Your social life influences your future

[GiftedMAN]

In reality, our lives are limited to the environment we normally mix with or move around. The things we discuss with those we normally move around with also become deeply involved in our lives later. People who work with a big goal in their life usually try their best to implement that goal. If those who are involved there, everyone will try to work with the goal. On the other hand, if you mix with those who have no goal, then your world will become small. You will not be able to learn anything, rather, disappointment will work. A negative attitude will be created in your mind.

That’s right. The people and environment we find around us quietly shapes how we think and grow, even if we hardly notice this, but with time we get to see that they do really hold quite a huge influence on how we think and react towards certain situations, and this is why it’s important to make sure that we try as much as possible to draw only the positive energy from our surroundings because in the long run we get to decide the kind of energy that’ll mostly influence us in our surroundings.

[batang_bitcoin]

But staying around negative energy, distractions, and things that do not even add value just will quietly slow you down.. 

Not only will slow you down but can really send that negative energy to yourself and could impact you more than you could ever imagine. That's not what you like to have in your life because many of these people that shares their negative energy based on the community you are part will also influence the way you live. So, if you don't like that aura that you're getting from where you live and with the people that you're with together. It's best to move out and find a better place where you know that you're at peace and more positivity is what you can absorb.

[Yeesha]

In reality, our lives are limited to the environment we normally mix with or move around. The things we discuss with those we normally move around with also become deeply involved in our lives later. People who work with a big goal in their life usually try their best to implement that goal. If those who are involved there, everyone will try to work with the goal. On the other hand, if you mix with those who have no goal, then your world will become small. You will not be able to learn anything, rather, disappointment will work. A negative attitude will be created in your mind.

That’s right. The people and environment we find around us quietly shapes how we think and grow, even if we hardly notice this, but with time we get to see that they do really hold quite a huge influence on how we think and react towards certain situations, and this is why it’s important to make sure that we try as much as possible to draw only the positive energy from our surroundings because in the long run we get to decide the kind of energy that’ll mostly influence us in our surroundings.

The environment we live in and the people who surround us have a strong influence on who we become and how we think, act, and make decisions. Our environment shapes our habits, values, attitudes, and even our goals in life. When we stay in a positive environment, where people are hardworking, disciplined, and encouraging, it naturally motivates us to improve ourselves and strive for success. Such an environment pushes us toward growth, good character, and better choices.

But on the other hand, if we live in a negative environment or surround ourselves with people who have bad habits, poor morals, or a lack of ambition, it can slowly affect us in harmful ways. We may begin to adopt their behaviours, lose focus, or lower our standards without even realising it. The truth is that human beings are naturally influenced by what they see, hear, and experience every day.

[Agbe]

Your circle matters a lot because this would determine what the state of your mind would be, that's the reason why if surround yourself of people that are poor you would have a poor mentality, when talk about poor I'm not really referring to lack of money specifically I'm talking about a poor mentality or way myopic way of thinking. We are a product of our environment, it only takes those that have a strong mental fortitude to avoid getting influenced negatively by their environment. But this is something that can influence your future.

[mvdheuvel1983]

Your circle matters a lot because this would determine what the state of your mind would be, that's the reason why if surround yourself of people that are poor you would have a poor mentality, when talk about poor I'm not really referring to lack of money specifically I'm talking about a poor mentality or way myopic way of thinking. We are a product of our environment, it only takes those that have a strong mental fortitude to avoid getting influenced negatively by their environment. But this is something that can influence your future.

If you are the type that let the discussion of others influence you that's the only way they can get to your mindset but if you have poor thinking friends and you are a good thinkwr who do not just accept what your friends say but go a long way to do your findings it will take them ages for them to influence you negatively unless you decide to dance to their ideas. There are people who have poor thinkers as friends but instead of behaving like them the person thinks differently until he becomes a positive influence to the environment where he reside.

