Your life partner is a financial decision too.

[khiholangkang]

I strongly believe that a wife can be the cause and effect of a man being able to be established when he is not yet established in marriage, and can also make a man better, in the target, a man always wants to move because there is encouragement, motivation from what he experiences in his life and a man can be a very sharp sword, of course a man with good life principles and a good vision supported by a wife who has a big vision will also encourage him even better, because there will be no imbalance in conversation at home, instead they will continue to talk about future progress in order to achieve their dreams together, at least a woman who has a vision in her life will encourage the person she loves to achieve her dreams.

[Smartvirus]

Then i think before find wife as financial partner, man as future husband must clearly choose his role in the family as sole provider or  applying dual income, it will avoid choose wrong couple. Compromise before married is important to avoid high tension and repeatly fight during marriage, both can prepare an approved simple system of family budgedting, each role on cashflow management and also obligation to family. It is easy to find realistic financial partner, as long as she is not overconsumtive, can delay gratification / pleasure, has logic and has responsibility to family and have willingness to discuss money without drama. We can also easily recognize poor financial partner if she doesn't have financial literation, always comparing life with other, high social prestige hunter, hide debt and wastefulness but always deny.

Marriage is indeed a legal contract between two compatible peers who chooses themselves above everyone else and decide to build something that transcends beyond. Women are not weaker vessels, despite where most of our today societies tries to place them, women are actually strong but our today societies does measure strength by means that aren’t models that are accustomed to women.

Playing a supporting role in all you’ve got to do and still be responsible for some finances at a certain level is no easy task. It’s already a limiting factor for women and I’m not saying they’ve got to abandon these roles in support, it’s the sacrifices women make and ought to be acknowledged but, having that wife that still comes out to do work, compete in society and archive goals while pulling your strings to better yourself or gives you that ample space to make worth yourself is truly a blessing.

A good woman actually takes away stress from a man’s life and gives you the opportunity to succeed.

[Fredomago]

Great point, that adjustments and sacrifice gives the matrimonial being conduct rightfully, there are many divorce due to this problem both sides are unwilling to adjust and they both protect their own take and not willing to submit from one another, the best thing in a married life is you are both willing to listen and willing to understand, from that point both can adjust for the betterment of living together and hoping together that life will be easy or they can survive everything together.

Actually, this is the main fact if we do want to bring happiness to our family. In the general point of view every person in this world do want the perfection for them in every sector in case of the life partner also but if in this case before looking at the perfection we good be use to with adjustment and sacrifice like if your life partner income or the status is below from your expectation on that case you have to adjust with that amount and as well also the life partner should be careful about his life partners needs and feelings.

You both need to adjust to what each other can afford with that there's no additional pressure though it is also helpful if both have same vision, like for example both wants to succeed having a good financial stand either to save or invest to something or start a business that will give a decent profits, that kind of understanding and having each others back will give comfort in times where struggles and troubles are still giving a hardship to succeed, with each others trust the chance of making success will be much frutiful.

[Crypto Library]

You both need to adjust to what each other can afford with that there's no additional pressure though it is also helpful if both have same vision, like for example both wants to succeed having a good financial stand either to save or invest to something or start a business that will give a decent profits, that kind of understanding and having each others back will give comfort in times where struggles and troubles are still giving a hardship to succeed, with each others trust the chance of making success will be much frutiful.

This is what I mean by my posts that when two persons get married to each other, they have to learn to understand each other. In this case, if one person has less patience from the beginning, then if the other person sacrifices his own position and tries to maintain understanding initially, then later there may be understanding with each other. We have to remember that there is no such thing as 100% perfection in the world.

[HelliumZ]

This is what I mean by my posts that when two persons get married to each other, they have to learn to understand each other. In this case, if one person has less patience from the beginning, then if the other person sacrifices his own position and tries to maintain understanding initially, then later there may be understanding with each other. We have to remember that there is no such thing as 100% perfection in the world.

In a family where there is 100 percent understanding between the two partners, then taking any financial decision is very sustainable. Currently, in our country, there is a lack of good understanding in family ties, especially between husband and wife. If there is a lack of good understanding, then there will definitely be discrimination in their financial decision-making. In our male-dominated society, women's decisions are not valued, but in a family where women's decisions are valued, there can never be a financial crisis.

