keep pleasures without incomes aside and Chase after profits

[franky1]

i can understand OP's point that a extravegant anniversary celebration is pure spending with no ROI.. however
think less about the material cost of the celebration and think of the significance that its a milestone highlighting your relationship

the OP's wife may care less about the cost, but wants to experience a moment of celebrating the relationship. in which case part of marriage is communication and compromise.
so instead of just cancelling the anniversary to save money.. instead think up creative FREE idea's of how to celebrate and make the most of the day without the extravagant part..

EG work out something that makes the day special that you can afford via income rather than having to dip into investments

EG if she wanted a huge party at a posh hotel which booked 20 rooms for friends and family and a dance hall and DJ
replace that by saying you and her are going to a local bar to celebrate(free entry, no hire). there is no bar tab but anyone can come and celebrate by buying their own drink(maybe even the friends buy the couple a celebration drink), if they wish to come meet up and have some fun, where the celebrating couple at most pay for their own drinks while dancing the night away

it might be a case the wife is more upset the husband cancelled the acknowledgement of a relationship milestone and doesnt understand why the husband doesnt want to celebrate the milestone.. rather than being about the money, he needs to compromise and atleast offer a cheap but intimate memory of the day

however if the wife is the type that wanted to use the relationship mile stone as an excuse to go on a spending spree to try to artificially play out a rich life style to friends and family, where its more about presenting a successful wealthy life rather than a intimate romantic memory, well she needs to compromise to atleast offer a cheap but intimate memory of the day

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[Casdinyard]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

I think, as great and practical you think you are you have to understand that this is something your wife is looking for. I reckon you guys already have this panned out and to bail on her at the last minute all because you wanted to be the husband who’s thinking of always profiting is going to damage your relationship with her trust me.

Dunno if you know of this yet but you probably do since you guys wouldn’t be married without it but there’s this thing called compromise,where you have to take the other person’s feelings into consideration with everything that you plan and do. And should an impasse arrive you have to be willing to give up some of your access and ease for the person to keep the relationship strong. Bitcoin is going to be bitcoin the next year, this one important event in your married lives isn’t. Enjoy it and give your wife something real nice this time cause she’s really looking forward to it based on how you protray her anger is .

Remember mate, money’s going to be money tomorrow. You guys however have limited times here on this blue-trap bubble. Make the most out of it while you’re still together and worry about savings and money when you cross the bridge.

[Darker45]

It appears like you have it the other way around. The purpose of money is to have a happy life. A happy life is made up of beautiful moments with your loved ones, themselves the very reason why money has relevance. I don't understand why you have to sacrifice creating sweet memories for the sake of that uncertain skyrocketing market. It should be the opposite.

My friend, you aren't talking about logic. You are talking about a misplaced desire to make more money.

[MarjorieZimmermanGinger]

Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

You are too focused on profits but ignore the small things that can make your wife happy. Life is not only talking about investment or business but there are other things we need to do. Celebrating a wedding anniversary is important so that we can always remember the difficult time processes with your wife and you also don't need big money because the celebration is made as simple as possible at home without spending a lot of money. I think it depends on how you become a leader at home because your wife should listen more to her husband by giving an explanation.

Selling a little bitcoin or taking some savings to celebrate the wedding day is good because it can make our household more harmonious. Never ignore small things with family because you will be quite sorry when they are gone, money can be sought but happiness cannot be bought just like that.

[junder]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

that's good, because of course the thing that really has to be done in investment is to hold it patiently and wait for a moment that is really profitable and sell it, many people fail in this case because of various reasons, and including like you,  in my opinion it's right we have to hold it. with this I advise you to have an emergency fund because I think everyone needs an emergency fund, of course this can help us in dealing with something that happens suddenly because this can also help so that the investment we do is not disturbed at all with emergency funds owned this can help us in dealing  with problems that occur unexpectedly such as accidents that require medical expenses to overcome them  and it is impossible for us to have to sell the investment that is being run just like that  let alone sell it when the moment is not disturbed at all.

With this emergency fund it can help us deal with problems that occur unexpectedly such as accidents that require medical expenses to overcome them and there is no way we should sell the investment that is being run just like that let alone sell it when the moment is not right or even bad. everyone wants financial freedom therefore we should be able to consider everything as well as possible.

[mamesso]

Life is not just about money, there are other things that need to be prioritized such as love. Postponing your wedding anniversary celebration will disappoint your wife, you will be considered stingy and don't attach importance to the beautiful moments in your marriage. Every husband needs to maintain harmony in the household, your wife's happiness is your responsibility.

I don't know how your wife will feel when she finds out that your wedding anniversary event was canceled due to your selfishness in maintaining crypto assets rather than allocating a certain amount of money for the wedding anniversary celebration. Lower your selfishness a little, then put yourself in your wife's position. A wife's happiness is not how much money you can collect, but with a small surprise she will feel more appreciated and considered important by her husband.

