Setting up financial structures before going into the family way

[radjie]

With cases of failed marriages and an increasing population of youths without proper training and upbringing, it's sad to know that the root cause of it is mainly as a result of poor financial structure and plan before entering into marriage.

Setting up a system that is consistently bringing money before getting into marriage is almost as important as choosing who to get married to.  as long as food and some basic needs of the children is not a problem, it's easy to tame your children to behave a certain way but if you lack the financial resource to taking care of your family, it's almost certain that you've lost your children to learning and depending more on others to meeting most of their needs which automatically defeat what ever moral you intend planting into their lives.

It's very necessary we educate ourselves and the younger ones coming behind us to take their financial life seriously before embarking into the journey of marriage, even the Bible that most religious people depends on for guidance strictly admonishes that "he that can not provide for his household is worse than an unbeliever" and so you understand how important your financial life his before thinking on settling down.

Your wife will in addition to the love you both shere , respect you the more if she knows that you've been very responsible when it comes to providing for the financial needs of the home and likewise, no man will want to loose A woman that support in providing for the needs in the home.

Don't be blended by love as a young person, their are times that love won't be enough to run a home and that's when factors like your financial strength can come through for you.

Being financially buoyant in marriage will even help you love your partner better so try and use your head.

No matter how much money we collect before marriage, it certainly does not guarantee household harmony in the future.  The point is that a partner who can accept the conditions under any circumstances will definitely provide happiness.  Many people have a lot of money but cannot feel happiness because they have a different lifestyle.

[wmaurik]

No matter how much money we collect before marriage, it certainly does not guarantee household harmony in the future.  The point is that a partner who can accept the conditions under any circumstances will definitely provide happiness.  Many people have a lot of money but cannot feel happiness because they have a different lifestyle.

Marriage is not only about lifestyle, but also about sharing ideas in building a household together with our respective partners. Because a lot of money will also run out more easily if it is not used properly in building a household. So that's where everyone needs the same ideas so that their household can run well for a long time because this is also intended for our next generation when we are old. Or when you are no longer able to earn an income every month because your age means you are no longer able to work.

I myself have also seen a lot of divorces among young people who have married because they are unable to build a household consistently and agree with their partner. Although most of the divorces that I see are based on economic factors so that harmony does not exist in the household. So in general, economic factors can also be a supporting part of household happiness if the couple can manage it well and are open enough between the two of them.

[bitLeap]

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Yes, I often hear that sentence, marriage is not just about uniting two souls, but uniting two different thoughts, and this must be fixed so that there are no conflicts that can cause big problems, we have to fix the two minds that must be united so that it can happen. so there is a definite goal so that a good goal occurs. Apart from that, in choosing a partner we also have to be smart, don't make the wrong choice because that will determine the future, because if we choose the wrong choice, of course we will have problems or changes in ourselves which will become a worse person because we are carried away by our partner who really has a personality. which is not good, so I think if we have a partner whose personality is not good, we can try to make him change into a better person.

and as you said, the man is the head of the family, so of course we have to be smart, wise and firm in carrying out a family relationship, lest we make mistakes that can tear a relationship apart, that's why I always think about You can have a clear income before getting married because this is of course very important.

Selfishness will basically be owned by every human being, and when we build a household we must be able to suppress our selfishness and not only us, of course, our partners must also do the same. Even if it can't be at least one of us who must understand more about our partner. As a human being we will definitely want to be understood, but if we force it, it causes problems.
Conflicts in the household are common, for me they are part of the spice of marriage, but we must also be able to resolve them. Do not let a third party interfere, even if that third party is part of the family, either the man's family or the woman's family, because believe me if there is a third party who intervenes it will cause problems to widen anywhere.

[junder]

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Yes, I often hear that sentence, marriage is not just about uniting two souls, but uniting two different thoughts, and this must be fixed so that there are no conflicts that can cause big problems, we have to fix the two minds that must be united so that it can happen. so there is a definite goal so that a good goal occurs. Apart from that, in choosing a partner we also have to be smart, don't make the wrong choice because that will determine the future, because if we choose the wrong choice, of course we will have problems or changes in ourselves which will become a worse person because we are carried away by our partner who really has a personality. which is not good, so I think if we have a partner whose personality is not good, we can try to make him change into a better person.

and as you said, the man is the head of the family, so of course we have to be smart, wise and firm in carrying out a family relationship, lest we make mistakes that can tear a relationship apart, that's why I always think about You can have a clear income before getting married because this is of course very important.