[Yeesha]

This is what I mean by my posts that when two persons get married to each other, they have to learn to understand each other. In this case, if one person has less patience from the beginning, then if the other person sacrifices his own position and tries to maintain understanding initially, then later there may be understanding with each other. We have to remember that there is no such thing as 100% perfection in the world.

In a family where there is 100 percent understanding between the two partners, then taking any financial decision is very sustainable. Currently, in our country, there is a lack of good understanding in family ties, especially between husband and wife. If there is a lack of good understanding, then there will definitely be discrimination in their financial decision-making. In our male-dominated society, women's decisions are not valued, but in a family where women's decisions are valued, there can never be a financial crisis.

What matters must in marriage is understanding, if family or couples have that mutual understanding they would be able to live together peacefully in unity with love and harmony. One of the major things that lead to destruction of marriage is lack of mutual understanding, mutual respect, and so on. If there is mutual understanding in marriage the couples will always stand by each other in every situation no matter the circumstances, even if they are experiencing financial difficulties and they will learn to adapt, move together, and work together in order to bring positive changes in their everyday lives. And over time they will be able to bounce back.

[Findingnemo]

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What matters must in marriage is understanding, if family or couples have that mutual understanding they would be able to live together peacefully in unity with love and harmony. One of the major things that lead to destruction of marriage is lack of mutual understanding, mutual respect, and so on. If there is mutual understanding in marriage the couples will always stand by each other in every situation no matter the circumstances, even if they are experiencing financial difficulties and they will learn to adapt, move together, and work together in order to bring positive changes in their everyday lives. And over time they will be able to bounce back.

Now we are in the era of empowered women, they seek the equal respect in everything which is fine but when they seek equality then they also need to bring something into the table, back it was separated tasks for each gender but now everyone is making money that is why they also need to allocate their respective chores. Understanding comes from lessons in life so one who is pampered in their entire life will not likely to handle hardships better that is why even if you are rich, expose your kids to face the reality of the world.

[Mr_Brilliant$]

This is very very true.. Choosing a life partner should not be just an emotional decision, it is a long term financial one too..  The person you build a life with will either support your financial growth or slowly drain your resources, sometimes without you even realizing it..

A good partner will add value,  through financial discipline and wise financial decisions..  They help you protect, grow, and multiply what you already have..  While a bad partner will always be about spending and immediate gratification, and can turn even abundance into struggle through poor choices and constant financial pressure.. That is why choosing wisely matters, because love alone will not cancel the daily decisions you make with you finance..

It is very unfortunate that most people don't even consider this, especially the male gender. They believe that since they have money, it is enough for them, and they think they can manage their money without involving their partner.

This is very sensitive and shouldn't be taken for granted because finance plays a crucial role when it comes to marriage, and if it is not being taken care of very well, it can end the marriage. Marriage does expand, and as it expands, the finances also need to grow. If they remain the same, it can lead to a terrible collapse of the marriage.

Like, we male gender most times ignore this stuff, just because they’ve falling in love and since they have, every thing will work out well for them including their finance.. Even though their partner is not financially smart as they’re and spend money anyhow, but it doesn’t work that way..
like you said finance is very sensitive, which is very true, so we should be more intentional about it, because it needs to grow..

[bhadz]

Every marriage has a challenge and no one can skip that part. There will be trials, troubles and problems to deal with even of how prepared you are. But we can always choose to win over those challenges together with our partners because it's the important thing that you need to be. To deal with it together and overcome that. The best thing about marriage is that you're not alone in dealing those problems and you'll have a life support altogether and you become a team. Because when you do, you know that even some trials are coming to both of you, you know that you have each others back.

That’s the best part about marriage, not just having a partner, but having a good partner, one that understands you and is willing to support you through every step of the way. There’s a saying that two heads are better than one, but not when it’s just one head that’s good, having one good head and a bad one is worse than having one because the bad one would definitely wanna corrupt the good one. So yeah, choosing a partner is just about one of the most important aspects of everyone’s life because that single decision would affect every aspect of your life either positively or negatively.

