Jealous of your partner wining more than you do

[danherbias07]

I have not seen anything like this, but I agree that there should only be one gambling in the house.

Both the husband and the wife doing it can cause chaos in the relationship and financially. It's not just about being jealous when the other one wins. It's also about who will stop whom? If both get addicted to gambling, then what about the kids?
We did this before my wife and I, but we only bet a few dollars that could last for hours in our local online casino. We can bet as little as 1 peso, so it's just for fun for us. Then, we got busy again, so we focused on work and didn't play that much anymore.

[bakasabo]

I am only jealous when people win millions in lottery, but I am expressing a positive kind of jealous. I dream that wish I was that lucky person who has guessed all the numbers, and dream how I would spend money. I never get jealous in a way that hate appears, wish to rob winner or by telling that a person does not deserve that win and I should be the one who must have be victories. Speaking about gambling, I wont get jealous if partner or friend wins but I lose. I dont see point of that as we were have equal opportunities to get that win.

[Leahized]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

First of all I will not support gambling, because every wife should not gamble even if she has the opportunity to do other things. This can create conflict in family life, because most of the girls brag about their wealth. And if both husband and wife gamble, there is no word, you are telling the history yourself. We have to remember that the mentality changes after losing a gambling bet, so it is important to refrain from provocative actions at that time. But good times should be enjoyed by husband and wife. It is not good to get too excited in such a situation.

[len01]

Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Why would I be jealous? No, I’d never think that way. Luckily, my wife doesn’t gamble.

From your story, it sounds like the woman was probably just joking with her husband. But maybe the husband is a compulsive gambler who took the joke the wrong way, like she was mocking him. That could be why he reacted violently.

This is just another example that when someone can’t control their gambling habits, it can seriously ruin relationships with the people closest to them.

[giammangiato]

Truly unique story, never heard of anything like it, I know couples who gamble, I have never seen them fight over gambling.
They fought over other things but NEVER to brag about being "better" or luckier at the game, I just have to say that the people in this story don't really love each other, that they're together either out of sexual attraction or for convenience.
When people manage to win millions in the lottery, I don't feel envious, but rather wonder who knows what they'll do now with all that money, whether they have serious plans or will foolishly spend it. I'm not a jealous person luckily for me.

[B-BossMan]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Op, I gat this your, and that’s why it's always good to keep or give some secrets privately this days no matter how the or who the person is to you, expecialy when it comes to the final stuff. It is common to see someone be jealous about unnecessarily because of your win over him whenever money is involved, it happens even among the two people who truly loved each other, even normal relationships, so there  should actually be understanding and behavior maturellly, buy nit everyone will clearly understand how to control thoer emotions towards this scenario. However the woman must have taken it or seen it as thoer normal jokes but player mate, but you know it's not everyone can bear the longer joke expecialy when it involved mockery.

Aside the husband and wife issues , I know of this similar situation of two friends who later ended very terribly because of money and materials things, which started as just normal envying and comparison within themselves later turned to serious conflict that eventually injured both of them. That's why people need to be careful about how they reveal their financial secrets to people, most expecially bitcoin, keep it secretly and set yourself free from enemies.

[Dunamisx]

Very possible that some people will be jealous of us when they discover that we are winning and they are losing, things like this do happen in gambling even though they may not be able to see it out, but it's something they really battles from within their mind that they wish they would have been the one with the opportunity that we had, but life is not like that because everyone has his own season and time to made it, when the opportunity comes.

[The Founding Titan]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Please know who you get married to, most people out there are animals masquerading as humans, tell me why someone with a brain will troll their partner over who's winning more in gambling, it might start as a joke and that's fine but once you notice that the other person doesn't find it funny anymore then you already have your cue to stop anything beyond that and you are just being insensitive, and the man is quite the weak kind to hit his wife over gambling, who cares who wins more, what's the point in being jealous of your own spouse.

[AmaGold70]

In the right sense of reasoning, if both husband, and wife are involved in gambling, and one of them is having more wins, this ought not to cause troubles between them, more especially if that money is being spent in their own family or using it to settle their financial challenges. As a man, you should be angry with your wife that she is gambling, and maybe she uses the money you give to her to go, and gamble, but it is absolutely very abnormal to jealous your own Wife just because she is making more wins than you the husband.
As for me, am against husband, and wife gambling at the same time. In a situation whereby the wife wholly depend on the man to take care of the family, which means, she will be using money meant for the family upkeep to gamble, and if unfortunately the husband and wife gets addicted, the home will definitely be in shambles.

[Renampun]

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

If you are jealous of something your partner got, I think that you need to check your sanity because we shouldn't be jealous of what our partner got, in fact you should also be happy for what your partner got. but also that woman is wrong that she brags about her wins in gambling a lot.. we don't know her partner's mood at that time, so she should just act normal and keep her boundaries when she won something, there is no need to test someone's emotions especially when their relationship is not so healthy, she is just looking for trouble I think.

