2 years old kids alone at home for hours, while the father goes gambling

[Accardo]

Imagine the consequences of the emotional stress he has caused his kids. Not just about being other people's kids, his own very children, being neglected for the sake of gambling. Could it be that he was groomed with a gambling addict, or that he developed it himself and the habit is beginning to ruin his thoughts. However, the man is meant to go in for what he's caused to his family. The head of the home should be in control and protect harm from reaching his home. Not instigating harm on his kids. Carelessness on others, affects oneself too, looking at his gambling habit, he would be a reckless gambler. Because his household duties have been carelessly mismanaged by him. No way he would adequately manage his bankroll. It's good his wife spoke up to the trouble she's been leaving with all the years. More may be unveiled about the man's carelessness, if the police investigate further.

poor wife and children if her husband is the backbone of the family, but if the wife has enough income to support her parents it is better to leave the man, even when the man is free from punishment I am sure he will repeat the same thing, and really feel sorry for his son who can influence his mentality and will become a follower of his father's characteristics. When he grows up, it's better to stay away

For the safety of his sons the man needs to stay away from the family. Detaining him wouldn't put an end to his compulsive gambling habit.  The story shows how the woman came back from work or somewhere, it means the woman has some work doing or business that yields her some fundings for the upkeep of her kids. However, the man in question wasn't a good husband to her, and that's what matters, she's not supposed to spend more time with him, for her mental stability. Instead of letting him disappear from the kids and wife, which could be dangerous for the children growing up without a father, it's better they join hands together with the man's siblings or brothers, and take him to a therapist, where he'll be treated from gambling addiction. A man needs to be in a family, so if he's not strong enough mentally, he should be helped out of the trouble, so that he could resume his work as the head of the family.

[Hirose UK]

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I had heard this sort of incident for the first time in my life and was astonished to see such an urge to gamble that the gambler forgot his fatherhood and left his 2 years kids at home. How strange and sad is that? This means that gamblers love gambling more than anything and even their small children are not important to them.

This is also the first time I have heard of father who had the heart to leave his child for such long time just because he prioritized gambling activity, this is an incident that really hit us all hard.
No matter how bad gambler is, they should look after and protect their children, not leave them at home alone just for fun that they might still be able to do tomorrow.
From things like this I sure he will experience various problems such as problems with the law and also problems with his wife because I am sure his wife, who is the mother of these children, will be very angry and very disappointed.
Worse things can happen with divorce and division in family relationship, he may no longer be trusted to look after or be able to see his own child.
But all of this is consequence that he must accept for his mistakes and this is valuable experience and case for all of us to learn from and as much as possible not to do the same thing.

[LUCKMCFLY]

<Snip>

It is very true, things are done that way, but a 2-year-old or even a 3-year-old child needs all the attention from his or her father or mother, even both, if a person starts to look at the things, you can sense that if the father is married regardless of his occupation, then the mother must be attentive to her son and vice versa, but it is totally irresponsible not to be attentive to her son, furthermore if she is busy and leaves her son aside, it is not snothing, it's something that looks very bad, in particular, as I have said before, I have a 2-year-old daughter, and an 8-year-old son, and even so they receive a lot of attention, I would say too much. because basically children are always beings that need everything, and they need to be filled with love and affection, that is why the attention given to them must be the best, and in this order of teachings we, however, are always going to be different in everything sense.

Children at these ages need everything, for me things can be done in different ways, so if the parents cannot take care of their children, it doesn't matter much to them to look for a nanny while they work, but yes, with extreme vigilance. through the cameras, the audio, everything to know thoroughly everything that is said, what is said and how the child is treated, this is very important, children are the future, it is all that can be shown, therefore That is why we as adults must treat them very well, so that they only have good experiences in life, so from a young age they must give them everything they can give, affectionate love, attention, all this is necessary in the life of a child, I always go overboard from time to time to protect my children, and to spoil them, but if I don't do it, who will see me do it? Nobody, then I say something, if people don't love their children and don't value them? What do they have them for? a child is a thousand times more important than any game.

