Jealous of your partner wining more than you do

[asriloni]

Honestly, this sounds a dystopia story. When a man and a woman is in the married. I think there should never be a thing to be jealous with. When a man sees his wife won big, he should be happy because it's gonna be helpful for his family.

Based on your story, this more like to generalize if the wife is keeping the money for herself. However, i think this idea is just too far away from the reality.

In a family, it must be we win or fall together. No reason to jealous with our partner when he wins a jackpot because we may get advantage from it too. So it think this story feels unreal.

It's hard to believe in that story because my logic says it different.

[Akbarkoe]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

I don't know how long they have been married that such a situation has occurred, or whether the husband is a sucker and a brat, this becomes a problem in the family if there is too much offense, even though it can be made into a joke and the gambling results can be enjoyed together, of course I will not do that and actually I will not let my wife get into gambling even though she knows I gamble, not because I am afraid of losing to my wife, it's just that if both of them are addicted, there will be nothing that can save us from it.

[Johnlomape]

This is not good in a relationship. Obviously, they don't treat gambling as a source of entertainment; they treat it as a way to make money, and by doing so, they will brag about their winnings and earnings. This will eventually strain their relationships, especially if they both lose a large sum of money and are looking for someone to blame. I have seen it happen between best friends, and it's very possible between husband and wife.

Maybe that's part of their love language, lol. If both of them did not meet while competing, who can win more or who has better prediction skills over the other? There is no point for them to be debating who won more and who lost less; if their purpose of gambling is for profit, anyone who won the game, the money still is supposed to come to the family since they are married, but it's a different case here as it landed them in a fight because the husband can't bear it anymore.

I don't like the idea for a couple to be gambling and it does not make any sense to me. It quite better for the man of the family to gambler and not for both because the consequences can be bigger than what you ever expected. If the two partners become an addicted gamblers, this will be a big problem for their children because their is no way they are not going to be seeing what's happening.
No matter how many times a gambler is making profits from betting, do not forget that they can lose the money to the casino.
Couples are supposed to focus on their jobs and taking care of their family not seeing gambling as competition.

[POPOLUV]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

For me i don't really see any jealousy of a man over his woman winning gambling more than him, and resulting to that extend of fighting each others but for the fact that the woman is bragging over her winning in front of the husband, that can trigger him of losing control of himself because of an atom of jealousy can come to a man with hot temper and if the man are not  the type that do tolerate some kind things from the wife, like what will happen to such wife is just what OP  has narrated above, but it is very wrong for a husband to fight the wife no matter what the wife say to provoke him, because i can't really fight my wife over something we both are meant to joke and laugh over it.

[Porfirii]

I'm not in support of two partners, maybe a husband and a wife, to be both involved in gambling. I thought I'd seen it all, but this time the woman not only gambles, but she also gets to win more than the man. After winning, she brags about it a lot to the ears of the Man, and unfortunately, he got upset and hit her hard on the chin.

Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

In my country, violence against women the way your neighbour did is a crime and would face very serious consequences.

As per your question, no matter if it is your wife or a close friend, some people take losing very badly when others win, and although everyone should make an effort to rejoice in the good of others, we don't live in an ideal world. Like Cossyblack said in another post about investing Bitcoin in silence:

you don't who is your enemy in secrets. So therefore,you should be careful with families members and closest friends you discuss Bitcoin . No matter how you trust them, avoid disclosing the value and worth of your Bitcoin assets because not everyone is happy that you're re succeeding  financially when they aren't . Be careful because some friends are wolf in sheep clothing.

[CryptSafe]

Like I always tell my friends, " there are things better avoided than allowed to happen". The man acted childish to have raised his hand on his wife just because she was bragging in front of him about her back to back winnings while he himself keeps losing his bet. I think in situations as this, the man should have maintained his composure and ask his wife how she does it then maybe he learns from her or allow her do the betting on his behalf with his account on trial and see how it goes rather than feeling jealous to beating her up.

Women can be dramatic also but she should not have put up with such attitude in making him feel less of himself as men do not like such and would not be comfortable around anybody who does such to them. As couple's they are, with one more skilled in gambling than the other, they could form a formidable force in betting together and winning together to settle family needs and all of that they needed rather than putting up a fight and quarrel with each other.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I don't think I would even get jealous of my partners win in other aspects of life because we are a union and a win for one is a win for both.

