Your social life influences your future

[Mekie21]

Choice is one thing that has been given to this our generation for free, our society has groomed us to know between good and bad. Honestly, how you decide to live your life with friends or the light people see you in will determine what the future holds for you, either you’re the influencer or the influencee if there’s a word like that, it’ll end up right if you realize your circle of friends are  not the ones that talk you down when you’re trying to grow thinking they are still young and they should enjoy the young age because it’s a once in a life time thing. Most times it’s not just the circle but things you engage in also influences you in your decision making, how you think, how you see others. At the end run try clouding yourself with the right energy. If you’ve found out your present status is not what you have expected, look back the track and see what’s the log behind you, if it’s a necessary log you can’t do without it’s fine, but if the log weighs you down without any important impact, just cut if off and see if the result changes.

[junder]

Instead of gossiping with friends when you hang out there should be more educative things you talk about or better still you guys should talk more about politics and football if you are a man cause that's what men do but women have the association of gossips they can argue and gossip every day because they don't have much responsibility in the house when they are just house wives. It is better to be alone then to be around people who don't have good discussions with I it's good you realized yourself and left that gathering because if you had continued one day they will end up gossiping about you when you are not available that's what gang of gossips do.

That's basically it, and I don't think it's wrong to occasionally discuss unimportant matters. But if it's too frequent and every conversation is like that without anything more meaningful, it's not good. So, it might be better to balance it out, even discussing more of the things you mentioned or other potentially profitable topics. Crazy, you're absolutely right. They're really talking about me, and I found out from my friend who's still stuck in that group, haha. It's become commonplace.

[SUPERSAIAN]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

[eightdots]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

The people around you can teach you a great deal. You can find opportunities to improve yourself in many areas, such as new opportunities and new ideas. Therefore, you need to choose the people around you wisely. The people around you create your boundaries, and you need to expand those boundaries. Staying fixed in your thinking is not right; thoughts and ideas need to evolve.

The people around you can influence you positively or negatively. This is directly proportional to your choices.

[Hanadawa]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

There's a common saying that your five closest friends will determine your destiny for the next five years. And it's true. If you have close friends who are ambitious, eager to learn, and, if you're lucky, have privileges and good connections, then it's only a matter of time before you achieve the same success. I believe that we are no different from our close friends. Because social relationships are closely related to mindset, connections, and opportunities for success. If your closest friends are privileged, such as wealthy parents or connections, then you'll be able to succeed as a businessperson, or at least you'll get a high-paying job and be able to learn from your social friends.

[Agathamay]

Deep thread you know it? You're trying to pass a message down here and I've gotten what you're trying to tell us all. This piece of information really bite me and want me to reactivate my psychological dopamine and become proactive, discipline, consistent and determine because the world wouldn't get any better if we don't do the right things. Nobody come to this world to suffer and it's high time we start doing what we do best, making proper decisions for ourselves and persuading our goals in life. I urged anyone that have found him or her self in this category listed by OP, shouldn't give up because it's never too late to start all over again and this time with so much energy and beliefs.

[Renampun]

You can be born in any environment, but you can choose who you interact with, if you choose to interact with people who are open-minded and have values ​​that are in line with your goals, then the environment you build will support your growth and will create a path for you to become a successful person. but if you choose to hang out with negative people and are busy taking care of things that are not important and not needed, then gradually it will have a negative effect on you and it will definitely hinder your progress. because the people around you directly shape your mindset and habits, if you continue to be surrounded by people who are forward-thinking, then it will change you and make your mindset better and in reality this can build your personality and make your life more developed.