[Iroh]

It’s not about having many friends,it’s about having the right ones.If you’re surrounded by people whobchase growth you’ll stretch yourself and if you surround yourself with people who settle for comfort, you’ll likely do the same.Meanwhile,your communication skills, leadership ability, confidence, and self-worth are practiced daily in social spaces.So watch your space and spend your time wisely.

It's really about having the right people in our lives. You can have a thousand people all around you and yet little to no impact is being made on you or the people hovering all around you. Also, I think it's crucial people learn to know the difference between someone you call a friend and someone you met a few days ago. Despite the people coming around you all having wide smiles and really kind words, not everyone is rooting for your growth, hence the need to differentiate between people you call your friends and others.
Surround yourself with people who seek to grow and increase on what they know and have. People who will lend a hand instead of putting you down even more.

[JoyceBTC]

Op you are actually making points here. That’s why some young people hardly make friends with their age groups, they like making friends with advanced or older people because they will get to learn more about things of life, ways to grow and things to do to become better. They always want to get close to this set of people because they know they’ve gone through some ups and downs of life that has helped them build who they are today, so therefore they are in a better position to impact, guide and also motivate one into becoming someone meaningful.

[Hanadawa]

That’s right. The people and environment we find around us quietly shapes how we think and grow, even if we hardly notice this, but with time we get to see that they do really hold quite a huge influence on how we think and react towards certain situations, and this is why it’s important to make sure that we try as much as possible to draw only the positive energy from our surroundings because in the long run we get to decide the kind of energy that’ll mostly influence us in our surroundings.

That's why it's important to have a strong social life, starting with our smallest circle: our family. We are shaped by our social environment and the people around us. But as children and teenagers, we lack the understanding and self-awareness that our environment influences our way of thinking. That's why family plays a crucial role in shaping the foundation of our social lives. I think people will realize the importance of their social lives when they graduate from school/college and are looking for work or starting a business. At that point, we see a different world. A more real world than when we were in school. And there, we will realize how crucial our friendship networks and social lives are because they shape our mindset and networking, helping our careers/businesses succeed.

[Princess Leah]

If you are the type that let the discussion of others influence you that's the only way they can get to your mindset but if you have poor thinking friends and you are a good thinkwr who do not just accept what your friends say but go a long way to do your findings it will take them ages for them to influence you negatively unless you decide to dance to their ideas. There are people who have poor thinkers as friends but instead of behaving like them the person thinks differently until he becomes a positive influence to the environment where he reside.

I agree with your point, there was a time in my university days when I almost got influenced by some group of friends in my department who loved partying and clubbing than studies, if i didn't advice myself that constant clubbing wasn't the reason my parents sent me to study my grades would've been be poor in that semester.

 Someone who's easily influenced shouldn't mingle with people that would impact them with negative lifestyle, even though you're a positive thinker, at some point you might gradually be influenced and start living a wayward life.

[Agbe]

Surrounding yourself with successful people is not all of it, surround yourself with successful people who for you. You can surround yourself with the right people but they don’t have anything better to give you, the hide opportunities, connections and knowledge from you.
In a circle there can be rich friends and poor friends who have been together.
Be in the right room, spend on your self, groom yourself, opportunities can for you even if it’s not from your circle.

You are right, it is one thing to surround yourself with successful people and it's another thing to surround yourself with people that are willing to help you out. it's just like a poor person that knows a lot of rich people but they are still broke because most of these successful people are fond of gate keeping informations that can help others. you should disconnect yourself from people that are not willing to share valuable informations with you.

[Localhostspeed]

Your circle matters a lot because this would determine what the state of your mind would be, that's the reason why if surround yourself of people that are poor you would have a poor mentality, when talk about poor I'm not really referring to lack of money specifically I'm talking about a poor mentality or way myopic way of thinking. We are a product of our environment, it only takes those that have a strong mental fortitude to avoid getting influenced negatively by their environment. But this is something that can influence your future.

The kind of friends that you keep affect your productivity, your ways of life and the way you make money. Some people don't know how to make networking with other people and yet they complained bitterly how things are not working for them. Even the greatest billionaires that we have today are people that has millionaires in their circle. I have even noticed some people that are making this money don't like to associate there self with people that has nothing.

