5 Things to do After a Huge Loss in Gambling.

[hyudien]

Should the safety of our deposit be a priority? Maybe you are right, when you want to get a big win and will require more risk from the player and in the end it will most likely lead to bigger losses, I think that they will become inevitable. And if the safety of your deposit is a priority, then you will not make such big bets that could lead you to big problems. I know that it is easier to understand than to do it, and more often than not, in order to understand it, the player must first get a big loss, sometimes more than one.

I myself am concerned about security in any case, because in my opinion security is one of the things that also determines whether we are comfortable or not in doing something. The number of casinos currently operating does not rule out the possibility that there are casinos that have a bad reputation for not paying the winnings that have been obtained by their players and I myself have experienced it.

Sometimes I also think that the greater the amount of bets made, the amount of winnings that usually will also be large but that also depends on luck, we only need to pay attention to the limits of our betting ability because luck can happen anyway.

Security is the main thing, because as you said, it can affect our comfort in any case, and it is related to this in the game we play. If security is one of the issues that is often heard in a casino, then when playing we will not be calm. We will think what if we win and are not paid by them. Security is something that I always pay attention to when choosing a casino to play. And we can see that starting from the reputation of the casino, seeing feedback or reviews from other users and so on. Also we must always pay attention to the terms and conditions of a casino.

[EarnOnVictor]

I would be very careful with advice "tell someone". A lot of people dont bother about other people's problems and gambling has such a reputation, that a probability that someone will help and not turn his back is low. I believe that people are very proud and scared on the same time to ask for a help or to share something private. If a gambler asks for help and the other persons refuses to help, that gambler might never ever be open with others or ask for help again. Because of that, such advice can help, but can also make things worse.

have you not noticed that many people who participate in gambling and win from their gambling that does not expose the method the use to win in gambling to other people but I don't know why it's like that to most of the gamblers and any Gambler is he doing that I believe that person is a greedy,  so I believe participating in the gambling you need to know that  the wining is out of chance and if you can recall the method some use to win in gambling, I believe that you can do the same, and doing same might not work out for you. That's why gambling never be a skill.

I think you dont get it. We are here talking about losing, not about winning. A person wont confess that he has won not because he is greedy and dont like to share method he has used to win, but because its random, there is not method or strategy that will lead to constant winning. But my idea was that people dont share information about their losses or fails. As they are uncomforted saying that, because they are afraid to be laughed at or misunderstood. 

I don't see a big deal in disclosing it when you win or lose, this is unless you are not a responsible gambler or you are not just proud of gambling. Gambling and its results should never be secretive, even by sharing, you might be lucky to meet a better gambler who might advise you and show you some ways to gamble safer, especially if you are an addict. For me, the way gambling is fun on its own is the same way the gist about its result is fun when I am in the midst of like minds.

[Mahanton]

1. Accept the loss

Which is the most important thing on which you should really be that having on the moment that you do play gambling. On the moment that you do have this kind of mentality when it comes to gambling activity on which it will be that important that you do set out limits accordingly so that you wont really be having some issues when it comes to spending up money. Usually gamblers do really missed out on doing this and instead they do end up on having that miserable experiences specially into financial. When you are losing too much in gambling then the primary thing that comes up into your mind is on how you will be able to stop accordingly. Loses are indeed common when it comes to gambling and thats why its really that important that you do have that kind of moderation when it comes into your gambling activity. Make yourself having that lost of control then it will definitely be resulting into that disaster. This is why its really that important that you do really know at least on what you should gonna do. Never ever chase up loses because on the moment or time that you will be doing it then you will be losing up even more. This is why its better that you do really know on what you should gonna do and able to make out some safety measures when it comes to gambling activity. Make yourself that relax and moved on when you do lose big time or simply call it a day.

Dont try out to deposit even more because on the moment that you do have that kind of approach into things then you will be ending up on having some issues in terms of financial and we do know that gambling could wreck up on someones life accordingly.

[traderethereum]

Yup, they needed to care about themselves after losing a lot, instead of keep pushing to try their luck much better to take a break and reassess what's made them wrong, there are many things that they need to consider, analysing how deep the engagements that they've already got and what are the things that may let them move forward and  lessen the chance of keep losing their hard earned money.

And it's true that those people around especially those who are caring about your condition can really help if your engagement to gambling is really gotten so far, they can help and made you realize if what you need to do in coping up with your gambling problem.

