I like to get married without having children.

[Solodoski]

I don't like having children. It's easy and doesn't require much philosophizing and interpretation. For this reason, most of my relationships with women have failed to develop into a formal relationship. For me, marriage is all about finding a true life partner to share our ups and downs, and that's enough. Just as I don't like to be tied down to someone who is too attached to her family, I also don't like having children who might one day tire me out or whose rights I might have neglected. Don't call me a "pessimist," because I know circumstances change, and what's best for me today isn't guaranteed tomorrow, no matter how many guarantees there are. These are personal beliefs and preferences, and unfortunately, it doesn't seem like there are women who share my perspective, and most, if not all, consider marriage as a means of procreation.

Are there women who share this perspective? Where or how can I find one? (I know this is bitcointalk not tinder hhh). Why should the concept of commitment extend to procreation as if it were a natural outcome when we are the ones who decide that?

Btw, i live in arabic country with conservative culture. Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?

I really don't see how getting married with the intention of not having  children is an option from where I am from. I don't think any lady will like to hear that from a man that she wants to get married too, but with the western civilization maybe you can find a lady to have that agreement with you.
To be honest with you, I don't think you will find a lady that will want to do it. So I think you its better you don't get married than to get married and intentionally decide not to have children.

[Kavelj22]

I don't like having children. It's easy and doesn't require much philosophizing and interpretation. For this reason, most of my relationships with women have failed to develop into a formal relationship. For me, marriage is all about finding a true life partner to share our ups and downs, and that's enough. Just as I don't like to be tied down to someone who is too attached to her family, I also don't like having children who might one day tire me out or whose rights I might have neglected. Don't call me a "pessimist," because I know circumstances change, and what's best for me today isn't guaranteed tomorrow, no matter how many guarantees there are. These are personal beliefs and preferences, and unfortunately, it doesn't seem like there are women who share my perspective, and most, if not all, consider marriage as a means of procreation.

Are there women who share this perspective? Where or how can I find one? (I know this is bitcointalk not tinder hhh). Why should the concept of commitment extend to procreation as if it were a natural outcome when we are the ones who decide that?

Btw, i live in arabic country with conservative culture. Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?

I really don't see how getting married with the intention of not having  children is an option from where I am from. I don't think any lady will like to hear that from a man that she wants to get married too, but with the western civilization maybe you can find a lady to have that agreement with you.
To be honest with you, I don't think you will find a lady that will want to do it. So I think you its better you don't get married than to get married and intentionally decide not to have children.

I have found few options since i post this topic. Most of them are widows or divorced women who already have children and don't want to have more. Two other girls are about 40 years old and just think they don't have much time left to rise a child perfectly. Briefly, none of them has a principal of anti-natalism and just want to not have children for other reasons.

All those offers i found in a facebook post i posted recently but it's also worth mentioning that all the women i contacted are originated from the same society culture i have. Maybe i can find better options in Reddit network as i discovered there is a full dedicated sub-reddit for anti-natalists.

[Danica22]

I don't like having children. It's easy and doesn't require much philosophizing and interpretation. For this reason, most of my relationships with women have failed to develop into a formal relationship. For me, marriage is all about finding a true life partner to share our ups and downs, and that's enough. Just as I don't like to be tied down to someone who is too attached to her family, I also don't like having children who might one day tire me out or whose rights I might have neglected. Don't call me a "pessimist," because I know circumstances change, and what's best for me today isn't guaranteed tomorrow, no matter how many guarantees there are. These are personal beliefs and preferences, and unfortunately, it doesn't seem like there are women who share my perspective, and most, if not all, consider marriage as a means of procreation.
Are there women who share this perspective? Where or how can I find one? (I know this is bitcointalk not tinder hhh). Why should the concept of commitment extend to procreation as if it were a natural outcome when we are the ones who decide that?
Btw, i live in arabic country with conservative culture. Marriage and having children is a must for everybody and people don't even dare to discuss such topics. What do you think guys?

I really don't see how getting married with the intention of not having  children is an option from where I am from. I don't think any lady will like to hear that from a man that she wants to get married too, but with the western civilization maybe you can find a lady to have that agreement with you.
To be honest with you, I don't think you will find a lady that will want to do it. So I think you its better you don't get married than to get married and intentionally decide not to have children.

Yeah there are females, even in traditional Arab communities that don't want children it's not common but it's true, when you go to the west you will find that adults below the age of 50 that are picking to live a childless life is up to 50% and increasing . The Sharia law views reproduction as a norm but many judges permit optional no child rights if you have hardships or personal finance problems. If you want this type of relationship you should use apps or groups like CFdating, ChildfreeLove, Reddit r/childfree. and be totally sincere in the beginning, your goals should be about chemistry, not offspring by default.

[Apocollapse]

Exactly, I would rather have children and not marry than marrying and not having children. The issue is that some families are staying together today because of their children. I have heard a lady said if not for my children I would have divorced this man. And another thing is because of old age, at least you will see people to look after you.

True, hence @OP said all of his relationship ended and not last long to formal relationship.

Most women want to have a baby, I think it's because their motherly instinct to have a baby.

Childfree women are between two types, first usually they're rich (which is @OP isn't in her league) or second they ask a proof which is vasectomy. I mean, if men choose to commit to childfree, why they're not dare with vasectomy? the logic is like that. Human can change, so men who choose to childfree and not vasectomy might want to have a baby in the future.

[mich]

Well I do not think you are alone for not wanting to have children. There is alot of men in this world that does not want to have kids. And you can find women like this too.

For me I do want to have kids when I find a right woman. I did not want to but I have 2 nephews that I do really love. So some day I want to find a woman to have kids with them. It is not like this for each man you can not feel bad for not wanting to have kids with a wife.