[Oilacris]

Imagine the consequences of the emotional stress he has caused his kids. Not just about being other people's kids, his own very children, being neglected for the sake of gambling. Could it be that he was groomed with a gambling addict, or that he developed it himself and the habit is beginning to ruin his thoughts. However, the man is meant to go in for what he's caused to his family. The head of the home should be in control and protect harm from reaching his home. Not instigating harm on his kids. Carelessness on others, affects oneself too, looking at his gambling habit, he would be a reckless gambler. Because his household duties have been carelessly mismanaged by him. No way he would adequately manage his bankroll. It's good his wife spoke up to the trouble she's been leaving with all the years. More may be unveiled about the man's carelessness, if the police investigate further.

poor wife and children if her husband is the backbone of the family, but if the wife has enough income to support her parents it is better to leave the man, even when the man is free from punishment I am sure he will repeat the same thing, and really feel sorry for his son who can influence his mentality and will become a follower of his father's characteristics. When he grows up, it's better to stay away

For the safety of his sons the man needs to stay away from the family. Detaining him wouldn't put an end to his compulsive gambling habit.  The story shows how the woman came back from work or somewhere, it means the woman has some work doing or business that yields her some fundings for the upkeep of her kids. However, the man in question wasn't a good husband to her, and that's what matters, she's not supposed to spend more time with him, for her mental stability. Instead of letting him disappear from the kids and wife, which could be dangerous for the children growing up without a father, it's better they join hands together with the man's siblings or brothers, and take him to a therapist, where he'll be treated from gambling addiction. A man needs to be in a family, so if he's not strong enough mentally, he should be helped out of the trouble, so that he could resume his work as the head of the family.

Cant be able to put him into his gambling habit? How he would be able to play literally if he was detained? Pretty sure this is the only way that he would really be able to felt out that he would completely stop his gambling addiction and would really be making out those realizations inside cell. Well, if people wont really be able to make those realizations before disaster happens then
let those consequences be tasted up but well it is already too late. The thing has been done and the trauma on his kids are there. So it is really just that right that he would really be
needing to have those consequences on which it is really just that the right thing for him to experience. Its a totally irresponsible act and this is one of the things that gambling addiction
could really affect someone on which right thinking would turn out to be blurred.

[Mia Chloe]

Upon first sight of this topic without even reading through, logically a vast majority of persons will definitely tag this situation as a case of gambling addiction which is understandable. Actions of such nature are what gives a majority of people the urge to conclude that gambling is a bad act which is actually not true.
It is rationally not right for someone to leave his kids for hours just to stake some money and possibly catch some fun. Yes some persons will argue the fact that he has freedom of will forgetting the fact that he being a father entails certain responsibilities which should not be ignored.
Such kids could end up in a bad relationship with their father due to actions of this nature. Gambling is supposed to be a fun activity not a job.

[wheelz1200]

Brutal.  I mean this probably happens more often than not.  Not just for gambling but for other things too.  I read one time a guy went out all night to a bar and left his infant home under 1 years old.  That's when you kmwo the addiction has gone way too far.  Hopefully the dude gets the help he needs.  Obviously it's an issue he needs to address.

[terrific]

Such kids could end up in a bad relationship with their father due to actions of this nature.

Not just that, there could have been a worse thing that has happened to the kid when his father left them all alone. That father will definitely regret for the rest of his life if ever that incident became a terrible incident and accident.

Gambling is supposed to be a fun activity not a job.

There are people that do really work for the gambling industry, it's their job and it's different. I agree that it should be a fun activity and if someone's going to have fun, make sure that your errands and obligations are done for that day.

[wxa7115]

Upon first sight of this topic without even reading through, logically a vast majority of persons will definitely tag this situation as a case of gambling addiction which is understandable. Actions of such nature are what gives a majority of people the urge to conclude that gambling is a bad act which is actually not true.
It is rationally not right for someone to leave his kids for hours just to stake some money and possibly catch some fun. Yes some persons will argue the fact that he has freedom of will forgetting the fact that he being a father entails certain responsibilities which should not be ignored.
Such kids could end up in a bad relationship with their father due to actions of this nature. Gambling is supposed to be a fun activity not a job.

