To what extent have you hated yourself due to your gambling losses?

[lombok]

When we are in a state of stress, there are people who choose to take a break while others choose to continue their gambling activities. However, it would be better if we choose to take a break from these efforts to restore peace of mind and emotions. Because if we continue to carry out gambling activities, this will only foster impulsive tendencies which have the potential to worsen the losses we experience.

I believe these words are very wise. A simple example, this is related to sports betting, I am sure that if we bet on every match, even every day, the possibility of losing will be very large - I say this because I have experienced it, besides we bet randomly on clubs that we don't know the chance of winning. also small because our observations are not in-depth in a match.

If we observe sports matches, especially football, with a big chance of winning, we understand what clubs will play in the match. And that doesn't happen every day, there will be a break.

Therefore, perhaps it is better to be careful and patient and make good choices. We don't need to rush or have to gamble every day, which could possibly increase stress if we lose. It's better to have low intensity but have a high chance of winning.

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[348Judah]

Until one finds himself into the conditions that make other feels pitiful on him for what has happened, when we took risk beyond we could manage to cope or bear, then things turned a calamity on us only for the purpose of us gambling a d taking the wrong steps in doing so, some good example people do that makes them regret were as follows.

1. Taking loan on bets
2. Addictions in gambling
3. Continuous losses
4. Inexperience gambling
5. Over confidence.

All these are things gamblers could go into and make them have their worst nightmares while gambling if they do beyond their capacity.

[STT]

Why bother with hate when its a negative and can only make you lose more, it wont add better judgement only add self doubt.   Hate the mistake and lack of consideration before a bet not yourself, you can always correct yourself and be optimistic in that outlook so long as you are prepared to apply more patience and thought to your process.    Hate would be an immediate empty reaction, I would save that energy towards avoidance of future mistakes quite often we are too quick to react and it does not help and is an inaccurate counter to the mistake.

[the rise]

If I remember the losses that made me really hate myself, it was when I lost in a row and I sold whatever items I had just to recover the losses. That was what was on my mind at that time, but after everything was over the next day I started to realize that I it was very stupid to expect more from gambling, and that became a lesson in my life in gambling

[erep]

The problem with gambling stems from that hope that you are chasing- such hope that you MIGHT win in order to recover your losses. But that hope is a dangerous landfall that can snowball quickly especially if you are afraid of accepting that you just lost a handful amount of money.

With that experience, it made me thing that I never want to experience battling the odds. If today is just not my day, maybe gambling is not really for me.

It seems that you have lost funds on gambling overnight but you don't realize that you should stop gambling when greed forces you to increase the bet on the next gambling, you should avoid every word "recovery" on gambling before you will be disappointed about losing higher funds,

If you set a budget limit for gambling then emotions can be controlled and you will avoid greedy gambling because it will not increase your other budget for betting.

[Dewi Aries]

Why bother with hate when its a negative and can only make you lose more, it wont add better judgement only add self doubt.   Hate the mistake and lack of consideration before a bet not yourself, you can always correct yourself and be optimistic in that outlook so long as you are prepared to apply more patience and thought to your process.    Hate would be an immediate empty reaction, I would save that energy towards avoidance of future mistakes quite often we are too quick to react and it does not help and is an inaccurate counter to the mistake.

True and maybe I would say that it is typical of irresponsible gamblers in the sense that they are unable to accept any results at the end of the session especially losing, as you said this happens because of a lack of consideration before betting which makes them unable to accept losing at the end of the session. This is why it is important to understand what gambling is all about, after all gambling is not at all a place to earn but nothing more than a game of "possibilities" that will lead to two things between winning or losing, one will never know what the end of the game will be.

So the point is if you are involved in gambling then you must be able to accept both results, if you really want to win then you must also be prepared to lose, don't be a loser because after all you can't beat the arrangements made by the casino. This is why we are always advised to apply limits and self-control in gambling, because after all this activity is very vulnerable to making you lose a lot of money due to uncontrolled emotions. So the bottom line is that we must be able to make peace with ourselves about losing, with this then I think you will not feel too emotional and do not have to hate yourself for losing.

[Jody.Drummer]

The problem with gambling stems from that hope that you are chasing- such hope that you MIGHT win in order to recover your losses. But that hope is a dangerous landfall that can snowball quickly especially if you are afraid of accepting that you just lost a handful amount of money.

