Sympathetic gamblers looses itself

[EluguHcman]

I have seen some facial expression gamblers that I am emotionally touched about and feels they have loosed more than they can handle and feels they deserves an condolence winning. While I empathic with him his amount of lost, I am then to consoling myself that someone on here has lost more than I do.

This is exactly how some gamblers runs out of gambling budgets and goes bankrupt because they fails to figure what their net worth or incomes value is.

They are basically to believe one who lost $20 has lost more to them who looses $10.

[Oshosondy]

Gamblers that want to make money will see money lost as losses. Gamblers that are having fun while gambling will see losses as nothing.

If I am gambling, it is just like I am wasting money on bear while paying for my friends to drink with me, but the fun I have and the good moment made it not as a loss. I see gambling this way.

If a friend is letting you know how he loss,  always try to encourage him and tell him not to be using the amount of money he can not afford to lose to bet. He should not see gambling as a way of making money.

[Lida93]

Actually our financial level are not same and losses among gamblers shouldn't be compared in terms of we trying to be or showing sympathy. If we wish to show sympathy we should just show it and not doing so based on comparison of the amount a gambler had lost to gambling.

I could be showing sympathy to someone that had lost $10k to gambling not considering another that have lost just $1k, unknowingly to me the guy with the $1k loss was the last cash in his possession home and abroad whereas the fellow that had lost a $10k has so much in abundance in his wallet savings.

In all we do as gamblers we should resist the urge of gambling amount of cash we can't afford to lose, calculate your income percentage that you can affordably spend on gambling and stick to it to avoid seeking sympathy from others.

[OgNasty]

Don’t be too caught up with some of the losses you see people take online. Many of those gamblers are paid to do what they do and their emotions aren’t always genuine. The ones that are and I’m sure there are plenty of them are likely heartbreaking to see, but that’s why people stream their gambling efforts, so they can receive gifts from those that watch.

[Adbitco]

Where they really prepared their heart for more loose? If yes then you won't be that angry whenever someone out there experience lost in gambling because let assumed they knew the game while they are gambling. Whomever that bears that in mind won't always chase after their lost rather will strive more to secure a winning for himself with all technicalities, I think some people are becoming to used with their lost and they are always optimistic about their results that possibly a day to come they will make back all their lost.

[Hispo]

Don’t be too caught up with some of the losses you see people take online. Many of those gamblers are paid to do what they do and their emotions aren’t always genuine. The ones that are and I’m sure there are plenty of them are likely heartbreaking to see, but that’s why people stream their gambling efforts, so they can receive gifts from those that watch.

It can be difficult not to empathize with them, though. At least for me, it is kind of difficult to distinguish a real gambler who has lost a significant amount from other who is only faking it all for show.
Even if we assume most of them are being paid or are expected to by paid for streaming their gambling sessions, as far as I understand, part of their wager is still money which belongs to them (while other part is provided by the casino, to prolong the session).
We could even make a case for those streamers who do not have sponsorships yet and start gambling with their own funds, it gotta be heartbreaking to see who one of those get their balance go away from their casino wallet, as trey try to make a name on the internet by themselves.

[Ruttoshi]

OP, this topic does not belong here, you should move it to gambling discussion.

Anyone that feels he has lost heavily and is showing that on his face should quit gambling because he can't control his gambling activities, and this also shows that the person has used more than the amount that he can afford to loose to gamble. No matter how small that amount is, if it is going to make you look pale or in a bad mood, it means that amount is too big for you to gamble with.

Gambling should be seen as fun and not for profit and anyone that knows this, will live a healthy gambling life. I don't normally have sympathy for anyone that have lost big because it was an act of greed that led them to such big loss and nobody needs to give them any money due to sympathy. Instead you should advice them on how to be a responsible gambler and let them not see gamble as a get rich quick scheme.

[so98nn]

That’s why we gamblers need a kill switch when our loses go above our budget. That can come only with one thing and that’s: self control. We can not deny the fact that most of the gamblers who are losing money are actually losing their heads to those red lines. We can not expect high returns everytime we gamble online, not everyday is ours. If we are losing then someone is winning and vice versa is also true. The only thing that can make use good gambler is to self aware about the limits. I have mentioned this many times, I am usually closing the Website immediately if I’m getting losses in a long streak. I know that’s the only exit strategy when we work online. More than that it is always important to keep only fixed amount of money on casinos while starting a gameplay. This helps to restrict (a little) to go for second round if we have lost it all.

