Your social life influences your future

[Mekie21]

Choice is one thing that has been given to this our generation for free, our society has groomed us to know between good and bad. Honestly, how you decide to live your life with friends or the light people see you in will determine what the future holds for you, either you’re the influencer or the influencee if there’s a word like that, it’ll end up right if you realize your circle of friends are  not the ones that talk you down when you’re trying to grow thinking they are still young and they should enjoy the young age because it’s a once in a life time thing. Most times it’s not just the circle but things you engage in also influences you in your decision making, how you think, how you see others. At the end run try clouding yourself with the right energy. If you’ve found out your present status is not what you have expected, look back the track and see what’s the log behind you, if it’s a necessary log you can’t do without it’s fine, but if the log weighs you down without any important impact, just cut if off and see if the result changes.

[junder]

Instead of gossiping with friends when you hang out there should be more educative things you talk about or better still you guys should talk more about politics and football if you are a man cause that's what men do but women have the association of gossips they can argue and gossip every day because they don't have much responsibility in the house when they are just house wives. It is better to be alone then to be around people who don't have good discussions with I it's good you realized yourself and left that gathering because if you had continued one day they will end up gossiping about you when you are not available that's what gang of gossips do.

That's basically it, and I don't think it's wrong to occasionally discuss unimportant matters. But if it's too frequent and every conversation is like that without anything more meaningful, it's not good. So, it might be better to balance it out, even discussing more of the things you mentioned or other potentially profitable topics. Crazy, you're absolutely right. They're really talking about me, and I found out from my friend who's still stuck in that group, haha. It's become commonplace.

[SUPERSAIAN]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

[eightdots]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

The people around you can teach you a great deal. You can find opportunities to improve yourself in many areas, such as new opportunities and new ideas. Therefore, you need to choose the people around you wisely. The people around you create your boundaries, and you need to expand those boundaries. Staying fixed in your thinking is not right; thoughts and ideas need to evolve.

The people around you can influence you positively or negatively. This is directly proportional to your choices.

[Hanadawa]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

There's a common saying that your five closest friends will determine your destiny for the next five years. And it's true. If you have close friends who are ambitious, eager to learn, and, if you're lucky, have privileges and good connections, then it's only a matter of time before you achieve the same success. I believe that we are no different from our close friends. Because social relationships are closely related to mindset, connections, and opportunities for success. If your closest friends are privileged, such as wealthy parents or connections, then you'll be able to succeed as a businessperson, or at least you'll get a high-paying job and be able to learn from your social friends.

[Agathamay]

Deep thread you know it? You're trying to pass a message down here and I've gotten what you're trying to tell us all. This piece of information really bite me and want me to reactivate my psychological dopamine and become proactive, discipline, consistent and determine because the world wouldn't get any better if we don't do the right things. Nobody come to this world to suffer and it's high time we start doing what we do best, making proper decisions for ourselves and persuading our goals in life. I urged anyone that have found him or her self in this category listed by OP, shouldn't give up because it's never too late to start all over again and this time with so much energy and beliefs.

[Renampun]

You can be born in any environment, but you can choose who you interact with, if you choose to interact with people who are open-minded and have values ​​that are in line with your goals, then the environment you build will support your growth and will create a path for you to become a successful person. but if you choose to hang out with negative people and are busy taking care of things that are not important and not needed, then gradually it will have a negative effect on you and it will definitely hinder your progress. because the people around you directly shape your mindset and habits, if you continue to be surrounded by people who are forward-thinking, then it will change you and make your mindset better and in reality this can build your personality and make your life more developed.

[Unknown Op]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

There's a common saying that your five closest friends will determine your destiny for the next five years. And it's true. If you have close friends who are ambitious, eager to learn, and, if you're lucky, have privileges and good connections, then it's only a matter of time before you achieve the same success. I believe that we are no different from our close friends. Because social relationships are closely related to mindset, connections, and opportunities for success. If your closest friends are privileged, such as wealthy parents or connections, then you'll be able to succeed as a businessperson, or at least you'll get a high-paying job and be able to learn from your social friends.

Many people are doing gossip and that is reason they are not improving their life and they are spending their time on useless things but people should invest their time on things which could be helpful for them . People should talk about technology which changed the life of people. Millions of people are Investing their time on useless friends who are debt on them but they are spending their life with them and they are happy with that. People have to learn more about Investment and  should talk about investment because that is best time for them to invest their money. Knowledge about life is important if you have bad friends then they will give you bad information and you will be habitual of bad things .

[Oluwa-btc]

Let's say you're an ordinary person, just like everyone else.

If you hang out with people who only talk about other people, talk about gossip, talk about grievances and talk about things that are not important for your personal development, you will stay in that position, don't expect life to get better.