That is if they realize that what they get from gambling is not good for them. But most people will not realize that and still gambling without stopping for a while. So they will just losing more money in gambling without have a chance to recover their losses or win much money. They should introspect what they did in gambling so they will see that gambling is not for them and no need to be back to gambling.

Losing the money no matter how much needs to be aware so we don't try to gambling for too long. That will only makes us get more losses and if we don't wake up from that, we only gets more serious problems from gambling.

[bakasabo]

I would be very careful with advice "tell someone". A lot of people dont bother about other people's problems and gambling has such a reputation, that a probability that someone will help and not turn his back is low. I believe that people are very proud and scared on the same time to ask for a help or to share something private. If a gambler asks for help and the other persons refuses to help, that gambler might never ever be open with others or ask for help again. Because of that, such advice can help, but can also make things worse.

have you not noticed that many people who participate in gambling and win from their gambling that does not expose the method the use to win in gambling to other people but I don't know why it's like that to most of the gamblers and any Gambler is he doing that I believe that person is a greedy,  so I believe participating in the gambling you need to know that  the wining is out of chance and if you can recall the method some use to win in gambling, I believe that you can do the same, and doing same might not work out for you. That's why gambling never be a skill.

I think you dont get it. We are here talking about losing, not about winning. A person wont confess that he has won not because he is greedy and dont like to share method he has used to win, but because its random, there is not method or strategy that will lead to constant winning. But my idea was that people dont share information about their losses or fails. As they are uncomforted saying that, because they are afraid to be laughed at or misunderstood. 

I don't see a big deal in disclosing it when you win or lose, this is unless you are not a responsible gambler or you are not just proud of gambling. Gambling and its results should never be secretive, even by sharing, you might be lucky to meet a better gambler who might advise you and show you some ways to gamble safer, especially if you are an addict. For me, the way gambling is fun on its own is the same way the gist about its result is fun when I am in the midst of like minds.

On one hand I dont see a problem to tell that I have lost or won either. On the other hand, I have never won or lost significant amounts, so I cant tell how I will act if I had $100k, and next second I dont have them. But my idea was that if a person has lost a lot of money, most probably he will hide that info to avoid judgment or strange looks. Because nobody likes to confess that they are losers or fail.

[WatChe]

I don't see a big deal in disclosing it when you win or lose, this is unless you are not a responsible gambler or you are not just proud of gambling. Gambling and its results should never be secretive, even by sharing, you might be lucky to meet a better gambler who might advise you and show you some ways to gamble safer, especially if you are an addict. For me, the way gambling is fun on its own is the same way the gist about its result is fun when I am in the midst of like minds.

By sharing your loses you are actually telling new comers about the hazards associated with gambling. These days there are huge number of casinos that are easily reachable by everyone regardless of his age and region. These casinos are doing there marketing by showing lucrative price money but not telling how many people have lost there money to these casinos. Those who are already in gambling must share there stories so that anyone who is coming to gambling has vision of both aspects of gambling.

[Jody.Drummer]

It's hard not to think about the losses when we've just gambled and took some loss. But I agree that it might be helpful for someone not to think that much and remain calm.

Staying calm is hard.

And taking more losses and accepting them is hard too. But when you're not able to stabilize the situation because of your losses, that will give you a harder situation to deal with.

When gambling has ended in defeat, we should not think too much about it, such as thinking about how to recover the loss or others, because there is no point in doing that, instead it might make us deposit money again into gambling with the aim of recovering the previous loss or wanting to pursue a victory that can cover the loss and in my opinion this clearly leads us to lose even more money. This is the importance of doing research first before gambling, where we must be able to accept the fact that what will happen is defeat not victory because we only have a greater chance of losing than the chance of losing. Another way to do when experiencing defeat is to find other activities with the aim of keeping yourself busy to avoid the urge to gamble again, no matter how much money you have to gamble but you shouldn't gamble continuously.

That is hard and that's why I've said that being remained calm while in losses is actually cannot be done by most gamblers.

And we are seeing a lot of us dwell in losses and being emotional at the same time. So, even if you want to take yourself a treat, you just can't.

That is because the feeling is still there and you can't move on quickly with it.

I know that everything we say tends to be difficult to practice or do but easy to say but this is the problem now for example by controlling yourself which is indeed one of the difficult things to do but easy to do with us being able to have that control then everything might be fine rather than having no self-control at all which can happen is physical or mental destruction. Although it is difficult but if it is determined consistently I think it will be able to get used to it. The thing that we must be able to accept is a loss that occurs when we gamble is a natural thing and we should be able to accept it because the greater chance of losing is owned by the player while the chance of winning owned by the player tends to be small and this applies to everyone who gambles whether they are rich or poor in essence the house will always win and that is a permanent provision.

