How did you react at people around you when you lose in gambling?

[ZeroVinsonN]

That was alot for a person to lose so to an extent we can at least understand how he was feeling at that very moment but transfering that anger towards your own child has to be the biggest mistake ever made by anyone, we should never let things like that affect how we relate to our family members and even our friends, it's a personal lose and it's emotional effects should also remain personal, there is no point in trying to blow off some steam on someone else who didn't do anything wrong to you.

[Fiasem20]

what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

It hurts when an individual lost an amount they can’t afford to lose,personally if I lost a huge amount in gambling,I try as much not to transfer my aggression on my loved ones or people I find around myself at that moment because nobody made the decision for me,so it would be pointless being angry at others all because of the decision I made.The best way to get rid of that feeling is by being quiet and don’t allow your mistake to ruin your emotions,though it might be very difficult to slide but it’s still very necessary for such a person to stay off the casino for a while till the pain is healed completely,in other not to trigger chasing losses.

[jcojci]

Trying to be as usual and hide my lose in gambling. I don't want people around knows my lost. Not to mention about what they will say to me which can makes many people know.

Hiding the lost and only me knows will be better so I can avoids bad wording from others. Besides that, we have many bad examples about lost money from gambling.

[Muba20]

Those who are gamblers and lose large amounts of money in gambling are naturally in a bad state of mind at that time, then even good deeds can be a cause of annoyance, which is very natural. The gambler should definitely think that in gambling some one will loss, but its effect should not fall anywhere else. Gambling should be managed within one's control. It is natural for the situation to be like this if you bet with a loss that is not tolerable. In any case, trying to control one self is the best solution. If negative behavior is shown to family members due to gambling, the family members will suffer from that behavior and the family members relation with the gambler will continue to deteriorate. Even if I lose at gambling, I don't let anyone know the impact.

[Vaculin]

Losses are painful, especially if you have lose some significant amount. But if you let your losses affect your emotions, like getting angry with the people around you, that would only lead to another problem that will definitely ruin your personal relationship with those people. So its never a good thing to do.

As much as possible, know your limits when gambling, know how to control your emotions. I do get angry sometimes but I think we should never get carried away by negativity. Those people are not to be blamed, because they aren't responsible of your losses, or of being unlucky while you're gambling.

[m2017]

Yesterday I was having some time with one of my very good child hood friends so we both had fun together at one joint close to his area after much conversation he was able to disclose some of his betting slips that he lost so much money up to like $800, though he wasn't that happy but as my guy I was just trying to cool him off and to make he see reasons why he should let it slide and shouldn't be disturbed by it.

However, after we are both done I decided to walk him to his house reaching there one of his son ran to was him to welcome him as usual but I was shock the way he reacted to his son, he just shouted at him and order him to go inside. That was very rude of him so to speak but am pretty sure his actions was as a result of his lost.

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Another discussion about gambling losses. Why not discuss the reverse effect - winning -and how you, as gamblers, reacted to others after winning? Maybe even shared (part of) your winnings or bought them drinks?

And to answer the OP's question, people's reactions to others after losses certainly can't be positive, as they can leave people depressed, hostile, and embittered. Maybe I didn't lose enough for that, but I certainly didn't yell at small children because of my failures.

[rbynxx]

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

It's really that frustrating losing ing gambling especially with that kind of amount but people around you was innocent of what you're doing and you need to be gentle if you can. Well, it's really boiling most of the time especially if you have anger issues but I guess working it out step by step will help

[cryptomaniac_xxx]

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

He is definitely out of control, but I will admit that when I lost big money before, I could be a different person as I blame everyone around me except myself. I'm not saying that your friends attitude is correct, but this could be just one way to vent his frustrations. But in any case, it's really wrong.

As for me, when I realized that, then I just try to calm myself and just think that it's just another day for me. And it's probably that lady luck is not on my side that's why I lost and should not be blaming any one and just treat it as a learning experience.

[Porfirii]

Well, $800 is a lot of money for most people, so I understand that he was upset by what happened, although the only responsible was him and it was very unfair to treat innocent people the way you say he did. But we are humans and sometimes emotions are difficult to control.

Not because of losing a lot of money gambling, because I set clear limits and I don't cross them to avoid that kind of bad surprises, but I feel identified with your friend, only that in my case I don't get angry with others, but so focused on the problem I may have had I find it difficult not to be absent to my loved ones until the disappointment wears off, even if I try.

So be patient and understanding of your friend, and suggest that he should avoid putting himself in situations that might make him feel this bad next time...

[Numeral]

This kind of reaction, like being super irritable, isn't just because of losing at gambling. It can be because of all sorts of problems, like losing your job or getting a pay cut, a deal falling through, or other work stuff where you tried hard and did everything right, but just didn't get lucky. And the saddest thing is that in this case, people often start to take it out on their loved ones and generally become more pessimistic. In this case, it is extremely important to understand that your failures are your failures, you should not look for someone to blame, but try to fix the situation yourself. Many people experience difficulties in life, but if you fall, get up and keep going. Forget about the rest. Some people even go bankrupt, but they start their lives from scratch and don't get discouraged.

[nara1892]

Yes, it is certain that the harsh reaction that your friend did to his son was caused by the defeat he had just experienced, this is no longer just speculation but it is certainly the cause, from this we can also conclude that your friend is less responsible in accepting his defeat.

For myself, honestly, I rarely experience situations like that, because I rarely lose big because I always try to only bet according to my ability, this is the reason why we should always bet according to our ability.