If you want to make money, you need connection but for you to have connection, you will need have what it takes to have people around you and you know why? It's because people don't like to have a burden to their life. If rich people know that you are going to be taken and they will not have any from you, they will not like to associate with you. It's sad but that's just the basic rule of life, you need to have some things to offer for other people to want to associate with you.

[abhiseshakana]

Your circle matters a lot because this would determine what the state of your mind would be, that's the reason why if surround yourself of people that are poor you would have a poor mentality, when talk about poor I'm not really referring to lack of money specifically I'm talking about a poor mentality or way myopic way of thinking. We are a product of our environment, it only takes those that have a strong mental fortitude to avoid getting influenced negatively by their environment. But this is something that can influence your future.

The kind of friends that you keep affect your productivity, your ways of life and the way you make money. Some people don't know how to make networking with other people and yet they complained bitterly how things are not working for them. Even the greatest billionaires that we have today are people that has millionaires in their circle. I have even noticed some people that are making this money don't like to associate there self with people that has nothing.

If you want to make money, you need connection but for you to have connection, you will need have what it takes to have people around you and you know why? It's because people don't like to have a burden to their life. If rich people know that you are going to be taken and they will not have any from you, they will not like to associate with you. It's sad but that's just the basic rule of life, you need to have some things to offer for other people to want to associate with you.

In my opinion, networking and circle are different, because networking is functional and strategic meanwhile circle is our core social circle which full of emotional and identity. I build networking for value exchange for additional faster business or opportunity information, access and colaboration even partnership, clearly stated networking for economic opportunity expansion. I thing many rich and successfull people have strong networking because it is sources of capital, idea, influence and can you imagine they combine it to achieve their goal. They not anti poor people but they avoid burden and bad influence. For circle (mostly friendship) devine who we are usually circle has same value of live and not always benefiting financially and this close environtment can shaped our habit, so bad circle sometime block our improvement.

[Altryist]

Not only will slow you down but can really send that negative energy to yourself and could impact you more than you could ever imagine. That's not what you like to have in your life because many of these people that shares their negative energy based on the community you are part will also influence the way you live. So, if you don't like that aura that you're getting from where you live and with the people that you're with together. It's best to move out and find a better place where you know that you're at peace and more positivity is what you can absorb.

Moving to another place will be easier if you're renting, but for many people changing anything if it's your own property will be much more difficult. And your environment has a significant influence on you, so if there's a negative influence, it needs to be changed. The same applies to the people around you when it comes to finances: if you associate with those less financially secure, your standards may also be lowered, whereas if your environment is more affluent than you, you'll strive to rise to their level.

[Fiasem20]

Not only will slow you down but can really send that negative energy to yourself and could impact you more than you could ever imagine. That's not what you like to have in your life because many of these people that shares their negative energy based on the community you are part will also influence the way you live. So, if you don't like that aura that you're getting from where you live and with the people that you're with together. It's best to move out and find a better place where you know that you're at peace and more positivity is what you can absorb.

Moving to another place will be easier if you're renting, but for many people changing anything if it's your own property will be much more difficult. And your environment has a significant influence on you, so if there's a negative influence, it needs to be changed. The same applies to the people around you when it comes to finances: if you associate with those less financially secure, your standards may also be lowered, whereas if your environment is more affluent than you, you'll strive to rise to their level.

Environment that’s more affluent than you could lead to competition amongst you and the people you find in that environment.But one thing about me is the fact that I don’t get triggered by people’s lifestyles even if I know quite well that I can’t rise to their level.There’s no harm in living your best life,don’t please people just because you want to meet up with your neighbors and friends you find around yourself.You’re environment can influence you negatively or positively,if only you’ve decided to give it chance on you.If your environment would influence you positively then embrace it’s positivity rather than trying to emulate a standard that you can’t afford all because you want to feel among.

