I like to get married without having children.

[uneng]

Btw, i live in arabic country with conservative culture. Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?

If you lived in a different country where the local culture is more diversified, you could surely find the kind of woman your are looking for, but since we are talking about a muslim country, it must be really hard, because if you don't follow the local rules strictly, you may find yourself in big trouble. You may find a woman who has the same preferences and values of yours on the backgrounds of your society, because someone will never come publicly raising such flags, especially women, as they have to be submissive to men in your culture.

Since you are into Bitcoin, make investments, grow your funds, build new sources of income, so you will have the opportunity to travel abroad, discover new cultures, new people, what can potentially increase the chances you find the girl of your dreams...

[Odusko]

The main actors in marriage is the man and the women who agreed to share the life journey together, all other things are secondary, child bearing is a choice, but before you make that choice of not having kids, youust first of all agree with your spouse and come through contract of not marrying for child bearing, that way you won't have issues with the marriage along the line, since child bearing is one of the main purposes of marriage in most cultures around the world marriage without kids is not yet complete.

[Zlantann]

The main actors in marriage is the man and the women who agreed to share the life journey together, all other things are secondary, child bearing is a choice, but before you make that choice of not having kids, youust first of all agree with your spouse and come through contract of not marrying for child bearing, that way you won't have issues with the marriage along the line, since child bearing is one of the main purposes of marriage in most cultures around the world marriage without kids is not yet complete.

Having children is a choice just like you said. But it also has its consequences. Many countries are giving welfare packages to married people so they can have children because of the political and economic effects. Some countries in Europe and Asia are facing drastic population decline which is making them depend on immigrants. There are no sufficient young people to take over job roles from the aging population. So, as we are making decisions not to have children, it is good to consider how it will affect our country in the long run. Some countries now see giving birth to more children as an act of patriotism.

[EluguHcman]

Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?

To make it clear, either marriage or having children can not be a must because everyone do have all rights to decide if they need a partner or an offspring of themselves.

A man and woman a needs companionship to spice their custodial life experiences. It is usually required a duo partnership with the characteristics of both sex lifestyles being matched with the ability of both parties to learn tolerance while diligently chasing one goal but failure to stick to understanding is why marriages are broken (divorced).
That categorically states that marriage is not a "Do or Die" affair. Of course if you tried to pair in some occasions and it does not work out good for you, just leave else, the lifetime marital entitlement would be unfair and potential to ruin your life.
Don't be in an entangled relationship just because you want to earn the title "married".

My advice to you OP is that... You should try and whole heartedly bring out your mind to give this a try because, if everyone thinks like being single and no bearing of children, the world will be empty somedays you would not have even existence if your parents never conceived you to live.

I also understand the irritation accompanied with some individuals which of you find yourself in a relationship with one may refer to a ruin (messy) of your life but on the other hand in marriage, you don't just get 100% of partner you may ever wished for neither are you portraying a perfect person of whom your partner may desire for life.
On that reason, maturity and tolerance should be the primary exhibit of both parties before any of perspective is considered.

Therefore, having married and having children is necessary but not compulsory.

[SmartCharpa]

How did you get this mindset as your country values culture and everyone wants to have children? Everyone has their own lives and targets, and I've seen people like you on social media who aren't interested in anything concerning marriage. For example, in my country, many people are afraid to become a father because the economy is difficult, and bringing children into the world would make more it difficult to give them the better life they want.

However, the issue is not about taking another responsibility, but you don't view marriage as something you should do. According to your question, there are many women out there who want to remain without kids forever, many women do not want to marry or have children because they believe that being a mother will ruin the shape of their bodies, and they prefer to have fun and enjoy their lives, it is just that I don't know about your country.

[Olatundespo]

If you want to make the natural process abnormal, you have the right to do so. You can choose to live a good life without marriage. If you find a woman with the same mentality as you, you may be lucky. Just as your parents are proud of you, you should be proud of your children. It should be a real pride to leave behind an heir to your family who will remember you as a father and light a candle at your grave.