[Rockstarguy]

There is no way one can be happy after losing an amount that can't be afforded; no matter how you pacify the person to forget about it, the person will still feel bad about the loss. Even if a gambler gambles with small amounts, gambling without limits continuously, and if the loss is significant, it can also make one feel bad.

There are always emotions attached to gambling when you are losing an amount of money that you cannot let go of. This is why it is always advisable for gamblers to have limits, know when to stop playing, and also to know the amount that can be afforded to lose. However, when this is done in the opposite manner, it is always hard to console someone to forget about it.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

Back then when I was playing for the money and no other reason, I know I don't react so patiently with people after losing so much, I just prefer to be alone then if the lose is so big that I can not just laugh over it, but I kept on adjusting until now that I don't even stake with so much money like I did before. This time around, I could lose and just easily forget about it because the money I used is small that I can regain it back in a day.

[ndutndut]

Yesterday I was having some time with one of my very good child hood friends so we both had fun together at one joint close to his area after much conversation he was able to disclose some of his betting slips that he lost so much money up to like $800, though he wasn't that happy but as my guy I was just trying to cool him off and to make he see reasons why he should let it slide and shouldn't be disturbed by it.

However, after we are both done I decided to walk him to his house reaching there one of his son ran to was him to welcome him as usual but I was shock the way he reacted to his son, he just shouted at him and order him to go inside. That was very rude of him so to speak but am pretty sure his actions was as a result of his lost.

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

I understand that when we lose at gambling our reactions vary. We know gambling is just entertainment and we've invested money we're prepared to lose, but anger and other reactions when we lose are human nature.

I sometimes feel that way but that doesn't mean I'm unhealthy at gambling but sometimes the reaction after a loss in gambling is like what I mentioned above. Because no gambler is happy when they lose, there's bound to be anger and this is also the crucial function of emotional management. We must be able to control our emotions. If you're feeling uneasy it's best not to go home. Spend some time hanging out then calm down, so things like your friend yelling at their own child don't happen again. Don't go home emotional especially after losing at gambling.

[Eternad]

Back then when I was playing for the money and no other reason, I know I don't react so patiently with people after losing so much, I just prefer to be alone then if the lose is so big that I can not just laugh over it, but I kept on adjusting until now that I don't even stake with so much money like I did before. This time around, I could lose and just easily forget about it because the money I used is small that I can regain it back in a day.

That’s the real essence of responsible gambling. We should just gamble what we can afford to lose so that we can walk away in peace even if we lose in the end.

Many gamblers don’t practice this that’s why they are affecting people surrounding them through aggressive action as way to vent their anger.

Many influencers are showing outrageous reactions after losing and I believe most gambler experience that so it’s crucial to be responsible to avoid unnecessary reactions as aftermath of gambling.

[Obim34]

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Are they the cause of me losing, it is very unreasonable to extend emotions to people after losing from a casino.

My behaviors around people is very normal to how i express myself among them, nothing changes from the usual, I don't get rude for any reason, moreover, I don't risk amount i can't tolerate if i lose it, in terms of sport betting, I may be more concerned why the game played that way than just why i lost my staked amount or maybe the profits would have added to my free cash.

[aioc]

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

It hurts when you lose money that you don't want to lose, your disappointment will show up, and you can say and do things to people around you that you regret later.

So when this happened to me, I usually go for a long walk or just want to sleep it off. I just made sure that I am fine before I face people who are close to me; it's my fault anyway that I lose those funds.
I learned to take time and absorb my losses and shrug them off before I face people; they don't deserve my hate because I'm the one at fault.

[aylabadia05]

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

It would be unwise if the problems he experienced could not be put into perspective.
I don't see how people who lose at gambling react when they return to their families or when they are together in a group. I myself have never done anything impulsive when losing at gambling. In 2024, I stopped my daily gambling habit, feeling emotional, but I decided not to continue as usual and to test how strong I was in overcoming it.
It turned out that it wasn't difficult for me because everything I did was based on my desire to change.

[B-BossMan]

Yesterday I was having some time with one of my very good child hood friends so we both had fun together at one joint close to his area after much conversation he was able to disclose some of his betting slips that he lost so much money up to like $800, though he wasn't that happy but as my guy I was just trying to cool him off and to make he see reasons why he should let it slide and shouldn't be disturbed by it.

However, after we are both done I decided to walk him to his house reaching there one of his son ran to was him to welcome him as usual but I was shock the way he reacted to his son, he just shouted at him and order him to go inside. That was very rude of him so to speak but am pretty sure his actions was as a result of his lost.

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Well it's better as you calm him down in an understandable way, well when we talk of losses in gambling I believe every gamblers has once faced several losses or huge losses and each an everyone of them were able to control thoer emotions after a huge lost, however I will use myself as an example, person like me whenever I losses a huge amount like this I don't usually mingle with people that would hurt me with thier unwanted discussions, I only relax at my room cooling my temper before going out to see people.

[casey15]

One thing I try to do so much and I think everyone should take very seriously is to bet what you can afford to lose. This will help you control your emotions better. Losing large amount of money makes you unstable. I for example only every react when I've been on a long losing streak.. I just stop betting, take a walk and allow nature console me.
When you don't practice risk management, you become agitated aggressive and unreasonable when you lose your wager. You tend to hurt people around you through the words you say to them or through action.. some people even become violent. But in all, know your loss tolerance