Selfishness will basically be owned by every human being, and when we build a household we must be able to suppress our selfishness and not only us, of course, our partners must also do the same. Even if it can't be at least one of us who must understand more about our partner. As a human being we will definitely want to be understood, but if we force it, it causes problems.
Conflicts in the household are common, for me they are part of the spice of marriage, but we must also be able to resolve them. Do not let a third party interfere, even if that third party is part of the family, either the man's family or the woman's family, because believe me if there is a third party who intervenes it will cause problems to widen anywhere.

Indeed, in marriage, of course we must be able to understand each other and understand each other so that problems do not occur that can trigger divorce, and we must be able to control our selfishness, because if not, ego is against ego and destruction will prevail, also by understanding each other Apart from that, we have to do it because it can also be the key to maintaining a relationship in the household. There are many cases of divorce because they cannot lower their respective egos, therefore it is important to be able to understand each other and reduce existing egotism.

It's true that conflict in the household is a normal thing,  but even so I don't think that means we can just relax without thinking about the risks of the actions we take however of course we have to prevent things that can trigger conflict, and as you said Don't intervene in the conflict that occurs,  because it's true that even if it's one of the men or women who intervenes,  it will only add to bigger problems, because in my opinion the marriage that takes place proves that someone is mature and ready Whatever happens, he is also ready to take responsibility for what happens to his household.

[nara1892]

With cases of failed marriages and an increasing population of youths without proper training and upbringing, it's sad to know that the root cause of it is mainly as a result of poor financial structure and plan before entering into marriage.

Setting up a system that is consistently bringing money before getting into marriage is almost as important as choosing who to get married to.  as long as food and some basic needs of the children is not a problem, it's easy to tame your children to behave a certain way but if you lack the financial resource to taking care of your family, it's almost certain that you've lost your children to learning and depending more on others to meeting most of their needs which automatically defeat what ever moral you intend planting into their lives.

It's very necessary we educate ourselves and the younger ones coming behind us to take their financial life seriously before embarking into the journey of marriage, even the Bible that most religious people depends on for guidance strictly admonishes that "he that can not provide for his household is worse than an unbeliever" and so you understand how important your financial life his before thinking on settling down.

Your wife will in addition to the love you both shere , respect you the more if she knows that you've been very responsible when it comes to providing for the financial needs of the home and likewise, no man will want to loose A woman that support in providing for the needs in the home.

Don't be blended by love as a young person, their are times that love won't be enough to run a home and that's when factors like your financial strength can come through for you.

Being financially buoyant in marriage will even help you love your partner better so try and use your head.

No matter how much money we collect before marriage, it certainly does not guarantee household harmony in the future.  The point is that a partner who can accept the conditions under any circumstances will definitely provide happiness.  Many people have a lot of money but cannot feel happiness because they have a different lifestyle.

So money is not everything but everything needs money and when you do not have enough finances then obviously family relationships will also not be fine and usually will be far from harmonious, so we cannot lie that money is something that is very important especially when you are married, this is not a matter of style but rather something that must be prepared. So by having enough money, it is clear that this will also be more able to unite our relationship with our partner to be more harmonious, because the ease of meeting needs becomes the main thing in family relationships and we can also see that not a few of them eventually choose to separate because of inadequate financial factors.

We must understand that in family relationships the most important thing is good economic strength and not just strong love, and the combination of financial capability with the bond of strong love will clearly become a harmonious family relationship.

[AnonBitCoiner]

There are things that we needed to consider before entering that marriage life, and like what you said having your own house is important,
you would not need to worry about the rent and you can use that as a spare or additional part of your budget.

Unlike when you are renting, that amount would need to be cut from your monthly salary and the obligation is needed to take care from time to time.

Setting things before entering that kind of obligation also helps to have a better future ahead, can bring comfort for the whole family.

