Ever Hated someone because he/she win too much, when you are constantly losing?

[hedgeh0g]

When our friends continuously win, while we ourselves don't win. In a situation like this, apart from me feeling jealous of what he gets, we will definitely feel feelings of irritation and mounting anger. And if in that situation we are not clever and wise enough to suppress our emotions, this could make us even more out of control and place bets like crazy, with a reason to prove that we are no less smart and no less lucky than him. . Yes, the hope is like that, even though in reality this will only drag us into endless betting and gambling and even greater losses. I've been in that situation, and following my emotions only made me more lost and miserable.

It turns out that in such a situation everything depends on our control over our emotions. The anger and envy that we may experience in such situations arise from our genes, upbringing and psycho-emotional intelligence formed over the years. Even in some cases, we may try to resist it with our mind, but ultimately it will all come out of us because our psycho-emotional intelligence has a big advantage over us. Of course, there will be those superhumans who will be able to overcome these feelings within themselves and stop envying their friends. But in any case, this whole situation will help prove in the game that we are not losers and luck can come to us too. Of course, the possibility that we bet and lose even more cannot be ruled out, and no one can predict what we will do in this case.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Humans hide a lot of emotions in their bodies and jealousy is also a cell that is embedded in them, so when we see the things we desire but achieve with others, a certain amount of jealousy emerged. But in reality, the energy of jealousy only appears strongly in work as well as competitive relationships, in gambling, very few people win regularly, and everyone almost understands their fate, and sometimes I just smile and listen to the experience of someone who has won many times, simply their experience is more valuable than an unnecessary jealousy.

Well the truth is I wouldn't call it jealousy, what you say is true, but the people who usually feel those things do so because they simply feel envy, and for me envy makes no sense, particularly people who feel envy will never be happy, even when they achieve their goal, they will feel envious for another reason, on the contrary, for example I like it when a player publishes that he won a raffle, a game, whatever, because it is something that I like, the fact that another person is doing well is something that should make us happy, and even more so if it is in a casino, because that person wins money and probably that money is put to good use or is really needed, there is no reason to feel bad that another person wins, it simply does not make sense.
Because just for a moment if we stop to think, who are we to say: "He doesn't deserve it", no way, we shouldn't have that Superiority complex, today we can be on top , but we don't know what will happen to us in the future.

[justdimin]

It is unreasonable if you hate someone just because he is luckier than you. This is gambling, you can lose at any time, and if you feel it is unfair to you, then you can stop gambling, it's as simple as that. You don't need to force yourself to win on every gamble you make, or to the point where you resent other people who are very lucky and regret yourself having rubbish luck - don't be a cry baby, just play and have fun. If you can't afford it, just stop gambling.

Unreasonable, or maybe inappropriate? But it is really inappropriate and it looks like you are having a mental issue with this kind of approach. Some people will be offended if someone call them like that, so if possible, we must quit that kind of mentality, if we don't want to get hurt even not physically but emotionally and mentally.

If we say that we force our selves to win, we will do our best like for example by doing a research and by implementing a strategy, which might help us to increase our winning chances, so why not? Though it is still better to just treat gambling as a past time activity, so that we can only enjoy it at all times.

[Dewi Aries]

Actually, this problem depends on a person's understanding, in the sense that if they understand the concept of winning, especially how winning and losing work, then I think it is less likely for them to feel jealous of other people who win more often than themselves, because by realizing that gambling is a game of luck then of course they will assume or think that their friend is much luckier than themselves and there is nothing they can do other than focus on prioritizing various preventive measures.

Because in the activity of luck you can only wait for luck to come, because no matter how hard you try in various ways to be able to have the same fate as your friends in the sense of getting more wins than losses, but still these actions will not be completely effective, and the point is I think your friend has better luck than you, but that doesn't mean he will always be lucky, maybe one day it will be your turn to be in your friend's position.

