Jealous of your partner wining more than you do

[Zlantann]

Doesn't that say alot?

It already tells us how the mans gambling life is. He is not a responsible gambler Because if he gets angry just because his wife was bragging about her wins, how would he then control himself when he loses?

I do feel that they are not happily married. A couple who understands themselves and are happy will not be angry at each other for victory. The husband should've proud of his wife being able to pull off such consistent winning.

I don't advice that couples should involved in gambling because one of has to be at least responsible.

In marriage, little things can bring problems. You cannot conclude that they are not happily married because issues start from one day. It could be that the man was not in a good frame of mind that day. Which might be why he overreacted.

I wouldn't want my partner to ever be involved in gambling. Not because I would be jealous of their wins but for control. I would want a partner who would caution me when they observe that I am gambling excessively. Not the person who both of us might struggle to overcome addiction.

[Rockson1]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Jealous of what exactly, I have a good understanding about gambling so I won't mishave like this, with my knowledge in gambling,.I do not think that I need anyone to tell me that individual gambler luck differs so I do not expect to have the same level of winning with whomever, how will I be jealous of someone having a good fortune than me in gambling let alone  being jealous that my partner win more than me is that not foolishness, if I find myself in such situation, even if she brag from now till anytime she wants to, I won't talk to her instead I will go out from the house, although I won't find myself in a situation that my partner also gambles, I just have to conclude that this family is an irresponsible family, what an unbelievable act from the man in particular.

[Sammye3]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

I sense immaturity and indiscipline in the marriage from both the husband and the wife. Why would both couples be involved in gambling in the first place? What are their advise to their children, family or friends? Gambling is not something that anybody should brag about because its not a legitimate activity. The husband on the other hand lacks self control and has failed to keep his home in check, because tell me how a man would allow his wife gamble regardless of the situation of things in the country?

Gambling is popularly known as a man's activity and seeing a woman gamble is a total turn off for me. It is not really a matter of jealousy but rather disrespect to the man. This type of marriage is very unhealthy and could collapse at any point.

[aioc]

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

This is a breakup or divorce that's waiting to happen; partners should not be involved in gambling, as it is risky, and if one of you gets addicted, it will hurt the relationship.
What if both of you become addicted? No one will be there to help him/her up and get him/her on the road to recovery.
You can be partners in many things, but never in gambling, because gambling can ruin family, relationships, and finances.

[TheUltraElite]

This means there is unresolved martial issues not just gambling wins.

I generally dont support every elder member of the family being involved in gambling. This usually leads to twice as much losses than one person gambling. Often the family gets neglected and the worst to suffer are the children and then the older members of the house.

Little things like this leading to one hitting the other is not something anybody likes. But to solve that first marital issues and then gambling needs to be brought to check.

[Zadicar]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

I do really have that kind of same situation on which i do find myself not that lucky when it comes to gambling on which my wife is really that making up some serious winning with just that very small amount of capital specially on slots gaming on which she only used up $10 and can be able to increase or won up until to $100 on which even myself have that $50 budget but easily bust up entirely in a short period of time, but it didnt come into a point that i would really be hitting up my wife because of that. Im not that kind of person whose really that easily get affected when teased out as a loser. Based up on the situation above then for sure that man is already losing up that much and being teased up by his wife on which it did really test out his patience and since each person is different when it comes tolerance level and ending up on having that hitting on which its never been right on the first place.

[freedomgo]

I would not say the woman was wronged there because she's bragging, I guess that's part of how a woman is, easily celebrate her small wins not to actually brag bust just proud of her little achievements.

But on part of the husband, he's very wrong there when he hit his wife. Let's say he's in a bad mood because he's losing a lot, but that does not allow him to hit his woman. If he can't stand being a loser, then he shouldn't be in gambling in the very first place.

Also, I cannot tell that they're not living as a happy couple. Problems do really come in marriage, it only gets worse and left unsolved if the reaction towards it does not fit the problem, nor the best solution to the problem.

[mitchr4]

This means there is unresolved martial issues not just gambling wins.

I generally dont support every elder member of the family being involved in gambling. This usually leads to twice as much losses than one person gambling. Often the family gets neglected and the worst to suffer are the children and then the older members of the house.

Little things like this leading to one hitting the other is not something anybody likes. But to solve that first marital issues and then gambling needs to be brought to check.

Jealousy between partners in gambling often comes from money trust issues, not just about winning. When one wins more, the other starts to feel insecure.
Instead of competing, both should talk and agree on whether gambling is even worth doing together because whatever is won or lost still comes from their shared savings.

[Finebone]

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

What the f**** is this?
What nonsense, why would two couples be gambling in the first place?
If they both get addicted, who is going to help the other person from getting out of that addictive state?
Both couples gambling can easily cause a separation between them and it's what no right thinking couples should do.

