Yesterday I was having some time with one of my very good child hood friends so we both had fun together at one joint close to his area after much conversation he was able to disclose some of his betting slips that he lost so much money up to like $800, though he wasn't that happy but as my guy I was just trying to cool him off and to make he see reasons why he should let it slide and shouldn't be disturbed by it.
However, after we are both done I decided to walk him to his house reaching there one of his son ran to was him to welcome him as usual but I was shock the way he reacted to his son, he just shouted at him and order him to go inside. That was very rude of him so to speak but am pretty sure his actions was as a result of his lost.
I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?
I can't react calmly to defeats if something has previously angered me. Let me explain. The thing is, I've been training myself to exercise self-control for a long time now, and I'm able to react impartially to external stimuli, including a bad gambling day or disappointing betting results.
But! If I've previously been irritated by something, like being flooded by the neighbors upstairs because of a burst pipe, or if a bank has stolen money for a subscription I didn't sign up for, then I'm already out of control. And so sometimes I avoid playing at the casino, knowing I won't be able to maintain my emotional self-control.