To what extent have you hated yourself due to your gambling losses?

[pinggoki]

I blame myself in a way that tells me to be aware of how much money I'm losing when I'm on a losing streak, I don't necessarily hate myself but shouting curses and telling myself harsh words is one way to go when it comes to making sure that I don't bottle up the anger that I'm feeling when I'm gambling and so it doesn't burst out when I'm not gambling anymore and it saves the people that I'm interacting with that I'm not cranky after gambling. So far I'm doing just fine with that kind of set up in my gambling life, I'm all out of anger after gambling and no one is annoyed with me after gambling so it's win-win for me.

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[Strongkored]

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now? 

Lets discuss.

I never hated myself just because I lost at gambling, but I regretted it because I didn't follow what was set. Having experienced it was a lesson to obey what was set. I have experienced a defeat that was quite painful in my opinion just because of one match and had previously decided not to choose that team but because the team faced a very weak team so I thought it was impossible to lose and it turned out they actually lost so all the results in other matches were in vain.
Because I never hate myself for losing, everything can be accepted even though it takes time and it should be like that because there is always a chance to gamble again and also a chance to win as well as to lose so it's just like a wheel that keeps turning.

[piebeyb]

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now? 

Lets discuss.

Yes, I may have blamed myself but I don't hate myself because I was too careless in making quick decisions which ended up spending my budget in a short time when I should have used the budget to play for a few hours but it ran out in a matter of minutes because of carelessness, but talking about a series of losses, after all, who here is a gambler who experiences a series of wins, I think maybe not too much, winning and losing is actually a part of gambling that doesn't really need to be thought about in my opinion.

Take it as an example, if I am happy with my victory then I should be happy with my defeat, but even so, we still take lessons from the mistakes and defeats we experience, we don't have to regret it because whatever has happened will not come back again even though we can have the opportunity to choose to recover all the money you have lost, you should never do it because in the end it will only increase regret and lose more. just enjoy whatever the result is because that is more important than having to hate ourselves.

[ethereumhunter]

I've never experienced a series of losses to the point where I hated myself but I have experienced big losses. At that time, I didn't hate myself because I realized that it resulted from my mistake of not being able to control myself, seeing the losses I had experienced previously. Indeed, I felt sad because I had experienced such a big loss, but then after experiencing many losses, I realized that I really had to reduce my gambling activities. And I was lucky at that time. I didn't really have a serious gambling addiction and was still able to realize that it was my own fault.

So why do we hate ourselves? We have experienced so many losses while we have decided to continue gambling because we want to pursue a win, which we realize is difficult to obtain. We must be able to realize that after experiencing some losses, it is time for us to stop gambling and instead continue gambling. And we don't need to chase wins because gambling is not for making money but for fun.

[Beparanf]

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

This is an interesting question and I’m sure most of the reply will be hilarious if everyone will be honest on their answer because I personally sometimes have a violent intent towards myself whenever I lose big time due to my greediness.

I already slapped my face hard one time when I lose my bankroll after I lose it all even though I’m already in huge profit few minutes before the disaster happened. Sometimes this kind of self slapping is very effective to me to wake on how shit I was when I lose all my bankroll that supposed to be in win if didn’t get dumb to just walk away with profit.

[Jody.Drummer]

I blame myself in a way that tells me to be aware of how much money I'm losing when I'm on a losing streak, I don't necessarily hate myself but shouting curses and telling myself harsh words is one way to go when it comes to making sure that I don't bottle up the anger that I'm feeling when I'm gambling and so it doesn't burst out when I'm not gambling anymore and it saves the people that I'm interacting with that I'm not cranky after gambling. So far I'm doing just fine with that kind of set up in my gambling life, I'm all out of anger after gambling and no one is annoyed with me after gambling so it's win-win for me.

