Gambling and Behavioral Change!!!

[Fredomago]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

changes in our behavior are often influenced by our emotional and mental condition, just like people who have a toothache, they will be very angry when there is a loud noise that disturbs them, the same goes for those who lose gambling, their emotions will definitely be mixed especially when we lose a lot of money, nothing can make us think clearly.  i usually hit the wall of my house if i lose gambling, this is to divert my emotions so that they don't focus on the people around me, if you have a relative who loses a large amount gambling, you should try to talk to them nicely, don't mock or judge their bad luck because you will definitely be an outlet for their emotions, people who lose at gambling are very sensitive.

You can turned to be an outlet if you failed to understand their emotions,  imagine mocking someone who lose their hard earned money,  it's not easy to take that away and there's a lot of emotions behind that loss.  You should treat  them like you also feeling the same way and allow them to feel that you are not blaming anyone but you are just care and you want them to realize that there's no good if they will continue,  it will avoid behavioral issue as things can be discussed in a nice way.

[Sandra_hakeem]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger.

uhmm,.. to start with, it looks to me like you don't speak English originally; like you use Google translate for your post.. if I'm wrong, then that'll just be inches away from the truth.. well, I'm not saying it's bad not to be fluent on your English, but just that the translator gives a different interpretation - sometimes, not with the right words - as to what you originally posted.
I don't know why anyone would decide to transfer their fraustrations on a child that knows nothing about your interest in gambling and why you'd even decide to gamble already ... Try not to hurt another person with your decisions next time.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

[Hirose UK]

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You can turned to be an outlet if you failed to understand their emotions,  imagine mocking someone who lose their hard earned money,  it's not easy to take that away and there's a lot of emotions behind that loss.  You should treat  them like you also feeling the same way and allow them to feel that you are not blaming anyone but you are just care and you want them to realize that there's no good if they will continue,  it will avoid behavioral issue as things can be discussed in a nice way.

Gamblers who lose money are indeed in an unstable emotional and mental condition and can get angry easily and even carry out several actions that might be said to be harsh, such as uttering dirty words and of course this all happens because they cannot control their emotions.
You are right that people who are in such condition must be treated well, we must even be able to calm them down so that their emotions do not go out of control.
But dealing with people who are in an emotional condition may have to be full of patience because we will definitely become their outlet for what is happening, making them feel uncontrollable anger.
I personally prefer to stay away from people who are in that condition because as much as possible I don't want to get involved with those who have lost control and cannot be calm in their behavior.

Caring is always there, but caring for someone who is angry is not an easy matter and it can also be that when dealing with people in such conditions, we ourselves also experience increased emotions due to lack of patience.
Moreover, leaving him alone with his anger would be much better because what he needs is calm, not advice or suggestions and when the advice is not appropriate it can also trigger his emotions even higher.

[ndutndut]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Of course, every gambling player has changes in behavior when they win and lose. This is natural, because we humans definitely have expressions in a game. When we win, our expression will certainly be very enjoyable, in fact we will go on a spree. When we lose, we will become angry with everyone, including our own family, some even get serious to the point of violence.

That's why many people say that every gambler must be good at controlling emotions, including controlling our behavior when we lose so as to avoid things we don't need to do. Emotions are normal but don't take it out on your family, win or lose, our behavior towards your family remains normal, that's what is called a responsible gambler.

[junder]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Of course, every gambling player has changes in behavior when they win and lose. This is natural, because we humans definitely have expressions in a game. When we win, our expression will certainly be very enjoyable, in fact we will go on a spree. When we lose, we will become angry with everyone, including our own family, some even get serious to the point of violence.

That's why many people say that every gambler must be good at controlling emotions, including controlling our behavior when we lose so as to avoid things we don't need to do. Emotions are normal but don't take it out on your family, win or lose, our behavior towards your family remains normal, that's what is called a responsible gambler.

It's true, losing or even getting a big win can make someone change, for example someone who gets a big win then they are likely to change because they have a lot of money and changes will occur in their friendship cycle,  and when obviously this is the worst when they get a loss then they are likely to feel many things, such as being stubborn,  easily emotional and tend not to want to socialize with many people because all they want is to gamble and gamble especially with the fact of gambling where the defeat is more likely to be obtained by gamblers not with the victory that will always be obtained.

