Jealous of your partner wining more than you do

[Hispo]

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Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

It would not be something possible for me, because I would not be in favor of both of us gambling also, since I am a casual gambler I would not gamble often enough so my wife would not have so many occasions to compare her gambling earnings to mine.

In general, I would advice people not to get in a relationship in which both of you are gamblers, as it can lead to situations like those you described, not even mentioning the posibility of economical instability within the relationship as well.

I assume that guy you talk about was reported to your local police, wasn't he? Because in many countries, hitting your wife is a very serious offense.

[Woodie]

Lol sorry for the light moment as this sounds almost like a movie...

Reading this and seeing how two adults can behave like this shows future problems, I know we all have different cultural beliefs, and how two partners are expected to behave.. but comeon both gambling in the same house is crazy high risk.. what happens when they  are both in agreement to get a mortgage on their house and redirect the money towards gambling.. sorry but wouldn't want to have such a Union!

[coin-investor]

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

This is not good in a relationship. Obviously, they don't treat gambling as a source of entertainment; they treat it as a way to make money, and by doing so, they will brag about their winnings and earnings. This will eventually strain their relationships, especially if they both lose a large sum of money and are looking for someone to blame. I have seen it happen between best friends, and it's very possible between husband and wife.

[WhoYouCantKill]

In marriage, little things can bring problems. You cannot conclude that they are not happily married because issues start from one day. It could be that the man was not in a good frame of mind that day. Which might be why he overreacted.

I wouldn't want my partner to ever be involved in gambling. Not because I would be jealous of their wins but for control. I would want a partner who would caution me when they observe that I am gambling excessively. Not the person who both of us might struggle to overcome addiction.

Core truth, that is the mistakes most people do when they choosing partner, forgetting the vows that comes with it and they are to live with it all through their lives because its for better and for worst. In marriage both partner are to be helping hands to each other, as they are to bring the best in their lives through the help of each other, as no one is perfect and mistake are bound to happen. So, gambling should not be what people are to be in competition with, as it won't bring anything good to the table, instead they are to hesitate and try their best to stop their spouse from gambling and not to join them and gamble because the lives of their family are in their hands and if they choose not to do the right thing its up to them.

[khatarnak]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

If I start getting jealous of my partner winning more than me in gambling, then I probably need to quit gambling and maybe start learning how to pick better partners instead 😄
Jokes aside, I think the real problem here is not who wins more, but mixing ego with gambling results. If both people are gambling, variance alone will make things funny over time — today she wins, tomorrow he wins, next week both lose.
But hitting someone over bragging about wins is definitely not normal.
That’s not gambling issue anymore, that’s a respect and self-control issue.

[Showlove01]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

First, no man has the right to lay hands on any woman especially his wife because is an assort and trust me people won't even side the man for laying hands on his wife because it's not right. If a man is so pissed off because of what the wife is doing or said the best thing to do is to walk out and go to some place to cool and calm himself down and not to stand and be exchanging words or fighting the woman. However, it is also a thing of shame for a husband and wife to be debating or bragging about win in gambe

[robelneo]

This kind of jealousy will kill relationships. If both of you are addicted to gambling, you will fight each other over who is the better one and who can make more money, because gambling for both of you is for pride and to make more money.
This is a toxic relationship.
The only way to save the relationship is for both of you to stop gambling, mend your relationship, and talk about how you treat gambling; never prioritize gambling over your relationship.

[qwertyup23]

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

I don't get it- why in the world would you be jealous of your wife if she wins money from gambling? Isn't it that when two people get married, their properties become conjugal (save exceptions for prenuptial agreements) and the proceeds thereof would become community property among them.

Basically, whatever is won in gambling, the same would be shared among the spouses equally because of the fact of marriage. If you get jealous because your partner won money, then it's best that you call it quits and annul the marriage because that will be a clear sign of not a healthy relationship.

This kind of jealousy will kill relationships. If both of you are addicted to gambling, you will fight each other over who is the better one and who can make more money, because gambling for both of you is for pride and to make more money.
This is a toxic relationship.
The only way to save the relationship is for both of you to stop gambling, mend your relationship, and talk about how you treat gambling; never prioritize gambling over your relationship.

Not only does it kill the relationship between the spouses but it is also a clear sign of gambling addiction on that person. Not to mention, the act of physical violence can give rise to both criminal and civil liability on the part of the spouse which is covered by the respective laws of some countries.

[Su-asa]

I cannot really say that two partners gambling is an advisable thing to do, while it might not really cause any damage to some people if they don't get addicted to it there is still a lot of things that doesn't really seem right with it. When two people are married they are in partnership with each other, meaning whatever achievement they have is something they should both celebrate. it is actually weird to know that someone is actually jealous of their spouse because they win more than they do, to me I think that's a red flag.

[Agbamoni]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

My understanding of this situation is that the man isn't jealous of the wife winning multiple times in gambling more than he does. I think he is angry because she is annoyingly getting on his nerves, saying words that she isn't supposed to say to him, all in the name of gambling. The solution to this is that the woman has to know her limit. Know when to teaser he husband, and also know when to stop teasing him so he dont get upset. At the same time, the man also needs to know that she might be joking/playing with him. He needs to learn not to take things too seriously because he lost while she won.