Then talking about the question of if I would be jealous, no I wouldn't, because a win for my partner is also my winning, but it's not a healthy practice for both couples to gamble, especially if they now have children that is looking up to them as a role model.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

First of, I do admire couples that gambles but I don't think I can get engaged with a partner that gambles, it's based on personal reasons and the fact that some women doesn't know how to keep that lifestyle away from their kids if they are into it and that results to the kids being influenced by the same lifestyle, for example this family in question, don't they have kids and what are they teaching the kids by fighting in their presence because of gambling. I don't think I would even get jealous of my partners win in other aspects of life because we are a union and a win for one is a win for both.

[danadc]

If that were my situation, I'd be happy if he earned more than me because I know he'd share that money with me too. So there's nothing to be done about it. If couples compete and don't share things, then why are they together? I'd try to find out why he earns more than me, and I'd learn whatever I needed to, but getting jealous over something like that seems stupid. In fact, I'd really like him to win.

[Stepstowealth]

I don't think I would even get jealous of my partners win in other aspects of life because we are a union and a win for one is a win for both.

It is bad behavior to be jealous of your partner's success, I find that to be very bad because their success will mean your sucess in a good marriage. Would you want your partner to be jealous of you because some people's jealousy can be very extreme to the extent that they may consider killing you for what you have And if your jealousy is not up to that level you may not want another person to be jealous of you because you do not know the extent of their own jealousy and how far they can go. In fact if you want to get married to a partner make sure you are getting to a partner that don't see marriage as a competition but as a union.

[DrBeer]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Boasting and envy are human vices. And it seemed like that was the norm in this family. It strikes me as odd that a married couple would act not like partners but like two adversaries It seems like this situation has simply exposed much deeper issues in their relationship. Maybe instead of betting, they should focus on sorting out their relationship?
 

[YOSHIE]

Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

So, what happens to the husband/wife couple, they both no longer get along in their domestic life, we can judge that the couple should not have to make fun of each other and be jealous of their gambling winnings, They should be happy about the victory because they are husband/wife.

We may be concerned about this incident, they should not brag to each other and cause one of them to feel hurt until there is an act of violence, that is the problem that is happening. If household problems are brought up in gambling which ends in an argument, that situation should not have happened, they should have enjoyed the gambling winnings to have fun with their family.

[Muba20]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

If both partners gamble, behavioral problems may arise between them. If the relationship is good, then when someone wins a big win, they can praise each other but there will be no quarrel between them. When the relationship is bad, even if one of them does well in gambling, the other may be competitive or jealous. If I were in such a situation, I would definitely never be jealous of the big win, but we can both celebrate that time because of the big win. I think that the situation was created because there was no good relationship between the two gambling couples. That is why I think that their personal relationship should be improved first.

[rachael9385]

Gambling is a game of luck and it's possible for anyone to win so I don't get why someone should be jealous that someone else is winning especially if it's your partner. In the aspect of two partners gambling it does not really make any sense because it might actually be dangerous because if both partners are gamblers it might affect their kids, if they get addicted to gambling it could get even worse.

[Queen uloma]

To be honest, I don’t think the main problem here  is when the woman is winning more than her husband. The problem here is jealousy, pride and lack of self control. When your partner wins in anything, whether in business, gambling, or work, as a wife, the normal thing is for you to celebrate it, and not to see it as competition. But at same time. Once a person keeps bragging, it can provoke the next person, especially if the Person has been frustrated about losses. But no matter how a person brags it does not justify violence. Hitting your partner because of gambling result is totally wrong.
For me, if my partner win more than me, I see know reason to be jealous, because I know that he’s win is still a win for the family. Instead of me being angry, I will rather ask him to teach me what he does differently and also pray that I experience that kind of luck.

[Pandu Geddon]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

I will not do such a thing. You certainly know that the budget for gambling might exceed the gambler's capacity. That is, if only one person is gambling. What if two people in the same family are also gambling? Of course, that is possible if both of them indeed have their own sources of income. 
In any case, they might not have enough communication. However, if they often communicate, even if one of them is in a bad mood due to losing, such a conversation would not make emotions so serious as to result in painful physical actions.

[Rubuchi]

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

This is a breakup or divorce that's waiting to happen; partners should not be involved in gambling, as it is risky, and if one of you gets addicted, it will hurt the relationship.
What if both of you become addicted? No one will be there to help him/her up and get him/her on the road to recovery.
You can be partners in many things, but never in gambling, because gambling can ruin family, relationships, and finances.

I don’t even get it, are they supposed to be happy or is he supposed to be jealous about his partner’s wins. If the partner had lost, he should have been angry about that but not otherwise, now does it mean that if the woman had lost he would be happy? Then like you said, that’s divorce in the waiting because true lovers are supposed to be happy about one another’s wins and not to be sad about it to the point they can break into fight. It does not make any sense to me, whatsoever.

[Findingnemo]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

I doubt it's just jealousy. What if someone else in the place of his wife will he still be involved in the violence? If yes the husband needs to learn how to control his temper and if he hit because this is coming from his wife, then he is kind of having an inferior complex that triggered the sexist part.

I don't know exactly the money involved or what is the bet, but the winner can brag all about their winnings and loser should keep their mouth shut.