Indeed those who gamble must be able to control their emotions and themselves, because if they cannot control this then it is likely that big problems will occur. and this will of course be detrimental to them and worse, this can have an impact on other people such as their family or partners. Therefore,  those who gamble must be able to control their emotions so that undesirable things don't happen. However, gambling is a means of paid entertainment, not a means of making money.

[maydna]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Of course, every gambling player has changes in behavior when they win and lose. This is natural, because we humans definitely have expressions in a game. When we win, our expression will certainly be very enjoyable, in fact we will go on a spree. When we lose, we will become angry with everyone, including our own family, some even get serious to the point of violence.

That's why many people say that every gambler must be good at controlling emotions, including controlling our behavior when we lose so as to avoid things we don't need to do. Emotions are normal but don't take it out on your family, win or lose, our behavior towards your family remains normal, that's what is called a responsible gambler.

Yes, this is a normal thing that many gamblers have experienced because whatever results they get from gambling can influence their behavior towards the people around them. The people closest to him will feel it, so they will wonder what's wrong with that person and perhaps ask about it slowly. If that person can talk about what he has experienced from gambling, perhaps the people around him can help him to return to his behavior so that he will not be too affected by what he gets.

Usually, a person's behavior will change drastically when he experiences loss. Whether it's a big or small loss, it will have an impact on him, and some people lose a lot of gambling and eventually turn into angry people. Some people can still be patient when they experience loss, and nothing changes with them, but more people change their behavior because of the losses they experience from gambling.

[Agbamoni]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Of course, every gambling player has changes in behavior when they win and lose. This is natural, because we humans definitely have expressions in a game. When we win, our expression will certainly be very enjoyable, in fact we will go on a spree. When we lose, we will become angry with everyone, including our own family, some even get serious to the point of violence.

That's why many people say that every gambler must be good at controlling emotions, including controlling our behavior when we lose so as to avoid things we don't need to do. Emotions are normal but don't take it out on your family, win or lose, our behavior towards your family remains normal, that's what is called a responsible gambler.

It should be a must to know how to control emotions as a gambler so that you wont use out of frustration to destroy what you have built in years in just one day. An alternative to control emotions if its difficult is to get a little bit of alcohol go inside your room, lock the door, drink and sleep till you wake up. After your awake you will have a different feeling and your mind would be at peace because the anger anf rage that was there when you lost huge will all be gone

[Casdinyard]

For better or for worse gambling will definitely affect you mood and behavior. I've seen the most common example being that people are more neurotic and hasty with their decisions, sometimes even hysterical just cause they couldn't for the life of them not let gambling rule their lives. On the other hand I've seen people become more responsible with their money, with some even being able to set up spending allocations and budgets as well as financial planning which they got from gambling.

Gambling can change you. but don't let it be for the worse. We have enough people in the looney bins already, make sure you don't become one of them.

The remark that "For better or for worse gambling will definitely affect your mood and behaviour" is not always applicable as you quoted it, it depends on the gambler, his plan for gambling and the mindset at which he is gambling as well. For me, I always say it's relative because, for example, I don't feel a single thing when I gamble with casinos. Do you know why? It's because I don't ever believe that I can make big money from it. So, this mindset has been helping me for so long and has helped me to prepare my mind and my budget for casinos accurately without mixed psychological feelings. Nowadays, I bet with a very low amount of money with casinos, this is because my mind has been resolved on the fun part that I can derive from it, but not money.

This is why I am convinced and I say it practically that I feel nothing about casino betting. I just don't have a better feeling for the money made and a worse feeling for the money lost as you put it. But for my sportsbook betting, yes, I must say that it often affects my emotions a bit, it's a bit because I mostly gain in it, though I do not bet anyhow, I carefully select my games and I do not put my mind in the result no matter what the outcome states. Maybe that is why it doesn't affect me, and I implore everyone to do the same. The better part is that I do not bet huge money on regular matches but only on crucial matches like the matches that decide the final. UCL final is an example. So, people should try to tame their feelings as much as they can, it's possible, it's about planning and discipline and how they can control their feelings and bet reasonably.

