When you are not to gamble.

[Blitzboy]

I say that this is a typical gambler who will eventually enter the addiction phase and it is a fact that most gamblers come with the intention and purpose to earn because they are unable to resist all the things that look tempting which are actually nothing more than a temptation so that they do not stop their gambling activities or it is something that will make them become more excessive.

Yes, it's true that typical gamblers who have entered the addiction phase are easy to see from the way they play, usually they have more time to gamble and spend a lot of money when gambling, they are more easily tempted by the money they expect from the gambling they play indirectly, in fact they have spent a lot of money without realizing it, if only they realized that they had exceeded the limit of course they would regret this behavior which is not good for a gambler.

Gamblers must know when they are gambling and when they should stop gambling. When they are not gambling, they should look for other alternatives, looking for other entertainment besides gambling, that would be better, sometimes gamblers who have entered the addiction phase always unconsciously continue gambling. go beyond the limits of their abilities and spend a lot of money that is not really necessary, the point is that as gamblers we must be able to reject everything that is tempting from gambling itself, money can not only be found in gambling but there are many things we can do to earn money apart from gambling.

I get challenged to ponder on the force that drives players to think gambling is the only means of earning money. I would have concluded the rigorous thought if working-class gamblers didn't behave similarly to the unemployed players. Why would a player who makes money prefer to risk his business for gambling? Delving deeper into the mental impact of gambling on players, it looks quite vast. Players getting attacked emotionally in unique forms. They have never been a similar occurrence; most addicted players tell unique fables about their experiences. Leaving me with an inconclusive conclusion of what factor is in control of these mental problems.

Tracing down to the emotional encounters of the gambler, growing up could help as a factor. Were they, the addict, not appreciative of getting a new game console? Could it be domestic violence? multiple questions came by but as I said it's inconclusive. Because a player who is to rest after work sacrifices the moment to gamble. Then goes back to work unprepared, that's a bad experience. If they're tempted by the money, aren't they earning some funds? Most players who chase big profit, have never won more than they earn in their businesses. It's a tough situation to figure out why gambling is this way, more like drug addiction. But not all are buried in the addiction to misbehave in their workplace or thinking of earning money only via gambling. It seems gamblers exhibit this attitude a lot.

Its tempting - easy money, right? It works differently. Most people who fall into this trap want to get ahead without working. Big wins without sweat equity are desired. Problem: gambling doesnt value effort. It exploits our demand for rapid gratification, which is futile. Excitement, adrenaline... I know the draw. Is it worth risking everything? Your hard-earned money, family time, self-respect?

Many don't like to hear this, but lasting success requires calculated risks, not chance. Want to win big? Invest in yourself. Learn, become skilled, or establish a business. You build riches by betting on your potential. Gamblers face manipulated odds. I understand life's challenges. Sometimes it feels risky. Its foolish to leave your destiny to chance. The most valuable things in life cant be won at a casino. Work hard, follow the rules, and create a life you're proud of.

[Dewi Aries]

I say that this is a typical gambler who will eventually enter the addiction phase and it is a fact that most gamblers come with the intention and purpose to earn because they are unable to resist all the things that look tempting which are actually nothing more than a temptation so that they do not stop their gambling activities or it is something that will make them become more excessive.

Yes, it's true that typical gamblers who have entered the addiction phase are easy to see from the way they play, usually they have more time to gamble and spend a lot of money when gambling, they are more easily tempted by the money they expect from the gambling they play indirectly, in fact they have spent a lot of money without realizing it, if only they realized that they had exceeded the limit of course they would regret this behavior which is not good for a gambler.

Gamblers must know when they are gambling and when they should stop gambling. When they are not gambling, they should look for other alternatives, looking for other entertainment besides gambling, that would be better, sometimes gamblers who have entered the addiction phase always unconsciously continue gambling. go beyond the limits of their abilities and spend a lot of money that is not really necessary, the point is that as gamblers we must be able to reject everything that is tempting from gambling itself, money can not only be found in gambling but there are many things we can do to earn money apart from gambling.