I really don't know why you can't be generous to your children even though they are innocent and want to be loved after seeing them and everyone hopes for a child of their own. Since you live in a conservative society, you should expect more children or have multiple marriages. In Arabic countries you have to own a lot of wealth to get married, although I have heard that marriage is very expensive for them. If this is the case for you, then it may be logical but you should make efforts to improve your finances.

[uchegod-21]

If you want to make the natural process abnormal, you have the right to do so.

What is the natural process, marriage and then procreation? It is high time we accepted that not everyone will get married, and not everyone who eventually gets married will have children, either by choice or due to some unfortunate circumstances that might prevent them from having children. As the world advances, we realise that most of the things people were stigmatised for are no longer worth it.

I like the fact that people are beginning to express themselves about how they feel about marriage and children. Do not get married if you are not passionate about it, so the spouse won't suffer unjustly. Same also with having children. Do not bring children into the world and deny them real love. That's cruelty. Everything would work fine with effective communication.

[coolcoinz]

Sure, some people prefer to be single, while some prefer not to have children, but keep in mind that it's not just a preference. You're going against nature here. You may now think that you'll never want to have children, but 30 years from now you will want them, but it will be too late.

It's the same with women. At first they don't want children because they want to be free and look good, but when they're in their 40s and their friends have kids, they suddenly wake up and try to find a partner willing to have a child with them and it's hard. I know a few women who claimed they'd never have children, but it changed when they were over 35.

[Zlantann]

Sure, some people prefer to be single, while some prefer not to have children, but keep in mind that it's not just a preference. You're going against nature here. You may now think that you'll never want to have children, but 30 years from now you will want them, but it will be too late.

It's the same with women. At first they don't want children because they want to be free and look good, but when they're in their 40s and their friends have kids, they suddenly wake up and try to find a partner willing to have a child with them and it's hard. I know a few women who claimed they'd never have children, but it changed when they were over 35.

Developed nations have adequate planning for the elderly. They are usually sent to elderly people's homes where the government provide for them and makes them feel comfortable. In my country, such welfare packages for senior citizens don't exist. The elderly retirees become dependent on their children. It is the children that have the responsibility to provide almost everything their parents want. In fact, it is common to see parents move into their children's homes when they become old and weak. In this kind of condition, having children is seen as an investment and protection. You don't just have children because you love raising them but because you are concerned about who will take care of you during old age.

[Rockstarguy]

If you don't need children, I don't see any reason why you should get married because bearing children is one of the things you consider when thinking about marriage. Since you don't want to give birth to children, it would be better to just have a relationship with someone that is not marriage.

When two people get married, it is expected that the children will be the ones to take care of them when they are old, as no other family member will take this responsibility. However, if you don't get married and grow old, relatives can look after you. Marriage is a responsibility, and if one is not ready to accept that responsibility, there is no need to enter into marriage, because having children is one of the responsibilities in marriage.

[jackpotmaster]

If you want to make the natural process abnormal, you have the right to do so.

What is the natural process, marriage and then procreation?

Never was, and never will be. That is just ape mirror neurons at work. People watching too much content and other people's lives and the imitate them and think that it is natural. Copying everyone else is dumb, one should try thinking for himself for a change.

It's the same with women. At first they don't want children because they want to be free and look good, but when they're in their 40s and their friends have kids, they suddenly wake up and try to find a partner willing to have a child with them and it's hard. I know a few women who claimed they'd never have children, but it changed when they were over 35.

There are cases of all changes in behavior to be honest. I do agree that it may be slightly more problematic with women that don't want children but are still young. They are a bit more likely to change their mind than a man would. Anyway, having children because everyone else has them is a bad idea.

If you don't need children, I don't see any reason why you should get married because bearing children is one of the things you consider when thinking about marriage. Since you don't want to give birth to children, it would be better to just have a relationship with someone that is not marriage.

