How did you react at people around you when you lose in gambling?

[GIF-JOBS]

It can be very annoying when someone looses in gambling , more especially significant amount of money, this can spoil your day and make you feel very uncomfortable and unhappy. However, it is very wrong to transfer the anger to your family instead try and compose yourself knowing too well that gambling is a game of chance and there is no sure bet.

Gambling is a game of chance and there is no guarantee of winning, and understand this in such a way that you can stop yourself before you lose a significant amount. Losing in gambling is very natural, but when people expect to win excessively, their loss becomes even more certain. Keep yourself calm, and understand the main purpose of gambling, and if you understand these, hopefully you will be able to protect yourself from uncontrolled gambling and also prevent yourself from using excessive money, gamble with awareness and responsibility, these are the ones that will keep you safe in the long run.

[sompitonov]

Many influencers are showing outrageous reactions after losing and I believe most gambler experience that so it’s crucial to be responsible to avoid unnecessary reactions as aftermath of gambling.

I think that influencers are not even supposed to show bad reactions because they are making money from their community depending on the social platform they are using. Some social media apps like TikTok, Facebook and YouTube are rewarding influencers who creates good contents that goes viral. If they create gambling content that rewards them, they should know that it's still that means that they are earning from.

Even if they share negative experiences, it affects many viewers, who may perceive it as another sign—for example, that the influencer is a loser—and this player develops self-confidence, even if it's unfounded. So, such a confident player bets big money, trying to prove to themselves that they're better, but in reality, they lose very quickly. Excessive confidence can often harm a player, and they can then transmit their anger to others or family members, which I consider unacceptable.

[Fortify]

Yesterday I was having some time with one of my very good child hood friends so we both had fun together at one joint close to his area after much conversation he was able to disclose some of his betting slips that he lost so much money up to like $800, though he wasn't that happy but as my guy I was just trying to cool him off and to make he see reasons why he should let it slide and shouldn't be disturbed by it.

However, after we are both done I decided to walk him to his house reaching there one of his son ran to was him to welcome him as usual but I was shock the way he reacted to his son, he just shouted at him and order him to go inside. That was very rude of him so to speak but am pretty sure his actions was as a result of his lost.

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Any normal person would have natural reactions to losing - sadness, a bit of anger, frustration but acceptance that is just the way it goes. Casinos don't exist because they are constantly paying out winners. All those workers, glitzy decor, super sophisticated slot machines and luxurious feel do not exist for free. No, you almost have to accept that almost every time you walk into a casino you will be handing your money over in return for playing a game where you have a tiny chance of leaving with more money than you started. I don't get angry from losing, just a little disappointed, but it's a rush when you win and that is the feeling that most people will be chasing.

[Somto9Light]

It can be very annoying when someone looses in gambling , more especially significant amount of money, this can spoil your day and make you feel very uncomfortable and unhappy. However, it is very wrong to transfer the anger to your family instead try and compose yourself knowing too well that gambling is a game of chance and there is no sure bet.

Yeah, that is the reason why it is advised to gamble with what you can afford I know most gamblers sees it the other way round when they see people giving out this advice but it is due to this reason. Because when you loss an amount that you can't do away with, you would definitely feel bad and if you're not discipline enough you might keep chasing after your losses so this rules that says " gamble with what you can afford to Loss" shouldn't be take for granted.

[Tungbulu]

That's right, the point is that losing is a very normal part of gambling because from the outset it is clear that gambling is risky. Therefore, we can conclude that gambling is only for those who are willing to take the risk. We often talk about and advise people to gamble responsibly, and that is the reason why.
Awareness of risks is the key to staying responsible, because with awareness, we will know what decisions to make in every situation.

And in addition to that, according to house edge, the chances between the gamblers and the casinos are never square, meaning that gamblers are ordinarily meant to lose more than they win so gamblers should come to terms with the fact that as far as gambling is concerned, losses are inevitable so gamblers should never be scared or ashamed of losses. We can’t control how often we lose in gambling but we can actually control how much we’d lose. The goal isn’t to avoid losses but to avoid losing more than we can afford to.

