Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling.

[piebeyb]

We want to share our happiness and pain. Because there is no other way to make them better. When we are very happy, we share it with others. And we increase our happiness. We share our pain with others. Because when we share it with others, our pain decreases. We are social beings. Also, we are selfish beings. We always think of ourselves at the expense of others. That's why we share our experiences with others. Isn't that why social media platforms are so popular?

I agree that it is good to share our success stories with family and friends, like birthdays, wedding anniversaries, childbirth and other celebrations, both physically and on social media. I however agree with the OP that it is not wise to anounce your financial matters on social media or telling just anybody what your worth.

When you announce your gamble wins to people, there's chances that some of your family and friends will become your enemies, because most of these people will see your win as a free money that they're entitled to. Some wicked ones will keep coming to you for loans and financial help until they're sure that the money is finished, and you'd be their enemy if you don't give them. Some can even plan to harm you, just to get collect the money from you, so it's better to be safe and be discreet with your huge winnings.

I don't know why everyone always wants recognition from other people that they are successful and have won big at gambling. In fact, this is something that should be hidden, even though we actually have a good goal by encouraging other people by showing off our winnings, but sometimes that's not the case. everyone who sees and hears our victory can have the same intentions as we want, sometimes they are not as enthusiastic as you think, in fact they can misinterpret it. It could be that they actually play even crazier to be like you or have other bad impacts that they really don't deserve to know about either.

We don't talk from the perspective of people hating us or borrowing money from us because we announced our winnings, not only that, there are many other things that other people don't need to hear, for example, as I explained above, sometimes people who are bankrupt lose their gambling. After hearing that you have won big, they usually have the confidence to gamble again by borrowing money, for example from loan sharks, and are confident that that day is their luck too. even though every luck is different and not the same.

[hyudien]

It's better we selective to tells other people about our winning because we don't knows what they will thinks about us and our winning. The less people knows about our winning, that will be better for us because we can prevents from the bad guys that will do something bad to us, especially if we wins much money. We must protects ourselves from that bad guys around us because we don't knows who will do that. If we can tells our wins to our relatives that close to us, they will accept it and we can asks them to celebrate it together. They will not do something bad to us and will congratulate us because of our winning so they will deserves to hear of our winning in gambling. It's our decisions to tells who can knows about our winning and those who doesn't deserves to know about our winning.

When something is related to money, then we have to be careful, exactly as you said, we don't know what other people think when we have a certain amount of money, they could have evil thoughts to control our money. We play without them knowing and we also have the full right not to tell about our wins.
However, for certain people I like to tell them when I win big, because I am used to sharing to just treat them to coffee and they also do the same thing when they win a big amount. However, we cannot do that to everyone because there must be limits and only those closest to us and we also know about them.
Moreover, when I play, they often watch it, so for me it is a must that they also enjoy it. Although that is also our decision because the money we use is our own money.

[Sandra_hakeem]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place.

For whatever reasons anyone would wanna share their wins, that's up to them... They'd basically wanna give it some publicity cause mostimes, they have friends that don't feel they'd ever get a win regardless of how many times they try.

Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling,

That's exactly the sole purpose of posting them.. Mostimes, casinos would go out of their way to post recent slips, just to motivate gamblers that would wanna quit/ newbies that wanna start their gambling journey.
You are not expecting casinos to shut down cause you wanna focus on quitting, do you? Just go ahead and live with it.

[Dewi Aries]

Yes that is really true because you may not know the person gambling story and what has really happened to the person, because of the aim of gambling and when the person hear about your story you it becomes a problem because the person will always remember those time he had a bad experience that has cost him a lot and when he has tried to forget it a little and you remind the person he fell like he wants to die and he get depressed immediately because of the story you told him has made him remember his bad story, why he is supposed to be happy

I think hearing something from someone's gambling experience is a very normal thing. Why is listening to stories from fellow gamblers a problem? Doesn't that all happen to each individual gambler? If you have a bad experience in gambling such as wanting to die or being depressed, why would you repeat or play again? I think it is stupid to repeat something that has happened to him.

