to earn bucks without breaking a sweat.  But that lazy dream ain't reality and  making bank takes hustle no matter where you live.  Even casino games take skill and effort to win big.  And for most folks gaming wont pay the bills anyway.

[Accardo]

I sometimes think that the reason why a player cannot give up games is simply laziness. He wants to get rich and do nothing, pressing a couple of buttons while looking at the monitor, although we all know the value of money and how difficult it is to get, especially not in rich countries. Before that, he will wake up well-rested because he doesn’t have to go to work.

Sure, it'd be nice to earn bucks without breaking a sweat.  But that lazy dream ain't reality and  making bank takes hustle no matter where you live.  Even casino games take skill and effort to win big.  And for most folks gaming wont pay the bills anyway.

It takes struggle to change a habit. The laziness in your context should be generally categorized on every factor needed to quit gambling. Since they earn little in gambling and lose more, what's there to stay between a rock and a hard place? Both sides of the coin doesn't seem favorable anymore. When they try, fear of who to run to, embraces them with both hands. Erupting a double trouble in their inner subconscious. They'll miss their therapy sessions, as they can't express the pains once in the therapy room. Difficulty clusters them, they're on the defensive side of the struggle. We all, think differently of what we haven't seen or watch others go through. The deniable nature of friends, depress them to a maximum point of voluntary isolation. Thereby leaving the addict, in a world of shadows. Black and blank. Still hitting those unforegoable buttons, as the only natural companion, left. The skills and effort to win big, less bothers them. They are eager to change, but helps is not forthcoming. Lame people would blame them, for instigating suffer on themself. These are unerasable emotional trauma. Ever spent time with a survived addict? He'll keep lamenting on the ill treatments he received, while in his struggle to change. I understood, that while addicted, the ball, to change, isn't in their court anymore. It's now a mental disorder, and requires adequate attention, to save the addict from a fatal and fearsome life situation.

[carlfebz2]

Indeed, this is an act that is not very wise in giving a firm stance so that family member do not gamble again. As family members, it is true that we must have sympathy and help family members who are involved in compulsive gambling, but if the sibling who gambles has no intention of to stoped gambling, he will continue to do it secretly until no one in his family knows about his activities. And if he has been gambling secretly, we all know that this will pose a greater risk if the family only knows that gambling is like that, let alone openly keep quiet? It will definitely be even more dangerous as family members should give advice and accompany him, not pressure him, forcing him to immediately stop by force.

Maybe they really need firm action so they can suppress their disturbing gambling habits. There are many other reasons why family members have to do extreme things, in our opinion, because the gambler or his family members can no longer control their gambling. If we don't take firm action, the gambler won't get any warning, even from his friends, because maybe his friends don't care about what happens next. But I agree with advising the gambler to abandon his gambling activities because it has caused him a lot of problems while he is gambling. The gambler may need someone who can understand the circumstances that make him choose to gamble rather than do other things. If they can make the gambler aware of various approaches, the gambler will not feel forced to abandon gambling.

I sometimes think that the reason why a player cannot give up games is simply laziness. He wants to get rich and do nothing, pressing a couple of buttons while looking at the monitor, although we all know the value of money and how difficult it is to get, especially not in rich countries. Before that, he will wake up well-rested because he doesn’t have to go to work. He knows that he can borrow money from friends under any pretext. Let him even tell you that mom needs money for pills because of health problems. I consider it important to never, under any pretext, lend money to such dependent people. This will allow him to quickly understand what bottom he is on. Of course, the addicted player does not even admit to himself that he is lazy.

People would really be going into the simplest thing as possible on which they would really be focusing on paths on which they do know that they could really be able to take advantage or something that it is really that too easy for them to deal with or something that they could easily be able to get involved with. Yes, gambling could make you rich but thats if you do able to hit up some jackpots and this is something which is really that impossible to happen easily because this would really be requiring that being lucky into those certain moments on which we know that this something that cant really be achieved easily
specially on gambling field.

In talks about family's action when it comes to this  scenario then it would be normal that they would really be doing things which it is really just that right to do so specially if its really that involving
family members whose really that getting addicted with gambling. You would really be able to see that they would really be putting up so much care on a certain family member
on which actions be made would really be going into those certain extents on which there's no sense if you would really be getting mad into.

[Sanugarid]

Money can be intoxicating sometimes and only a few percentage of persons in the world actually know how to control the pressure and influence that comes with money control. I have had so many friends who were successful in hitting some significant profits in gambling but all end up squandering the fund in different things just because they have this perception that it's actually free money and should be spent anyhow.

It is very difficult to be able to control the money we have no matter how much we have if we can't use it properly of course the money will easily run out and we don't even know where the money is used, when someone wins a bet in the gambling we play of course they have to be able to controlling themselves, it would be better to take the winnings they have got and enjoy them, rather than looking for bigger wins and spending all the winnings they have got.

Rightly said but there are many gamblers who don't know how to enjoy these wins. They think that once they win they will win more and then lose their control and get greedy. Gambling doesn't always win if you become addicted to betting no matter how much money you have it will end. Once greed works it impairs your judgement leading to unexpected losses so constantly making sure you don't waste money will allow you to improve because it gives you more time to play. If you can control yourself you can bet on a variety of markets with generally favorable odds.

Our luck in one day runs out, you're lucky today not tomorrow or you're lucky today later it won't be anymore. We don't know when it will come, so there are greedy people hoping to win again after a big win. And I think these people are the ones who gamble to win.

Yes, there is nothing wrong if you bet again after you win, but you must control yourself, your winnings will not run out. Bet 10% of your winnings again if your luck wins 10% again. But if you lose, you should know when to stop, don't be greedy.