You literally just fleshed out what I meant. For better or for worse is relative to what the gambler has in mind at the very moment he made that gamble. You see what I mean? People gamble with an ulterior motive, you don't just gamble out of nowhere for no reason at all. That itself will determine whether you're bound to be a gambling addict, a neurotic one at that mind you, or a responsible gambler who knows what their limits are and what they can and cannot bet on.

I mean it's on you if you don't feel anything from the money you got from casinos and gambling, I myself share the same feelings but only cause I know that besides the fact that it is money I know wouldn't last me a long while, it came out of someone else's pockets too. As for your sportsbooks betting, and I'm saying this with the premise in my head being you also watch and are a fan of the games you place a bet on, you're probably mixing the feelings of winning/losing the bet, with the feelings of your favorite team or just the team you're rooting for in particular being in the winning or losing side. And even that is an indicative of what I just said.

[Volimack]

Gambling certainly affects behavior and mood does not stay at the same level every time. Gambling can easily lead to change in a gambler's behavior here losing winning everything works in the gambler's brain. When the gambler is constantly driven to lose his behavior will become worse than before. Behavior is better if you win. Betting strategies don't always work rationally. That's why the mood and behavior of the gambler should try to moderate.

[angrybirdy]

Gambling certainly affects behavior and mood does not stay at the same level every time. Gambling can easily lead to change in a gambler's behavior here losing winning everything works in the gambler's brain. When the gambler is constantly driven to lose his behavior will become worse than before. Behavior is better if you win. Betting strategies don't always work rationally. That's why the mood and behavior of the gambler should try to moderate.

On point! I agree that gambling is one of the reason of why people change their behaviour, As with any habit, the degree or severity of the behavior determines the healthcare classification. As per some medical professionals, the best way to effectively address the problem is to stop the gambling immediately but as long as we want that happen, We can't control other people's decision.

[rodskee]

Gambling certainly affects behavior and mood does not stay at the same level every time. Gambling can easily lead to change in a gambler's behavior here losing winning everything works in the gambler's brain. When the gambler is constantly driven to lose his behavior will become worse than before. Behavior is better if you win. Betting strategies don't always work rationally. That's why the mood and behavior of the gambler should try to moderate.

On point! I agree that gambling is one of the reason of why people change their behaviour, As with any habit, the degree or severity of the behavior determines the healthcare classification. As per some medical professionals, the best way to effectively address the problem is to stop the gambling immediately but as long as we want that happen, We can't control other people's decision.

Actually it is not just gambling that change the behavior of person but all the vices in the world ,
rom Gambling to Smoking , from drug addiction to  liquor abuse and even womanizing , all vices once treated to be
part of life will surely change your behavior and that is what the world facing now.

if you will not treat all of those vices rightfully then we will all facing sadness in the future or even sooner .

[Obim34]

Yea... It happens not only to you but many of us do experiences such, basically am not addicted or neither do I continously pertake in gambling but one's in a blue moon I often face same issue as you have said.

It will be very difficult to keep a smiling face after loosing your hard earned money but it is not ideal to bring it down to your family. We should not allow emotions of loss get the better part of us, so we don't in one way affect our relationship with the kids.

Since you have noticed this then it is high time to work on it and best as you decide to share this with fellow gamblers, so we can all work together and stop this.

[Suzume]

Gambling certainly affects behavior and mood does not stay at the same level every time. Gambling can easily lead to change in a gambler's behavior here losing winning everything works in the gambler's brain. When the gambler is constantly driven to lose his behavior will become worse than before. Behavior is better if you win. Betting strategies don't always work rationally. That's why the mood and behavior of the gambler should try to moderate.

On point! I agree that gambling is one of the reason of why people change their behaviour, As with any habit, the degree or severity of the behavior determines the healthcare classification. As per some medical professionals, the best way to effectively address the problem is to stop the gambling immediately but as long as we want that happen, We can't control other people's decision.

Actually it is not just gambling that change the behavior of person but all the vices in the world ,
rom Gambling to Smoking , from drug addiction to  liquor abuse and even womanizing , all vices once treated to be
part of life will surely change your behavior and that is what the world facing now.

if you will not treat all of those vices rightfully then we will all facing sadness in the future or even sooner .