[JoyMarsha]

This is really how life is, we are what we allow close to us, be a friend or whatever. If we go on with such a thing for a long time, the chance of us having our life and future in that form is very high, be it good or bad. That's why at times, we should be mindful of the friends we have around us. Whether they are there to build and help in future growth because of the plants we plant now, it is in our old age that we will see the results not now we are young and enjoying life

[Fortify]

Let's say you're an ordinary person, just like everyone else.

If you hang out with people who only talk about other people, talk about gossip, talk about grievances and talk about things that are not important for your personal development, you will stay in that position, don't expect life to get better.

If you hang out with people who have ambitions, talk about business potential or profit potential, talk about the future for the better, self improvement, talk about knowledge, talk about technology and investment, slowly your ambitions will be awakened, your knowledge will increase and you will realize that you have to organize your life to be better, because every time you will hear people talking about how to live more advanced.

It could be you today who is stuck in the economy because you hang out with weak, stupid, and failed people, who only talk about things that have no value.

You're right, the people that you hang around with are going to have an impact on the level of wealth and intelligence that you are striving to have. If you hang around with low lifes, there is a good chance that you will pick up their behaviors and possibly stumble down to their level, which is going to end badly for you. You ideally want to be hanging around people that are a level above you, because there are ways that they might end up pulling you up to their level and you can start making better connections. You never realize that at levels of wealth above you, there can be all kinds of opportunities to make money by helping them, you just need to have the right introductions and know how the handle things properly.

[icebar]

But staying around negative energy, distractions, and things that do not even add value just will quietly slow you down.. 

Not only will slow you down but can really send that negative energy to yourself and could impact you more than you could ever imagine. That's not what you like to have in your life because many of these people that shares their negative energy based on the community you are part will also influence the way you live. So, if you don't like that aura that you're getting from where you live and with the people that you're with together. It's best to move out and find a better place where you know that you're at peace and more positivity is what you can absorb.

People are generally influenced by other people where he lives. In any situation, if someone comes to you and inspires you on some issue, then you can easily declare unity with them or agree with their opinion. This is very natural. Especially those who have good communication with your environment. In any positive or negative matter, the influence of the people there works greatly because their attitude and your own attitude will often be similar. But if there is any discrepancy with the influence, then first you should definitely leave that company on your own.

[spritedude69]

You become like the people you spend the most time with. Those who gossip, complain, and focus on problems get stuck, while those who discuss ideas, skills, money, and the future move forward. Success isn’t about being smarter; it’s about being in an environment that pushes you to think better. Most people fail not because they lack potential, but because they listen to voices that hold them back. Protect your mind. Limit exposure and surround yourself with influences that uplift you. 

[MagnificentX]

There are people who have poor thinkers as friends but instead of behaving like them the person thinks differently until he becomes a positive influence to the environment where he reside.

What you have said is so true and is just what I was thinking of contributing immediately I saw the thread. Human or let me say man, we act out of what we think or decide and not just what we socialize with. You can be an intellect in the midst of people who are timid and bring out the best in them and not the other way round.

Of course it is good to be in the midst of people who will also teach or benefit you when it comes of good discussion but one thing you should ask yourself is "what kind of discussion should I indulge in?" It is not about who you spend the time with but what you people talk or the ideas you share with yourselves.

[Versatile_choice]

That’s right. The people and environment we find around us quietly shapes how we think and grow, even if we hardly notice this, but with time we get to see that they do really hold quite a huge influence on how we think and react towards certain situations, and this is why it’s important to make sure that we try as much as possible to draw only the positive energy from our surroundings because in the long run we get to decide the kind of energy that’ll mostly influence us in our surroundings.

I don't think if the environment we find ourselves have much effect in these, because there are some people who are leaving in a good environment yet they think and react like those who are in the village and this could be due to the people they have around them like friends. I don't mean to dispute on the fact that the environment we find ourselves shapes how we think and grow but the one that needs to be giving much attention is the people around us because they are more influential than the environment where we live.