Hmm I'm curious, what is it that makes you blame yourself for the losses that you have experienced and why do you start the same thing? If that's true then maybe I would say that you are not a responsible gambler in the sense that you can't accept any results at the end of the session, but if it only happened once, meaning you didn't make it a habit and only at certain moments then maybe I would say that it's quite normal because everyone can never always avoid making mistakes that make them disappointed or lose, but if you keep repeating the same thing and with the same reaction at the end of the session especially when losing then maybe as I said above you are not able to accept the fact that you lost and that means there is no responsibility in your gambling approach, logically if you are always angry with yourself for losing then why not find a solution? For example, reduce the budget so that at the end of the session you don't feel too disappointed with yourself or another way may be to quit.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

This is an interesting question and I’m sure most of the reply will be hilarious if everyone will be honest on their answer because I personally sometimes have a violent intent towards myself whenever I lose big time due to my greediness.

I already slapped my face hard one time when I lose my bankroll after I lose it all even though I’m already in huge profit few minutes before the disaster happened. Sometimes this kind of self slapping is very effective to me to wake on how shit I was when I lose all my bankroll that supposed to be in win if didn’t get dumb to just walk away with profit.

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I would say majorly, most serious gamblers must have experienced this same thing a couple of times depending on how long they've been gambling, I remember vividly one night last year, I think it was in the month of November 2023, can't remember the actual date, but then, I was playing pick six game on l0tt0.com, and less than one hour into the game, I won a substantial amount of money, I was so happy, and felt its possibly a lucky day for me, that if I keep playing, I would win even much more, so, I kept playing and after some minor winnings, I started losing and losing, at a point, out of frustration and depression for a win, I changed my client seed believing that was possibly the problem, I continued to play and kept losing.

At a point, I started praying to atleast, win back that money i won before, then I would stop, since I've already lost all the money and now losing my initial deposit as well, but nothing, I played all through the night for more than 4 hours, until I ended up with an empty bankroll, I felt so bad I could not sleep that night, at a point, a tear 😢 fell from my eyes, just remembering this incident now, looks very funny to me, but sincerely, it was not funny for me the day it happened.

[alastantiger]

I was going through reddit in the early hours of today, and came across a user who lamented bitterly through his post, of how unlucky he has been in gambling in the past few weeks, like almost a month now, he said he bets minimum, twice every day, but have not won a dime for the past weeks, and this made him hate himself so much, I sincerely felt pity for him, for I remember one time I lost a huge sum of money to betting, I felt so bad that I thought of killing myself  .

I can tell that the person in the story above has no friend. Anyone who has a friend they gamble with or discuss stuff about gambling with, they would have no room to feel this sort of self-pity that makes them hate themselves. This is because the person would notice that everyone  are more unlucky in gambling than they are lucky. They will through the conversation know that every gambler is going through the same thing. They will banter, laugh, tease themselves over it and after it everyone is fine and happy.

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling?

No matter how worse my gambling experiences are, I will leave to gamble another day. I also do not take it that seriously. I have other real life things doing other than gambling.

[bettercrypto]

I've never experienced a series of losses to the point where I hated myself but I have experienced big losses. At that time, I didn't hate myself because I realized that it resulted from my mistake of not being able to control myself, seeing the losses I had experienced previously. Indeed, I felt sad because I had experienced such a big loss, but then after experiencing many losses, I realized that I really had to reduce my gambling activities. And I was lucky at that time. I didn't really have a serious gambling addiction and was still able to realize that it was my own fault.

So why do we hate ourselves? We have experienced so many losses while we have decided to continue gambling because we want to pursue a win, which we realize is difficult to obtain. We must be able to realize that after experiencing some losses, it is time for us to stop gambling and instead continue gambling. And we don't need to chase wins because gambling is not for making money but for fun.

When you say serious losses, that means a large amount, right? Even though I have never experienced a large amount of loss, I don't want to experience it, and I will never experience it because I have limits that I set when I play gambling.

And these limits are only a small amount of money, so even if I lose, it's not a big deal. Even if I lose, it's fine because I don't really take it seriously; instead, it's just for fun.

[ILuckyGuyI]

When I didn't have much money I still took a risk and continued betting. This didn't end up good for me unfortunately. I lost a significant amount of my savings and this affected me psychologically too. I was really sad every day for some time by thinking about how silly I was about taking such risk. Betting was like an addiction to me those days. 