[nimogsm]

It’s a rather strange situation. Most likely, he’s just jealous of his friend’s victories and can’t share his joy. Of course, he’s angry that he systematically loses when his friend is lucky, but it’s just a game. He definitely needs to take a break and stop competing in something where he definitely doesn’t want to otherwise the result will be very sad and in the pursuit of victories one of them will spend a very large sum.

[boyptc]

If they have their winning time, if we clap to them then our time will come as well that they're going to clap with our victories.

Yes, it's true that everyone has their own luck, therefore if we envy other people or our friends, there's no point because it will only be a waste of time and also because basically it won't result in anything. Hating someone's victory, let alone our own friends. , it won't help us to win either, the point is, don't ever try to hate and be jealous of our gambling friends, because their luck won't last long, so don't be too selfish that if luck doesn't come to us then we hate someone who is lucky. Everyone has their own portion so just enjoy the gambling

It sucks to be hated and as well as the hater. Don't hate others when they're winning. Cheer for them and your time will come and you'll shine too.

They're your friends, sometimes quarrels are there but don't get to the point that you'd hate them for winning.

You don't want them to hate you as well when you are winning so don't be like that.

[Pokapoka124]

It’s a normal human condition to feel a bit jealous when someone is better than you at something. No one likes to lose.  It’s not a nice feeling to be second-best or losing to a person all the time. I can relate with the OP because I play fc24 sometimes with my friends and when one of them is better than everyone else in the room and keeps beating us I get a little upset. I think it is the same for that person as well, I bet he wouldn’t feel bad if he won a couple of times as well.

[STT]

Playing with friends should be different because your loss is their gain and presumably if they are a friend there are no losers in that outcome.   Of course there is a limit to the bounds of friendship and losing every penny you got would not be the ideal outcome.

  People tend to over extend their budgets when they should be playing the long game.   They used to play a card game in work but for money I would never involved as they were way too rough for me and not friendly.  Even if you won it would be a loss because now you got a work colleague who you see every day who acts like you stole their money even though it was fairly won.

  Not everyone can handle losses so I much prefer the friendly game route and if you do gamble money do it on a basis where you split the cash into 30 parts over a month.  Dont bet the entire wages including your bill money or no wonder your head is sore from the losses.

[Blitzboy]

Playing with friends should be different because your loss is their gain and presumably if they are a friend there are no losers in that outcome.   Of course there is a limit to the bounds of friendship and losing every penny you got would not be the ideal outcome.

  People tend to over extend their budgets when they should be playing the long game.   They used to play a card game in work but for money I would never involved as they were way too rough for me and not friendly.  Even if you won it would be a loss because now you got a work colleague who you see every day who acts like you stole their money even though it was fairly won.

  Not everyone can handle losses so I much prefer the friendly game route and if you do gamble money do it on a basis where you split the cash into 30 parts over a month.  Dont bet the entire wages including your bill money or no wonder your head is sore from the losses.

Basically, it's all fun and games in theory. But money transforms everything. While winning feels fantastic, losing to a friend? That can stinging a little bit. So set down the law before you toss the dice. Limit the extent of risk each person is ready to pay. Maintain its friendliness and funfulness. And keep in mind, friendships are valuable beyond any pot.

I have seen this play out in the office; it is not beautiful. People grow competitive, tensions escalate, and your office feels as though it is a battle zone suddenly. Nobody wish that.

Separate it rather than one large pot. Smaller stakes mean less pressure, everyone can enjoy themselves without going broke. In the end, it's just about respect. Respect the game, respect your friends, and respect their constraints. Everyone gains if everyone feels comfortable. And believe me; developing great relationships is far more gratifying than counting your chips.