And I hope that those who are entering into this phase will listen to that kind of advise. Because it's now or never on them if they have decided to choose a partner that they love, and yet, they don't love what they're doing and not getting enough support. Each of us to become successful should have someone that supports us with the cause that we do. Behind the scenes of every successful people, there's a partner behind them that has supported them every decision and step that they've taken whether it's with financial, educational, and other aspects of their lives.

[UmerIdrees]

I strongly believe that a wife can be the cause and effect of a man being able to be established when he is not yet established in marriage, and can also make a man better, in the target, a man always wants to move because there is encouragement, motivation from what he experiences in his life and a man can be a very sharp sword, of course a man with good life principles and a good vision supported by a wife who has a big vision will also encourage him even better, because there will be no imbalance in conversation at home, instead they will continue to talk about future progress in order to achieve their dreams together, at least a woman who has a vision in her life will encourage the person she loves to achieve her dreams.

Sometimes the wife gives such good decisions that the husband implements and may get big success in life. That is why there is a famous saying that behind every successful man, there is a woman behind. Even if the woman is non-working but the motivation and encourage she gives her husband, that is enough for him to achieve financial success.

The secret lies in the husband and wife's relationship and in how much the wife gives him peace of mind at home. Usually, when you're happy at home, you will get success everywhere in life. 

[Makus]

This is very very true.. Choosing a life partner should not be just an emotional decision, it is a long term financial one too..  The person you build a life with will either support your financial growth or slowly drain your resources, sometimes without you even realizing it..

A good partner will add value,  through financial discipline and wise financial decisions..  They help you protect, grow, and multiply what you already have..  While a bad partner will always be about spending and immediate gratification, and can turn even abundance into struggle through poor choices and constant financial pressure.. That is why choosing wisely matters, because love alone will not cancel the daily decisions you make with you finance..

you said it all, there are people you pick as partners that would only cause damage to your financial life because they lack financial discipline and overtime they can push you into doing the same things that they do as well. choosing a splice should not only be about the physical features but also how they are able to manage businesses and finances as well. infatuations don't really make people choose their partners based on their character and personal qualities but they only do that based on looks and how they feel at that moment.

[jossiel]

Sometimes the wife gives such good decisions that the husband implements and may get big success in life. That is why there is a famous saying that behind every successful man, there is a woman behind. Even if the woman is non-working but the motivation and encourage she gives her husband, that is enough for him to achieve financial success.

I agree about that saying because it is true.

I think that most husbands really need a supportive wife that does not work and are focuses on the family, on how to take care of each of them.

They work 24/7 and that's more than the job of the husband and that's why mad respect to the housewives.

The secret lies in the husband and wife's relationship and in how much the wife gives him peace of mind at home. Usually, when you're happy at home, you will get success everywhere in life. 

Exactly.

If the wife's need is being provided, she'll also provide the peace that the husband needs and it works two-way, give and take.

[summonerrk]

I strongly believe that a wife can be the cause and effect of a man being able to be established when he is not yet established in marriage, and can also make a man better, in the target, a man always wants to move because there is encouragement, motivation from what he experiences in his life and a man can be a very sharp sword, of course a man with good life principles and a good vision supported by a wife who has a big vision will also encourage him even better, because there will be no imbalance in conversation at home, instead they will continue to talk about future progress in order to achieve their dreams together, at least a woman who has a vision in her life will encourage the person she loves to achieve her dreams.

That's why we so often hear the expression that women literally push a man to success, while men are capable, but rather lazy. And we all know that the wives of American presidents love to be proud of the fact that they made these Presidents the way they are. For example, this was the case with Barack Obama. his wife often talked about it. Although in fact, the role of men in this should not be underestimated, who also try and, of course, they contribute, because on one initiative, men would not be able to hold high positions or achieve any other extremely high career successes.

[bitzizzix]

I strongly believe that a wife can be the cause and effect of a man being able to be established when he is not yet established in marriage, and can also make a man better, in the target, a man always wants to move because there is encouragement, motivation from what he experiences in his life and a man can be a very sharp sword, of course a man with good life principles and a good vision supported by a wife who has a big vision will also encourage him even better, because there will be no imbalance in conversation at home, instead they will continue to talk about future progress in order to achieve their dreams together, at least a woman who has a vision in her life will encourage the person she loves to achieve her dreams.