Later it was like a turning point for me to quit betting with my own money for a while. I started to just making bets in times like betting websites gave me free balance to play due to earning it somehow or just being lucky.

Now it is really helping as I'm not feeling addicted to betting anymore. 

[Huppercase]

Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?
Do you still hate yourself even now? 

Lets discuss.

I have had one experience, the loss was not repeated loss per say; but I made a wrong move that deny me of money that would have change my life for that moment. I had games selected and it was review by me and what I normally do with plenty of rack up odds is I make sure I round it up in hundred anytime I want to give a long shot of half time to win or win either half. I did all my selection and review but I had 99.8 odds, I wanted to round it to 100 and added one extra game and it was set and I clicked bet with my stake.

What happen after the games looks like miracle, all games were right but I got the shock of my life with the last game. It didn't win. The game I should have ignored and play deny me of other winnings. For a week, I didn't enjoy gambling and still remain one of my pain loss but I have move on. Gambling has a way of humbling the way you think sometimes but it's all fun.

[Westinhome]

I blame myself in a way that tells me to be aware of how much money I'm losing when I'm on a losing streak, I don't necessarily hate myself but shouting curses and telling myself harsh words is one way to go when it comes to making sure that I don't bottle up the anger that I'm feeling when I'm gambling and so it doesn't burst out when I'm not gambling anymore and it saves the people that I'm interacting with that I'm not cranky after gambling. So far I'm doing just fine with that kind of set up in my gambling life, I'm all out of anger after gambling and no one is annoyed with me after gambling so it's win-win for me.

The gambler who lose the money in the gambling site was the easy one,because it’s just the possibility of the game.Many people get the depression by the time of losing their funds in the gambling site.But the important factor of the gambling site is the same gambling site will help the gambler to win the big money.If they do the gambling with some good strategy which can track the algorithm of the gambling site.The gamblers will get temptation after the game loss,but the loss of money will always give the temptation to the gamblers.If you interact with the gamblers they will share the gambling strategies with you and it helps to earn more money.

[Rufsilf]

I haven't done anything rash so far that I would hate myself for losing in gambling. Since I enjoy trying new games that my friends have introduced to me, I will gladly bet whenever I have the guts to do so to see what will happen. For example, if I were to try playing the game and wager a small amount, I would definitely withdraw the money and deposit it into my account as soon as it increased.
 
However, there was a time in my life when I placed a small wager and, through continued play over a brief period of time, I did manage to make a sizable profit. However, as a greedy human, something inside of me kept telling me that I ought to wager more money than I usually did, and I chose to gamble rather than cash out my winnings, which ultimately caused me to lose and all of my profits to vanish. Although I was disappointed in myself at the moment, I didn't hate myself enough to consider suicide because I only gambled for the profit I made; therefore, I guess the house wanted it in return, even though my money was still there and only the profit was lost.
 
I believe that each of us has a unique and amusing experience when we go back in time to our silly human behaviors.

[Accardo]

I blame myself in a way that tells me to be aware of how much money I'm losing when I'm on a losing streak, I don't necessarily hate myself but shouting curses and telling myself harsh words is one way to go when it comes to making sure that I don't bottle up the anger that I'm feeling when I'm gambling and so it doesn't burst out when I'm not gambling anymore and it saves the people that I'm interacting with that I'm not cranky after gambling. So far I'm doing just fine with that kind of set up in my gambling life, I'm all out of anger after gambling and no one is annoyed with me after gambling so it's win-win for me.

Hmm I'm curious, what is it that makes you blame yourself for the losses that you have experienced and why do you start the same thing? If that's true then maybe I would say that you are not a responsible gambler in the sense that you can't accept any results at the end of the session, but if it only happened once, meaning you didn't make it a habit and only at certain moments then maybe I would say that it's quite normal because everyone can never always avoid making mistakes that make them disappointed or lose, but if you keep repeating the same thing and with the same reaction at the end of the session especially when losing then maybe as I said above you are not able to accept the fact that you lost and that means there is no responsibility in your gambling approach, logically if you are always angry with yourself for losing then why not find a solution? For example, reduce the budget so that at the end of the session you don't feel too disappointed with yourself or another way may be to quit.

