If a addict lives within, which method would you choose to help them

[klidex]

Number one would probably be better because forcing the person to stop will take them away from us so that we can no longer monitor them or approach them to give them advice and resuscitate them.
However, of all this, in my opinion, the most appropriate thing is to take him to a professional to get the right treatment because an expert has the right method to apply and help the person, although it cannot be denied that success also depends on the person's willingness to get out of the addiction they are experiencing, so no matter how hard we try to help him, it won't work if he refuses to recover from addiction.

That's right, I agree with you, forcing someone to be a little harsh will only cause debates which will lead to fights or arguments which will make the chemistry between families no longer harmonious. So it's better to advise them to remain gentle even though it doesn't work for those who have stubborn nature but still over time they will melt. Like a stone that continues to be dripped with water over time the stone will become punctured due to the drops so advising an addict we really have to be patient especially if they are our family and we love them by continuing to advise them, if things This still doesn't work. You can leave it to those who are experts in handling cases like this. Curing an addict is indeed difficult and won't work just because of advice or being rude.

Well, the main factor that can encourage a person to stop is only himself who has the determination to recover with the encouragement within himself to recover then he will be easy to stop but if there is a coercion factor and he has no intention to stop himself then it will be difficult to get rid of it will continue to think of ways to continue gambling even when everyone has forbidden it, they will still make every effort to fulfill their desires.

[SeriouslyGiveaway]

Which do you think it's best? Some people do think that been soft and gentle will be more effective and some people think that been harder on them is the real love here, they need to make them stop by force.
 
What do you think?

Each person will have different perspectives and methods in solving problems. And people addicted to gambling are also different, not everyone can use soft methods and vice versa. Depending on the personality of each person, we will have specific methods for each object. However, there are also some cases where it is necessary to apply tough measures from the beginning, that is when they fall into a dangerous situation or can no longer control their behavior. In this situation, taking a tough approach can stop the negative behavior right away before applying other measures.

In addition, we must note that we should always respect and ensure the safety and rights of people with gambling addiction while helping them get treatment. There should be no excessive coercive behavior, which can cause the opposite effect. Helping a person overcome a gambling addiction is a long process, requiring patience and time, so any hasty actions can ruin everything.

[rodskee]

Forget yelling and finger-pointing. Instead, have a chill conversation. Let them know you care and want to help them beat this gambling thing. Try to see things from their perspective. What's pushing them to gamble? Maybe they're stressed, bored, or something else is going on. By understanding them better, you can offer support without the judgment.

that is right , those type of addicted gamblers knows nothing now but to gamble and what others
might be thinking so adding a hard conversation will just make them trust no one so chill and show of
concern conversation will help them understand everything but try not to give them any amount
resulting to more gambling games.

Loving someone doesn't mean letting them keep digging a hole. Set some clear ground rules, like not lending them cash or rescuing them from gambling debts. It's tough love, but it shows you care and want them to get back on their feet. You can't fix everything yourself. A therapist can help them unpack the reasons behind the gambling and teach them how to deal with cravings. Find some treatment options and nudge them towards getting professional help. Getting better isn't always a straight line. There might be bumps in the road. Don't freak out! Be there for them, remind them of the progress they've made, and help them get back on track.

you have a good heart mate and you seems to be a calm person , you will truly help people that is
dealing in addiction because they need someone like you.

[irhact]

Most people come from familes where gambling is not tolerated or is seen as something that's not for responsible people and i believe that's why most people are still addicted to it and gamble secretly, sometimes they which they could open up to close families for help concerning their addiction but then the fear of being backlashed would stop them from doing so.

 Most individuals forget that gamblers are humans too, who knowingly or out of ignorance made the wrong decision therefore it's our duty as family, friend or close neighbors to help give advice to people suffering from gambling addiction. It's something that could ruin the financial strength of an individual that's why i think the best remedy for an addicted gambler is booking a Section with a psychologist.

[Samlucky O]

As a member of a family and there is a gambling addict within, which method do you think it's the best to rip off the addict from your family member?

1. Talk to them and don't leave their side for too long, show them some love and make sure they don't have anything to do with gambling ever again, be soft and gentle with them.

Sometimes they way you guys describe a gambling addict, it looks like someone who is psychologically isane that need a psychiatrist or a sick patient that needs a doctor. All this idea propounded here looks pretty like someone who needs medical attention or a case that need people around you as if something tremendous has happen to the person. An addict just need an advice on how to control his emotions on Gambling habit, not some sort of pampering him like a sick person. We should be able to differentiate between a sick person and a gambling addict.

[angrybirdy]

As a member of a family and there is a gambling addict within, which method do you think it's the best to rip off the addict from your family member?

1. Talk to them and don't leave their side for too long, show them some love and make sure they don't have anything to do with gambling ever again, be soft and gentle with them.

Sometimes they way you guys describe a gambling addict, it looks like someone who is psychologically isane that need a psychiatrist or a sick patient that needs a doctor. All this idea propounded here looks pretty like someone who needs medical attention or a case that need people around you as if something tremendous has happen to the person. An addict just need an advice on how to control his emotions on Gambling habit, not some sort of pampering him like a sick person. We should be able to differentiate between a sick person and a gambling addict.