With that experience, it made me thing that I never want to experience battling the odds. If today is just not my day, maybe gambling is not really for me.

It seems that you have lost funds on gambling overnight but you don't realize that you should stop gambling when greed forces you to increase the bet on the next gambling, you should avoid every word "recovery" on gambling before you will be disappointed about losing higher funds,

If you set a budget limit for gambling then emotions can be controlled and you will avoid greedy gambling because it will not increase your other budget for betting.

Yes usually this is always the problem of most gamblers, they do not put the amount they can afford which in turn makes them focus on recovery actions and obviously by focusing on this then they will do more experiments because their goal is to restore something that has been lost and actually this action will only make them end up with a slump or a greater amount of loss. So of course as you suggest we must limit the gambling activities that we do because with that indirectly we will not suffer many defeats like those experienced by gambling addicts who always act excessively, however control and also limits are always recommended if we are involved in the world of gambling because with this besides we can minimize the budget we can also minimize the possibility of emotions which of course can make you end up with out of control actions because of the situation of defeat that you cannot accept.

[Pi-network314159]

I can not remember how many or countless times I have loss in gambling which made me angry at my self. But no matter the situation I kept playing untill I won. but after that I haven't been able to win again. But I haven given up though. Life is all about risk is better to take the risk than always saying hadbi know!!

[Crypt0Gore]

Not for once and it's probably never going to happen, because gambling isn't going to be fair with gamblers, it's money game and it's more favouring to the casinos not the gamblers, if I can't use small money what will happen to my bank account? I will probably end up in debt and fucked my life up, by myself.

It's just the reality, gambling isn't going to make you rich like you dream, it's better to be safer than sorry later, but people will never do this, their stupid ways of believing everything is outrageous, don't get it confused, you can make money from gambling, but don't expect to always make money like it's your source of income.

Many gamblers deserves what happen to them, the vibe that we get in gambling is the most impossible way of making money, you should all be scared and have some senses to safe your bankroll and risk very little amount.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Well, the truth is, when I play and I have losses that I Shouldn't have, it's something to hate oneself, because having a good balance and deciding to risk everything, it's something that I've done, and I come out feeling guilty about doing it because it's something that's very wrong. , we are people who must learn to do things better, we cannot be thinking about doing things just to do them and risking things just like that, because we are people who must always do everything so that we can win, so when we take those risks we they make us lose our balance if it is a reason for us to hate each other, but first of all be present in our conscience that things can be done in different ways and that is where our responsibility Comes in, it is something that we must do better , if we take care of our way. To do things, because it is different , we have to do everything we can to avoid errors.

My biggest mistakes in this is using the martingale, I learned that very well when I played dice on freebitco.in, I always lived using the strategies that I saw the most on YouTube about them, so it is in this order of ideas that we should know that when we are playing for any case that we have, it is very reckless to use the martingale, unless we have a lot of balance , I would not do it, because it is risking a lot of money, and well, from experience doing that always made me regret it, and that I made no mistake without lying, I made it like 3 or 4 times , staying at zero, after I had some Respectable balance, then one learns like that , because it is the only thing that can be done, losing, I am honest when I lost it because I learned more that martingale was not a strategy for me, even with a lot of balance, it is not good to do it, unless you have a lot of Money and it is not a problem for the Person to run out of Money.

[bbigtart]

Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

Of course I have, and I think all gamblers have felt disappointed and even hated their own decisions after losing. I think this is a normal thing, in fact this way we can be more careful in making decisions when gambling. However, if you keep making the same mistakes, you need to readjust the way you gamble because if it continues it will become a disease. because the disease of self-blame is very dangerous if not treated immediately, blaming yourself usually results in regret and regret leads to stress.

I used to hate myself when I gambled and lost. This often happens when I get so carried away by the euphoria of winning that I still want to continue gambling even though I should stop first and withdraw some of the winnings. However, because I lost control, ultimately what was a victory became a defeat and that's where I often blamed myself.

[topbitcoin]

So far, I have never experienced anything like that, because when I gamble, I always try to remain consistent with the limits that I have previously set. In the gambling that I do, apart from setting a maximum deposit amount, I also set a maximum playing time limit, and I even schedule it. where I only gamble on weekends and the maximum limit I can spend on gambling is two hours. So I only gamble for two hours a week. and it is clear that by doing this, apart from being able to help me overcome financial losses and the negative impacts of gambling, this can also help and make it easier for me to control these activities. So that the gambling that I do does not become an inhibiting factor in carrying out other activities, which are more important than just gambling.