He is probably repeating same thing, whenever he notices he's lost lots of money while gambling. That doesn't make him irresponsible. I actually chuckled reading his response, in the sense that it could be his way of cautioning himself for spending so much money gambling. Since he's not worried on the development, he's all fine with it and nobody is getting disturb for his action. Then his reactions shouldn't be a trouble either. Gamblers have different ways of dealing with losses. Some time when I lose the reactions from me doesn't match my normal action or behavior. He only needs to find something else to make him feel happy when in such a mood. So that it won't eat him up in the process. It's always a thing we should expect as gamblers. Not all gamblers, though.

[aioc]

Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

Do you still hate yourself even now? 

I had a lot series of losses, but I never thought that I was so unlucky, because I also had a long series of wins, I understand that losing and winning are part of the game, the only time that I hated myself so much was when I lose money that I should have not allocated for gambling when we are experiencing a series of losses we need to stop because we are just going to frustrate ourselves by blaming ourselves.

Stopping when we are experiencing a series of losses is the right way to do, and just let it pass in your mind, in gambling there is no such thing as unlucky there is just a series of losses and it happens to every gambler, if you continue to gamble even though you're experiencing all of these, then you are addicted to gambling.

[hedgeh0g]

This happened to me only once, when I was still inexperienced in gambling. After playing for a long time, I was met with a series of failures of consecutive defeats, which ultimately led me to lose my entire deposit. After that, I was upset and hated myself, because I thought about why I even got into all this, because if I hadn’t done this, there would have been more money. The amount was not huge, a few hundred dollars, but since I am used to taking everything seriously, my moral suffering was not commensurate with this petty money.

But then I accepted it... probably this is one of the stages of acceptance. I realized that losing is only part of the game and in return the victories will be brighter. Now I’m more restrained and don’t allow myself to bet too much, because if that happens, I’ll start to hate myself again, which I really don’t want to repeat.

[Don Pedro Dinero]

As an adult I don't remember that ever happening to me, and I'm glad I didn't, especially seeing the stories told in this section. When I was younger I did lose more than my fair share playing slots, but I didn't hate myself for it. I was ashamed and a bit angry, but it helped me to learn the lesson and not fall into those behaviours as an adult.

[asyakashi]

Let me start by asking a question that is not very much different from the topic..

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

I was going through reddit in the early hours of today, and came across a user who lamented bitterly through his post, of how unlucky he has been in gambling in the past few weeks, like almost a month now, he said he bets minimum, twice every day, but have not won a dime for the past weeks, and this made him hate himself so much, I sincerely felt pity for him, for I remember one time I lost a huge sum of money to betting, I felt so bad that I thought of killing myself  .

So, let's share our worst gambling experiences, have you ever hated yourself so much due to lack of winnings in gambling? To what extent, and how did it end?

Do you still hate yourself even now? 

Lets discuss.

The worst thing I experienced was when I gambled and won quite a lot of money, but I didn't stop playing, I thought that this was my lucky day and continued playing until in the end I didn't win a penny, and I had gambled all my income. I

[YOSHIE]

In your entire gambling journey, have you ever had a series of losses to the extent you hated yourself so much for being so unlucky?

Losing and winning are two things that always go hand in hand in the world of gambling, everyone experiences that, including me, I also experience the same thing, but I never blame myself when I lose a bet, I know and understand that it's gambling, so there's no point if I blame myself.

I've thought from the start that the bad luck I experienced in betting wasn't caused by my fault, it was purely my luck that day and it was unlucky, maybe I can try the next day, if the next day is also unlucky, maybe I'll stop for a week to rest, maybe I'll get lucky when I go back in and bet.

[masulum]

Do you still hate yourself even now? 

I don't hate myself because I was unlucky, but because I stepped up when I won $2500, however, I used almost half of the money I got to gamble again with bets that were much bigger than my habit. It's like this memory can't be los, in fact I'm not sure I'll experience the same win again with $40 deposit.

well, this become the stupidest decision I ever made, and made me hate myself at that time. But, I don't hate my self until now. Because, it's time to look at something in the future.