[Poker Player]

I’m always against on this kind of decision making especially if the one being subject is important part of your life which is wedding.

Sorry to say but this sounds very ridiculous,

Too many wrong decisions here.

I don't know if the OP expected us to cheer him for such a stupid decision. To begin with, you have to enjoy life and not obsess about finances, but this decision that affects marriage may have consequences that he seems to me not to have foreseen, such as that from now on his wife's head hurts more often when he feels like having sex.

It is good to have control of finances and improve the economic situation, but there is only one life.

[Sebas.tian]

All you need to do to make your wife know the reason why you cancelled the anniversary celebration, is for the good of the family but if she can endure to allow you hold the coins till the massive bullish season appear she will not regret for the family. I know, there are some women that will never listen to your explanation at that moment but if you show them some of the things they need to see before believe, it will make them to ignore the anniversary celebration that will make them to touch their savings than to encourage the man to go ahead with the holding to achieve more money to the family. If you are holding Bitcoin, I think it will increase you financially soon which is the benefits for those that will hold it long before they can release them for sale.

[ivankoh]

Do what makes your life comfortable, in harmony with everything around you, family, children... because each person only lives once. Sometimes it's not about money, it's about relationships that come with benefits, or call it a draw. Money and property are important, but it cannot be denied that the family needs to stick together. The wedding is an important thing, with this I do not support your approach of letting the wife wait and what she feels, her psychology, criticism and looking at her. Remember that when you have any problems, it is your wife and family who care for you, not someone else, or something else, respect what is meaningful to your life

[sekalitas]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

It's just once a year, and if you're tight on finances, celebrating your anniversary on a budget is completely understandable! After all, what matters most is the shared moment, not the amount of money spent.

Consider this: if you celebrate despite financial limitations and your wife feels loved and appreciated, wouldn't that contribute to overall happiness in your life? Her smile and contentment could motivate you to work harder towards your financial goals. While celebrating might not directly impact your finances, wouldn't it contribute to the bigger picture of "happy wife, happy life"?

Of course, this is just my perspective, and different people might have different priorities.

[Agbamoni]

Sorry to say but this sounds very ridiculous, it clearly shows you are not yet ready to marry. Perhaps this should be a wakeup call for your would-be bride to make better decision 
You should already know btc price will start to rise rapidly at some point and should not be enough reason to halt any real life event for.
I hope you can take advantage of the upcoming bull market because some people can get carried away during this period and ended up not doing as they intended.

OP is married already. What he thought about doing was to celebrate his marriage anniversary. Which i feel selling off his bitcoin for a marriage anniversary party is totally pointless. It is a bad idea, i won't think about it twice ill refrain from making such a decision. OP can get a Boquete of gift from his emergency fund or any other surprised present for his wife, or still take her out personally to a reserved hotel and have a romantic dinner night. This is a better way to celebrate anniversary instead of spending unnecessary by throwing a party to celebrate it. Funny enough all these expenses can be done from his emergency fund.

Unless, unlike other investors that forget to keep emergency funds when investing. This is the kind of situation they later end up in the future. Not is a good time to start saving that emergency funds so that next year anniversary OP could have enough to celebrate his anniversary. Tempering his bitcoin investment i=would be a regretful decision that he will make.

[virasog]

Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions.

Well how much it would cost to celebrate a marriage anniversary? At maximum, you will be doing an outside dinner and give her some gifts and that all. That won't cost much and you could have spent that money and make her happy.
Also, such small spending won't hurt your long term Bitcoin planning and also don't you spend money on day to day items  
I think you made the wrong choice here.

I’m always against on this kind of decision making especially if the one being subject is important part of your life which is wedding. You are postponing your wedding just because you invest your funds on crypto which you that is too volatile.

No, he is not postponing his wedding, as he is already married. He only decided not to celebrate his wedding anniversary.

I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration

[pinggoki]

Don't avoid pleasures altogether, I'm pretty sure that you could benefit too with a little of that in the long run, and if I'm being honest you're better off experiencing happiness while you're working for something, don't chase the bag too much or you end up not appreciating the chase. Has anyone heard of the saying it's not about the destination, it's about the journey,  that's how you should approach your life and how you make money because once you've reached that destination, that's it, you're done and when that happens, you'll end up missing the journey and how you could've done something different there and you end up living with regrets even though you've got your goal.

[davis196]

I’m always against on this kind of decision making especially if the one being subject is important part of your life which is wedding. You are postponing your wedding just because you invest your funds on crypto which you that is too volatile. Yes the market can give you profit but also this profit of yours can be deleted instantly once the market already correct which is inevitable for a pump like this.