Exactly, usually someone who has entered the addiction phase or those who are walking towards the addiction phase have an excessive way of gambling such as in terms of time and also in terms of money they allocate to gambling, they cannot resist everything that looks tempting and usually they always assume that "it is an opportunity that must be utilized" which is actually nothing more than a temptation so that they can continue gambling which will make them forget how to go home which in the end always ends in disappointment because the results are not suitable. On the other hand I am sure that there are some of them who realize that they have lost a considerable amount of money but that does not make them think of quitting because they usually have higher hopes and beliefs and always believe that the next time they will definitely win, it is a stupid mindset.

Yes that's right, knowing when to paddle and when to pull over is the key to healthy and regular gambling and I think this approach is unlikely to work for gamblers who have already entered the addiction phase and I would probably say that they are already too late because they have already entered the phase of attraction and higher expectations, where they are already stuck in the cycle of chasing wins to restore something that has already been lost.

[EarnOnVictor]

Great thread
I’d add

Never gamble when you are sleep deprived or hungry

It’s better and more entertaining to gamble in a good state of mind

Never gamble when you’re are hungry

Slots taste better if you’re not thinking about pizza

It's good that we gamble at the right time and for the right reasons, and if the two do not agree, it might be an issue for the gambler. Besides, I can't decipher the reason for the sleep and hunger remark here, it shows that the gambler is not just serious in my opinion. Why would you be gambling when you are sleeping? That lacks seriousness and could only mean addiction in some senses to me. You have to leave one for the other to avoid issues for yourself. What if you wanted to press $20 when you are wagering, but mistakingly pressed $200 due to the sleep? That is why it is good to be active before gambling, and gambling should never be done by force, we can postpone it till another day.

But for the hunger remarks, it is baseless to me. Hunger is not what you can't control or postpone the eating time. This is peculiar to workers, and mind you, many people are fasting and still very active and concentrate on their jobs and deliver better than those who did not fast. Needless to say, gambling is not what you do and takes several hours for it, you may gamble for a few hours and later eat which makes it not so much of an issue to me.

[Accardo]

I get challenged to ponder on the force that drives players to think gambling is the only means of earning money. I would have concluded the rigorous thought if working-class gamblers didn't behave similarly to the unemployed players. Why would a player who makes money prefer to risk his business for gambling? Delving deeper into the mental impact of gambling on players, it looks quite vast. Players getting attacked emotionally in unique forms. They have never been a similar occurrence; most addicted players tell unique fables about their experiences. Leaving me with an inconclusive conclusion of what factor is in control of these mental problems.

Tracing down to the emotional encounters of the gambler, growing up could help as a factor. Were they, the addict, not appreciative of getting a new game console? Could it be domestic violence? multiple questions came by but as I said it's inconclusive. Because a player who is to rest after work sacrifices the moment to gamble. Then goes back to work unprepared, that's a bad experience. If they're tempted by the money, aren't they earning some funds? Most players who chase big profit, have never won more than they earn in their businesses. It's a tough situation to figure out why gambling is this way, more like drug addiction. But not all are buried in the addiction to misbehave in their workplace or thinking of earning money only via gambling. It seems gamblers exhibit this attitude a lot.

Its tempting - easy money, right? It works differently. Most people who fall into this trap want to get ahead without working. Big wins without sweat equity are desired. Problem: gambling doesn't value effort. It exploits our demand for rapid gratification, which is futile. Excitement, adrenaline... I know the draw. Is it worth risking everything? Your hard-earned money, family time, self-respect?

Many don't like to hear this, but lasting success requires calculated risks, not chance. Want to win big? Invest in yourself. Learn, become skilled, or establish a business. You build riches by betting on your potential. Gamblers face manipulated odds. I understand life's challenges. Sometimes it feels risky. Its foolish to leave your destiny to chance. The most valuable things in life can't be won at a casino. Work hard, follow the rules, and create a life you're proud of.

Nice ideas on here, they feel gambling would offer them some quick wins, which isn't a great idea for any player. I think they should focus on building their dreams instead of following some unrealistic process by chasing losses. That depends on chance over hard work as you mentioned. Hence players who are into such a problem of hoping to get rich through gambling are not quite picking up the right choices. The odds aren't controlled by the gambler, hence no need to try something that we are not fully in control of and depend on it as though it's our business.

If gamblers were focused on building a business the same way, they're focused on chasing loss in gambling they wouldn't have a hard time with providing or sourcing out funds for gambling. However, it's not in their mental jurisdiction to manipulate their decision in their favor. I think your response is quite satisfactory to my question regarding why this happens. They think their business or company is not capable of giving them the life they deserve. Gambling is like a quick source of getting a quick big amount of gambling with little or no stress. But they end up realizing that no easy route to making it big in life. It's all hard work and following the rules.