Well, there is not much room to interpretation when it comes to the story shared by the OP, this is not about a father that got distracted by a short amount of time and then an accident happened, something that could happen to anyone.

This is about a father that left two kids alone for five hours just to gamble, and only those that have gambling problems would do this, so it is understandable those that may not know much about gambling may not think highly about it after a news like that.

[wakier]

Upon first sight of this topic without even reading through, logically a vast majority of persons will definitely tag this situation as a case of gambling addiction which is understandable. Actions of such nature are what gives a majority of people the urge to conclude that gambling is a bad act which is actually not true.
It is rationally not right for someone to leave his kids for hours just to stake some money and possibly catch some fun. Yes some persons will argue the fact that he has freedom of will forgetting the fact that he being a father entails certain responsibilities which should not be ignored.
Such kids could end up in a bad relationship with their father due to actions of this nature. Gambling is supposed to be a fun activity not a job.

Well, there is not much room to interpretation when it comes to the story shared by the OP, this is not about a father that got distracted by a short amount of time and then an accident happened, something that could happen to anyone.

This is about a father that left two kids alone for five hours just to gamble, and only those that have gambling problems would do this, so it is understandable those that may not know much about gambling may not think highly about it after a news like that.

The essence of the problem described by the op is only because a father abandoned his responsibilities just because he wanted to gamble and this was caused by his unbearable addiction and this action does seem careless because as far as I know parents should not be like that.

It is not something that can be understood if someone has a gambling problem because he has become a father who has full responsibility for his family. If he is careless and ignores his responsibilities then he should be given appropriate sanctions because I am very upset to see gamblers who always prioritize gambling and not paying attention to his family 

[ethereumhunter]

It is very true, things are done that way, but a 2-year-old or even a 3-year-old child needs all the attention from his or her father or mother, even both, if a person starts to look at the things, you can sense that if the father is married regardless of his occupation, then the mother must be attentive to her son and vice versa, but it is totally irresponsible not to be attentive to her son, furthermore if she is busy and leaves her son aside, it is not snothing, it's something that looks very bad, in particular, as I have said before, I have a 2-year-old daughter, and an 8-year-old son, and even so they receive a lot of attention, I would say too much. because basically children are always beings that need everything, and they need to be filled with love and affection, that is why the attention given to them must be the best, and in this order of teachings we, however, are always going to be different in everything sense.

Children at these ages need everything, for me things can be done in different ways, so if the parents cannot take care of their children, it doesn't matter much to them to look for a nanny while they work, but yes, with extreme vigilance. through the cameras, the audio, everything to know thoroughly everything that is said, what is said and how the child is treated, this is very important, children are the future, it is all that can be shown, therefore That is why we as adults must treat them very well, so that they only have good experiences in life, so from a young age they must give them everything they can give, affectionate love, attention, all this is necessary in the life of a child, I always go overboard from time to time to protect my children, and to spoil them, but if I don't do it, who will see me do it? Nobody, then I say something, if people don't love their children and don't value them? What do they have them for? a child is a thousand times more important than any game.

However, a child needs attention from parents to be able to accompany them all the time. This means that parents must always pay close attention to their children and not leave them at home without anyone accompanying them. The children may not realize that their father has left them to gamble so it could be dangerous because people will not know what they will do. Moreover, children their age have too much curiosity and want to know about many things and the worry is that they could do something that could endanger their lives. We must distance ourselves from actions like that because it is our children who we must take good care of, and we should not abandon them just to gamble. We can still gamble at other times if other family members have come or gone home so that if we want to leave them, someone will look after them while we are not at home.

Yes, children indeed need everything, so we must always be there for them, and if we are not there, we must be able to look for family members before we leave them. We must not be selfish and only think about our affairs while our children's affairs are the most important and we as adults must be able to do the best for our children. Those are our children, so we should not let them get away with it while we have fun gambling. Our neighbors will ridicule us if we do bad things like that and we will be used as an example of a bad father who cannot look after his children well. That is why we must be able to look after our children well and correctly so that nothing bad will happen to them, especially as it is our responsibility towards the children.