[Hispo]

Actually, this problem depends on a person's understanding, in the sense that if they understand the concept of winning, especially how winning and losing work, then I think it is less likely for them to feel jealous of other people who win more often than themselves, because by realizing that gambling is a game of luck then of course they will assume or think that their friend is much luckier than themselves and there is nothing they can do other than focus on prioritizing various preventive measures.
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Though we also need to consider some occasions in which luck seems to ge further than a mere coincidence. One thing is to go with your friend to a casino and realizing he is green and having some profits because he is lucky that night, however it is completely different thing to go with him again to the casino three or four more times and realize he continues to hold his luck and still is in profit, people who does not have a completely solid understanding on how luck and the game of chances actually work will believe there is something more going on with that person and start to envy whatever force or charm is favoring him instead of us.
In the end, even those who understand the game of chances will start to doubt if a person is getting luckier beyond the perception of what is rational to us, you know.  What if the some person wins the lottery once? That would be just luck, what if the same person wins the lottery again and again, making it a total of three times? it would be just luck to you or would you like that person to buy a ticket for you?

It is an interesting topic if one analyses it carefully.

[Gaza13]

But we should thinks about some friends that can feels jealous with the wins that other friend gets. They can not accept the wins easily if they lose all of their money. If we playing gambling with our best friend, that will not be happens because we will not lets us feels bad with our friends winning. We will remember that winning can comes to any people, including our best friends so we don't hate them because of their winning. We will always reminds them not to be greedy to chase more winnings because that will be difficult to gets winning many times. When we can always reminds our friends, especially those who often wins, they will not trying to chase more winning and will feels enough with that wins.

Yes, jealousy sometimes arises when a friend wins a profit in a gambling game. In essence, before we play, every gambler has the same opportunity to win or lose. This depends on how we control our game in each round. If we are too aggressive, of course we we will very quickly experience a lot of defeats there, sometimes if we are jealous of our friends of course this will affect our own game. We are too busy thinking about other people's wins, it's best to focus on your own game. If you give advice to your friends who have already achieved quite a lot of results in this case, I think this is quite good advice so that they don't get too greedy to get much bigger profits than before.

[Jody.Drummer]

But we should thinks about some friends that can feels jealous with the wins that other friend gets. They can not accept the wins easily if they lose all of their money. If we playing gambling with our best friend, that will not be happens because we will not lets us feels bad with our friends winning. We will remember that winning can comes to any people, including our best friends so we don't hate them because of their winning. We will always reminds them not to be greedy to chase more winnings because that will be difficult to gets winning many times. When we can always reminds our friends, especially those who often wins, they will not trying to chase more winning and will feels enough with that wins.

Yes, jealousy sometimes arises when a friend wins a profit in a gambling game. In essence, before we play, every gambler has the same opportunity to win or lose. This depends on how we control our game in each round. If we are too aggressive, of course we we will very quickly experience a lot of defeats there, sometimes if we are jealous of our friends of course this will affect our own game. We are too busy thinking about other people's wins, it's best to focus on your own game. If you give advice to your friends who have already achieved quite a lot of results in this case, I think this is quite good advice so that they don't get too greedy to get much bigger profits than before.

Of course, and I think that is something normal for humans to feel, because everyone certainly has feelings within themselves that can respond to everything in a different reaction when we see that other people are superior or luckier than us. Another thing, of course you are right, is that everyone has the same opportunity if we talk about gambling, everyone can win and lose in different amounts and at different times, for the matter of winning it depends on how lucky you are, or how often luck comes to you. , and for the issue of defeat, it clearly depends on how good you are at controlling yourself and maintaining it.

This means that you or anyone can win at any time and in any amount, but only when luck comes to you, and the problem of losing does not mean that you will not lose, but rather that when you have good self-control and limits then the amount you lose will not be too significant. Returning to the initial discussion, as I said, jealousy is a natural thing, but if it is done excessively then of course it can disturb us and maybe it can also damage our friendships with other people, but in my opinion, if a gambler understands that gambling is a lucky activity so I think it is unlikely for him to feel too jealous, because he must have thought and accepted the fact that he was unlucky at that time, and relatedly advised our friend not to act greedy and suggested that it would be better to immediately cash out the winning amount This is very good advice at the right time.