[carlfebz2]

👉👉Under pressure or frustration

If gambling turns out to be stressful thing for you then it would really be just that right that you should really be stopping on doing it if you dont like to mess up  your life with
or would really be resulting into health problems because constant experience of these stress can cause health problems on which this is something that we dont really like to happen.

All of those things mentioned on OP are really that actually really just that right that you would really be needing to consider because gambling is never been that
totally created for those things specially on making it as an income on which it would really be bringing up a disaster into your life.
This is why it would be best that you should really know on when to stop when you are already gradually derailing yourself.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Usually I don't involve myself in gambling when I'm hungry because at that time I'm mentally tired and don't pay much attention to the gambling bet.
When I am physically tired and ill I refrain myself from gambling completely and I do not participate in gambling until my body recovers.
I abstain from gambling completely when I am intoxicated and I participate in gambling when the effects of the intoxication wear off. An addicted gambler is never able to focus deeply on gambling and thus the chances of gambling losses are higher than profits.

That is very important, when a person is hungry or is lazy or something like that, it is not good if they happen to play in a casino, for me things have a lot to do with the person's attitude, in fact there are people when They are hungry, they become very irritable and they are truly a problem for everything because they get in a bad mood, so I recommend playing when you feel good and partially happy, because if at the time we play it goes badly and we lose because one does not get full of rage or does things that he regrets such as betting more than normal and that can bring other problems that eventually lead to an addiction, these types of things are what we should avoid, so that advice is good, what I advise is that It can be played in a casino when we feel very good and if we are happy even better.

[fullhdpixel]

Never gamble when you’re are hungry

Slots taste better if you’re not thinking about pizza

Lol, they say you can do nothing with complete focus when you have an empty stomach, whether you are working, studying, or gambling. Your focus will be diverted toward your hunger and you won't be able to complete what you are trying to do effectively even if you do it by force. So when it comes to gambling, it's no exception, you can't have complete focus on your bets and the games you are playing if you are starving.

Besides, if someone is gambling for fun and not for the duh, they can have a great little time gambling sitting on a comfy couch while having some snacks around with a diet coke as a complimentary item. Click the spin button once, take a bite of the snack and a sip from the coke, what can be better than that?

[South Park]

Never gamble when you’re are hungry

Slots taste better if you’re not thinking about pizza

Lol, they say you can do nothing with complete focus when you have an empty stomach, whether you are working, studying, or gambling. Your focus will be diverted toward your hunger and you won't be able to complete what you are trying to do effectively even if you do it by force. So when it comes to gambling, it's no exception, you can't have complete focus on your bets and the games you are playing if you are starving.

Besides, if someone is gambling for fun and not for the duh, they can have a great little time gambling sitting on a comfy couch while having some snacks around with a diet coke as a complimentary item. Click the spin button once, take a bite of the snack and a sip from the coke, what can be better than that?

It may sound as something hilarious but it is the truth, there are people that cannot manage being hungry at all and get into a terrible mood if that happens, and that can be very dangerous when a person is an environment in which they can take all kind of reckless decisions if they are not careful, so people should only gamble when they feel they can manage the pressure that gambling for fun can throw at them, which is no small by any means.

[piebeyb]

Usually I don't involve myself in gambling when I'm hungry because at that time I'm mentally tired and don't pay much attention to the gambling bet.
When I am physically tired and ill I refrain myself from gambling completely and I do not participate in gambling until my body recovers.
I abstain from gambling completely when I am intoxicated and I participate in gambling when the effects of the intoxication wear off. An addicted gambler is never able to focus deeply on gambling and thus the chances of gambling losses are higher than profits.

What you are doing is right, other gamblers should learn like you, at least know when is the right time to gamble, let alone know when it is time to stop gambling, this will definitely have a good impact while gambling because you will not go beyond the limits of gambling with awareness. being full without feeling sleepy, tired or under the influence of alcohol is clearly a wrong way to force gambling under the influence that makes us unconscious when gambling, the most important thing when gambling is full awareness.