Of course, especially if we are in an environment that is really active in gambling, or what I mean is especially if you have many friends in your environment who are also involved in gambling, then it is very natural for us to hear various stories and experiences experienced by some of the friends we have. Honestly, I don't think that hearing stories from other people's gambling experiences is a problem, because these situations really happen and I also often hear several of my friends telling stories about events they have experienced, whether they are events that lead to disappointment such as losing money in a game. large amounts or experiencing failure in the scenario of getting a big win. In terms of impact, yes, it is true that there is a possibility that someone who hears an interesting story from an experience experienced by another gambler might be able to be a motivation, but I think it all comes back to your own personality, because if you know about what gambling really is like in the sense of something that other people experience, such as a big win, will not necessarily happen to you, even if for example you do it the same way, so I don't think you will be influenced by other people's experiences. Another thing, yes, I agree with you that repeating the same mistakes is stupid.

[Issa56]

We want to share our happiness and pain. Because there is no other way to make them better. When we are very happy, we share it with others. And we increase our happiness. We share our pain with others.

Do you think the people that you are planning to share your happiness with really want you to be happy? We are in a world where people you see smiling with you don’t really want you to be successful, so whenever you tell them about your success story, they always feel bad, and some might end up doing things that will hurt you. So it’s better when you are happy, just keep it to yourself or share it with only your family members, maybe your wife and children.

But no matter how close you are to someone, always mind what you tell them, there are things that are supposed to be kept to yourself alone. Most people you see always want you to be in pain, that’s what gives them joy, not your happiness.

[Casdinyard]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I highly agree. I'd even argue that you should keep shit to yourself cause it doesn't bring you anything especially if you're not even sponsored by the casino you're playing in.

The thing is that this attracts negativity towards the people around you, when you post your winnings in social media, or when you start tattle-telling on yourself among families and friends. You tell them you're winning and they automatically think of you as someone they can rely upon when they are down on their luck and they need a few dollars. Some may even go to even more desperate lengths and go for abuse, crimes, gaslighting, and all that shit just so they can get some dollars out of you, all of which shitty things to subject yourself to.

So keep your mouth shut and gamble in silence, just let the people you trust the most about it so they can stop you when you go stupid and become a revenge gambler, otherwise don't go out of your way telling people that you're winning this much when you gamble, makes you look like a clown on the internet, attracts newbies who  think they can do the same thing as you, and bad actors who would wan to take advantage of you.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

This topic is something that has been discussed on this board like just a few months ago, but on that thread, the op focused more on talking about enemies who might end up wanting to hurt you for the suceess and so on, I did contribute there, but to be honest with you, I didnt even think along this line which you have mentioned here, which is about arousing an addicted gambler to want to continue gambling even after the addicted gambler had made a resolution to stop gambling.

Well, what I have to say to the above is that, temptation is real, and an addicted gambler who has made a resolution to stop gambling must be tempted after he or she have claimed to have quit gambling, it is through this temptation that he or she confirm within him or herself that he or she have finally grown a steel ball to stop gambling, or whether he or she still needs to go back and work on his will power, so as to be able to stand firm against such temptation not to fall for it.

What I am saying in essence is that, as much as it's really good for us to always be careful whom we share our personal experiences with, it is also hard or impossible for us to know who to be truthful to, and who not to tell the truth, and when we make the mistake of telling the wrong person the truth out of good will and intention, and that person end up doing what he or she is not supposed to, it's not our fault and we shouldn't be blamed.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

        -   Not everyone who reads or knows about jackpot winners in gambling casinos appreciates the story of gambling winners in casinos. Yes, most people may think that the gambler got lucky in casino gambling. But not everyone is more motivated to gamble.

Let me give myself an example. I have read many times of people who got jackpots in gambling who suddenly got really rich, but even when that didn't cause me to continue gambling and become addicted to gambling, But all I'm thinking about is continuing with my usual gambling; that's all I'm doing, although I don't deny that it crossed my mind that I could win the jackpot or experience real luck in gambling, just like that.