[danherbias07]

But we should thinks about some friends that can feels jealous with the wins that other friend gets. They can not accept the wins easily if they lose all of their money. If we playing gambling with our best friend, that will not be happens because we will not lets us feels bad with our friends winning. We will remember that winning can comes to any people, including our best friends so we don't hate them because of their winning. We will always reminds them not to be greedy to chase more winnings because that will be difficult to gets winning many times. When we can always reminds our friends, especially those who often wins, they will not trying to chase more winning and will feels enough with that wins.

Yes, jealousy sometimes arises when a friend wins a profit in a gambling game. In essence, before we play, every gambler has the same opportunity to win or lose. This depends on how we control our game in each round. If we are too aggressive, of course we we will very quickly experience a lot of defeats there, sometimes if we are jealous of our friends of course this will affect our own game. We are too busy thinking about other people's wins, it's best to focus on your own game. If you give advice to your friends who have already achieved quite a lot of results in this case, I think this is quite good advice so that they don't get too greedy to get much bigger profits than before.

It can affect us mentally if we are just thinking about the profits of our friends and we don't want to be in that position where we don't stop thinking about it. That can cost us our own money because we are not focused anymore on our own game.
Envy them, no problem, but don't let it stick around for a long time. And I doubt we will always be on a losing streak. There's always a chance for anyone to be on the winning side so maybe he just got lucky earlier than us.
If we keep on avoiding them, we will just keep on losing more friends. Might as well go with them, let them do their own game while we are also enjoying our own.

[Egii Nna]

- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

You have two good questions here that need answers. The best answer to the first question is that if you say that you will hide your envy and jealousy for the sake of peace, then you will be the victim because you will be affected. It is not easy to see your fellow friends win while you are losing, and hiding that feeling will be very hard to do. 
 
And for the second question, all you need is to continue going to the casino to get her with him, but instead of you playing differently, you might play the same game together rather than different games, and if it doesn’t still work, then you will be giving him the money that you want to gamble with. If he wins, then you collect your money together with the profit. To me, this is a simple thing because I will not stress myself anymore since gambling is a game of luck and I have a friend who is lucky, so it’s something to be happy about without being jealous or envious about the situation. 

[Weawant]

Hating, or not liking someone for always winning when you are always losing; we can say is a result of jealousy, envy, and fact is, some people really don't know how to control themselves with issues like this.

Take a look, read the story in the shot I share below, and tell what you will do if you find yourself in a similar situation.



- will you (for the sake of peace, maybe to hide your envy, jealousy) continue to go gambling with that friend? And continue to lose your money?
- or will you tell him point clear that you are no longer interested in going to gamble with him? How are you gonna do it so he doesnt suspect that you are not happy with his constant winnings, when you are constantly losing?

Honestly I see it differently that his friend should have been able to say he's going to help his friends because he was the one who introduced him to the casino and also supported him in the beginning, seeing that the person who supported you at the beginning is suffering losses at the moment and it's been a lucky day for you, it's very normal to support him at this time when he needs it the most at least to encourage him, seeing that he still follows you to the casino even with all his losses he gets to suffer while you get lucky, that alone is even making the friendship look one sided but the other friend shouldn't hate his other friend still.

[Quidat]

But we should thinks about some friends that can feels jealous with the wins that other friend gets. They can not accept the wins easily if they lose all of their money. If we playing gambling with our best friend, that will not be happens because we will not lets us feels bad with our friends winning. We will remember that winning can comes to any people, including our best friends so we don't hate them because of their winning. We will always reminds them not to be greedy to chase more winnings because that will be difficult to gets winning many times. When we can always reminds our friends, especially those who often wins, they will not trying to chase more winning and will feels enough with that wins.

Yes, jealousy sometimes arises when a friend wins a profit in a gambling game. In essence, before we play, every gambler has the same opportunity to win or lose. This depends on how we control our game in each round. If we are too aggressive, of course we we will very quickly experience a lot of defeats there, sometimes if we are jealous of our friends of course this will affect our own game. We are too busy thinking about other people's wins, it's best to focus on your own game. If you give advice to your friends who have already achieved quite a lot of results in this case, I think this is quite good advice so that they don't get too greedy to get much bigger profits than before.