When someone experiences full awareness when gambling, at least he can still control himself so as not to become addicted to gambling, because in most cases we have heard and encountered on this forum there are gamblers who lose a lot of money because they are under the influence of alcohol or sleepy, that is clearly a mistake that will harming ourselves, I think all gamblers understand this very well, don't force yourself to gamble in an unconscious state and also at the wrong time, sometimes we need to set a comfortable time to gamble and it is important to gamble with a feeling of comfort and calm. 

[decodx]

Never gamble when you’re are hungry

Slots taste better if you’re not thinking about pizza

Lol, they say you can do nothing with complete focus when you have an empty stomach, whether you are working, studying, or gambling. Your focus will be diverted toward your hunger and you won't be able to complete what you are trying to do effectively even if you do it by force. So when it comes to gambling, it's no exception, you can't have complete focus on your bets and the games you are playing if you are starving.

Besides, if someone is gambling for fun and not for the duh, they can have a great little time gambling sitting on a comfy couch while having some snacks around with a diet coke as a complimentary item. Click the spin button once, take a bite of the snack and a sip from the coke, what can be better than that?

It may sound as something hilarious but it is the truth, there are people that cannot manage being hungry at all and get into a terrible mood if that happens, and that can be very dangerous when a person is an environment in which they can take all kind of reckless decisions if they are not careful, so people should only gamble when they feel they can manage the pressure that gambling for fun can throw at them, which is no small by any means.

Yeah, it's not hilarious at all. Hunger pangs totally throw off my concentration and put me in a crappy mood.  And mixing an empty stomach with gambling is just asking for trouble and  at least for me (maybe for you too?), trying to gamble when I'm starved leads me to make some stupid calls.  I get impatient, start trying to win back losses out of desperation, and just fail to think stuff through rationally. So, to keep gambling fun and not let it get outta hand I need a full belly and clear head.

[danadc]

Usually I don't involve myself in gambling when I'm hungry because at that time I'm mentally tired and don't pay much attention to the gambling bet.
When I am physically tired and ill I refrain myself from gambling completely and I do not participate in gambling until my body recovers.
I abstain from gambling completely when I am intoxicated and I participate in gambling when the effects of the intoxication wear off. An addicted gambler is never able to focus deeply on gambling and thus the chances of gambling losses are higher than profits.

What you are doing is right, other gamblers should learn like you, at least know when is the right time to gamble, let alone know when it is time to stop gambling, this will definitely have a good impact while gambling because you will not go beyond the limits of gambling with awareness. being full without feeling sleepy, tired or under the influence of alcohol is clearly a wrong way to force gambling under the influence that makes us unconscious when gambling, the most important thing when gambling is full awareness.

When someone experiences full awareness when gambling, at least he can still control himself so as not to become addicted to gambling, because in most cases we have heard and encountered on this forum there are gamblers who lose a lot of money because they are under the influence of alcohol or sleepy, that is clearly a mistake that will harming ourselves, I think all gamblers understand this very well, don't force yourself to gamble in an unconscious state and also at the wrong time, sometimes we need to set a comfortable time to gamble and it is important to gamble with a feeling of comfort and calm. 

Learning at the right time when to play will be a very good option for us to apply, it would be when we have total and complete confidence in how to do things well, for example I have a lot of energy in the mornings, and I think that would be my best time to play, other people are very active at night, and that could be the main time to play, but you have to see Things that way, not in another way, because playing when you are uncomfortable or when you feel hot, or are If the opponent has Problems, I think that there we could lose a lot of money and everything will be worse, so it is better to look for the place where we feel more comfortable to play, because the idea is to win, even if it is little, if we lose all the money we will not It's doing nothing, and I'm not a millionaire to lose that much money.

[Jody.Drummer]

It may sound as something hilarious but it is the truth, there are people that cannot manage being hungry at all and get into a terrible mood if that happens, and that can be very dangerous when a person is an environment in which they can take all kind of reckless decisions if they are not careful, so people should only gamble when they feel they can manage the pressure that gambling for fun can throw at them, which is no small by any means.

Yeah, it's not hilarious at all. Hunger pangs totally throw off my concentration and put me in a crappy mood.  And mixing an empty stomach with gambling is just asking for trouble and  at least for me (maybe for you too?), trying to gamble when I'm starved leads me to make some stupid calls.  I get impatient, start trying to win back losses out of desperation, and just fail to think stuff through rationally. So, to keep gambling fun and not let it get outta hand I need a full belly and clear head.