Having your own house before marriage is good luck but in present age building a house is not an easy thing because everything is so expensive that a person cannot maintain a healthy life like in previous age. Therefore it is better if you have your own house before marriage but if you don't have any then live on rent as your age of marriage will end up but you will wait for building a house before getting marriage.

When someone lives on rent then at start he will have difficulty but with the passage of time when he start to spend according to planning then he will not face any difficulty therefore get married whenever you think that now its better timing. If we think about expenses all the time then we will not be able ever to involve in married life.

[0t3p0t]

There are things that we needed to consider before entering that marriage life, and like what you said having your own house is important,
you would not need to worry about the rent and you can use that as a spare or additional part of your budget.

Unlike when you are renting, that amount would need to be cut from your monthly salary and the obligation is needed to take care from time to time.

Setting things before entering that kind of obligation also helps to have a better future ahead, can bring comfort for the whole family.

Having your own house before marriage is good luck but in present age building a house is not an easy thing because everything is so expensive that a person cannot maintain a healthy life like in previous age. Therefore it is better if you have your own house before marriage but if you don't have any then live on rent as your age of marriage will end up but you will wait for building a house before getting marriage.

When someone lives on rent then at start he will have difficulty but with the passage of time when he start to spend according to planning then he will not face any difficulty therefore get married whenever you think that now its better timing. If we think about expenses all the time then we will not be able ever to involve in married life.

I agree and it is also safe to have a house before marriage because we don't really know where is the relationship will go and end. Conjugal porperty is a bit of a headache if you got a gold digger on you if things ends up so badly. It is always best to prepare for something we don't know future results.

[Webetcoins]

Selfishness will basically be owned by every human being, and when we build a household we must be able to suppress our selfishness and not only us, of course, our partners must also do the same. Even if it can't be at least one of us who must understand more about our partner. As a human being we will definitely want to be understood, but if we force it, it causes problems.
Conflicts in the household are common, for me they are part of the spice of marriage, but we must also be able to resolve them. Do not let a third party interfere, even if that third party is part of the family, either the man's family or the woman's family, because believe me if there is a third party who intervenes it will cause problems to widen anywhere.

I agree with that. As you said, a marriage can't have no problems at all, there will be a point where problems will arise, and to be honest, it's mostly the responsibility of the man to manage the situation and resolve the issues because it's scientifically proven that women have lower thinking abilities therefore they will not always be able to take the right decisions at the right time, and if both man and woman do the same thing, the relationship will surely reach the end of the road.

So, as you said, the man should not let any third entity enter the problems and widen it up, but he should take the matter into his own hands and handle it gracefully if he doesn't want the marriage or the relationship to end. If both parties are stubborn and egoistic, and none is ready to give up, unfortunately, this will end the relationship.

[Lanatsa]

Selfishness will basically be owned by every human being, and when we build a household we must be able to suppress our selfishness and not only us, of course, our partners must also do the same. Even if it can't be at least one of us who must understand more about our partner. As a human being we will definitely want to be understood, but if we force it, it causes problems.
Conflicts in the household are common, for me they are part of the spice of marriage, but we must also be able to resolve them. Do not let a third party interfere, even if that third party is part of the family, either the man's family or the woman's family, because believe me if there is a third party who intervenes it will cause problems to widen anywhere.

I agree with that. As you said, a marriage can't have no problems at all, there will be a point where problems will arise, and to be honest, it's mostly the responsibility of the man to manage the situation and resolve the issues because it's scientifically proven that women have lower thinking abilities therefore they will not always be able to take the right decisions at the right time, and if both man and woman do the same thing, the relationship will surely reach the end of the road.

So, as you said, the man should not let any third entity enter the problems and widen it up, but he should take the matter into his own hands and handle it gracefully if he doesn't want the marriage or the relationship to end. If both parties are stubborn and egoistic, and none is ready to give up, unfortunately, this will end the relationship.

On the time that you do involved yourself into marriage on which this is a forever kind of stuff on which you would really be that needing to make it sustain and of course for you do able to sustain
then you would really be needing for you to have that financial capacity on doing so. You should really be that prepared when it comes to this situation on which you cant really just that make
yourself that getting involved with marriage thing if you arent that prepared and if you arent really that having those kind of earning on which you would really be having those
financial concern type of quarrels and arguments in the time that you would really be seeing that you dont have such supplies or whatsoever.