And I never hate myself personally, when I experience defeat, because defeat is a normal thing and has become a certainty that we will get. I am always able to accept the final result I get at the end of the game, even if it is a defeat.

You look like a disciplined player, I think there are few of them, because many come to relax or release stress. They are not interested in following the rules; they came to break them in the form of an inadequate bet on all the money here and now. Thus, after a week of disciplined work, the player wants to feel irresponsible at least here. But he doesn’t realize how frivolously this will ultimately lead him to losing.

In fact, even for me, it is very difficult to observe such restrictions as you have made for yourself. I couldn't stand them even for one gaming session. Still, I come to gambling to relax a little, but at the same time I don’t allow myself to do inappropriate actions and I can stop in time.

To be able to remain consistent with the rules we have made, and have good self-discipline. So we must be able to respect these rules, and never try to break them once in a while, because once we break these rules, this will continue until in the end we eliminate the rules that we have made ourselves.

And as wise gamblers, we must be able to view gambling as mere entertainment, nothing else. And to maintain a balance in our lives and daily productivity, we must be able to determine what is a necessity and what is just entertainment. So we will always prioritize things that must be prioritized (obligations and responsibilities).

And indeed, sometimes when we win, it can make us more confident to continue playing because we think that luck is on our side. So this is why it is important to act normal and not be too euphoric about the victory we have achieved. My advice is that when you get a number of wins that are quite large, then immediately stop and take a break from the activity, to just soak in your emotions and regain full control over the gambling that we do, and the same goes for when we experience consecutive losses.

[bitvalak]

Spending time and money on hundreds of gambling games and not winning is very painful and makes you feel like you haven't been lucky. But for me it doesn't make me hate myself just because I still haven't won gambling. I believe that everyone has different luck and different times. So I will still play because I really like the game rather than having to blame myself and hate myself.

[Westinhome]

Spending time and money on hundreds of gambling games and not winning is very painful and makes you feel like you haven't been lucky. But for me it doesn't make me hate myself just because I still haven't won gambling. I believe that everyone has different luck and different times. So I will still play because I really like the game rather than having to blame myself and hate myself.

Many gamblers get the way of the game after the loss in the gambling site.The reason was the money he had loss was the real money earned by the gamblers.But the gamblers who try to keep their game continuous after the loss only able to make the money from the gambling sites.Because the gamblers may loss the money,but actually they had earned more knowledge from the gambling losses.But some gamblers doesn’t recognise that knowledge was gained instead they criticise themselves for their loss.After the loss,I had a habit of playing by arranging the funds.Because I know their was the possibility of winning in the gambling site.

[kojektea]

Every gambler has certainly experienced the misfortune that generally occurs in a row and losing beyond the limit, it's just that the losses I've experienced are not too bad. I recover quickly so I don't really feel hatred for myself because of gambling, usually I count 1 or 2 months. between my wins and my disappointment in gambling, I hope I don't experience the worst thing in gambling

[AmoreJaz]

Every gambler has certainly experienced the misfortune that generally occurs in a row and losing beyond the limit, it's just that the losses I've experienced are not too bad. I recover quickly so I don't really feel hatred for myself because of gambling, usually I count 1 or 2 months. between my wins and my disappointment in gambling, I hope I don't experience the worst thing in gambling

all gamblers have at one point experience their losses and it is up to the gambler how he react once he got his losses. depending on the level of the situation you are in. is the money coming from a loan shark? or is the money dedicated for your tuition or your kid's tuition? the degree how you react relies on your financial needs on that period and where it should be going to if not spent on your gambling.

Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

Of course I have, and I think all gamblers have felt disappointed and even hated their own decisions after losing. I think this is a normal thing, in fact this way we can be more careful in making decisions when gambling. However, if you keep making the same mistakes, you need to readjust the way you gamble because if it continues it will become a disease. because the disease of self-blame is very dangerous if not treated immediately, blaming yourself usually results in regret and regret leads to stress.

I used to hate myself when I gambled and lost. This often happens when I get so carried away by the euphoria of winning that I still want to continue gambling even though I should stop first and withdraw some of the winnings. However, because I lost control, ultimately what was a victory became a defeat and that's where I often blamed myself.

every gambler has his own failures, regrets, mistakes and more. so at one point, i guess everyone is guilty of such feeling. how many times? i guess, a lot here can't count anymore how many times they have had such episodes of hating themselves. it is no surprise. hate yourself but still coming back to your games. the important thing is you know how to move on, forget what happened and still know your limits in this game. without setting your boundaries, you will truly regret your decisions because you may suffer some unforgettable circumstances owed to your gambling habits.