That's why we so often hear the expression that women literally push a man to success, while men are capable, but rather lazy. And we all know that the wives of American presidents love to be proud of the fact that they made these Presidents the way they are. For example, this was the case with Barack Obama. his wife often talked about it. Although in fact, the role of men in this should not be underestimated, who also try and, of course, they contribute, because on one initiative, men would not be able to hold high positions or achieve any other extremely high career successes.

Of course, a wife plays a crucial role in her husband's success. I feel this, and I have served two terms as a neighborhood association leader thanks to my wife's support, prayers, and encouragement. She always motivates me both at home and outside, and she creates a calm and peaceful atmosphere that allows me to work and serve the community effectively.
Furthermore, my wife is also very active in women's activities and is a constant motivator for them, which has earned the community's continued support and trust in my wife and me as their leaders. Although this is only on a small scale, I believe that a wife plays a crucial role in the success and smooth running of her work.

[Fakhrulenclix]

Every marriage has a challenge and no one can skip that part. There will be trials, troubles and problems to deal with even of how prepared you are. But we can always choose to win over those challenges together with our partners because it's the important thing that you need to be. To deal with it together and overcome that. The best thing about marriage is that you're not alone in dealing those problems and you'll have a life support altogether and you become a team. Because when you do, you know that even some trials are coming to both of you, you know that you have each others back.

That’s the best part about marriage, not just having a partner, but having a good partner, one that understands you and is willing to support you through every step of the way. There’s a saying that two heads are better than one, but not when it’s just one head that’s good, having one good head and a bad one is worse than having one because the bad one would definitely wanna corrupt the good one. So yeah, choosing a partner is just about one of the most important aspects of everyone’s life because that single decision would affect every aspect of your life either positively or negatively.

And I hope that those who are entering into this phase will listen to that kind of advise. Because it's now or never on them if they have decided to choose a partner that they love, and yet, they don't love what they're doing and not getting enough support. Each of us to become successful should have someone that supports us with the cause that we do. Behind the scenes of every successful people, there's a partner behind them that has supported them every decision and step that they've taken whether it's with financial, educational, and other aspects of their lives.

You are right, as you said, and I have seen how difficult it can be for a man when he does not get support from his partner in everything, especially regarding finances. So it is indeed appropriate for us to look ahead and think long-term before choosing a partner, and I admit that choosing a life partner is very difficult because we have to consider many aspects. In my opinion, the most important is support for all decisions and financial management; if we do not get that, it is better not to get married.

[khiholangkang]

I strongly believe that a wife can be the cause and effect of a man being able to be established when he is not yet established in marriage, and can also make a man better, in the target, a man always wants to move because there is encouragement, motivation from what he experiences in his life and a man can be a very sharp sword, of course a man with good life principles and a good vision supported by a wife who has a big vision will also encourage him even better, because there will be no imbalance in conversation at home, instead they will continue to talk about future progress in order to achieve their dreams together, at least a woman who has a vision in her life will encourage the person she loves to achieve her dreams.

That's why we so often hear the expression that women literally push a man to success, while men are capable, but rather lazy. And we all know that the wives of American presidents love to be proud of the fact that they made these Presidents the way they are. For example, this was the case with Barack Obama. his wife often talked about it. Although in fact, the role of men in this should not be underestimated, who also try and, of course, they contribute, because on one initiative, men would not be able to hold high positions or achieve any other extremely high career successes.

This is of course very natural for President Barack Obama's wife. In other research, women do play an important role, especially in mental health, peace of mind and also wisdom will be obtained by a man when his woman has good support for her husband. We can distinguish between a man who has a woman who is not supportive. Most men will receive judgment from a wife when their efforts are not working and this will actually worsen their husband's mental state which will have a fatal impact on their performance in work or business, great achievements will be very difficult for them.

[passwordnow]

That's why we so often hear the expression that women literally push a man to success, while men are capable, but rather lazy. And we all know that the wives of American presidents love to be proud of the fact that they made these Presidents the way they are. For example, this was the case with Barack Obama. his wife often talked about it. Although in fact, the role of men in this should not be underestimated, who also try and, of course, they contribute, because on one initiative, men would not be able to hold high positions or achieve any other extremely high career successes.