[len01]

Not just that, there could have been a worse thing that has happened to the kid when his father left them all alone. That father will definitely regret for the rest of his life if ever that incident became a terrible incident and accident.

looks like you won't regret it.
I mean from the OP story it seems like the person is very addicted to leaving their child home alone without thinking about the various big risks that could happen and reading more deeply after almost being arrested the police he said that if he only left for a moment.
from this story it can be seen that a gambling addict will always have a reason to continue gambling and can always lie to cover up his mistakes.
so I said that he wouldn't regret it if he left his child at home alone and an accident happened. surely, as a father who is addicted to gambling, he would only think about gambling.

If he really had regrets after losing his child, he shouldn't have left him for too long and he would have entrusted his child to someone he trusted if he wasn't a gambling addict.
from the story it is clear that he has almost no compassion for his son and he deserves punishment and rehabilitation to cure himself of this addiction.

[junder]

Upon first sight of this topic without even reading through, logically a vast majority of persons will definitely tag this situation as a case of gambling addiction which is understandable. Actions of such nature are what gives a majority of people the urge to conclude that gambling is a bad act which is actually not true.
It is rationally not right for someone to leave his kids for hours just to stake some money and possibly catch some fun. Yes some persons will argue the fact that he has freedom of will forgetting the fact that he being a father entails certain responsibilities which should not be ignored.
Such kids could end up in a bad relationship with their father due to actions of this nature. Gambling is supposed to be a fun activity not a job.

Well, there is not much room to interpretation when it comes to the story shared by the OP, this is not about a father that got distracted by a short amount of time and then an accident happened, something that could happen to anyone.

This is about a father that left two kids alone for five hours just to gamble, and only those that have gambling problems would do this, so it is understandable those that may not know much about gambling may not think highly about it after a news like that.

The essence of the problem described by the op is only because a father abandoned his responsibilities just because he wanted to gamble and this was caused by his unbearable addiction and this action does seem careless because as far as I know parents should not be like that.

It is not something that can be understood if someone has a gambling problem because he has become a father who has full responsibility for his family. If he is careless and ignores his responsibilities then he should be given appropriate sanctions because I am very upset to see gamblers who always prioritize gambling and not paying attention to his family 

In my opinion, an action like this is not only careless, perhaps even more precisely stupid, because he left behind valuable assets which could possibly lead to undesirable things happening just to gamble which has made him addicted but it is not clear that it can provide positive value, even by winning. Of course it wouldn't be a good thing if something bad happened to the child he left behind. If there was someone like this in my family, maybe I would be angry with someone like this.

What you say is correct, a married father or young son should have full responsibility for his family, especially if he already has children then a father should pay attention to his family and children, a father should also pay more attention, also with supervision of It is necessary to do this for their children. Don't be like this. because in my opinion no one wants to experience something bad happening to themselves or their family.

[Rufsilf]

KPHO reports that one of the man’s neighbors called 911 and said 2-year-old twins were running around alone outside a Peoria-area home with an aggressive dog.

The neighbor reportedly told police the twins were outside for roughly 20 minutes, running near the street before he called and brought them inside his house.

...

Court paperwork stated Opdycke initially told police he went to a nearby Taco Bell. He claimed he was gone for 30 minutes, ordering and eating his food at the restaurant while leaving the kids at home.

...

However, when Opdycke’s wife arrived, he asked to speak to officers alone and changed his story.

Opdycke confessed that he didn’t go to Taco Bell and instead, he went to Desert Diamond Casino around noon, five hours before police were called.

...

During a search, authorities said they found Opdycke had winning tickets from the casino and over $2,000. He was booked on one count of child abuse.