[ralle14]

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now? 

I can recall losing several deposits in a row throughout the week, and the worst thing i've done is probably slapping my face to wake up from the same mistake that i've been struggling to deal with.

Now, I would simply cope through other means instead of hating myself so I could quickly move on from those losses and form a plan on what my next move would be because losing is always part of gambling, and the best way to deal with it is by letting it go.

[klidex]

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not just ever, in my opinion if they often gamble then they must often get unlucky because that is definitely experienced by gamblers it's true that you say gambling completely has risks which in my opinion cannot be avoided let alone eliminated because the risk of losing at gambling is certain. also it is one of the things that is a certainty in gambling,  because if you don't win,  you lose, but I make sure that many of the gamblers experience defeat so that they can get addicted to gambling.

I think a lot of them are addicted to it because of the points you got right, first with them chasing losses or wanting to recover their losses, and secondly with the wins they get it makes them confident to be able to get another win at gambling, and even though they gamble more losses but they don't mind that because they can still be covered by their beliefs that they have in gambling. It should be so, with the defeat obtained,  we don't have to hate ourselves because losing at gambling is a certain thing,  so don't expect much from gambling either because most likely if it is like that it will only produce disappointment like you said.

A person who experiences defeat in gambling must experience it many times and not just once, but even though he experiences defeat many times a gambler continues to carry out his activities even though the risk of losing is clearly visible. There is no definite victory because there is only defeat before our eyes, it is rare for gamblers to experience the victory or luck they hope for because gambling is more dominant in experiencing defeat and we have to be able to accept that whether we lose or win because of luck, no one knows.

Gambling addiction is caused because they are too ambitious to win or chase losses, therefore many gamblers who play excessively cannot accept their losses because they have spent quite a lot of money. Gamblers who understand the risks should always have limits when gambling and do not hate it even though he is always unlucky in gambling because there are many people out there who have even lost their homes and possessions just because they are addicted to gambling, so even if you experience a loss, don't ever regret it, therefore use gambling with the money you can afford.

[maydna]

Every gambler has certainly experienced the misfortune that generally occurs in a row and losing beyond the limit, it's just that the losses I've experienced are not too bad. I recover quickly so I don't really feel hatred for myself because of gambling, usually I count 1 or 2 months. between my wins and my disappointment in gambling, I hope I don't experience the worst thing in gambling

This usually happens to many gamblers who experience consecutive losses, but that doesn't stop them from continuing to gamble. They don't feel that the losing streak can make them stop gambling, but they feel that their win is closer than before. For this reason, many of them ultimately choose to continue gambling. But they don't realize that it will only increase the number of losses, and when they realize that, it's too late, and they feel disappointed seeing the results they got. And they feel that they hate themselves because they gambled excessively and couldn't prevent the many losses.

[hedgeh0g]

Every gambler has certainly experienced the misfortune that generally occurs in a row and losing beyond the limit, it's just that the losses I've experienced are not too bad. I recover quickly so I don't really feel hatred for myself because of gambling, usually I count 1 or 2 months. between my wins and my disappointment in gambling, I hope I don't experience the worst thing in gambling

This usually happens to many gamblers who experience consecutive losses, but that doesn't stop them from continuing to gamble. They don't feel that the losing streak can make them stop gambling, but they feel that their win is closer than before. For this reason, many of them ultimately choose to continue gambling. But they don't realize that it will only increase the number of losses, and when they realize that, it's too late, and they feel disappointed seeing the results they got. And they feel that they hate themselves because they gambled excessively and couldn't prevent the many losses.

There is a very subtle point here in that they begin to look at themselves from the outside only after it is too late to do this and everything is lost. It is important to understand that this should have been done at the moment when the player is in the game, but it is so difficult to do that it is almost impossible, because the player is almost obsessed with such feelings as: excitement, curiosity, excessive self-confidence. From this we must draw conclusions that will not allow us to repeat these mistakes. And if they were a little smarter and more restrained, they wouldn’t have to hate themselves because of it later. Therefore, it is important what we do in the moment, because it determines our entire future life and different areas, be it gambling or something else.