[coin-investor]

I have seen some facial expression gamblers that I am emotionally touched about and feels they have loosed more than they can handle and feels they deserves an condolence winning. While I empathic with him his amount of lost, I am then to consoling myself that someone on here has lost more than I do.

This is the first time I encountered the word condolence winning, winning is winning regardless of whether you're coming from huge losses if you mean consoling them because of their losses, there is no need for that, gamblers should know beforehand that they can lose their whole bankroll and they should know how to address this beforehand, if you're not comfortable with your losses then don't gamble you should not put yourself in a position that you look pitiful.
Controlling your bankroll needs insight and planning, you don't play and don't care about your bankroll, this is where trying to recover losses mindset starts.

[_act_]

Don’t be too caught up with some of the losses you see people take online. Many of those gamblers are paid to do what they do and their emotions aren’t always genuine.

No gamblers can be given money to say that he had huge losses online. Until something bad happened would be when some people will believe. Someone that lost money and fainted but woke up in a hospital, or someone that killed himself because he lost money to gambling. Those are not fake. The probability of taking good news about who won in gambling is higher than the probability of who loss.

[alastantiger]

I have seen some facial expression gamblers that I am emotionally touched about and feels they have loosed more than they can handle and feels they deserves an condolence winning. While I empathic with him his amount of lost, I am then to consoling myself that someone on here has lost more than I do.

Unfortunately, the activity of gambling is indifferent to the outcome of those who engage in it. But since we are all humans with emotions and feelings, a loss is a loss irrespective of how big or small it is. We would unconsciously pick one of the hundreds of emotions available to the human biology to display.

They are basically to believe one who lost $20 has lost more to them who looses $10.

The lies we say to ourselves to feel better. Only a beginner gambler does this. An experienced gambler takes it in his strides and doesn't compare losses to feel great about their own loss.

[Crypt0Gore]

My gambling losses is not even close to something I will start feeling regretful about, I don't create a room for this, not in my head or mind, I am always cautious with gambling and whatever comes my way is already prepared for, so I will never risk a lot of money on gambling, you will easily end up with empty bankroll.

You need to know how much you are making per week or per month and stick to a certain amount only for gambling, but don't forget that you will probably lose the money, that's the most guaranteed outcome when you are gambling, so you will be a stupid person if you risk more than you are ready to lose, because you should know better.

I have gotten past having sympathy for gamblers that lose money, I might sound like a wicked person but it's foolish of you to want to make money doing nothing and you believe it will be that easy, that's why choosing gambling as source of income is a wrong thing to do.

[Gozie51]

I have seen some facial expression gamblers that I am emotionally touched about and feels they have loosed more than they can handle and feels they deserves an condolence winning.

No body gives a gambler a consolidated winning no matter the losses they have encountered and that is why we have to face every gamble like it is suppose to, bet as you can afford and you can move on in peace if you lose.There is no friend in gambling, every stake is weighed according to what options that it is opened for.

[LuckySea]

I have seen some facial expression gamblers that I am emotionally touched about and feels they have loosed more than they can handle and feels they deserves an condolence winning. While I empathic with him his amount of lost, I am then to consoling myself that someone on here has lost more than I do.

This is exactly how some gamblers runs out of gambling budgets and goes bankrupt because they fails to figure what their net worth or incomes value is.

They are basically to believe one who lost $20 has lost more to them who looses $10.

I get exactly what you're saying. It's really sad to see how losing at gaming can affect a person's emotions. Before they gamble in any way, everyone needs to make clear budgets and know how much money they can spend. Sharing events like yours helps us remember how important it is to play games responsibly. Let's help each other stay balanced and make thoughtful choices.