Father arrested after leaving 2-year-old twins home alone for hours to go gambling, police say

The urge this man felt to gamble was so high, that he didn't even measure the consequences of leaving two 2 years old kids at home alone to gamble at a local casino for 5 hours straightforward. Imagine the state of mind of this man to give more value to his gambling session than to the lives of his two young kids who could need him anytime.

Luckly there was an attentive neighboor to call the police, otherwise the dangerous dog or any other potential threat on the streets could have severely harmed those kids.

It's their father's responsibility; I can honestly state that his carelessness earned him a jail sentence. I mean, he shouldn't have acted that way if he was considering his kids; after all, he left behind two priceless tiny people who would only be of use to him in the future. These behaviors shouldn't be allowed as he no longer looks after his kids as a result of his foolish gaming decisions. Even though he prevailed, karma swiftly returned the favor, and despite that, he still feels the need to lie. That is an example of an irresponsible gambler who cannot provide for his family and just considers his own pleasure.

[bbigtart]

Brutal.  I mean this probably happens more often than not.  Not just for gambling but for other things too.  I read one time a guy went out all night to a bar and left his infant home under 1 years old.  That's when you kmwo the addiction has gone way too far.  Hopefully the dude gets the help he needs.  Obviously it's an issue he needs to address.

Being brutal like that is because of the consequences of addiction. That's why it's important for us to avoid addiction in any way, whether it's going to bars or gambling, because addiction is the source of all problems.

Like the case described by the OP, beyond common sense, it seems like he is not a responsible person, he has an acute addiction that makes him unable to think clearly about his family. he gambled for hours and was willing to leave his baby at home alone, that was a criminal act, he deserved to be jailed for endangering his own baby's life.

[LUCKMCFLY]

It is very true, things are done that way, but a 2-year-old or even a 3-year-old child needs all the attention from his or her father or mother, even both, if a person starts to look at the things, you can sense that if the father is married regardless of his occupation, then the mother must be attentive to her son and vice versa, but it is totally irresponsible not to be attentive to her son, furthermore if she is busy and leaves her son aside, it is not snothing, it's something that looks very bad, in particular, as I have said before, I have a 2-year-old daughter, and an 8-year-old son, and even so they receive a lot of attention, I would say too much. because basically children are always beings that need everything, and they need to be filled with love and affection, that is why the attention given to them must be the best, and in this order of teachings we, however, are always going to be different in everything sense.

Children at these ages need everything, for me things can be done in different ways, so if the parents cannot take care of their children, it doesn't matter much to them to look for a nanny while they work, but yes, with extreme vigilance. through the cameras, the audio, everything to know thoroughly everything that is said, what is said and how the child is treated, this is very important, children are the future, it is all that can be shown, therefore That is why we as adults must treat them very well, so that they only have good experiences in life, so from a young age they must give them everything they can give, affectionate love, attention, all this is necessary in the life of a child, I always go overboard from time to time to protect my children, and to spoil them, but if I don't do it, who will see me do it? Nobody, then I say something, if people don't love their children and don't value them? What do they have them for? a child is a thousand times more important than any game.

However, a child needs attention from parents to be able to accompany them all the time. This means that parents must always pay close attention to their children and not leave them at home without anyone accompanying them. The children may not realize that their father has left them to gamble so it could be dangerous because people will not know what they will do. Moreover, children their age have too much curiosity and want to know about many things and the worry is that they could do something that could endanger their lives. We must distance ourselves from actions like that because it is our children who we must take good care of, and we should not abandon them just to gamble. We can still gamble at other times if other family members have come or gone home so that if we want to leave them, someone will look after them while we are not at home.

Yes, children indeed need everything, so we must always be there for them, and if we are not there, we must be able to look for family members before we leave them. We must not be selfish and only think about our affairs while our children's affairs are the most important and we as adults must be able to do the best for our children. Those are our children, so we should not let them get away with it while we have fun gambling. Our neighbors will ridicule us if we do bad things like that and we will be used as an example of a bad father who cannot look after his children well. That is why we must be able to look after our children well and correctly so that nothing bad will happen to them, especially as it is our responsibility towards the children.

