Ever Hated someone because he/she win too much, when you are constantly losing?

[bubilas]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.
- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

In gambling and betting, it is very common for one friend to be jealous of another. The casino knows perfectly well that it has a good trump card due to the free promotion distributed among the players themselves.
When a gambler starts telling everyone about his success at the casino, his friends are both happy for him and a little jealous. They can be understood, because nothing has changed in their personal lives.

[Psynthax]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

Envy is human nature but try to channel that inner peace to not make it big of a deal, you see your friend winning big time, just take his advice on what you should place bet on, i mean since his winning rate is so high just following his every decision is probably the way to go.

being salty is one way of you having your downfall, whenever I got a friend that are so lucky I probably just outright try to follow them without thinking twice if the worst scenario played out and i'm losing due to following him, well too bad maybe i'm the chosen one bringer of bad luck
but if the opposite happen and we won, then I guess i'm gonna have betting guru that i gonna follow faithfully. always consider it as an entertainment at the end of the day. the post creator up there shows a sign of being paranoid if i'm being honest, all those wins probably because he's just lucky you know.

[wxa7115]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.

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- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

The jealous friend is showing a very weak mentality, after all while it is understandable he is not happy about losing all the time while his friend is winning, he is completely to blame, as he supposedly wants to avoid gambling whenever he is with that friend of his and he ends up gambling anyway.

If he wants to stop he has two options, which is to avoid attending casinos with that friend, or to do so but avoid gambling at all and instead just encourage him, personally I would prefer the first option to avoid any kind of temptation, but the second option makes sense too if he wants to support his friend.

[davis196]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

1.I'm not a jealous/envy person. I can't hate other people for having more luck than me. Some people are lucky, other people aren't. There's no point being butthurt about this.
2.I don't believe in your story. The whole "my friend is always winning and I'm always losing" thing seems like a lie to me. No gambler can win all the time and no gambler can lose all the time.
3.Even if this story was true, what kind of "real friend" is this? Forcing your best friend to visit the casino, where he loses money, while you are winning? This doesn't seem like something a good friend would do. What if your best friend develops a gambling addiction and ruins his life because you are forcing him to go to the casino?

[EluguHcman]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?

Why will I be jealous. I can not be jealous of something like that. I have a friend like that many years ago and I did not jealous of him. I can not even be jealous of my friends progress. But I wish for progress also.

- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

Why not just follow my friend and gamble what he gambles 

The story really sounds like a witchcraft. Lol.
Was the guy who introduced his friend to gambling expecting lost from him?
I guess if he has lost so furiously, the one who introduced him to the gambling would had been blamed so I think it should be a glory that his friend has been lucky to win and so also, his friend will also return his gratitude to his other friend who introduced him to the gambling.

I am still wondering why on earth would he be jealous of his friend like that knowing that the money his friend has been winning from the gamble is not his own.
Literally such a friend is not worth keeping because he will only want to watch you fail.
Maybe as gambling is said to be a game of luck, he was expecting his friends luck was not going to shine for him to win

[bitbollo]

excluding magicians unless people that have supernatural powers, it is really difficult for someone to "always win".
At least I need to control all of his bets, it's obvious that I don't believe it.
Also because it is easy to highlight the successes... and above all it is easy to win in a short period of time.
Let's see how it continues over many years/long strikes of bets...

[danherbias07]

Envy is human nature but try to channel that inner peace to not make it big of a deal, you see your friend winning big time, just take his advice on what you should place bet on, i mean since his winning rate is so high just following his every decision is probably the way to go.

being salty is one way of you having your downfall, whenever I got a friend that are so lucky I probably just outright try to follow them without thinking twice if the worst scenario played out and i'm losing due to following him, well too bad maybe i'm the chosen one bringer of bad luck
but if the opposite happen and we won, then I guess i'm gonna have betting guru that i gonna follow faithfully. always consider it as an entertainment at the end of the day. the post creator up there shows a sign of being paranoid if i'm being honest, all those wins probably because he's just lucky you know.

I agree, it's alright to envy them but I do like your approach. Why not just follow them? I think that's the best option for that unlucky guy. Bet at what he bets for and maybe they will see if both of them will get lucky and try to win back what the friend lost.
But like I said in my first post, hate is a strong word. You cannot hate a friend for that shallow reason, there's always a bright side to what is happening.
A successful friend winning his bets must have happy friends beside him. For me, that was the case back when I was winning with my friend doing it for me while it was my money that was being gambled. I have no idea how the game works which is why I made him do it. Whenever it wins, I will buy him 2 bottles of beer and food, and then we gamble again. We kept on doing that until we got drunk and I was surprised when I woke up I had lots of money in my pocket.
Like I said, both of you can get happy as long as it is shared right.