[rodskee]

When you entered gambling (in your own decision and willingly not by force) then you should
know that your funds is already in the hand of bankers/Owners and the only way you can take those from them
is to be friend with luck in which only comes in one out of thousand players , meaning while you are winning there
are thousand gamblers that losing and vise versa when you are at losing situation, I am afraid that people that
does not understand gambling even before he entered are going to nowhere but either complete loser or
addicted gambler.

Don’t be too caught up with some of the losses you see people take online. Many of those gamblers are paid to do what they do and their emotions aren’t always genuine.

No gamblers can be given money to say that he had huge losses online. Until something bad happened would be when some people will believe. Someone that lost money and fainted but woke up in a hospital, or someone that killed himself because he lost money to gambling. Those are not fake. The probability of taking good news about who won in gambling is higher than the probability of who loss.

there are at some point and those are the gamblers that still have respect in life and in people
who loves them. and those gamblers that knows they still have family they can lean  on.

[Wexnident]

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Condolence winning? Is it just a mistake or is it a rebate of sorts after losing a specific amount? Cause that's just not how it works. Sure, we can emphasize since a lot of us gamblers lost, rather unlikely for someone to actually not lose but hoping for some sort of reward for losing? Now that's something we'd all want now, don't we? Well that's just some people wanting pity, not really worth most of the time, can spare a bit but not too much ig, especially if you consider how gambling is and how most people should be educated by how it goes.

On a side note, this topic is more on Gambling Discussion rather than here, OP.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

I am honestly struggling to make any sense out of all that op have said, but on the little I was able to understand, I will say that outcomes in gambling (most especially on the losing side) is like the realities of life, a teacher who does not forgive, the sooner you learn what it's teaching you, the better for you.

If we search through this forum, and in other places online, we did find a lot of really pathetic and sorrowful stories patterning to gamblers who went overboard with their crave for winnings, and the end turned out really disastrous for them, while some are still OK and gambling today, some could not survive it as either they committed suicide, or fell ill out of the shock and died.
This is why responsible gambling is a paramount habit we must practice in our gambling activities, for nothing else but our own good.


By the way, please move this thread to the gambling discussion board.

[arwin100]

I have seen some facial expression gamblers that I am emotionally touched about and feels they have loosed more than they can handle and feels they deserves an condolence winning. While I empathic with him his amount of lost, I am then to consoling myself that someone on here has lost more than I do.

This is exactly how some gamblers runs out of gambling budgets and goes bankrupt because they fails to figure what their net worth or incomes value is.

Expect that they became more frustrated especially if they are losing to much on what they are playing and we can see based on their expression that they are really pissed of to what currently happening in their bets. But I don't know if there's something like that a condolence winning as form of rebate on what they are experiencing. If there's something like that exist then I think that high rollers who lose a lot deserve that. But for small gamblers maybe casino will not allow to give it to them.

To many sad stories we can read here but if they just came to the point that they are so real on what they are expecting on a gambling site for sure they would never encounter to get a bankrupt or asking some sort of return for the bets they made.

[goldkingcoiner]

I have seen some facial expression gamblers that I am emotionally touched about and feels they have loosed more than they can handle and feels they deserves an condolence winning.

No body gives a gambler a consolidated winning no matter the losses they have encountered and that is why we have to face every gamble like it is suppose to, bet as you can afford and you can move on in peace if you lose.There is no friend in gambling, every stake is weighed according to what options that it is opened for.

That might be an area of improvement for online gambling casinos, don't you think? Give the gambler who just lost something small back, as a token of customer appreciation and I think it will help a lot, because some of the weight of the guilt from losing can be lifted from that poor gambler. Not all of it, of course. But a small portion will let him feel better than before.

Perhaps it does not even need to be of monetary nature.

[YOSHIE]

This is exactly how some gamblers runs out of gambling budgets and goes bankrupt because they fails to figure what their net worth or incomes value is.

Complacent, hypnotized, losing identity, without real calculations, etc., that is what some gamblers often feel, sometimes we are not aware of the money and losses we have lost in the gambling arena, just like those who place lottery bets in the ratio of 5/1, five losses and one win, (1) makes them excited.

Actually, we don't need to be sympathetic to those who lose, we should control and ask ourselves what we have gained while we have been involved in the world of gambling, whether we will be aware that during gambling, there is a real win or loss to ourselves.