[iv4n]

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot.

This story is not really about gambling... It's about ego, low or no emotional control, and in the end, violence. Some people do get jealous when their partner wins more, earns more, or has more success overall... I guess in gambling it's even worse, especially if your partner is rubbing your nose about it... Constant bragging is annoying to everyone. But there's a huge difference between being annoyed and becoming violent at some point...

I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Do what exactly? My wife doesn't like to gamble... and she is not working, so she can't earn more than me. But I would be really happy if she finds a job and earns more than me... after all, that money is for all of us in the house.

[Dunamisx]

It happens a lot because human nature is bound to be jealous of each other success, however we should be able to control our emotion in situation like this so that we don't let it control over us, and this is where discipline comes in and how we behave ourselves and respect other people's achievement by not being jealous of them and still put it into behavior, because the time is coming that others will also feel jealous about what we do to others.

[MArsland]

There's no smoke if there's no fire, so I suspect the woman bragged about her gambling in front of the husband not just once, this is what probably drove the man to violence. It sucks when you lose and then someone brags about winning, as if they're better, but I still don't support such violence, husband and wife should respect each other.

[riscohen4]

The relationship has problems before already or the man in question has ego issue. As with most relationships and marriages, the men don't like when there woman earn more than them. All they see is their power as a man in the marriage or relationship being challenged. But it is not their fault too as women in the past has shown that if they earn more than their men, they disrespect them.

So in other to keep that authorative power, men dislike their women earning more than them. At the same time, women should learn to be submissive even though you earn more than him. The soul meaning of couples was for two people to come together and form a family.

Not having ego issues and problematic issue. As for the man that hit his woman, it is wrong. As for the woman to keep on bragging about her wins, she is wrong too. I guess she was challenging his authority as a man and he didn't like it. Both of them was wrong. Two couples gambling in the first place is absurb.

[ColdLava40]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Doesn't that say alot?

It already tells us how the mans gambling life is. He is not a responsible gambler Because if he gets angry just because his wife was bragging about her wins, how would he then control himself when he loses?

I do feel that they are not happily married. A couple who understands themselves and are happy will not be angry at each other for victory. The husband should've proud of his wife being able to pull off such consistent winning.

I don't advice that couples should involved in gambling because one of has to be at least responsible.

[HelliumZ]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

If this is a true story, then I would say that the wife has been more naughty with her husband. A wife may win more than her husband, but it is not reasonable for a wife to annoy her husband so often. Many times, wives are more naughty with their husbands, due to which it becomes difficult for the husbands to control their temper. Maybe something like that happened in this case.

However, in most cases, if one of the husband and wife wins more, there is nothing to be jealous of. Rather, if the husband wins, the wife will be happy and if the wife wins more bets, the husband will be happy. If something exceptional happens, then it must be understood that one of the husband and wife has annoyed the other more.

[Agbe]

If two partners (husband and wife) are gambling, there is nothing to worry about it and I don't think there will be any jealousy among them because the winnings are all brought to the same house but if it is friends then what you said will displayed. Even the other jealous, he can't do anything about it than to move on. But if the money is big, the jealousy one might attack him in the night. But the story you said, I don't think the wife really means it and probably she was just joking or playing with him and if she was serious about it then it shows that she didn't love the guy. Two lovely partners would never do that.

[Antotena]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

This is why it is good to know and study the kind of partner that you want to marry before you guys make it official, this kind of things happen between couples, the man can brag to the wife and the wife can brag to the husband and they all see it as a joke but if your partner has an ego, they may feel insecure especially if they have not been winning while the wife makes the money because it is not in men nature to be a loser but if there is an understanding between the couples, you can absolutely do anything to each other and make fun of each other without taking personal otherwise there is nothing like partner in there, the both are envy of each others success.

However, let the jealous aside, what is stopping the man from asking his wife how to increase his chance of winning because even if it's a person I don't like, I will ask them for direction when I'm lost. The man should have ask the wife for a guide to bet so his chance of winning will increase instead of been jealous about what the wife is winning but I guess his ego precede the money he is going to make from gambling.

[bubilas]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

I'm well aware of such stories, and such gambling in a couple is always incredibly dangerous, like dynamite. The thing is, imagine so many things are mixed up emotionally in such a couple—there's love, with one partner loving the other more than the other, and the other likely abusing it. There are also all sorts of feelings like jealousy and the desire to show off. And if we add gambling to the mix, all of this multiplies, because addictive gambling can also lead to financial poverty and a desire to be better than one's partner, as described in the first post in this thread.

[imthegreat]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

This is extremely ugly and unacceptable behavior. If a young couple lives together, they should have complete respect for each other. If they don't, they should separate before they decide to have children. Children complicate relationships 50 times, adding financial and emotional responsibility to the child. And the child will look to their parents as role models. And as for beatings over gambling, this is a clear indicator that the relationship between these young couples has run its course, and they need to see a psychologist and sort things out.