[MRY]

That's right, the point is that losing is a very normal part of gambling because from the outset it is clear that gambling is risky. Therefore, we can conclude that gambling is only for those who are willing to take the risk. We often talk about and advise people to gamble responsibly, and that is the reason why.
Awareness of risks is the key to staying responsible, because with awareness, we will know what decisions to make in every situation.

And in addition to that, according to house edge, the chances between the gamblers and the casinos are never square, meaning that gamblers are ordinarily meant to lose more than they win so gamblers should come to terms with the fact that as far as gambling is concerned, losses are inevitable so gamblers should never be scared or ashamed of losses. We can’t control how often we lose in gambling but we can actually control how much we’d lose. The goal isn’t to avoid losses but to avoid losing more than we can afford to.

The knowledge that gambling involves losing a part of a game is very important in ensuring the mental stability of any such person. The odds are never on the side of the player and so we need to limit the amount of losses that we incur just to protect other more valuable future assets. Admission of losses is much more noble than coercion of wins provided that the capital management strategies are undertaken in a conscious and oriented manner.

[Hardyrobust]

Yesterday I was having some time with one of my very good child hood friends so we both had fun together at one joint close to his area after much conversation he was able to disclose some of his betting slips that he lost so much money up to like $800, though he wasn't that happy but as my guy I was just trying to cool him off and to make he see reasons why he should let it slide and shouldn't be disturbed by it.

However, after we are both done I decided to walk him to his house reaching there one of his son ran to was him to welcome him as usual but I was shock the way he reacted to his son, he just shouted at him and order him to go inside. That was very rude of him so to speak but am pretty sure his actions was as a result of his lost.

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

Any normal person would have natural reactions to losing - sadness, a bit of anger, frustration but acceptance that is just the way it goes. Casinos don't exist because they are constantly paying out winners. All those workers, glitzy decor, super sophisticated slot machines and luxurious feel do not exist for free. No, you almost have to accept that almost every time you walk into a casino you will be handing your money over in return for playing a game where you have a tiny chance of leaving with more money than you started. I don't get angry from losing, just a little disappointed, but it's a rush when you win and that is the feeling that most people will be chasing.

The way people react when they lose during gambling depends on individual mindset. Gambler has different mindset when it comes to gambling. There are people that fail to understand that they are only to gamble with what they can afford to lose, they put so much trust in there gambling skills that they are carried away and they end up gambling with more than what they can afford to lose. So when they are hit by reality by losing they end up acting up and reacting impulsively to the situation.

[Agbe]

Self-control. That's why we need to move on as quickly as possible after losses. We cannot let it linger in our head because it will mess it up. We can get frustrated every day thinking about it over and over again, but we can never change what we have done.
What he did was not right, and if ever the kid finds out that he is acting that way because of his losses from gambling, he might mimic him when he grows up, or worse, hate him when he is of the right age to think for himself. I can understand the frustration, and it leads to regrets that consume us. Next to that is stress. But we do not have to let it overcome us.

Moving on after losses isn't really easy for everyone to deal with, there are people that Stake extremely high amounts of money to gamble and when they eventually lose you cannot just expect them to move on easily even though they have to for the sake of their mental health. if Moving is not possible for some people then they can try to reduce their stress levels by engaging in other activities, this works as a distraction.

[Hatchy]

I can understand how significant lost in gambling can making one to start reacting rude to people around them, what about you how did you react to people around you when you lost money in gamble?

I always tell people who are into gambling, if you aren't able to control your emotions both on good and bad times, then always consider the type of risk you are taking before going into any bet or game. The gambling world isn't always as fun as it seems. One minute you are winning the other you might be losing. So before you take the decision to gamble, see to it that your are emotional stable. Don't let your losses or wins create a wrong attitude for you each time. Always try to be on track see to it that your normal life isn't affected by your losses. There shouldn't be any reason to get angry at people just because you lost a game.. Instead reduce the kind of risk you take..