[Gheka]

Yes that is really true because you may not know the person gambling story and what has really happened to the person, because of the aim of gambling and when the person hear about your story you it becomes a problem because the person will always remember those time he had a bad experience that has cost him a lot and when he has tried to forget it a little and you remind the person he fell like he wants to die and he get depressed immediately because of the story you told him has made him remember his bad story, why he is supposed to be happy

I think hearing something from someone's gambling experience is a very normal thing. Why is listening to stories from fellow gamblers a problem? Doesn't that all happen to each individual gambler? If you have a bad experience in gambling such as wanting to die or being depressed, why would you repeat or play again? I think it is stupid to repeat something that has happened to him.

In fact, it is a matter of the individual's stance and ideology after hearing the story, especially not to scrutinize too much and show an unsympathetic look, understanding such factors, a story about gambling is just a tabloid information, which can be discussed and contributed to summarize mistakes and come up with a more correct ideology. Moreover, no matter how bad an experience is, there will still be points to overcome in the future, gambling does not block the escape routes we find, the truth is that we are blocking our thinking and our opportunities to return

[Cookdata]

We want to share our happiness and pain. Because there is no other way to make them better. When we are very happy, we share it with others. And we increase our happiness. We share our pain with others. Because when we share it with others, our pain decreases. We are social beings. Also, we are selfish beings. We always think of ourselves at the expense of others. That's why we share our experiences with others. Isn't that why social media platforms are so popular?

Sharing pain with others without having a solution means nothing, most often gamblers hardly share their losses with people, what's now the use of sharing the profits stories with others, it will only bring nothing from people than entitlement like your close family members and friends asking money from you and financial support, also probably from girlfriends who add nothing to you and some of your pals that will start to see you as the next ticket meal.

If you win a significant amount of money from gambling and you think it's worth sharing the success story with people, it should be from people that you know are not move by money even though it's from your families. Some of us do have jealous families like brothers/sisters who don't want their siblings to have something, some families even forbid their people from gambling, these people are the least to share your gambling profits news.

[Blitzboy]

We want to share our happiness and pain. Because there is no other way to make them better. When we are very happy, we share it with others. And we increase our happiness. We share our pain with others. Because when we share it with others, our pain decreases. We are social beings. Also, we are selfish beings. We always think of ourselves at the expense of others. That's why we share our experiences with others. Isn't that why social media platforms are so popular?

Sharing pain with others without having a solution means nothing, most often gamblers hardly share their losses with people, what's now the use of sharing the profits stories with others, it will only bring nothing from people than entitlement like your close family members and friends asking money from you and financial support, also probably from girlfriends who add nothing to you and some of your pals that will start to see you as the next ticket meal.

If you win a significant amount of money from gambling and you think it's worth sharing the success story with people, it should be from people that you know are not move by money even though it's from your families. Some of us do have jealous families like brothers/sisters who don't want their siblings to have something, some families even forbid their people from gambling, these people are the least to share your gambling profits news.

Big wins are great. Its thrilling and confirmation you're a winner. But not everyone wants you to win. Some envy your success. Get greedy. They start treating you like a piggy bank. I know these types. With hands extended and sob tales ready, they'll emerge. They'll guilt and manipulate you for your pie. But remember, money and success are symbols of hard effort, smarts, and courage. Dont lose that.

Its not selfish. Protecting yourself, your future, your family. Celebrate with people who mattered before and after the great win. They deserve some of your delight. And the rest? Let their envy fester. Teach kids perseverance and hard effort. You've earned success honestly. Dont let others guilt you.

[Frankolala]

We want to share our happiness and pain. Because there is no other way to make them better. When we are very happy, we share it with others. And we increase our happiness. We share our pain with others.

Do you think the people that you are planning to share your happiness with really want you to be happy? We are in a world where people you see smiling with you don’t really want you to be successful, so whenever you tell them about your success story, they always feel bad, and some might end up doing things that will hurt you. So it’s better when you are happy, just keep it to yourself or share it with only your family members, maybe your wife and children.

But no matter how close you are to someone, always mind what you tell them, there are things that are supposed to be kept to yourself alone. Most people you see always want you to be in pain, that’s what gives them joy, not your happiness.