Yes it affects on behavior becose no one can't tolerate losses easyly. In gambling that is game of win and lose. But as a new gambler they don't want to face any kind of losses because they already have low capital and it's now easy for them if they face losses then again make extra capital and to gamble again. That's the reason is some one face losses then his behavior become rood becose that is not easy to go again start. On the other side if they make good profits then they feel very happy. That's the reason gambling deeply affect to chenge someone's behavior.

[sompitonov]

I’m sure that after a gaming session this affects our behavior, because I remember very well how I changed when I lost a large amount. I was angry and this energy needed to be transferred somewhere. If family members or relatives were nearby, I could be rude or say a bad word in response. It was easy to piss me off. I would like to advise those who lost not to communicate with their family for a while if possible. You need to cool down and after a while accept what happened.

I also observed other behavior of those who won. I especially remember the stream of one girl who was playing games. A subscriber came to her stream and won a lot of money and started making large donations to her. She was so surprised that she was forced to stop the stream. It was a long time ago when streams were just appearing. I want to say that if he had not won such a sum, he would never have done such a thing. This means that the win influenced his behavior, he became too generous.

[Maus0728]

Gambling certainly affects behavior and mood does not stay at the same level every time. Gambling can easily lead to change in a gambler's behavior here losing winning everything works in the gambler's brain. When the gambler is constantly driven to lose his behavior will become worse than before. Behavior is better if you win. Betting strategies don't always work rationally. That's why the mood and behavior of the gambler should try to moderate.

Easier said than done, moderation is something that I believe starts at a young age and that when it starts there and overtime it becomes difficult to deviate from because it's more than a habit it's part of you so even if we were to advise people to be moderate about their gambling habits because we want them to not do bad decisions, it's still going to be the same, they will still feel that behavioural change and end up with the same shit that they've been trying to moderate back when they're starting, the best thing to do in that kind of scenario is to be self-aware since that's easier to do compared to disciplining yourself to be moderate and assess whether you can still do gambling and not get into a much worse behaviour.

Gambling psychology is complex in my opinion but you need not to be mulling over too much on it, just remember that when you feel pleasure it's always going to be a cascading effect, the more pleasure you get, the more you'll want and the less that you get of it, the more you want to do that same thing hoping to get that pleasure you've felt from winning.

[Fredomago]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Of course, every gambling player has changes in behavior when they win and lose. This is natural, because we humans definitely have expressions in a game. When we win, our expression will certainly be very enjoyable, in fact we will go on a spree. When we lose, we will become angry with everyone, including our own family, some even get serious to the point of violence.

That's why many people say that every gambler must be good at controlling emotions, including controlling our behavior when we lose so as to avoid things we don't need to do. Emotions are normal but don't take it out on your family, win or lose, our behavior towards your family remains normal, that's what is called a responsible gambler.

Yes, this is a normal thing that many gamblers have experienced because whatever results they get from gambling can influence their behavior towards the people around them. The people closest to him will feel it, so they will wonder what's wrong with that person and perhaps ask about it slowly. If that person can talk about what he has experienced from gambling, perhaps the people around him can help him to return to his behavior so that he will not be too affected by what he gets.

Usually, a person's behavior will change drastically when he experiences loss. Whether it's a big or small loss, it will have an impact on him, and some people lose a lot of gambling and eventually turn into angry people. Some people can still be patient when they experience loss, and nothing changes with them, but more people change their behavior because of the losses they experience from gambling.

The stress that a person felt when they loss the money that they are not willing to let go, especially if the money is supposedly for important purpose, that kind of stress will swing the attitude of that person and it will be notice as there's changes from the mood of that person, you can't deny that even how hard you will try, it is not easy to control your emotion when you are in regret becuase of a failed gambling.

Undeniable changes that even how hard you want to hide it's uncontrollable and it will comes out in times that you are not intend to release that emotions.