[Anayochukwu]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Understanding is just different because it makes no sense to be jealous of your wife. But come to think of it, is it normal? How can a responsible man feel jealous of free money? this is meant to be a thing of joy, for crying out loud, not something you use against your partner. Gamblers should stop making the game look difficult, it's very wrong to gamble with this mindset I just believe the wife isn't serious about the bragging, because she already knows what gambling is all about.

[alastantiger]

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

I do enjoy some friendly competition if my partner was to be a gambler like myself I don't mind if we compete sometimes to try to see who comes out at the top although I don't think this will have any effect negatively on our relationship since I am a discipline person myself and I also know my partner is also discipline in her gambling activities. If she was to be an addicted gambler I know I will try my best to try to help her out of such situation and as such I won't want to trigger her addiction by being competitive with her that is why I say those that gamble for entertainment are better gamblers than those that gamble just for profit.

As an entertainment having a little friendly competition is not that bad and it does not matter if your partner is a male or female. We should try to work on our discipline before we get into a full commitment in gambling because gambling destroys people more than it can make you happy or wealthy.

[Italian Panic]

To be honest, I wouldn’t be happy if my partner gambled too; one person in the house would be more than enough, two of us risk ruining the family finances. So it’s better if, when one of us bets, the other sits it out. If she wins more, good for her, I don’t see why I should be jealous or envious; at the end of the day, the important thing is that this money circulates within the family budget. It’s much worse if you have had a run of bad luck and the person after you wins the prize on the first go.

[Fredomago]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Understanding is just different because it makes no sense to be jealous of your wife. But come to think of it, is it normal? How can a responsible man feel jealous of free money? this is meant to be a thing of joy, for crying out loud, not something you use against your partner. Gamblers should stop making the game look difficult, it's very wrong to gamble with this mindset I just believe the wife isn't serious about the bragging, because she already knows what gambling is all about.

If there's a mutual understanding about the money that the partners will win then there's no issue for me, I won't be jealous as we can share the earnings that she win, though there's always different perspectives as each gamblers have their own thinking and opinions about this matter, most likely partners should be happy if there's a winning streak and not to be jealous about it.

[Crypto Library]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

From a general point of view, I don't really see it as a problem that both partners are involved in gambling. But what matters here is whether they are both gambling responsibly. If they are gambling irresponsibly, it is not uncommon for them to fight over whether they win or lose.

Even I would say here that if one partner gambles here and the other partner gambles there is still a possibility of fighting if that partner is addicted to gambling and gambles irresponsibly.  So it doesn't matter here that they are both involved in gambling together. What matters here is their own mindset.

[terrific]

That's a couple fight and I think that there's more about the gambling that they're talking about.
Maybe the guy remembers something when his wife does that to him. And that's why he gets mad and it's not even about the wins.
But something that makes him angry and annoyed by her doings. So, I don't think that couples would be jealous to each other when the others are winning.
A couple is a team and that's why everything they do is team work not unless they are just in a relationship for a specific reason and they fall out of love.

[uneng]

Why should one of the partners be jealous if the winnings achieved by one of them will benefit both? They aren't competing among themselves, but against the house. Actually, that should be obvious... If a man hits the chin of his wife because she is making more profit than him, I don't want to imagine what he would do to other people he doesn't even know and who are being more lucky and prosperous than him. The only thing I know is that I want to stay away from that kind of people for good.

[Bright0515]

This is actually an issue of concern because If someone can get jealous of their partner over something as little as gambling wins then it means that they can do so with other things as well which isn't really a good mindset to have. I don't know how true this story is because it sounds a bit off and I cannot even understand why both partners would be gamblers, this is something that is going to affect them negatively especially when they start having kids, this might make them emotionally unavailable to their children, and the children wouldn't grow up under the right condition .

[Josefjix]

Cant stop laughing, this story is very funny mehn,

The man just showed me that he is a fucking simp who cant control his emotions and his wife knows that about him. Maybe he had warned his wife about such attitude but she never listened, you know how women usually behaves, they do what you warned them not to do.

I just hope there comes peace between the family.

[|MINER|]

Why should one of the partners be jealous if the winnings achieved by one of them will benefit both? They aren't competing among themselves, but against the house. Actually, that should be obvious... If a man hits the chin of his wife because she is making more profit than him, I don't want to imagine what he would do to other people he doesn't even know and who are being more lucky and prosperous than him. The only thing I know is that I want to stay away from that kind of people for good.

In my opinion, it's the other way around. If two people are really partners, then they should benefit from it, but why would they be jealous and fight with each other over this?
Rather, it could have been that one person lost a lot and the other person came and started a fight. LOL.  Actually, I don't see anything wrong with two people being connected to gambling. The only time it's bad is when both of them are addicted to gambling and it's not uncommon for fights to happen at all stages. So I would say that when I gamble, my other partner definitely has that right. But we have to remember that we shouldn't gamble beyond our ability to lose.