This is why as a guy or man then it would be always wise that you should really be that mindful about this simple stuff or lets say its a default thing to do on which
you should really be that making yourself that prepared and having those kind of financial capacity on the time  that you do touch up marriage life already.

[bitLeap]

Selfishness will basically be owned by every human being, and when we build a household we must be able to suppress our selfishness and not only us, of course, our partners must also do the same. Even if it can't be at least one of us who must understand more about our partner. As a human being we will definitely want to be understood, but if we force it, it causes problems.
Conflicts in the household are common, for me they are part of the spice of marriage, but we must also be able to resolve them. Do not let a third party interfere, even if that third party is part of the family, either the man's family or the woman's family, because believe me if there is a third party who intervenes it will cause problems to widen anywhere.

I agree with that. As you said, a marriage can't have no problems at all, there will be a point where problems will arise, and to be honest, it's mostly the responsibility of the man to manage the situation and resolve the issues because it's scientifically proven that women have lower thinking abilities therefore they will not always be able to take the right decisions at the right time, and if both man and woman do the same thing, the relationship will surely reach the end of the road.

So, as you said, the man should not let any third entity enter the problems and widen it up, but he should take the matter into his own hands and handle it gracefully if he doesn't want the marriage or the relationship to end. If both parties are stubborn and egoistic, and none is ready to give up, unfortunately, this will end the relationship.

I've heard that men will tend to use logic and women will be more likely to use their feelings. From there, we should already know what the weaknesses of men and women are in terms of their tendency to use their thinking and feeling power. I mean when women are more likely to use their feelings, then we know what we have to guard against, and so do men.
Actually in the beginning we discussed about preparing finances before starting a family or those who are already married. But if we talk about marriage, then it will be more widespread. Actually, finances are one of the factors that cause a marriage to fall apart, but this is only one factor of many other factors that can make a family crumble.

[shinratensei_]

No matter how much money we collect before marriage, it certainly does not guarantee household harmony in the future.  The point is that a partner who can accept the conditions under any circumstances will definitely provide happiness.  Many people have a lot of money but cannot feel happiness because they have a different lifestyle.

money is one way to retain the marriage its no doubt statistic have spoken that many divorces linked strongly with economic condition therefore being well off before marriage is a plus point I mean yes maybe finding partner that could accept our condition is great and all but how long until they can stay accepting about it? if we never improve we wll more likely become nuisance instead of being accepted in the long term, so personally I don't believe there is such thing called unconditional love, its only unconditional when everything seems all rainbow basically at the start of relationship, but give it enough time and we'd overthink about our economic condition and so on.
therefore even though many people undermine the good effect of being economically stable for marriage, its indeed one of the most important thing moving forward.

[fredericktaylor]

Most of the problems in our single family are due to lack of financial solvency. If there are seven people in a family, if four people have a good source of income, then the problem is less in that family. These problems arise in most families due to lack of financial solvency. When most people in a family have financial solvency then the problems will be reduced a lot. We have made everything so difficult now and we need more money to show up and impress others. I totally agree with the above saying that I believe a wife or child brings its own wealth and often we find our way to that wealth when we are married.

[carlisle1]

No matter how much money we collect before marriage, it certainly does not guarantee household harmony in the future.  The point is that a partner who can accept the conditions under any circumstances will definitely provide happiness.  Many people have a lot of money but cannot feel happiness because they have a different lifestyle.

money is one way to retain the marriage its no doubt statistic have spoken that many divorces linked strongly with economic condition therefore being well off before marriage is a plus point I mean yes maybe finding partner that could accept our condition is great and all but how long until they can stay accepting about it? if we never improve we wll more likely become nuisance instead of being accepted in the long term, so personally I don't believe there is such thing called unconditional love, its only unconditional when everything seems all rainbow basically at the start of relationship, but give it enough time and we'd overthink about our economic condition and so on.
therefore even though many people undermine the good effect of being economically stable for marriage, its indeed one of the most important thing moving forward.

Yeah, it's a plus and will help to avoid problem with budgeting for your daily needs, I agree that having that financial capability will really
help to strengthen the married life of certain couple.

