DNA test as part of postnatal health service bill

[Roseline492]

While this question is for everyone,it depends on how you and your wife understand each other in the house and how frequent your wife move from outside and coming back to your house,if your wife goes to market all the time bear it in mined that she might cheat on you,women are not trusted at all so you need to do DNA test ,it help in a marriage relationship,I support DNA test

This is were you are misunderstanding this, you can't accuse someone because of a regular market, if you have a family that doesn't buy things in buck but only what you can use for the day, your wife will definitely go to the Market on every blessed day because there is nothing left to eat in the house since the last market has been exhausted, so actually your food stuff purchases depend on how consistent or rarely she would be on the market, if you have done your part in making sure there is a limitation in going to the market then you can suspect if the market activities is becoming unbearable.

[Royal Cap]

You know your wife and your wife knows you
then why DNA test? Is it not waste of funds?

DNA testing itself is not bad, but when said is the real thing. If there is already suspicion and distrust in the relationship then such a demand is natural, But if this question suddenly comes up in a good family, there is no doubt that it will hurt. A woman can then feel that she is being considered guilty. I personally believe that as a rule it is not necessary for everyone. Where there is trust, there is no point looking for evidence with papers. Again, where the suspicion is so deep that you cannot sleep at night, the test may give you peace of mind, However making it a part of the budget to give birth to every child is neither realistic nor humane. The bottom line is that a relationship lives on trust, not the test report.

[Marykeller]

Don't fully trust a man or woman, who you call your spouse because if you are being told or shown what they do in secret, you wouldn't believe with your eyes that they can do that at your back.

If a man can afford a DNA test, let them do it as early as possible, to save themselves from future shock because many men have been training the sons and daughters of others, thinking it's theirs and it's their old age, they are finding the truth, leaving them with the greatest shock of their life. Some die as a result of that. I wouldn't want that to be the case with anyone I know because that's heartbreaking, after years of emotional bonding and money spent on kids that are not yours

[mvdheuvel1983]

Don't fully trust a man or woman, who you call your spouse because if you are being told or shown what they do in secret, you wouldn't believe with your eyes that they can do that at your back.

If a man can afford a DNA test, let them do it as early as possible, to save themselves from future shock because many men have been training the sons and daughters of others, thinking it's theirs and it's their old age, they are finding the truth, leaving them with the greatest shock of their life. Some die as a result of that. I wouldn't want that to be the case with anyone I know because that's heartbreaking, after years of emotional bonding and money spent on kids that are not yours

Trust is one thing that keeps married couples together if you think your wife or husband can not be trusted then there is no need of being in love with that person because you guys are just pretending to stay together just because of what you two are benefiting from each other. DNA test should not be that expensive if it has become a thing of a particular concern but it should be an agreement between the man and the woman because if it is carried out without the presence of one person if the results happens to be positive which means the man is the father or the child if the wife finds out that the husband carried out a DNA without her consent it becomes a problem because she's not going to trust him again.

[GeorgeJohn]

In a good hospital were a new born baby is been delivered successfully, all the necessary test is supposed to be conducted for the baby, to know he or her blood group and paternity of the baby,

So it will enable to know the genotype and the forensic results of the baby, so it's there that you will know if the baby belongs to you or not..

But for uncivilised country, were hospitals doesn't operate accordingly, you will not know your the paternity of your baby until you conduct a DNA test

Actually, a father of a child need to know the paternity of his child right from the day it was delivered in the hospital before discharging them.

[LOVER BOY 422]

Life has it own test ,what many women who are legally y married are doing right now in their husband place is quite confusing because it's really bad for a woman who is legally married to meet another man ,and sleep with him this is abomination in my area locally,now considering the fact that the man of the house requested a DNA test results from all their kids to me is very good and I see nothing bad in it ,even you as a woman you should be very happy about that , because you and your wife are one maybe you just decided to do the test is not wrong ,so nobody should see DNA test as bad decision from the husband if he has the money let him do the test to be very sure , women are very wicked this days ,I think oat before married should also be. Consider many woman can cheat in marriage,before a husband said he want to do DNA test he has observed something,and to me if I observed anything I must do the DNA test , weather my wife like it or not I must do it ,so that my conscience can really free my emotions.

[Zigabel]

**When should a man demand a DNA test?
**You as the wife, how will you feel about that?
**Should it really become part of a husbands budget on every child delivery?
**What do you really think about running a DNA as a man or as a woman?

Most times there are usually situations that does leads to the demand for a DNA test. Some partners can actually have trust issues and yet still stick together but when cases like this come up they demand for it to be sure they are not taking responsibility for that which they don't believe  they are responsible for. Another reason could be when a foul play is suspected from the Hospital as whe have heard cases of swapped babies.