[MainIbem]

Enviousness and jealousy are part of those things that ruins a good friendship and once it comes up you'll see someone developing unnecessary hatred for close friends or loved ones, it is not a good trait and people who do such should change from that. People should learn to celebrate the success and wins of their friends/loved one's instead of being jealous so their jealousy won't lead them to commiting crimes, I've seen a case where a young man out of jealousy killed his only brother cause he was more successful in business than him, such act of killing would've been avoided if he celebrated his brothers win, then take away his pride and seek advise from the younger one on how to grow his own business and become successful as well. That's what I think that envious friend in the OP's post should've done, instead of developing unnecessary jealousy concerning his friends success in gambling.

[acroman08]

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personally, I wouldn't ever be mad if my friend is constantly winning, I might get jealous and probably hoping I could win just like him but I would never get mad at him because he keeps winning.

anyway, the OP of that thread really needs to take a break from gambling and maybe get professional help because getting angry at your best friend because he keeps winning is not normal, there is probably an underlying issue as you why he would feel that way toward his best friend.

[Yaunfitda]

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personally, I wouldn't ever be mad if my friend is constantly winning, I might get jealous and probably hoping I could win just like him but I would never get mad at him because he keeps winning.

anyway, the OP of that thread really needs to take a break from gambling and maybe get professional help because getting angry at your best friend because he keeps winning is not normal, there is probably an underlying issue as you why he would feel that way toward his best friend.

And maybe if he is your real friend, if he wins big then maybe he will gifted you with some of his winnings as well, so how can you get mad at that person. And assuming he did not, still he is your friend and you should be happy with his winnings and maybe you wish someday that you could be in that place and win as well. So yes, you don't need to be jealous or what, just enjoy and have fun both of you.

And we all know that getting mad as someone is not good for us as we could be affected mentally and it could ruin your friendship. So just continue to play with him as one day it will be your turn to be happy and give back when you win big.

[TopTort777]

Hate someone because he is better, that is so "adult". However, I must (and all of us) confess, that subconsciously we do have a negative feeling when someone is better than us I would say that sometimes I wish other to lose, when there is a challenge But feeling have towards somebody? Maybe a second of hate I do feel sometimes. But to hate someone like trying to spoil his life or make him feel bad, such thing I have never noticed in me. Imho hate is pointless. Dont remember that hate ever helped someone (except in movies lol).

[Roseline492]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.

Well for me reading all the statement on that post I don't think the guy hated his friend because he always win but on the contrary I believe he was just feeling bad for himself why he couldn't be able to win when his friend he newly brought into gambling is wining a lot, actually is very normal for human being to feel that way because there is no way for instance someone will be in the mist of crowd and everyone keeps wining and you continue losing of course you will feel for yourself and asking what you are not doing right that makes you to be losing all the time while others keep wining.

However the only aspect I blame the guy is that since he noticed that the continues losing has started affecting him financially he should have stood firm to his friend that he is no longer going to the gambling and besides what stop his friend from going there alone since he already knows the place but instead he still followed him to the place so actually his friend is not to be blame for his losing.

[ethereumhunter]

I don't hate when my friend wins from me in gambling games. But I don't wants to playing gambling with him too long because that can makes me lose much money. I will tells him that I must prevents the big lose by limiting my gambling activity even if I playing gambling with them.

If he is really my friend, he will understand of what I am saying to him and will not force myself to keeps playing gambling. We will stops from playing gambling and will do other things that will not spends money such as go to gym or doing some positive things. I don't jealous with my friend if he can wins many times in gambling, especially if we playing gambling together but we will limits our time and money to playing gambling so we don't lose much money. Besides that, when we playing gambling, we just do it for fun.

[satscraper]

Should I have such friend who always wins I would convince him to gamble always on my money and to share the winning  on fifty-fifty bases. However there is no such person who never loses. Thus I think that guy who posted complains about his friend is stretching the real things. Maybe it indeed has happened a couple of  times, but  the couple is not counted.