[hedgeh0g]

Yup, they needed to care about themselves after losing a lot, instead of keep pushing to try their luck much better to take a break and reassess what's made them wrong, there are many things that they need to consider, analysing how deep the engagements that they've already got and what are the things that may let them move forward and  lessen the chance of keep losing their hard earned money.

And it's true that those people around especially those who are caring about your condition can really help if your engagement to gambling is really gotten so far, they can help and made you realize if what you need to do in coping up with your gambling problem.

That is if they realize that what they get from gambling is not good for them. But most people will not realize that and still gambling without stopping for a while. So they will just losing more money in gambling without have a chance to recover their losses or win much money. They should introspect what they did in gambling so they will see that gambling is not for them and no need to be back to gambling.

Losing the money no matter how much needs to be aware so we don't try to gambling for too long. That will only makes us get more losses and if we don't wake up from that, we only gets more serious problems from gambling.

Many even play in such a way that if a player loses a lot and he stops, because he understood it, this is of course not bad, because there are those players who become as if obsessed with the game and do not see the end, only to play to win back. So the first category of players can stop playing, pay off debts to banks or friends, but then after some time, already without debts, they will return to the game again. And again repeat the same path and stop again, it looks like cycles. I sometimes did similar things until I understood that you need to play without debts and very carefully control your expenses on the game.

[danadc]

Now what I think we should pay attention to is not to prioritize winning in gambling, because that will only make us chase after winning which will make us deposit a lot of money in gambling.

Yes, you used a word that I like a lot, which is "prioritize" when we play we want to win, but we should not make it a priority because the opposite can happen and if the opposite happens it is a very strong clash between what we want and what actually happens, sometimes you can't attack at once playing hard because what you say happens, you lose a lot of money, and what is also interesting is to take care of our money, otherwise if we lose control we will run out of money and that is not the idea, the idea is to always have enough money to do all our activities naturally without shortages because of gambling.

[Dewi Aries]

Now what I think we should pay attention to is not to prioritize winning in gambling, because that will only make us chase after winning which will make us deposit a lot of money in gambling.

Yes, you used a word that I like a lot, which is "prioritize" when we play we want to win, but we should not make it a priority because the opposite can happen and if the opposite happens it is a very strong clash between what we want and what actually happens, sometimes you can't attack at once playing hard because what you say happens, you lose a lot of money, and what is also interesting is to take care of our money, otherwise if we lose control we will run out of money and that is not the idea, the idea is to always have enough money to do all our activities naturally without shortages because of gambling.

Well that's the point, and I'm sure that in most cases the occurrence of various aggressive actions must have all started because they felt they did not accept the results they got before, logically in any case how can we not feel disappointed if the results are not in accordance with what we want even though we had previously hoped so much? This is a kind of disease that appears in the mind because from the beginning they most likely do not understand the concept of winning and losing in gambling so that it makes gamblers focus more on winning and ignore other possibilities such as the risk of losing.

Greed is also usually started because of that, meaning greed often occurs because of expectations that are too high or unrealistic in winning which hopes continue to encourage gamblers to play even crazier for greater results, and in this situation their biggest mistake is not understanding that the concept of winning and losing in gambling refers to probability.

[junder]

Security is the main thing, because as you said, it can affect our comfort in any case, and it is related to this in the game we play. If security is one of the issues that is often heard in a casino, then when playing we will not be calm. We will think what if we win and are not paid by them. Security is something that I always pay attention to when choosing a casino to play. And we can see that starting from the reputation of the casino, seeing feedback or reviews from other users and so on. Also we must always pay attention to the terms and conditions of a casino.

The thing that I and my friend have experienced is the winnings that were not paid, with me myself having experienced where it was my lucky day by withdrawing more than once with the amount withdrawn that could be said to be quite large. For the first withdrawal everything went smoothly with the casino paying the winnings I got, and after a few hours I managed to get another win with a fairly large amount also here began to happen strange things with the length of the withdrawal duration that I did, until I had time to go to the shop to buy drinks and food first, although in the end the casino did pay but it made me uncomfortable, and with the third time the winnings I withdrew were not paid, what happened was my account was frozen.
With my friend who had almost the same case, he managed to withdraw his winnings only the winnings were divided in half with the casino staff, this is ridiculous but it does happen.