[HelliumZ]

If I lose in gambling, I control my emotions in such a way that I do not let the people around me understand that I lost in gambling and lost money. If the people around me get to know about my loss, they will make fun of me and criticize me a lot. That is why I do not want anyone to make fun of my affairs or my personal affairs, so I try to control myself as much as possible and calm down. If I lose once, I stop gambling for that time and then I do not decide what to do next. I never share my gambling with anyone because if this matter becomes known, they will definitely ask me about the loss, which will go viral to other people.

[letteredhub]

I think that influencers are not even supposed to show bad reactions because they are making money from their community depending on the social platform they are using. Some social media apps like TikTok, Facebook and YouTube are rewarding influencers who creates good contents that goes viral. If they create gambling content that rewards them, they should know that it's still that means that they are earning from.

You think the social media influencers who are promoting some of these casinos doesn't know what they're doing by showing some appearances of anger in reaction to the bad results of their bet. They are doing it on purpose, just to make the whole process look real and organic to avoid creating unnecessary suspicions and questions from their followers who may be curious to asks questions that may raise dust.

[Jubilee58]

Loosing in gambling can make one feel very upset, especially when you loose reasonable amount of money. In gambling, there is no guaranteed bet, therefore you are advised to gambling responsibly and with the amount of money you can afford to loose. When you loose a bet, you can be upset but make sure your anger is controlled and don't extend your anger to people around you. Some people have allowed gambling to affect their family negatively, it is very wrong to extend your anger issues to your family just because you lost a bet, such behaviour is absolutely very wrong.

I have had stories when gambling has toured some families apart and this when a man has engaged in irresponsible gambling and care more about their gambling lifestyle rather than giving the  required attention to their family.

[Yorubek]

The more you can keep your mind still while gambling, the more you can protect yourself from what others say. You can control your emotions by gambling with money you can afford to lose, when you can control your mind or emotions well, you will not think about the third person. Normally, when we lose while gambling, if our mind is relatively good or not bad, then no matter how much other people say, it will not hurt us much, so we can keep our mind or head cool, and the possibility of having problems with other people will be relatively reduced.

[Tungbulu]

The knowledge that gambling involves losing a part of a game is very important in ensuring the mental stability of any such person. The odds are never on the side of the player and so we need to limit the amount of losses that we incur just to protect other more valuable future assets. Admission of losses is much more noble than coercion of wins provided that the capital management strategies are undertaken in a conscious and oriented manner.

This also helps the gamblers have a good understanding of the game and thus aid them in setting realistic expectations for themselves when they gamble, because a gambler’s expectations are the very things that shapes the gambler’s mindset, attitude and approach towards gambling, because when your expectations are realistic, you’ll have a good approach towards gambling and better navigation the complexities that comes with gambling.

[shawonngp]

I think your friend has lost a significant amount of money, so he can't control his emotions. Of course, if I lost this amount of money in a single bet, I myself couldn't control my emotions. Even if someone gives me some good advice, I will use aggressive language on him. Since gambling is very risky, I never risk betting with large amounts. Because I can't afford it. I have never lost such a large amount of money since I started gambling, so I have never reacted badly to anyone. If I went through such a situation, it would be tough for me to control myself.

[DrBeer]

I think your friend has lost a significant amount of money, so he can't control his emotions. Of course, if I lost this amount of money in a single bet, I myself couldn't control my emotions. Even if someone gives me some good advice, I will use aggressive language on him. Since gambling is very risky, I never risk betting with large amounts. Because I can't afford it. I have never lost such a large amount of money since I started gambling, so I have never reacted badly to anyone. If I went through such a situation, it would be tough for me to control myself.

When people talk about a significant loss as a reason for anger, the question that always comes up is: what were you expecting? That you would definitely win? If so, that's a very foolish idea. If you bet such a significant amount, it means that you are consciously taking a risk and controlling yourself. And when you lost, you suddenly lost control of yourself!?
This is an attempt to shift the blame for your personal guilt and foolish actions onto the “significant amount.”

[CryptSafe]

Self-control. That's why we need to move on as quickly as possible after losses. We cannot let it linger in our head because it will mess it up. We can get frustrated every day thinking about it over and over again, but we can never change what we have done.
What he did was not right, and if ever the kid finds out that he is acting that way because of his losses from gambling, he might mimic him when he grows up, or worse, hate him when he is of the right age to think for himself. I can understand the frustration, and it leads to regrets that consume us. Next to that is stress. But we do not have to let it overcome us.