Fyi, there's a different level of addiction, if it is easy to cure them by giving advice, maybe there is no addict in the world, but it is not that easy especially if the person has reached the worst case level of addiction, they can no longer be taught or cured only through counseling because the only thing that can help them is the guidance of the family and intensive observation from medical experts. Maybe you will understand better what the purpose of psychiatrists or psychologists in the world is when you have encountered an acquaintance or relative who ended up being addicted.

[rahmad2nd]

Most people come from familes where gambling is not tolerated or is seen as something that's not for responsible people and i believe that's why most people are still addicted to it and gamble secretly, sometimes they which they could open up to close families for help concerning their addiction but then the fear of being backlashed would stop them from doing so.

 Most individuals forget that gamblers are humans too, who knowingly or out of ignorance made the wrong decision therefore it's our duty as family, friend or close neighbors to help give advice to people suffering from gambling addiction. It's something that could ruin the financial strength of an individual that's why i think the best remedy for an addicted gambler is booking a Section with a psychologist.

It is not taboo for us if there are many gamblers who hide their gambling, especially where gambling itself is not tolerated in a family. regardless of its relation to beliefs, or other reasons and so on. for me it doesn't have to be specific that this always leads to addiction, regardless of how someone secretly gambles without wanting their family to know. there are many reasons, and it doesn't have to be someone who is really addicted. although it cannot be denied, there are many cases where someone becomes addicted because of what you said in this post. The problem is, it's not that most people forget that gamblers are people too. It's just that fanaticism and other negative thoughts make most non-gamblers stigmatize that gambling is an addiction. In fact, addiction is the result of not having self-control. which starts from understanding, knowledge and experience. In the end, most gamblers are trapped in a situation that is a problem for them. Not a few, many gamblers are damaged due to what they do excessively, but not all gamblers are addicts.

But what is certain is that this entertainment provides a game that provides rewards and uniqueness in each game. Maybe the solution you mentioned in this post could be a reference for someone who wants to get rid of addiction. However, if it is not based on a firm desire and determination, usually a treatment like this will not last long. Honestly, I'm not a specialist in this field. However, there are many treatments that can be done by someone who wants to get rid of their addiction. Talking to the family and finding a solution is an important part. Furthermore, there are many other methods that can be used by the addict and his family to solve problems like this. However, each person has a different method for dealing with healing.

[Apocollapse]

An addict just need an advice on how to control his emotions on Gambling habit, not some sort of pampering him like a sick person. We should be able to differentiate between a sick person and a gambling addict.

Have you met a gambling addict in real life? do all of gambling addicts become normal after you give "advices"? don't underestimate mental health issues, you need to be grateful if you didn't have it, while other people are fighting with it.

Most people come from familes where gambling is not tolerated or is seen as something that's not for responsible people and i believe that's why most people are still addicted to it and gamble secretly, sometimes they which they could open up to close families for help concerning their addiction but then the fear of being backlashed would stop them from doing so.

Exactly, it's why many people choose to share their secret with their friends instead of their parents or families, it's really ironic to see it. If the parents or families are open minded and don't just scold over their kids mistakes, I'm sure the kids dare to share their secrets.

[Zoomic]

As a member of a family and there is a gambling addict within, which method do you think it's the best to rip off the addict from your family member?

1. Talk to them and don't leave their side for too long, show them some love and make sure they don't have anything to do with gambling ever again, be soft and gentle with them.

Sometimes they way you guys describe a gambling addict, it looks like someone who is psychologically isane that need a psychiatrist or a sick patient that needs a doctor. All this idea propounded here looks pretty like someone who needs medical attention or a case that need people around you as if something tremendous has happen to the person. An addict just need an advice on how to control his emotions on Gambling habit, not some sort of pampering him like a sick person. We should be able to differentiate between a sick person and a gambling addict.

Fyi, there's a different level of addiction, if it is easy to cure them by giving advice, maybe there is no addict in the world, but it is not that easy especially if the person has reached the worst case level of addiction, they can no longer be taught or cured only through counseling because the only thing that can help them is the guidance of the family and intensive observation from medical experts. Maybe you will understand better what the purpose of psychiatrists or psychologists in the world is when you have encountered an acquaintance or relative who ended up being addicted.

I have come to realise that people only complain about gambling addiction of someone close to them only when they begin to see and feel the negative impacts of that person's lifestyle. I have seen quite a good number of addicted gamblers who have been very lucky to earn big consecutively from gambling instead of losing. Families and friends flock around them and get as much financial benefits they can get. These are thesame people that would advice or even disassociate themselves from the addict if he/she was always getting involved in troubles.

Families and friends have a lot of roles to play in ensuring that those around them are safe. First, they need to have an open mind towards gambling. They do not need to condemn gambling so bad that anyone who eventually finds interest in gambling begins to gamble in secret, this will make it difficult to help the gambler when need arises. Every advice given to a gambler goes a long way in shaping the life of that gambler. Whether  a gambler is doing well or not, Families should always speak up and do something whenever they find something fishy. Before bringing in third parties (psychiatrists or psychologists), the loved ones have a lot of roles to play.