It is bad behavior to be jealous of your partner's success, I find that to be very bad because their success will mean your sucess in a good marriage. Would you want your partner to be jealous of you because some people's jealousy can be very extreme to the extent that they may consider killing you for what you have And if your jealousy is not up to that level you may not want another person to be jealous of you because you do not know the extent of their own jealousy and how far they can go. In fact if you want to get married to a partner make sure you are getting to a partner that don't see marriage as a competition but as a union.

Exactly, before someone gets married, they should actually learn the character of that partner before going ahead with the Union, because indeed some people see union as competition and not a place to coporate and be one. In such marriage, there will always be unnecessary drama and the drama can be both private and public and it will be a drama that mostly concerns finance.

[Byebyebtc]

To me this shows that they where never meant to be.

If a husband and wife are one as the Bible says, one of them win means the both of them win,
A win from one person is supposed to bring joy and not conflict. I'm this situation they should work on their relationship more than gambling better.

[Rabata]

I cannot find any reason for a husband and wife to argue over winning in gambling. It is usual for both husband and wife to enjoy whatever wins. But it is completely illogical to be jealous of each other because of winning more. It is very normal for a husband and wife to have small arguments about their marital life. But because of that argument, a man cannot hurt a woman even if he wants to. This is the sign of a sick minded person. A husband and wife must be happy with each other's happiness and provide strong support in adverse situations.

[Achalugo BTC]

Like I always tell my friends, " there are things better avoided than allowed to happen". The man acted childish to have raised his hand on his wife just because she was bragging in front of him about her back to back winnings while he himself keeps losing his bet. I think in situations as this, the man should have maintained his composure and ask his wife how she does it then maybe he learns from her or allow her do the betting on his behalf with his account on trial and see how it goes rather than feeling jealous to beating her up.

Women can be dramatic also but she should not have put up with such attitude in making him feel less of himself as men do not like such and would not be comfortable around anybody who does such to them. As couple's they are, with one more skilled in gambling than the other, they could form a formidable force in betting together and winning together to settle family needs and all of that they needed rather than putting up a fight and quarrel with each other.

Exactly, men hates it when they are being treated like they are not humans and this can cause them to fight each other and it won't be a good thing for them, as their family won't be in good position. So, it will be good if they trust themselves and work together and not to brag about each other, as it will still make matter to be more worse and worse, which the trust, respect and love for themselves will reduce and things won't work out good for them.

[Judith87403]

I don't like the idea for a couple to be gambling and it does not make any sense to me. It quite better for the man of the family to gambler and not for both because the consequences can be bigger than what you ever expected. If the two partners become an addicted gamblers, this will be a big problem for their children because their is no way they are not going to be seeing what's happening.
No matter how many times a gambler is making profits from betting, do not forget that they can lose the money to the casino.
Couples are supposed to focus on their jobs and taking care of their family not seeing gambling as competition.

Protecting their kid's future and the wellbeing of their family should be their priority and not to engage in gambling, because its not right and doesn't impact them positively to their lives. And you are right, if couples gambles, they risk their families, their emotions and their mental health and also their children will learn from them and take from where their parents stops, so its important to for parents to do things that will benefit the family and not what will destroy them.

[sunsilk]

To me this shows that they where never meant to be.

If a husband and wife are one as the Bible says, one of them win means the both of them win,
A win from one person is supposed to bring joy and not conflict. I'm this situation they should work on their relationship more than gambling better.

I won't end up in that conclusion quickly if they quarrel over someone who have just won and the others can't accept it.

A couple usually quarrel when they have some misunderstanding and from that, there's always a reason for them to have it fixed.

If there's a current conflict on them at those times, we will never know if there's something happened before it. And look at the gestures, it seems shouting through the ear which shouldn't be done even if you're a couple.

[Bitcoin.com97]

Why been jealous of your partner winnings , that means the both lack understanding because if they do , her success shouldn’t have lead to bragging and to a point of him hitting her, my neighbor also gamble with his wife , but the husband is only interested in small wins while his wife is interested in grant audit , she chases big money , there was a time she won millions, you need to see how happy her husband was , they put head together and used the money wisely, Infact the husband always fund her wallet so she can play, their both are so happy and have an understanding, for that man to hit her , maybe she might have said horrible things to him , but it shouldn’t have gotten to the point of beating her.

[Hazink]

What a story from a messed-up family that needs to do better for themselves than just fight with each other. Imagine if they had children; what would this child be learning from them? I don't discredit them for gambling, but the violence is what I don't support. They should not allow gambling to cause trouble for them.

[Sonia_123]

Like I always tell my friends, " there are things better avoided than allowed to happen". The man acted childish to have raised his hand on his wife just because she was bragging in front of him about her back to back winnings while he himself keeps losing his bet. I think in situations as this, the man should have maintained his composure and ask his wife how she does it then maybe he learns from her or allow her do the betting on his behalf with his account on trial and see how it goes rather than feeling jealous to beating her up.