Moving on after losses isn't really easy for everyone to deal with, there are people that Stake extremely high amounts of money to gamble and when they eventually lose you cannot just expect them to move on easily even though they have to for the sake of their mental health. if Moving is not possible for some people then they can try to reduce their stress levels by engaging in other activities, this works as a distraction.

Yes thats true, imploring a distraction tactic by engaging in activities to help you forget about your game loss is quite alright because it would help reduce the mental stress level of the fact that you had lost a significant amount of money in the game. But I am still of the opinion that anyone who wants to gamble should be able to gamble what they can afford to lose because that wouldn't deter them if they lose any game, and the stress and thought of it would not be that much on them.

[Hardyrobust]

Self-control. That's why we need to move on as quickly as possible after losses. We cannot let it linger in our head because it will mess it up. We can get frustrated every day thinking about it over and over again, but we can never change what we have done.
What he did was not right, and if ever the kid finds out that he is acting that way because of his losses from gambling, he might mimic him when he grows up, or worse, hate him when he is of the right age to think for himself. I can understand the frustration, and it leads to regrets that consume us. Next to that is stress. But we do not have to let it overcome us.

Moving on after losses isn't really easy for everyone to deal with, there are people that Stake extremely high amounts of money to gamble and when they eventually lose you cannot just expect them to move on easily even though they have to for the sake of their mental health. if Moving is not possible for some people then they can try to reduce their stress levels by engaging in other activities, this works as a distraction.

Yes thats true, imploring a distraction tactic by engaging in activities to help you forget about your game loss is quite alright because it would help reduce the mental stress level of the fact that you had lost a significant amount of money in the game. But I am still of the opinion that anyone who wants to gamble should be able to gamble what they can afford to lose because that wouldn't deter them if they lose any game, and the stress and thought of it would not be that much on them.

people should always gamble with what they can afford to lose to avoid facing depression and mental issues that can be able to handle. There is no need to look for something that will relieve you or makes a gambler to forget the losses that have hit them during gambling because it doesn't make any sense. What will happen when next this kind of occurrence occurs in the future because some gambler are fond of taking unnecessary risk.

[nara1892]

That's right, the point is that losing is a very normal part of gambling because from the outset it is clear that gambling is risky. Therefore, we can conclude that gambling is only for those who are willing to take the risk. We often talk about and advise people to gamble responsibly, and that is the reason why.
Awareness of risks is the key to staying responsible, because with awareness, we will know what decisions to make in every situation.

If you do hate on losing money then gambling isnt for you on which this is an activity that would definitely be making you lose money and if you are impulsive then it would be that causing up that even more loses once you do find yourself that reacting too much. For those who are that some sort of introvert on which at the time that they do lose then these kind or type of person do really know on how to control his emotion and reaction but deep inside oon which he do wants to bang up everything around once you do have that loses. This is why its always important that you should be only spending into the amount that you can afford to lose. This is the most important thing but tons of gamblers do really forget this very basic approach towards it. On the time or moment that you do lose  then you can easily move on because you do already expect and getting used to it.

Losing money is never been fun and thats why is normal for us human beings to have such reaction but if you are just that prepared to have those kind of outcome then it would be just that fine for you.

Exactly, simply as you said that when someone does not like losing money then gambling is not for him, and losing is something that is very certain to happen in gambling.

That is what gamblers must first understand, so having the mentality to be more ready to accept defeat than victory in my opinion is much better for our mental and psychological security as well as to avoid emotions that can destroy everything.

[Dunamisx]

The condition does not apply to us all the same way, because not everyone gambles where other people are, but if hours apply the same way that we have to be among people and then Gamble, I don't think it sounds well seeing us reacting weirdly because of losing a bet, whereas most people even try to gamble in their privacy not everyone like a public gambling or where people are more concentrated at, it does not also speak well of Us reacting to people all because we lose a bet.