Though not all will use it as basis, but if you have that chance to continue saving for your future before getting into this obligation, better to think
ahead of time and predict the possible life that you may have if you are financially incapability.

[wmaurik]

I agree and it is also safe to have a house before marriage because we don't really know where is the relationship will go and end. Conjugal porperty is a bit of a headache if you got a gold digger on you if things ends up so badly. It is always best to prepare for something we don't know future results.

Owning a house before marriage is indeed a pretty good idea, but it probably only happens around rich young people or rich people who are not yet married. Meanwhile, young people of modest means or young people from poor families will definitely find it quite difficult to own a house before getting married, even though they may be able to meet all the wedding costs and also other costs within their own household. But what is still lacking there is that they have to continue living in their parents' house or rent another house as a temporary residence after marriage.

[xSkylarx]

 You have a point because being financially free or stable before going into marriage and having kids is an advantage. I will say an advantage because no big problems will arise or your married life will be very easy as you have money, unlike going into it without preparation. But I will tell you that this only applies in some cases because others will go into marriage without it and do their best and hard work to achieve their goals. I have seen people like this and stated that if they are single, for sure they keep partying with their money and have no point in their lives. Your partner brings you success, and there will always be hardships in every marriage.

[criptoevangelista]

The financial part is very important for a couple, when everything is difficult and there is a lack of things at home, such as food, or late bills, it is very difficult to maintain a good coexistence, you have to have a very strong love behind it.

Some people like to manage the financial part together with their husband or wife, others prefer not to get involved, it's a very private thing.

But one thing is certain, the journey in the world of cryptocurrencies is individual.

[Gozie51]

Some people like to manage the financial part together with their husband or wife, others prefer not to get involved, it's a very private thing.

A home well knitted will easily work pass difficult times because of the cooperation in the midst of lack. The home that has full presence of the woman will flourish more as the woman is known as the home builder. So I wonder a wife that won't support the husband in investment. Women are planners and they can help a man to achieve his dream even where the man is not investing and extravagant, she can reschedule him to investing.

[Getmon]

I ran into a discussion like this yesterday. The majority of us recognized that we stabilized our finances before beginning to construct a family. Somebody said that it is more significant for men because they are perceived as heads of the family. Marriage is difficult, and when children are born, it becomes even more difficult. Having a sound financial set up will facilitate the difficulties in the family.

They say money cannot buy everything but living in a comfortable house, being able to send our children to a fine school, and having extra money and time for socializing are things essential to balance our lives and be more happy and more successful.

[AVE5]

Love could affect your family life on two different ways either the good side or the bad side but your inabilities to figure what it offers you would blindedly enfold your mindsets in the sense that you would always think whatever you do about your love life is right.
Love could make you lost opportunities because your loving emotions makes you comfortable at your states of being but otherwise, love could also encourage you to buckle up and meet up with your awaiting opportunities. It all depends the realistic possessions of your partner whereas, some partners would make you feel comfortably to settle for less while some partners embraces, energizes you with the encouragement to make meaningful life in your endivoirs.

[slapper]

Love could affect your family life on two different ways either the good side or the bad side but your inabilities to figure what it offers you would blindedly enfold your mindsets in the sense that you would always think whatever you do about your love life is right.
Love could make you lost opportunities because your loving emotions makes you comfortable at your states of being but otherwise, love could also encourage you to buckle up and meet up with your awaiting opportunities. It all depends the realistic possessions of your partner whereas, some partners would make you feel comfortably to settle for less while some partners embraces, energizes you with the encouragement to make meaningful life in your endivoirs.

Love may be a soothing blanket, nurturing and helpful, helping one achieve goals. Love can also offer a safe harbor that limits growth and potential. Balance, right? In my experience, nourishing love pulls us ahead, encouraging us to greatness. Too much protection can lead to stagnation. Partnership growth and understanding are crucial, in my opinion

Your view on partner influence is correct. Our relationships can greatly influence us. They can encourage us or hold us steady. How their trust in us affects our trajectory is fascinating. When partners share the same goals and support each other, success and fulfillment are easier. However, we must be mindful of whether our partnership is a launching pad or a nurturing nest