It can affect us mentally if we are just thinking about the profits of our friends and we don't want to be in that position where we don't stop thinking about it. That can cost us our own money because we are not focused anymore on our own game.
Envy them, no problem, but don't let it stick around for a long time. And I doubt we will always be on a losing streak. There's always a chance for anyone to be on the winning side so maybe he just got lucky earlier than us.
If we keep on avoiding them, we will just keep on losing more friends. Might as well go with them, let them do their own game while we are also enjoying our own.

If you are really that putting up too much focus about making profits then you would really be definitely be having that kind of impressions or emotions on the moment that you've seen your friend
is really racking up some wins but you are getting the opposite thing around. You would really be having those thoughts on what the fuck is happening on why you cant be just lucky same as your friend?
It would be normal to have that kind of jealousy on which we know that we are just humans and emotions like this could really happen. It would be somehow depends on the control that you could have
because not everyone turns out to be that someone who becomes jealous and ending up on having that different approach or treatment into their friend just because of such situation. There are still who do act normal after that session as if there's nothing happened.

[LDL]

It doesn't matter whether one makes a gambling profit or a gambling loss. Gambling profits and gambling losses are just a possibility. Gambling and casinos are basically built around this profit/loss potential, so it's never good to be aggressive about it. Many of my friends sometimes get big profits in sportsbetting, which makes me happy because my favorite friends are the ones who got the profits. My friends feel proud of me and applaud me a lot when I get profit from gambling too. Therefore, I do not in any way feel bad or violent towards my friends or any other person for gambling profit.

[boty]

It doesn't matter whether one makes a gambling profit or a gambling loss. Gambling profits and gambling losses are just a possibility. Gambling and casinos are basically built around this profit/loss potential, so it's never good to be aggressive about it. Many of my friends sometimes get big profits in sportsbetting, which makes me happy because my favorite friends are the ones who got the profits. My friends feel proud of me and applaud me a lot when I get profit from gambling too. Therefore, I do not in any way feel bad or violent towards my friends or any other person for gambling profit.

If someone can win their bet while we always lose when placing bets, of course this makes some people feel disappointed because it is difficult for them to win the bets they play and I think most people can win their bets because of luck and also a small part because of ability. they analyze before placing a bet, especially on sports betting. Of course, for those who can understand well the quality of a team, of course there is a possibility that they will win the bet because it is difficult to win a sports bet without knowing well the quality of the team we are placing a bet on.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

          -   I'm laughing at that story. Probably the one who was freed just to be able to gamble and always wins is interested in gambling as long as he is freed and doesn't take out any money, but he often manages to take home the winnings because of the free money that is given to him.

Literally speaking, the person who gave the free match is the one who taught his friend to gamble. It must be like that always happens; he says that when he wins, they split 50/50 since the gambling or match comes from him, and I think that is acceptable.

[ethereumhunter]

It doesn't matter whether one makes a gambling profit or a gambling loss. Gambling profits and gambling losses are just a possibility. Gambling and casinos are basically built around this profit/loss potential, so it's never good to be aggressive about it. Many of my friends sometimes get big profits in sportsbetting, which makes me happy because my favorite friends are the ones who got the profits. My friends feel proud of me and applaud me a lot when I get profit from gambling too. Therefore, I do not in any way feel bad or violent towards my friends or any other person for gambling profit.

But we don't have a big chance to wins in gambling instead lose the money. If we can't realizes that, we will not stops gambling and will continue for more. We may chase the wins, especially if can wins for some money but we are forget to holds and control ourselves in gambling. We don't have to be aggressive when playing gambling because that can attracts us difficult to quit gambling and will spends more money which is not a good recommendation. If our friends can wins much money than us, we don't have to feels jealous because each people will have different luck.

We can wins like them someday so we don't have to keeps playing gambling too often. Just playing gambling like usual and trying to enjoy the gambling games and happy if our friends wins the games. That's what a friend will do if they see their friend can wins because a good friends will not forget their friends and will asks them to feels the happy moment together.