Some people cannot keep secrets and whatever happens to them they tell everyone whether good or bad. Such gamblers will not be able to hide their wins from people because of their loud mouth. There are some other gamblers that think telling people about their win will make those people respect them, unknown to them that whoever will respect you will do it, even if you don't win anything.

I don't like sharing my financial life with people especially if I win big, I keep it a secret because I don't need anyone to know that such funds in in my possession for my own safety and freedom to mingle with people as usual without any side talks or evil plan.

[ethereumhunter]

When something is related to money, then we have to be careful, exactly as you said, we don't know what other people think when we have a certain amount of money, they could have evil thoughts to control our money. We play without them knowing and we also have the full right not to tell about our wins.
However, for certain people I like to tell them when I win big, because I am used to sharing to just treat them to coffee and they also do the same thing when they win a big amount. However, we cannot do that to everyone because there must be limits and only those closest to us and we also know about them.
Moreover, when I play, they often watch it, so for me it is a must that they also enjoy it. Although that is also our decision because the money we use is our own money.

It's better we don't shows our money to them, especially wins money to many people to distract their minds from the bad things that they can do to us. We can tells them that we gets bonus from our job and we wants to celebrate it with them. We don't have to tells the truth to them and only tells that to those who we trusted to avoids many bad things that can happens. We don't knows what their reactions when they see we wins much money. Someone can becomes bad and doesn't like with what other people gets and they can do anything to gets that money so we must be careful when we wants tells our winning to people. When we can share something to them without telling about our winning, they will not thinks anything and even they thinks that we wins, that will be up to them.

[TheGreatPython]

If you flex every gambling win you make then the results will be bad in the future, you will only be labeled as an arrogant person and no one will want to approach you, gambling that benefits you is better to just keep it in your heart, don't let it happen. making you the target of many people, especially criminals who want to control your money. There have been many cases where jackpot winners lost their lives due to robbery or murder.

Even if it's not about criminals or having security concerns, some people might not be genuinely happy about you winning in gambling even if they act like they are happy for you, and such people can have an evil eye on your luck and you will start losing from that point onwards. So, it's definitely not recommended to share your winnings in gambling with others even if you think they are very close to you because you can't trust anyone these days.

Another reason to not do that is, that some people who come to know that you have won a significant amount in gambling might start asking for money. I'm not kidding, some will ask for loans and stuff and some would even ask for treats and stuff like family members, cousin friends, etc.

[sotelorene]

I think you are correct but I will like to look at this thread in this aspect, let's assume after winning hugely from gamble and then you see some of your guys that's gambling, you know it's always hard to keep mouth shut when we win in gamble most person like sharing it as a kind of testimony so In the process of sharing the success story you never knew one of those person you are sharing the story with is a criminal or a kidnapper, I mean this is indirectly telling them to come and rob or kidnap you cause you have created an awareness and this how most persons are being robbed or kidnap just by sharing stuffs like this and later they will be asking who has done this to them not knowing it was what they have said.

[Obari]

If you are saying this,then I guess it might  just be from a point of experience.If you have won in betting before,and some person did something about it that is not good,that looks so bad,but that isn't the reason why when I will win big,I won't make my friends and people that used to play games with me won't hear,infact,the joy will make me jump up shouting to the hearing of everybody, because winning doesn't always come,it comes seldomly,it comes once in a blue moon,and when you have been lucky to be among the winning people,why won't one be happy,and a way of showing your happiness is by telling people.

[harapan]

In all aspects of life, it's generally advised not to overshare about your life, especially if it's something that has to do with money, and that includes how much money you've earned or lost through gambling. That also includes lottery tickets and anything similar that distributes large amounts of money. It's not about who is triggered by your success story; social media is filled with so-called entrepreneurs that show off their supposed wealth; your story as an individual won't make a difference. If someone is motivated to gamble more because he's addicted, after you post about your winnings, it's not your issue, but one they need to resolve themselves. The internet is filled with success stories; hardly anyone ever posts about failures.

What's happening in your life should stay in your life, despite what the subject is. I'm not fond of oversharing, and delicate issues should only be discussed with people you trust or professionals.