[Slow death]

money is something that can change people's lives, money changes the way people act and think, many people when they don't have money keep making a lot of promises about things they will do when they have money, but when they have money they forget about those promises they kept making, it has been like this for many years. so when people look at something that allows them to make money even if it was high risk, then that person doesn't think much, they immediately start making plans about what they will do when they make a lot of money, but they forget that they haven't even put the money into that thing yet. to see if you will really earn a lot or not. after he starts playing and realizes that reality is much harsher than the illusion he had before he started playing

the person begins to have negative feelings such as depression, sadness, becomes isolated at home and moves away from everyone. starts to play more and more and as a consequence starts to lose more and more, and this inevitably leads that person to addiction, they become dependent on games, no one likes to lose, it is unlikely that a person will lose money and be left smiling, people's tendency when they lose they get irritated and start to have thoughts of playing more to recover all the lost money. and precisely because they want to recover all the lost money that causes people to fall into the abyss.

now when people win a lot of money in gambling, they change completely, they start to live a luxurious life, as if they weren't going to have many years to live so they need to spend all the money early, but years later they become poor and start gambling again , and something simply sad that has happened very often to lottery winners. It is difficult to hear that any lottery winner who has won a lot of money has managed to create a business or company and not become poor after many years. I personally always read sad stories about lottery winners

[Unbunplease]

The stress that a person felt when they loss the money that they are not willing to let go, especially if the money is supposedly for important purpose, that kind of stress will swing the attitude of that person and it will be notice as there's changes from the mood of that person, you can't deny that even how hard you will try, it is not easy to control your emotion when you are in regret becuase of a failed gambling.

Undeniable changes that even how hard you want to hide it's uncontrollable and it will comes out in times that you are not intend to release that emotions.

Stress is a definite ordeal. Either a person will be able to pass this test and become stress-resistant, or he or she will break down psychologically. Life is full of various trials, and therefore sooner or later a person will face trials. And the loss of money is just a small test in his way

[bbigtart]

It should be a must to know how to control emotions as a gambler so that you wont use out of frustration to destroy what you have built in years in just one day. An alternative to control emotions if its difficult is to get a little bit of alcohol go inside your room, lock the door, drink and sleep till you wake up. After your awake you will have a different feeling and your mind would be at peace because the anger anf rage that was there when you lost huge will all be gone

In my opinion, a person's emotions or changes in behavior when they lose at gambling are caused by being addicted to gambling. Because someone who is addicted to gambling cannot control their emotions so their behavior will change to negative when they lose the game. because if we are not addicted, I think when we lose we will not be frustrated because from the start he was aware that we would bring money that was ready when we lost.

Gambling addicts have the opportunity to get caught up in financial problems and negative behavioral changes that lead to family and social problems. For me, alcohol is not the best way to deal with frustration, it will actually add to other problems because if you drink too much alcohol, people will lose consciousness. Maybe for those who are experts in drinking, this could be an alternative. I mean, not everyone can regret drinking alcohol.

[bocyaj]

I’m sure that after a gaming session this affects our behavior, because I remember very well how I changed when I lost a large amount. I was angry and this energy needed to be transferred somewhere. If family members or relatives were nearby, I could be rude or say a bad word in response. It was easy to piss me off. I would like to advise those who lost not to communicate with their family for a while if possible. You need to cool down and after a while accept what happened.

I also observed other behavior of those who won. I especially remember the stream of one girl who was playing games. A subscriber came to her stream and won a lot of money and started making large donations to her. She was so surprised that she was forced to stop the stream. It was a long time ago when streams were just appearing. I want to say that if he had not won such a sum, he would never have done such a thing. This means that the win influenced his behavior, he became too generous.

If the gambler loss the money,it will affect his life total.When I loss 700 dollars in the gambling site,I had start this game with 100 dollars.But after trying to recover the loss,I had faced the continuous loss in the gambling site.So after I had loss of seven hundred dollars,I had decided to take a break in the gambling.It doesn’t mean I don’t do gambling anymore,just I had left some gap for the next game.The gap in the game was essential in the gambling sites.But many people are not ready to take some gap between the game.

Stress is a definite ordeal. Either a person will be able to pass this test and become stress-resistant, or he or she will break down psychologically. Life is full of various trials, and therefore sooner or later a person will face trials. And the loss of money is just a small test in his way

The gambler who possessed the continuous loss in the gambling will always get stress easily,to release the stress he need to arrange some funds to take a tour in the middle of the game.Whether he made the win or loss in the game is not the important one,but the gambler should ready to take a break mostly after the loss in the gambling.