Causes of marital conflict

[Bigjoe158]

I will say the first one on your list is the major cause of marital conflict because without money you cannot run your family. If you are not financially okay by providing for your family, you lose respect from your wife and children leading to argument in your house. When your wife demands for money for her upkeep and you cannot provide it especially when her friends are looking good more than her. In my country, it is a serious matter, inlaws will mount pressure on you for not been man enough to provide for their daughter. Church donations, children school fees, house rent, church uniforms, burial levies or contributions, luxurious lifestyle from the wife,if the man cannot provide all these things, your marriage will be under threat leading to divorce.

[ThankGodkk2]

Other problems could exist too, but based on my personal observation and experience, I think money is probably the biggest reason for marital conflicts and it is the main driver of problems and fights between spouses. When a person is financially fit and has everything he needs to keep his family happy, there will not be a lot of problems in the family unless there are problems caused by other very specific things that aren't tolerable, but I think, most of the problems get solved with this.

Yeah there is nothing like money in all of the things that marriages need, not that having only money everything is settled definitely contrary that because money has it purpose and other things also have were they are keeping the marriage, the only reason why money is the major is because every other components depends on the money, the role money plays on the society is also the same way it plays on the marriage because it attributes respect and gives your spouse the confident of being proud of the person. Communication is also important because that's were feelings are usually unveiled because it is through communication you would avoid so many things op has listed including the low desire of sex and also inpatient because you would only no what someone is doing before you can be patient about it.

In marriage there are several reasons why a couple could have major log ahead, which if not well managed can detonate into more into something more trivial, most of this reasons include:

Infidelity: cheating as common it may seem is practically one of the deal breakers for most individuals in a relationship and when a partner tend to cheat it causes deep betrayal of trust and things may return back to their original state after this is observed.

Family background: Coming from diverse family backgrounds contribute to how an individual behavioral pattern is shaped and hence can affect our lifestyles,choices and morals.Couples from two different backgrounds may need time to adapt to each other via this aspect.

Unmet expectations: When one partner feels the other is not meeting up to his or her expectations emotionally,financially or physically.

[Anayochukwu]

Causes of marital conflict in our society. It is really going weird among our couples today to see the rate of divorce in our society.

I have come to outline the main causes while most couples are leaving there maragise.
1. Financial problems
2. Impotent
3 poor communication
4. Lack of sexual interest
5.lack of trust to each other
6. Family issues
And many more.

Let's look at the financial aspects of  life, there is no marriage that will work without money irrespective of the love you have for each other it must boil down to money solving parts of the problem in the marriage.
And a situation where the money is not available to solve those needs there is every tendency of amounting problems.

Infidelity/importent this is also a major concern in marriage, couples can tire apart for lack of children.

Lack of communication in marriage it is very important that you communicate with your wife tell her your day to day activities, discourse with her your plans.

Lack of sexual interest, while will either of you lost interest in making love with your man or woman this can really cause problems in the marriage, there are situations that can lead a man losses interest in his wife maybe being dirty but as a man try and call her to order.

Trust issues: trust is one of the flixable wire in marriage as a couple try so much to build trust to each other only this can make your relationship grow to climate.

Family issues both couples should try so hard to keep their marriage out of there families only that we they achieve a healthy marriage.

Summary as a man or woman before you go into marriage you really need to expand in reasoning and understanding, you equally need to be a little bit financially stable.

The fight for gender equality has done more harm than good in marriages now, everyone wants to be the head of the family and no one is ready to listen to each other, lack of communication is also a problem in marriages everyone is so focused on their jobs trying to build and career and have neglected the needs of their spouse. Communication is key in every marriage and if there's no communication then there's no love and love is the only thing that bounds spouses together, no body is ready to continue a marriage where cheating has become a norm without remorse, cheating, lack of communication and gender equality destroys marriages faster.

[Odusko]

You left out a very important one, see below




I will stick with money as the main reason for marriages to end, yes we can say there is cheating and an affair or what else but if someone is insanely rich the girl might not be looking ways to leave him unless if she does then she goes away with 50% then she will just create excuses for this to happen.

Money rule the world, so where money is the loyalty lies, I love the meme anyways, no woman will leave a snoring rich guys at least, between when the partner is poor and snoring it becomes double troubles, money make things work to a significant level, marriage have a lot that requires money to make it works.

[Findingnemo]

no woman will leave a snoring rich guys at least, between when the partner is poor and snoring it becomes double troubles, money make things work to a significant level, marriage have a lot that requires money to make it works.

We can say now women share everything and that is why they seek equality but the truth is still men holds the financial responsibility and he needs to make money to take care of his family even if he doesn't want to but that is not the case with women, they can chose between supporting or not. So yeah money is very important for a marriage to stay intact which many will not agree even though it is the fact.

[Johnlomape]

no woman will leave a snoring rich guys at least, between when the partner is poor and snoring it becomes double troubles, money make things work to a significant level, marriage have a lot that requires money to make it works.

We can say now women share everything and that is why they seek equality but the truth is still men holds the financial responsibility and he needs to make money to take care of his family even if he doesn't want to but that is not the case with women, they can chose between supporting or not. So yeah money is very important for a marriage to stay intact which many will not agree even though it is the fact.

Good women will always support their men and their family but the bad ones will tell you that their money belongs to them alone and you money belongs to the family. Getting married to a good woman takes the grace of God. One of the things that cause division in the family is when the man alone is taking the responsibility of the family when the woman has the money to support his husband but will never.
When a woman is too stingy for his man, this always cause misunderstanding between the man and the woman and can lead to division in the family.

[Lolipo]

Causes of marital conflict in our society. It is really going weird among our couples today to see the rate of divorce in our society.

I have come to outline the main causes while most couples are leaving there maragise.
1. Financial problems
2. Impotent
3 poor communication
4. Lack of sexual interest
5.lack of trust to each other
6. Family issues
And many more.
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There are so many causes as you have mentioned but you fail to mention the most important which trust, submissiveness, once there is not trust in marriage it won't work, is either the man will be suspecting the woman or the woman suspecting the man. And also don't forget that women are suppose to be submissive to their husband while the man in turn will provide for the woman. I have seen a family whereby a woman because she is the breed winner tends to disobey the husband thereby not been submissive to the man, and the marriage didn't last, also communication is part of what brings conflicts in a marriage. So we  should also consider three I mentioned as causes of marital conflict in our society.

[o48o]

The fight for gender equality has done more harm than good in marriages now, everyone wants to be the head of the family and no one is ready to listen to each other, lack of communication is also a problem in marriages everyone is so focused on their jobs trying to build and career and have neglected the needs of their spouse. Communication is key in every marriage and if there's no communication then there's no love and love is the only thing that bounds spouses together, no body is ready to continue a marriage where cheating has become a norm without remorse, cheating, lack of communication and gender equality destroys marriages faster.

You are talking about lack of communication and cheating, and neither of them have anything to do with gender equality.

Neglecting the needs of your spouse doesn't happen because there's no time for it, it's because there's no will for it. If your marriage is doing fine, you want to invest into it and schedule time for each other, as you prioritize each other.

If work comes before communication, problem isn't work, but the priorities you choose. And if communication isn't a priority, why would you even want to stay married?

So what are you even on about?