Absolutely correct,I totally agree with your contribution.Lately, I've noticed that a lot of people are deficient to good news and successful stories,and that's why some people have decided to safeguard their lives by maintaining privacy.

Privacy these days does not only imply to whereabouts or locations/residents e.t.c Privacy entails and comprises of your financial  life and how other personal informations are been transferred and handled by other people.
However, people that know how to keep their life intact and private knows how to protect their sanity, safety and that's an overall form of self-care.
Keeping ones life private is a personal choice,even as it's not everybody that knows how this system works.Some people value their personal informations and space,which is why they prefer to maintain an independent life.

[Koadharber]

In all aspects of life, it's generally advised not to overshare about your life, especially if it's something that has to do with money, and that includes how much money you've earned or lost through gambling. That also includes lottery tickets and anything similar that distributes large amounts of money. It's not about who is triggered by your success story; social media is filled with so-called entrepreneurs that show off their supposed wealth; your story as an individual won't make a difference. If someone is motivated to gamble more because he's addicted, after you post about your winnings, it's not your issue, but one they need to resolve themselves. The internet is filled with success stories; hardly anyone ever posts about failures.

What's happening in your life should stay in your life, despite what the subject is. I'm not fond of oversharing, and delicate issues should only be discussed with people you trust or professionals.

Absolutely correct,I totally agree with your contribution.Lately, I've noticed that a lot of people are deficient to good news and successful stories,and that's why some people have decided to safeguard their lives by maintaining privacy.

Privacy these days does not only imply to whereabouts or locations/residents e.t.c Privacy entails and comprises of your financial  life and how other personal informations are been transferred and handled by other people.
However, people that know how to keep their life intact and private knows how to protect their sanity, safety and that's an overall form of self-care.
Keeping ones life private is a personal choice,even as it's not everybody that knows how this system works.Some people value their personal informations and space,which is why they prefer to maintain an independent life.

People would really be that only mindful about privacy on the moment that they would really be having that bad experience just because of exposing too much out of these informations on which these things should be supposedly to be private on which it is indeed true that its not bad to show off some happy reaction but speaking up too much about on how much you do won or something then there's high chance that you will really be facing up some potential stealing up with funds specially if this one is really done physically or even still have chance about getting hacked when online.  When you do win up in gambling
then it will really be that undersdable that you cant be able to avoid such kind of boost up when it comes into your emotions but always be mindful about on things on which arent supposed to be shared up.

[oll]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Of course, we may not talk about our successes and luck in gambling, but human nature does the opposite, because when we lose, we will never want to tell anyone that we are losers, even our close friends. But if we suddenly get lucky, we will happily want to shout about it even to strangers, by the way, this contributes to the spread and publicity of gambling. Because of this, a random person will think "how am I worse than this fool who shouts about his luck" and will also try to win money in gambling.

In addition, do not forget that there are casino and gambling streamers, influencers in this area and they show how they win more than everyone else, because if they did not succeed, the streams would stop, although perhaps they have signed an agreement with the casino on financing from streams.

[promise444c5]

Of course, we may not talk about our successes and luck in gambling, but human nature does the opposite, because when we lose, we will never want to tell anyone that we are losers, even our close friends. But if we suddenly get lucky, we will happily want to shout about it even to strangers, by the way, this contributes to the spread and publicity of gambling. Because of this, a random person will think "how am I worse than this fool who shouts about his luck" and will also try to win money in gambling.

In addition, do not forget that there are casino and gambling streamers, influencers in this area and they show how they win more than everyone else, because if they did not succeed, the streams would stop, although perhaps they have signed an agreement with the casino on financing from streams.

Yeah! human nature seem to be  doing the opposite or tends to do the opposite most times but all you need is control. It's simple, once you have a win in gambling, the excitement from that win triggers you to do so many irrational things that later you might be wondering how did I even made mention of this and that... but it can be controlled nmw, you(not basically you though  ) just have to learn how to control it because it's could be risky exposing privacy.
If you win keep it toyourself, if you loose keep it to yourself .... that's how you should roll .thus, if your identity is complete anonymous  you can do the opposite no one is gonna know the person behind the mask