This is why it is always recommended to gamble when you have free time and favorable conditions, if you are hungry or doing other things then yes, of course, prioritize things that are far more important than forcing to continue gambling because however conditions such as hunger or conditions in the middle when you are doing other activities will certainly be able to interfere with your gambling activities and one of them eliminates focus in terms of considering something to make the right decision in gambling, in the end you might rush and make decisions that are not right.

After all, there is absolutely no rule for anyone to over-prioritize or force gambling, simply put if for example you are feeling bored with the free time you have then yes it can be used as the right time to gamble, but if for example you are doing other activities or for example when you are gambling and then you feel hungry or someone is calling you for other more important matters then obviously prioritize something much more important, because you can still gamble at another time in a calm situation without any distractions.

[Onyeeze]

Usually I don't involve myself in gambling when I'm hungry because at that time I'm mentally tired and don't pay much attention to the gambling bet.
When I am physically tired and ill I refrain myself from gambling completely and I do not participate in gambling until my body recovers.
I abstain from gambling completely when I am intoxicated and I participate in gambling when the effects of the intoxication wear off. An addicted gambler is never able to focus deeply on gambling and thus the chances of gambling losses are higher than profits.

What you are doing is right, other gamblers should learn like you, at least know when is the right time to gamble, let alone know when it is time to stop gambling, this will definitely have a good impact while gambling because you will not go beyond the limits of gambling with awareness. being full without feeling sleepy, tired or under the influence of alcohol is clearly a wrong way to force gambling under the influence that makes us unconscious when gambling, the most important thing when gambling is full awareness.

When someone experiences full awareness when gambling, at least he can still control himself so as not to become addicted to gambling, because in most cases we have heard and encountered on this forum there are gamblers who lose a lot of money because they are under the influence of alcohol or sleepy, that is clearly a mistake that will harming ourselves, I think all gamblers understand this very well, don't force yourself to gamble in an unconscious state and also at the wrong time, sometimes we need to set a comfortable time to gamble and it is important to gamble with a feeling of comfort and calm. 

Learning at the right time when to play will be a very good option for us to apply, it would be when we have total and complete confidence in how to do things well, for example I have a lot of energy in the mornings, and I think that would be my best time to play, other people are very active at night, and that could be the main time to play, but you have to see Things that way, not in another way, because playing when you are uncomfortable or when you feel hot, or are If the opponent has Problems, I think that there we could lose a lot of money and everything will be worse, so it is better to look for the place where we feel more comfortable to play, because the idea is to win, even if it is little, if we lose all the money we will not It's doing nothing, and I'm not a millionaire to lose that much money.

someone will not know best time to gamble because gambling is not something you will learn base on skills, so gambling evenings and mornings have different ways and note that gambling is all about luck and opportunity when you don't have opportunity in gambling you will not be able to win gambling,  what we should be emphasising on right now is to minimise the money we use in playing gambling knowing that gambling is all about opportunity not by what we practice most, what we practice most and give us an insight of wining gambling should be trading, not as gambling we know that is unpredictable

[Natsuu]

All of those things mentioned on OP are really that actually really just that right that you would really be needing to consider because gambling is never been that totally created for those things specially on making it as an income on which it would really be bringing up a disaster into your life.

Yet you truly need to have a balance for the hunger to make money and the patience to make money. This is necessary for you to have that spark or excitement going in to gambling. Because what happens when you don't have that hunger to make money or hunger to prove yourself is that gambling turns into a mundane thing and becomes very boring indeed. However, too much hunger to make money, makes you very aggressive. This makes you to be impatient, that you don't realize you are already over risking, over gambling, or even putting in all your money.

So you got to find your middle ground. That way, you find your self gambling in your own zone without any pressure yet enjoyable.

[Shamm]

Usually I don't involve myself in gambling when I'm hungry because at that time I'm mentally tired and don't pay much attention to the gambling bet.
When I am physically tired and ill I refrain myself from gambling completely and I do not participate in gambling until my body recovers.
I abstain from gambling completely when I am intoxicated and I participate in gambling when the effects of the intoxication wear off. An addicted gambler is never able to focus deeply on gambling and thus the chances of gambling losses are higher than profits.