Women can be dramatic also but she should not have put up with such attitude in making him feel less of himself as men do not like such and would not be comfortable around anybody who does such to them. As couple's they are, with one more skilled in gambling than the other, they could form a formidable force in betting together and winning together to settle family needs and all of that they needed rather than putting up a fight and quarrel with each other.

You are right totally wrong of him, if the woman is always the lucky one since gambling win is by luck, then the woman's lucky should always be their bedrock of winning which they can use to achieve better things in life .

Jealousy is very dangerous and it is not good to find this habit among husband and wife, it will lead them no where but destruction.

[Fredomago]

Like I always tell my friends, " there are things better avoided than allowed to happen". The man acted childish to have raised his hand on his wife just because she was bragging in front of him about her back to back winnings while he himself keeps losing his bet. I think in situations as this, the man should have maintained his composure and ask his wife how she does it then maybe he learns from her or allow her do the betting on his behalf with his account on trial and see how it goes rather than feeling jealous to beating her up.

Women can be dramatic also but she should not have put up with such attitude in making him feel less of himself as men do not like such and would not be comfortable around anybody who does such to them. As couple's they are, with one more skilled in gambling than the other, they could form a formidable force in betting together and winning together to settle family needs and all of that they needed rather than putting up a fight and quarrel with each other.

You are right totally wrong of him, if the woman is always the lucky one since gambling win is by luck, then the woman's lucky should always be their bedrock of winning which they can use to achieve better things in life .

Jealousy is very dangerous and it is not good to find this habit among husband and wife, it will lead them no where but destruction.

Supporting his wife instead of keep on playing, if by chance the wife is the one who got the lucky pick or a lucky, if the husband will just support her and not to let bother or not being jealous just be wise and use the luck that they are gaining, save the money that he's using for his gambling then it's better to enjoy the fruit of their success, maybe can use the earnings to save up and start a business to make a good money flow.

[Cantsay]

Jealousy is very dangerous and it is not good to find this habit among husband and wife, it will lead them no where but destruction.

Even amongst strangers, jealousy isn't okay. Now, imagine living without someone who supposedly claims to be the love of your life, and then he gets angry and jealous when you're winning in life. This whole thing is just messed up, and that's the reason I keep returning to this thread, because it kinda makes me realise that some people might just be in your life pretending that they care, while in secret they are hoping that they keep doing better in life than you and that you never excel more than them, just like what the husband displayed in this story.

[boyptc]

I don't like the idea for a couple to be gambling and it does not make any sense to me. It quite better for the man of the family to gambler and not for both because the consequences can be bigger than what you ever expected. If the two partners become an addicted gamblers, this will be a big problem for their children because their is no way they are not going to be seeing what's happening.
No matter how many times a gambler is making profits from betting, do not forget that they can lose the money to the casino.
Couples are supposed to focus on their jobs and taking care of their family not seeing gambling as competition.

Me too.

Someone has to gamble and the other should be the one to help control.

Because if both are gamblers, there's a big chance that one will hide their spending habits so that they can gamble.

It roots with the money and when there are secrets being done, that will be the start of the break down of the relationship aside from physical attacks.

[Orpichukwu]

To me this shows that they where never meant to be.

If a husband and wife are one as the Bible says, one of them win means the both of them win,
A win from one person is supposed to bring joy and not conflict. I'm this situation they should work on their relationship more than gambling better.

They could have also seen these signs from when they were still in the courtship stage, but they ignored them. Some families are like this currently, where both spouses are working and earning, but the money of one is what's only being spent on the family bills while the other claims it's not their duty. In this case it was a provocation from the wife, and we can't tell what else triggered that level of anger in the husband; it can't just be the winning only.

[LastKiss]

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Yeah, this is a true-life story. It happened yesterday. My neighbor got into a serious fight with his wife because she brags about her wins in gambling a lot. I want to know if this is something you can do? Like, when your partner wins more than you do, do you get jealous?

Fortunately, my partner doesn’t like gambling but if I imagining my partner winning more in gambling than me and constantly bragging about it, I’m pretty sure it would upset me too just like it upset him. However, hitting your partner is going too far, not only is his luck bad but his self control is bad as well. No wonder many people think gamblers can harm society. I would also feel jealous if my partner won more than me just like we often feel jealous of gamblers who flex their winnings on social media so it's really depends on us and how we handle people who have better luck than we do.