I personally wouldn’t do this especially if everything is already planned and you are the only postponing it for the sake of some profit while you have enough funds for the wedding. You should only invest money what you can afford to lose because there’s no guarantee on crypto investment.

OP isn't writing about wedding. He's writing about marriage anniversary celebration, which means that he is already married(at least that's what I can assume).
Spending money on stupid shit while you are financially unstable is counterproductive. OP's wife must understand that money doesn't fall from the sky (or doesn't grow on the trees) and making big expenses for unnecessary celebrations can have negative impact over the finances of the entire family. On the other hand, OP shouldn't be so confident about Bitcoin/crypto bringing him guaranteed returns. The crypto market is volatile right now and the price pump to 48K USD won't last forever.

[Gozie51]

Sorry to say but this sounds very ridiculous, it clearly shows you are not yet ready to marry. Perhaps this should be a wakeup call for your would-be bride to make better decision 

I guess you didn't understand what op means by anniversary. That means he is already married but wants to celebrate some years of their marriage and I think it is not totally wrong to postpone it to another time when he would be confident to spend money on it. He perhaps wants to wait longer to see the difference he would have from his hodling now and what it would turn out in the future.

However, my point to op is that he doesn't look serious to plan selling his coins at this time. He should have known the bull season is approaching so why buy coins and you plan to hodl it for the bull gain yet you are planning it for ceremony.

[demonica]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

You are married but you think of your wife that way? It's understandable if she's upset about cancelling your anniversary because it's a once a year celebration of your marriage life. It's not about attracting other people's attention, it's about the two of you. Though I also understand if you prioritize your investments especially with the expected bull run. However, it's your wife after all. It's not a random person. You prioritize your investments but you should also know how to handle multiple priorities in life. Both can be your priorities and both can work together if you know how to handle it.

It's an anniversary so you had a year (or even months will do) to plan ahead and save money for it without the need to use your current investments or sell your coins. I wonder how long will you postpone your anniversary? Bull run doesn't just end after a few days. But to be fair for the both of you you can just talk it out. If you're planning to postpone it, give her at least a time period until when will it be postponed. Or if you want to do it next year, then tell her so she wouldn't expect nor get disappointed.

[el kaka22]

This is the type of ideology that doesn't show enough respect to humans. The idea is that you shouldn't have any pleasures that doesn't bring you income, meaning that you do not deserve a hobby that you spend money on and not make any money from. Why? Why are we like that? Even animals have fun at times, why do we feel like we are not deserving of a life that is better? Why must we think that money is so valuable thing that we can't make it work any other way? Why must we think that people who do not work hard or work at a great job, do not deserve life?

It's really a shame that humanity came to a point where we do not care about anyone but ourselves, we need to do better, we need to improve the world to be a lot better for our kids and instead we ruined it for them.

[Yatsan]

Well, entertainment is a huge thing to everyone's life. You could chase as many as profit you want, but if burnout takes plaace earlier, then goodluck on your journey. Essential goods are now becoming more pricy which adds difficulty to our daily living experience. It is also normal to chase for profit however, be reasonable still  not because you took the risk, means there wil be something in return since in this market, nothing's gonna change it if both of them are decided already. Always choose to be baalaanced of things: if you are doing a bit great then never hesitate to win others as well. But with people who don't care that much then they still haave if ever I wouls be makihg a proposal.There's no need to com pletely you know nothing bout. That's simply the plan of longterm.

[Casalania]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

That's the sad reality. People who don't use cryptocurrency may not understand the importance of prioritizing your current holdings for a better future. Instead, they may choose to focus on instant gratification and seek to have the same pleasures as others. However, in the current situation, it would be better for you to talk to your wife about crypto and educate her on the benefits of holding it for the future. You could also consider saving together for your next anniversary as a way to work toward that future together. By helping each other, you could both experience the joy and satisfaction of investing in your future.

[Cookdata]

I am not financially stable yet, so I am very much grateful for the appreciative increments in the Bitcoin market (bull-run) on going, I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.

This is a very sensitive discussion and I'm going to share my humble opinion because as they say, what lord has joined together, let's no man put asunder, be careful of some advices here because not everyone here is married, some of them has not even dated, doesn't have a girlfriend and will give you advice that will crash your home.

Did you buy the coin early or you bought just recent? I'm asking just to confirm if you have just get the normal opium of new investors that always think that the market will continue to rise forever, honeymoon might be a liability but there will be nothing as painful as not going for honeymoon and also not having profits later because crypto investment is very volatile, I hope you are putting caution as you are anticipating for greater profits.

On your wife issues, I'm sure you guys understand each other better, you have seen some quality in her before going to the alter, if you have promised her of honeymoon before now, then I will say you are wrong for denying her that life of honeymoon but if you can persuade her and promise her later, it will make sense to surprise her later when you sell your investment and take her to where she want, she will enjoy that even better when there is even more money I think.