Sometimes in gambling we can not assure that every time we put our bet we will win but sometimes in reality it will matters in our health condition as we are mentally absence and tired then we can not focus  in our play and it will lead us in to losses  cause once we are not in focus we put our bet any of the possible game without analyzing  and we all know how important analyzation is. Cause it will help us to reduce the chance of our losses.  But anyways it's up to our luck if we gonna win or loss cause gambling is luck basis.

[TelolettOm]

someone will not know best time to gamble because gambling is not something you will learn base on skills

What do you mean? If it is about when the right time for you to gamble, it totally depends on yourself. Just make sure you gamble at spare time, you don't gamble when you are at work. I myself often gamble at the weekend, it is when I have spare time. If it is week days, I have no time for gambling because I need to focus on my jobs.

Gambling can be learned, but we only learn how to play the gambling games properly. Unfortunately, it sometimes can't help much in raising the chance to win the gambling games. That makes people conclude that gambling relies on the luck.

so gambling evenings and mornings have different ways

I think the ways will remain the same even if you gamble at evening, night, or morning. However, I doubt you will have enough time to gamble in the morning if you have jobs in real life, except it is in weekend. Honestly, I am curious about why you assume to have different ways if people gamble in the morning or evening? 

[FortuneFollower]

Usually I don't involve myself in gambling when I'm hungry because at that time I'm mentally tired and don't pay much attention to the gambling bet.
When I am physically tired and ill I refrain myself from gambling completely and I do not participate in gambling until my body recovers.
I abstain from gambling completely when I am intoxicated and I participate in gambling when the effects of the intoxication wear off. An addicted gambler is never able to focus deeply on gambling and thus the chances of gambling losses are higher than profits.

It's wise how you set clear boundaries for gambling—no playing when hungry, tired, ill, or intoxicated. This approach ensures you're always in the right state of mind, minimizing the risk of losses. It's a strategy all gamblers should consider to keep their focus sharp and their decisions sound. It underscores a crucial point: gambling requires clear-headedness to avoid unnecessary losses.

[Pi-network314159]

You can add these two:

When you win little, do not gamble on that day again. But some gamblers will feel like they should continue to gamble and they will lose at the end of the day.

When you are addicted. Quit gambling for a long time.

That is true, people often play gambling whenever they win, hoping for more  wins, forgetting that gambling is not what we should focus our mind on that Much. I have come across somebody who won upto $200 instead of going home, greed came upon him and he continued playing until he lost all he has won and his sense of reasoning hasn't even told him to go he was still seated and was looking at other gamblers with his eye red. Nobody even talked to him because they knew talking to him will amount to alot of problem.

Your second addition which you said that when we loose more we should give it a break I agree on that. Because it is only when you give it a break you will understand that you have been addicted. Sometimes people don't know they are addicted until they take a break and relax before they can know how frequent they have been playing gamble.

[Silberman]

You can add these two:

When you win little, do not gamble on that day again. But some gamblers will feel like they should continue to gamble and they will lose at the end of the day.

When you are addicted. Quit gambling for a long time.

That is true, people often play gambling whenever they win, hoping for more  wins, forgetting that gambling is not what we should focus our mind on that Much. I have come across somebody who won upto $200 instead of going home, greed came upon him and he continued playing until he lost all he has won and his sense of reasoning hasn't even told him to go he was still seated and was looking at other gamblers with his eye red. Nobody even talked to him because they knew talking to him will amount to alot of problem.

Your second addition which you said that when we loose more we should give it a break I agree on that. Because it is only when you give it a break you will understand that you have been addicted. Sometimes people don't know they are addicted until they take a break and relax before they can know how frequent they have been playing gamble.

When under pressure people are bound to make a lot more mistakes than usual, so if a person begins to feel uncomfortable with the amount of money they are gambling, that should be a clear sign they need to stop gambling immediately, because if they do not do it then they may realize the mistake they made only once a lot more money was lost, which could be a source of extra pressure that could later force them to make additional mistakes, as they may keep gambling to try to recover their money.

[zuzie]

Health factors and financial needs will be made by gamblers not to gamble because these two factors are very influential in their relationship to gambling, namely when someone is sick, they have to rest and restore their health so they can return to their activities again and when someone is confused or unsteady financial problems, then he must prioritize the needs that are beneficial to him first because that is the most important thing in his own life.