I often hear that and it's because these wives made their husbands as successful as they can be. And that's props to them because without them, it's possible that these successful men and whoever they are won't become them right now if it's not because of their help and support. That's why kings became kings and that's because of their queens. When they have someone that they can rely on, they can do things freely and as successful as it can be.

[Crypto Library]

In a family where there is 100 percent understanding between the two partners, then taking any financial decision is very sustainable. Currently, in our country, there is a lack of good understanding in family ties, especially between husband and wife. If there is a lack of good understanding, then there will definitely be discrimination in their financial decision-making. In our male-dominated society, women's decisions are not valued, but in a family where women's decisions are valued, there can never be a financial crisis.

Not only in our country, but rather this issue is seen in all countries of the world and it is more common in civilized countries that there are family disputes only due to lack of understanding between husband and wife. And these are mostly seen to be about very small issues.
And this is the issue that I have mainly given more importance to, that if we want to spend a happy life with each other in marriage, we should have understanding among ourselves in small issues. And as well when it comes to financial issues there also we have to sacrifice and also support each other to encourage them to improve their financial ability.

[bhadz]

And I hope that those who are entering into this phase will listen to that kind of advise. Because it's now or never on them if they have decided to choose a partner that they love, and yet, they don't love what they're doing and not getting enough support. Each of us to become successful should have someone that supports us with the cause that we do. Behind the scenes of every successful people, there's a partner behind them that has supported them every decision and step that they've taken whether it's with financial, educational, and other aspects of their lives.

You are right, as you said, and I have seen how difficult it can be for a man when he does not get support from his partner in everything, especially regarding finances. So it is indeed appropriate for us to look ahead and think long-term before choosing a partner, and I admit that choosing a life partner is very difficult because we have to consider many aspects. In my opinion, the most important is support for all decisions and financial management; if we do not get that, it is better not to get married.

Especially those husbands that have nagging wives. How they can move so freely when they have something to worry with their wives. And the same goes with the wives that have these suspicious husbands at all times and naggers too. There is no accomplishment with having this kind of partners. Look at the successful couples, they are supportive to each other and they know how important it is that each of them have a peace of mind, and there's nothing to worry with each other because they fully trust their partners.

[ASloveapg]

Every marriage has a challenge and no one can skip that part. There will be trials, troubles and problems to deal with even of how prepared you are. But we can always choose to win over those challenges together with our partners because it's the important thing that you need to be. To deal with it together and overcome that. The best thing about marriage is that you're not alone in dealing those problems and you'll have a life support altogether and you become a team. Because when you do, you know that even some trials are coming to both of you, you know that you have each others back.

That’s the best part about marriage, not just having a partner, but having a good partner, one that understands you and is willing to support you through every step of the way. There’s a saying that two heads are better than one, but not when it’s just one head that’s good, having one good head and a bad one is worse than having one because the bad one would definitely wanna corrupt the good one. So yeah, choosing a partner is just about one of the most important aspects of everyone’s life because that single decision would affect every aspect of your life either positively or negatively.

And I hope that those who are entering into this phase will listen to that kind of advise. Because it's now or never on them if they have decided to choose a partner that they love, and yet, they don't love what they're doing and not getting enough support. Each of us to become successful should have someone that supports us with the cause that we do. Behind the scenes of every successful people, there's a partner behind them that has supported them every decision and step that they've taken whether it's with financial, educational, and other aspects of their lives.

You are right, as you said, and I have seen how difficult it can be for a man when he does not get support from his partner in everything, especially regarding finances. So it is indeed appropriate for us to look ahead and think long-term before choosing a partner, and I admit that choosing a life partner is very difficult because we have to consider many aspects. In my opinion, the most important is support for all decisions and financial management; if we do not get that, it is better not to get married.

Choosing a life partner is not just a matter of emotions, but should also be based on long-term support and trust. When we decide on a life partner, it becomes a lifelong decision. We have to spend our whole life with him/her. Therefore, if there is no compatibility between us and them, or between a boy and a girl, it is not possible to sustain that relationship. We should have a tendency to help each other in times of any problem. If we do not help each other, if we do not help each other in all aspects, then there will be quarrels, disputes or misunderstandings between them, and if this happens, no relationship lasts long. One has to be ready to sacrifice for the sake of others.