What happened to a child at two years old is that they cannot defend themselves yet, they are very dependent on mom or dad, and that is something that we have to see , I think that a child can do something alone and tries to communicate well with Precisely at 4 years old, at that age they are even moving from the baby to child phase Because things Seem to be very different at all times, because it is already more understandable for everything, some already Dress themselves , they bathe alone They can go to the bathroom alone, and that is something we must see, there is no other way, we have to be very cared for so that they can generate the best in themselves, that is why when we are in charge of a child who is that age we have to be very but very careful, as a father they tell me that sometimes I overprotect my children, but I know that when they are older I will teach them everything so that they can defend themselves, for me it is essential that a child knows how to swim, defend himself, and learn languages, and whatever I want when I am an adult and it is about them, that is why I have always focused on that, for me it is very important to train them from a young age, because there it is ideal for them to learn the languages they want, and As they grow, put them in swimming, also teach them self-defense, because we don't know how they are going to face life, at the same time they are having discipline.

In reality, a two-year-old child needs all the attention available to them, so I recommend that anyone who has children of this age be very attentive, they sometimes walk, fall, hit themselves hard, run, fall, cry, They are always going to have that type of problems, we have to be behind them, because in any case they are very babies, and they can hit each other badly, that's why as parents it is a 24-hour job, because let's see when They get sick at night and they don't even talk, we have to guess what could be happening to them, then we play the game and let them do what they want, well, neither.

[usekevin]

Being brutal like that is because of the consequences of addiction. That's why it's important for us to avoid addiction in any way, whether it's going to bars or gambling, because addiction is the source of all problems.

Like the case described by the OP, beyond common sense, it seems like he is not a responsible person, he has an acute addiction that makes him unable to think clearly about his family. he gambled for hours and was willing to leave his baby at home alone, that was a criminal act, he deserved to be jailed for endangering his own baby's life.

The kids care was the missing one in the gambling site,because the gambling can be played with the more concentration.This was the reason for the gambling parent of the child was went to the gambling away from the child.He should allow the kid care person when he go for the gambling at the casino.So the gambling should be played with caring their children and parents in their home.

The gambler who play more gambling games will win more money or loss more money.If the win more money,they will care their children and parents with the separate care taker.But the gambler who loss the money will get into the more financial problems will leads to no care.

[Oilacris]

Being brutal like that is because of the consequences of addiction. That's why it's important for us to avoid addiction in any way, whether it's going to bars or gambling, because addiction is the source of all problems.

Like the case described by the OP, beyond common sense, it seems like he is not a responsible person, he has an acute addiction that makes him unable to think clearly about his family. he gambled for hours and was willing to leave his baby at home alone, that was a criminal act, he deserved to be jailed for endangering his own baby's life.

The kids care was the missing one in the gambling site,because the gambling can be played with the more concentration.This was the reason for the gambling parent of the child was went to the gambling away from the child.He should allow the kid care person when he go for the gambling at the casino.So the gambling should be played with caring their children and parents in their home.

If you are really just that mindful when it comes into your kids then if your gambling urge is really that on extreme then it would really be just that normal that you would really
be minding that there should be someone who would really be left with those kids and not really that totally been left out without any adult person supervision on which basing up on the age
then 2 years old isnt something that you would really be needing to left on. This is why it would really be just right that a certain person should really be facing up those
consequences considering that the actions been made out isnt really something that a right minded person or parent would really be doing.

[Renampun]

Brutal.  I mean this probably happens more often than not.  Not just for gambling but for other things too.  I read one time a guy went out all night to a bar and left his infant home under 1 years old.  That's when you kmwo the addiction has gone way too far.  Hopefully the dude gets the help he needs.  Obviously it's an issue he needs to address.

I'm not saying that for all men who already have children, but men who have the heart to leave their children alone just to have fun are bastards.

are there no neighbors who can be asked for help to look after them, can they not entrust the child to a close relative first, however, children under 5 years of age still cannot differentiate between things that are dangerous and not dangerous, there is a big possibility that the child will be in danger. I'm sure this man must be a gambling addict so he doesn't care about the safety of his small child who is at home alone, luck is still with the child so the small child is fine.