When two people get married, it is expected that the children will be the ones to take care of them when they are old, as no other family member will take this responsibility. However, if you don't get married and grow old, relatives can look after you. Marriage is a responsibility, and if one is not ready to accept that responsibility, there is no need to enter into marriage, because having children is one of the responsibilities in marriage.

You don't know what you are talking about, there are many legal benefits to marriage depending on where exactly one lives. Why should you not take a tax deduction as a married couple, if it is available, just because you don't want children? That would be economically very irrational.

[Lida93]

Procreation isn't that Major reason of getting married but at least having someone whom you could confide on, share thoughts and feelings and ideas, but guess what?
What is the benefit of getting married without procreation then who takes over you or after you when you might have joined your ancestors? We see many people adopting a child or babies due to their inability to bear children,.or let say what if your parents didn't give birth to you what could have been of your existence today?

I'm not saying that humans should stop having children or that having children is wrong. Quite the opposite. My refusal to have children is a personal preference, and I'm not saying that those who aren't like me are wrong.

Marriage may be the only socially available means of living with a partner in one home. Keep in mind that I live in an Arab country whose culture doesn't permit extramarital relationships. Therefore, marriage is a means of living with a partner without social stigma.

So you wish to end your lineage with you by not wanting to procreate? If that's the case then you don't also need to get married too because it doesn't give any woman joy that should would have to marry, conjugating and wouldn't have children to call her own. Not even one at least. That's absurd.

And yes, marriage is the only ethical means of living with a partner and be called family and without children it's not complete as a home. Obviously it's your choice to not want to have children in marriage but which woman in her right sense would want to do that with you?

[GiftedMAN]

If you don't need children, I don't see any reason why you should get married because bearing children is one of the things you consider when thinking about marriage. Since you don't want to give birth to children, it would be better to just have a relationship with someone that is not marriage.

The primary reason why people get married can not be for the sake of reproduction only, to some people getting married helps them to have a partner that will stick with them while to some they got married to have a good bond in their relationship etc. Having kids in your marriage or relationship is a choice it shouldn't be a must because not every one wants to have kids in their relationship.

[coolcoinz]

Sure, some people prefer to be single, while some prefer not to have children, but keep in mind that it's not just a preference. You're going against nature here. You may now think that you'll never want to have children, but 30 years from now you will want them, but it will be too late.

It's the same with women. At first they don't want children because they want to be free and look good, but when they're in their 40s and their friends have kids, they suddenly wake up and try to find a partner willing to have a child with them and it's hard. I know a few women who claimed they'd never have children, but it changed when they were over 35.

Developed nations have adequate planning for the elderly. They are usually sent to elderly people's homes where the government provide for them and makes them feel comfortable. In my country, such welfare packages for senior citizens don't exist. The elderly retirees become dependent on their children. It is the children that have the responsibility to provide almost everything their parents want. In fact, it is common to see parents move into their children's homes when they become old and weak. In this kind of condition, having children is seen as an investment and protection. You don't just have children because you love raising them but because you are concerned about who will take care of you during old age.

You're right, although there's also a matter of loneliness.
I've known a few couples in my life and those who had no children or lived alone seek companionship in their late years.

I honestly don't know a couple who lived through 50s and 60s with no children, stayed together and were happy.

It's natural to have these thoughts that you won't be remembered by anyone when you die and all your wealth gets redistributed among random people.

[SuperBitMan]

Women have machinery built into them to 'make' children. She will never be happy in the long run with the idea of not having children. She can't help it. The best you can do is find a widow who has adult children already, and then simply put up with them when they visit. Otherwise, forget the marriage thing.