[traderethereum]

Many even play in such a way that if a player loses a lot and he stops, because he understood it, this is of course not bad, because there are those players who become as if obsessed with the game and do not see the end, only to play to win back. So the first category of players can stop playing, pay off debts to banks or friends, but then after some time, already without debts, they will return to the game again. And again repeat the same path and stop again, it looks like cycles. I sometimes did similar things until I understood that you need to play without debts and very carefully control your expenses on the game.

If they can stop immediately after the losses, that is a wise decision but we know that the temptation to continue gambling will be there and they may difficult to control themselves and can say stop gambling. That will become worst when they borrow money from others or bank because they don't have money to repay but that will not stop them to borrow money from other people. Yes, that is a cycles that needs to be cut off before everything become worst so they must realize what they need to do to prevent the losses.

[Nwada001]

I don't see a big deal in disclosing it when you win or lose, this is unless you are not a responsible gambler or you are not just proud of gambling. Gambling and its results should never be secretive, even by sharing, you might be lucky to meet a better gambler who might advise you and show you some ways to gamble safer, especially if you are an addict. For me, the way gambling is fun on its own is the same way the gist about its result is fun when I am in the midst of like minds.

Discussing gambling activity with fellow gamblers is always fun; you argue with each other, agree, and disagree, especially among sports betting gamblers. You learn from each other, but the circle you find yourself in will determine the type of information that you will disclose to them. I mean in terms of big winning, because not everyone who is close to you will be happy to see you win big while they themselves have not; that's why some people prefer to keep their winning a secret from friends and let them know where their problem is coming from and not just about being proud of gambling or not.

[AHOYBRAUSE]

Huge losses as good as always accumulate even more losses because the brain tells us to get those losses back as quick as possible.  That's why gambling requires a lot of focus, patience and self management. Without these essential factors it's pretty much a lost cause and only insane luck can safe you from losing more than you can afford. See the reality for what it is, don't chase losses, better don't chase anything. Understand the math and probabilities behind everything you are doing and think twice (or better even more) before following it up with actions.
We have enough clowns in this forum that don't do that and then blame the casino for their shortcomings, don't be one of them and be smart.

[Etranger]

Huge losses as good as always accumulate even more losses because the brain tells us to get those losses back as quick as possible.  That's why gambling requires a lot of focus, patience and self management. Without these essential factors it's pretty much a lost cause and only insane luck can safe you from losing more than you can afford. See the reality for what it is, don't chase losses, better don't chase anything. Understand the math and probabilities behind everything you are doing and think twice (or better even more) before following it up with actions.
We have enough clowns in this forum that don't do that and then blame the casino for their shortcomings, don't be one of them and be smart.

I often hear that gambling can only be successful if you can control and master your emotions and focus. I can't say that I disagree with such statements. But I still don't fully understand how exactly this happens in practice. You can be the most focused person in the world, but the random number generator will not work in your favor because of that. Yes, these skills help you stop in time and not multiply your losses, but they do not help you win either, because there is simply no direct mechanism for converting these pumped-up skills into winning in gambling.

[bubilas]

The advice that you need to socialize more is not as easy as you would like. Of course, many gamblers and betting enthusiasts are closed people who, in order to somehow entertain themselves on weekends, spin slots or play roulette. If they had a lot of friends, they would most likely attend parties and meetings.
But the thing is that with age it is increasingly difficult to meet and trust. And if someone has friends from their youth, then this is great, but if you are already a real adult, then making friends is very difficult.

[Etranger]

Socialization, in my opinion, is not a guarantee that a person will gamble less. There is no established figure of a player who is closed in on himself and seeks solace and sedation in gambling. Absolutely anyone is susceptible to gambling. So greater and larger socialization process is not a panacea for gambling in general, or for losing, or as a consolation after losing.

[sotelorene]

Yup, they needed to care about themselves after losing a lot, instead of keep pushing to try their luck much better to take a break and reassess what's made them wrong, there are many things that they need to consider, analysing how deep the engagements that they've already got and what are the things that may let them move forward and  lessen the chance of keep losing their hard earned money.

And it's true that those people around especially those who are caring about your condition can really help if your engagement to gambling is really gotten so far, they can help and made you realize if what you need to do in coping up with your gambling problem.