If you hang out with people who have ambitions, talk about business potential or profit potential, talk about the future for the better, self improvement, talk about knowledge, talk about technology and investment, slowly your ambitions will be awakened, your knowledge will increase and you will realize that you have to organize your life to be better, because every time you will hear people talking about how to live more advanced.

It could be you today who is stuck in the economy because you hang out with weak, stupid, and failed people, who only talk about things that have no value.

It’s not about having many friends,it’s about having the right ones.If you’re surrounded by people whobchase growth you’ll stretch yourself and if you surround yourself with people who settle for comfort, you’ll likely do the same.Meanwhile,your communication skills, leadership ability, confidence, and self-worth are practiced daily in social spaces.So watch your space and spend your time wisely.

[Minor Miner]

It’s not about having many friends,it’s about having the right ones.If you’re surrounded by people whobchase growth you’ll stretch yourself and if you surround yourself with people who settle for comfort, you’ll likely do the same.Meanwhile,your communication skills, leadership ability, confidence, and self-worth are practiced daily in social spaces.So watch your space and spend your time wisely.

I agree, having many friends isn't necessarily a good thing. But the person we become is determined by ourselves, the environment only influences us to a certain extent, not as the deciding factor. Therefore, I think it would be unfair to blame the environment and other people if we get lost.

Just like in my group of friends. There are some who are very successful and wealthy, but there are also some who are quite lazy and unwilling to work hard. One of them had a rather difficult life compared to the rest of the group. In this case, who should I blame?

[devlin85]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

That’s right, although there is always the typical person who says that only weak minds are influenced by their social circle. The real truth is that the environment we move in does have a strong influence on us. After all, the people we frequently spend time with are the ones with whom we share ideas, time, and even goals; therefore, they can push you forward or hold you back without you realizing it. Of course, being surrounded by ambitious people with a positive mindset does not guarantee success, but it certainly creates an environment that makes it easier to achieve.

[White pawn]

They say you are the average of the people you associate with, so if you only hang out with mediocre people, you will certainly become mediocre. And by mediocre, we mean someone who lives in the average. If your desire is to become great, you must associate with people who have the same purpose. I heard a phrase that makes perfect sense to me: "If you are the smartest person at the table, you are at the wrong table." It's not about arrogance or being the "best," it's about learning, evolving. Sit at tables where you are the least knowledgeable, and you will learn a lot.

Ever notice how motivated you feel in some rooms,and drained in others?That’s not vibes,that’s environment doing its work.It shows your environment is your silent teacher.
It teaches you what to aim for, what to ignore, and what to accept without ever saying a word.If the room celebrates excuses, you’ll master excuses.You don’t rise alone,you rise with people who hallenge your comfort,stretch your thinking/mindset and remind you who you’re becoming.
And you fall when you stay loyal to environments that require you to stay small.If the room celebrates progress, you’ll chase progress.Audit your circle, and your spaces because your future is listening.

[salad daging]

I agree, having many friends isn't necessarily a good thing. But the person we become is determined by ourselves, the environment only influences us to a certain extent, not as the deciding factor. Therefore, I think it would be unfair to blame the environment and other people if we get lost.

Having an environment where many great people continue to grow in their business ventures or in any case is good, it means we can see how they do it even I am happy to have a social environment like this it's just that sometimes there are lazy people who do not make actions where they follow in the footsteps of other friends who have been successful, it is not a determining factor but this is the way for those who want to follow a better career.

Just like in my group of friends. There are some who are very successful and wealthy, but there are also some who are quite lazy and unwilling to work hard. One of them had a rather difficult life compared to the rest of the group. In this case, who should I blame?

Blame it on people who don't want to work hard, people like that will not progress, maybe other friends have succeeded in inviting to better things like being taught to work hard, lazy people still won't grow, their lives will continue to be difficult.

[whiteblue]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

Even though it is late, the impact will be felt and will be very different, my thoughts now are that staying away from negative people is a must because it becomes a barrier to our thoughts, but don't let it be like you show yourself conveying things like this because it will make your old friend angry, it's better to just keep quiet and maintain your association with people who don't give you many positive things, no matter how little you have an emotional relationship that must be appreciated because it has been built with them for a long time.

[fredericktaylor]

It's true that you adapt to your surroundings. You become the average of the 5-6 people around you. It's important to stay away from people who lack ambition, have no goals, and are constantly negative and complaining. I started doing this late, but I don't complain. Interacting with successful people, talking to them, or doing any kind of activity with them, fuels ambition and leads to success.

You are right, adapting yourself to any environment means taking a step towards success, not everyone can do this, they who can achieve great success in life. Having good relationships with those who have been successful, those who want to be something big in the future, those who are doing reliable work to move forward, by associating with them, your thoughts, dreams or wants, and getting change. As a result, own influence ownself more towards implementing own dreams or thoughts.