You are right BADecker women has what it takes to carry a child and give birth to the child and they are the reason why human are not in extinction however there are some women who are like the OP they don't want to give birth or have a child they just want to live there life without having someone to take care of or be responsible for, a lot of people that has this mentality something caused it, some is because of the family they come from they saw a lot of things that made them decide not to give birth and some people it is what the society is turning into that made them decide not to give birth, I know of someone that said because of the transgender happening this time around she wouldn't give birth if she is lucky she may see a man that share the same thought or believe with her.
I will like to say this if anyone decides not to give birth or have a child he or she should discuss it first with his or her partner before getting into marriage.

[Kavelj22]

Women have machinery built into them to 'make' children. She will never be happy in the long run with the idea of not having children. She can't help it. The best you can do is find a widow who has adult children already, and then simply put up with them when they visit. Otherwise, forget the marriage thing.

You are right BADecker women has what it takes to carry a child and give birth to the child and they are the reason why human are not in extinction however there are some women who are like the OP they don't want to give birth or have a child they just want to live there life without having someone to take care of or be responsible for, a lot of people that has this mentality something caused it, some is because of the family they come from they saw a lot of things that made them decide not to give birth and some people it is what the society is turning into that made them decide not to give birth, I know of someone that said because of the transgender happening this time around she wouldn't give birth if she is lucky she may see a man that share the same thought or believe with her.
I will like to say this if anyone decides not to give birth or have a child he or she should discuss it first with his or her partner before getting into marriage.

In a previous comment, I explained some of the reasons why I reject the idea of ​​having children. I have a general stance against having children, but that doesn't mean I deny others their right to have children. I'll try to summarize the idea: I'm not interested in passing on my genes, nor do I care much about the continuation of the human race. I believe it is unfair to bring more victims to this already overcrowded world. I reiterate that this does not mean that those who have children are wrong. Each of us has our own convictions and principles, and I don't believe I'm offending anyone with these convictions.

[virasisog]

It is better to have a plan and be open about it with your partner, being married without having children should be talked between partners.
They should be on the same boat, so that the relationship wouldn't be destroyed, respect each other's decision.
There are those who knows that they still couldn't afford it so they decides to bee safe and secure their future first, and I think this is way better than having a child but couldn't properly take care and love them.

[Ullaa]

Are there women who share this perspective? Where or how can I find one? (I know this is bitcointalk not tinder hhh). Why should the concept of commitment extend to procreation as if it were a natural outcome when we are the ones who decide that?

Btw, i live in arabic country with conservative culture. Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?

Not wanting kids doesn’t mean you don’t appreciate love or commitment. It basically means you know yourself and what kind of life you want. In a conservative community it’s undoubtedly tougher to locate someone who shares that perspective but that doesn’t imply those people don’t exist. It’s just unusual and maybe more hidden. I respect that you’re being honest with yourself instead of pretending to fit into a box that isn’t for you.

[BADecker]

Are there women who share this perspective? Where or how can I find one? (I know this is bitcointalk not tinder hhh). Why should the concept of commitment extend to procreation as if it were a natural outcome when we are the ones who decide that?

Btw, i live in arabic country with conservative culture. Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?

Not wanting kids doesn’t mean you don’t appreciate love or commitment. It basically means you know yourself and what kind of life you want. In a conservative community it’s undoubtedly tougher to locate someone who shares that perspective but that doesn’t imply those people don’t exist. It’s just unusual and maybe more hidden. I respect that you’re being honest with yourself instead of pretending to fit into a box that isn’t for you.

Actually, not wanting children means that you don't know yourself very well. Life is built around procreation. Not having children doesn't mean that you don't want them. It simply means that there are reason why you think having them isn't practical at the time.

Except for an extremely few people, anybody who has real security in life recognizes that he wants children.

[Zivudu]

I understand the reason behind your perception or decisions as a man...

It's clear to say that in this modern day of life many people, especially men are currently scard to shoulder responsibility which as a result makes them not to consider having children.some even go an extend of using protection in making love with their wife's.  Which personally I don't welcome.


But buy and large.for me, getting married and having children is ideal as a man