That is if they realize that what they get from gambling is not good for them. But most people will not realize that and still gambling without stopping for a while. So they will just losing more money in gambling without have a chance to recover their losses or win much money. They should introspect what they did in gambling so they will see that gambling is not for them and no need to be back to gambling.

Losing the money no matter how much needs to be aware so we don't try to gambling for too long. That will only makes us get more losses and if we don't wake up from that, we only gets more serious problems from gambling.

Many even play in such a way that if a player loses a lot and he stops, because he understood it, this is of course not bad, because there are those players who become as if obsessed with the game and do not see the end, only to play to win back. So the first category of players can stop playing, pay off debts to banks or friends, but then after some time, already without debts, they will return to the game again. And again repeat the same path and stop again, it looks like cycles. I sometimes did similar things until I understood that you need to play without debts and very carefully control your expenses on the game.

Yea, some people has a limit to which to gamble a day or a week and these set of people appears to understand gambling better because there loss will be somehow moderate or less because of their understanding and approach. i have seen people who gamble, virtual to be precise and loss their money instead of letting go they went to borrow to win back what they have actually lost and we all know this kind of thing is not always easy or possible because the possibility or the chance is low and that is a very wrong approach i know controlling oneself when or after incurring loss can be difficult but one ought to have this control before going into gambling.

[Bushdark]

I would be very careful with advice "tell someone". A lot of people dont bother about other people's problems and gambling has such a reputation, that a probability that someone will help and not turn his back is low. I believe that people are very proud and scared on the same time to ask for a help or to share something private. If a gambler asks for help and the other persons refuses to help, that gambler might never ever be open with others or ask for help again. Because of that, such advice can help, but can also make things worse.

have you not noticed that many people who participate in gambling and win from their gambling that does not expose the method the use to win in gambling to other people but I don't know why it's like that to most of the gamblers and any Gambler is he doing that I believe that person is a greedy,  so I believe participating in the gambling you need to know that  the wining is out of chance and if you can recall the method some use to win in gambling, I believe that you can do the same, and doing same might not work out for you. That's why gambling never be a skill.

I think you dont get it. We are here talking about losing, not about winning. A person wont confess that he has won not because he is greedy and dont like to share method he has used to win, but because its random, there is not method or strategy that will lead to constant winning. But my idea was that people dont share information about their losses or fails. As they are uncomforted saying that, because they are afraid to be laughed at or misunderstood. 

I don't see a big deal in disclosing it when you win or lose, this is unless you are not a responsible gambler or you are not just proud of gambling. Gambling and its results should never be secretive, even by sharing, you might be lucky to meet a better gambler who might advise you and show you some ways to gamble safer, especially if you are an addict. For me, the way gambling is fun on its own is the same way the gist about its result is fun when I am in the midst of like minds.

There are people that are used to telling people of their success in gambling and we can always avoid that if we know that disclosing our gambling results or wins will limit us to winning more as gamblers. Gambling is not for those that are weak but for the strong ones. People keep writing about gambling for fun which I know that the only time you can gamble for fun is when you have money and you have been making consistent profits from betting on different games and sport. We ought to be guided and always play games that will give us good rewards especially when we are already used to it.

[Dewi Aries]

I don't see a big deal in disclosing it when you win or lose, this is unless you are not a responsible gambler or you are not just proud of gambling. Gambling and its results should never be secretive, even by sharing, you might be lucky to meet a better gambler who might advise you and show you some ways to gamble safer, especially if you are an addict. For me, the way gambling is fun on its own is the same way the gist about its result is fun when I am in the midst of like minds.

There are people that are used to telling people of their success in gambling and we can always avoid that if we know that disclosing our gambling results or wins will limit us to winning more as gamblers. Gambling is not for those that are weak but for the strong ones. People keep writing about gambling for fun which I know that the only time you can gamble for fun is when you have money and you have been making consistent profits from betting on different games and sport. We ought to be guided and always play games that will give us good rewards especially when we are already used to it.

Hmm honestly I think telling other people will not affect the results at the end of the game, it is not something that can be used as a benchmark for whether you will win or lose, in the end regardless of whether other people know our victory or not for the next victory it depends on how lucky you are when playing. Gambling is indeed not for the weak but in my opinion gambling is more appropriate for the weak.

On the other hand, maybe I will slightly justify your statement about how gambling is for entertainment which gambling for entertainment does not mean when someone has money because no matter what your goal is, it is clear from the start that gambling can only be done if for example you have money, so the point of gambling for entertainment is when you are able to account for all the decisions you have taken at the beginning.