[Negotiation]

poor wife and children if her husband is the backbone of the family, but if the wife has enough income to support her parents it is better to leave the man, even when the man is free from punishment I am sure he will repeat the same thing, and really feel sorry for his son who can influence his mentality and will become a follower of his father's characteristics. When he grows up, it's better to stay away

The husband was the backbone of the family,if the husband get addicted to the gambling site and uses all the earning money to the gambling site will leads to a financial crisis in their family.If the husband made the money it may uplift the family but if he loss all the money by the gambling addiction will leads to the divorce.Because the poor wife can get away from the husband and make money and take care of his children,parent from their income.The gambling addicted person will do the domestic violence because of their loss in the gambling site,it should be avoided.Because the children who grow in this situation will get less potential in the future.

Rightly said, in most families where the husband is the main backbone it is really difficult to sustain the family if the husband becomes addicted to gambling. Not only will the loss of the wife be hindered by the children growing up with it. Children usually get their proper education from the family. Think about your family and become a responsible gambler. Responsible gamblers do not have any bad effects of their gambling because they can easily control everything future will be bright wife will not leave children.

[ethereumhunter]

What happened to a child at two years old is that they cannot defend themselves yet, they are very dependent on mom or dad, and that is something that we have to see , I think that a child can do something alone and tries to communicate well with Precisely at 4 years old, at that age they are even moving from the baby to child phase Because things Seem to be very different at all times, because it is already more understandable for everything, some already Dress themselves , they bathe alone They can go to the bathroom alone, and that is something we must see, there is no other way, we have to be very cared for so that they can generate the best in themselves, that is why when we are in charge of a child who is that age we have to be very but very careful, as a father they tell me that sometimes I overprotect my children, but I know that when they are older I will teach them everything so that they can defend themselves, for me it is essential that a child knows how to swim, defend himself, and learn languages, and whatever I want when I am an adult and it is about them, that is why I have always focused on that, for me it is very important to train them from a young age, because there it is ideal for them to learn the languages they want, and As they grow, put them in swimming, also teach them self-defense, because we don't know how they are going to face life, at the same time they are having discipline.

In reality, a two-year-old child needs all the attention available to them, so I recommend that anyone who has children of this age be very attentive, they sometimes walk, fall, hit themselves hard, run, fall, cry, They are always going to have that type of problems, we have to be behind them, because in any case they are very babies, and they can hit each other badly, that's why as parents it is a 24-hour job, because let's see when They get sick at night and they don't even talk, we have to guess what could be happening to them, then we play the game and let them do what they want, well, neither.

Two year old children are still very dependent on their father and mother so their father and mother must understand this and cannot leave them without supervision from their parents or at least from other adults as family members. Such small children will find out everything around them. If there is no supervision at all, they can experience danger that could threaten their lives because of their enormous curiosity. Maybe they have communicated, but it is still very limited, and people who don't know them closely won't know what they want to convey, so misunderstandings will arise. Only people close to the little boy could at least understand what they were trying to convey. A father should ensure safety and comfort for his children by always paying attention to and being near them because his children need that feeling of security, and they can get it with their parents. And we as parents should be able to imagine what would happen if we left them alone at home without any supervision or we could try it by using a surveillance camera so we can know what they are doing. But we don't really leave them alone. We just stay in the other room to monitor what they do when alone. Maybe we will be surprised to see what they do and never think they do something because of their curiosity. That is why as parents, we must always supervise them, especially when they are still small and two years old.

It is clear that two year old children really need attention from the adults around them and like my nephew, they always ask for attention from the adults around them. It's a natural thing they do because they want protection from adults so they don't want to be left alone at home. And when they are abandoned, they will cry as a form of objection to those of us who want to leave them. But if other adults are also near them, they will not cry because they know someone will look after them. If you have a two year old child, you have to really pay attention to them because we can't guess what they want, especially with their curiosity, maybe they will slip away from our supervision so we are the ones who have to be really alert.