[Peanutswar]

You cannot blame others because if your misfortune, sometimes making a wrong decision might lead to us making mistakes and losing the game. When we are losing person's nature is to take the blame for something and in that case I guess he saw his friend winning and took that as all of the bad luck would transfer to him even though they are separately playing gambling. At the first place base on the screenshot he's the one who offer to his friend to play gambling so instead of supporting him with your both hobby why having an envy with that emotion it might probably destroy a friendship over just a gambling that doesn't connected to his friend wins and his losses at all.

[piebeyb]

Should I have such friend who always wins I would convince him to gamble always on my money and to share the winning  on fifty-fifty bases. However there is no such person who never loses. Thus I think that guy who posted complains about his friend is stretching the real things. Maybe it indeed has happened a couple of  times, but  the couple is not counted.

Besides, it doesn't make sense if someone wins too much. In fact, I see no gambler who is really rich from gambling, let alone getting a winning streak, on the contrary, we often find losing streaks on every gambling site. I have a friend who is an expert in even if he plays gambling, he never always wins and continues to win more than he loses. What you say also makes sense, but this is just a discussion, although there are not many people who are lucky like that, taking advantage of someone's winning moment, it's a good idea to share the results. using our money to play with our friends who are having good luck with themselves. but you still have to accept the risks together too. 

[retreat]

It is unreasonable if you hate someone just because he is luckier than you. This is gambling, you can lose at any time, and if you feel it is unfair to you, then you can stop gambling, it's as simple as that. You don't need to force yourself to win on every gamble you make, or to the point where you resent other people who are very lucky and regret yourself having rubbish luck - don't be a cry baby, just play and have fun. If you can't afford it, just stop gambling.

[Ojinga]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.



- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

for me I won't tell him anything or envy him in anyway, have you heard of someone telling a testimony of a friend changing his life from gambling. But it seems this case sounds the same like the testimony, you quitting going with him sounds awful to me but if only you see the good side of it that you're also helping a good friend life and stop being jealous. And there is one topic I over see on this gambling discussion board that you can follow your friend and join money to gamble, if you see that his winning whenever his with you then take the chance than for you to lose it all. Why not you convince him for both of you joining money together since you can see that he's winning more than you lately, so for me whenever he comes around what I'll do is for me to tell him the fact about me joining my money with him so that we can also win very good amount of money. If he doesn't agree with me then he should go alone and gamble and he knows that I'm his luck at the moment so we both have something in common, to help out with. This is what I'll do if I'm in this position.

[junder]

You cannot blame others because if your misfortune, sometimes making a wrong decision might lead to us making mistakes and losing the game. When we are losing person's nature is to take the blame for something and in that case I guess he saw his friend winning and took that as all of the bad luck would transfer to him even though they are separately playing gambling. At the first place base on the screenshot he's the one who offer to his friend to play gambling so instead of supporting him with your both hobby why having an envy with that emotion it might probably destroy a friendship over just a gambling that doesn't connected to his friend wins and his losses at all.

It's true what you said, it's not natural for other people or friends to win or be superior to us, what's more, we have to be able to see that winning at gambling is based on luck, so it's impossible for everyone to have the same portion of luck, of course everyone has a portion. luck is different, therefore it is not strange when we gamble together with friends but the results we get are different, whether we lose and our friends win or vice versa, if we win, our friends lose.
When you both enjoy gambling, I think the difference in results you get shouldn't cause a fight or make the person who loses angry. In fact, I think that when he loses and his friend wins, maybe what will happen is that his friend will share his winnings. because this is what happened to me and my friend in the last months. where when the gambling carried out has ended in defeat then no more gambling sessions are carried out, whereas when you win then the victory is enjoyed together, that is not bad in fact it is fun. Moreover, hating someone who is superior will not improve the situation, it can only make the situation worse.

[traderethereum]

It is unreasonable if you hate someone just because he is luckier than you. This is gambling, you can lose at any time, and if you feel it is unfair to you, then you can stop gambling, it's as simple as that. You don't need to force yourself to win on every gamble you make, or to the point where you resent other people who are very lucky and regret yourself having rubbish luck - don't be a cry baby, just play and have fun. If you can't afford it, just stop gambling.

But that can happens to people who doesn't like if their wins some money. They will not accepts that wins, especially if their friends can wins more and more.
That can makes them argue that his friend cheat or do something that can makes them wins many times. But if they understand about winning can comes to anyone, they will not jealous and accept their friend's winning.
They know that playing gambling and wins the games can not happens to many people so they must realizes about that and can accept that. We don't have to feels bad if our friends wins because we don't have the same luck as them.