Secondly, I no know why I Dey always believe say, there's no manual to raising a child because pikin wey go spoil, go spoil and nothing anybody go really do about am
But in all, parents just wan make sure say their children Dey introduce cold conduct always and like the major reason wey go make parents expose children to these earlier
My broda nah who never be father or raise children even if no be their own at least watch the pikin grow go say pikin no they retrain in self or believe say nah upbringing they affect pikin, you go calm down raise pikin when the child grow up eh go change like say eh they different from other children way you raise.
My brother no be small thing wey these children Dey do, sometimes, environment and peers Dey contribute to all these kind things na why the thing we owe these children na to give them, better education and keep them for better environment and neighborhood as these to Dey affect the way pikin Dey take grow but all these things no still mean say, pikin wey wan stress you no go stress you.
Secondly, I no know why I Dey always believe say, there's no manual to raising a child because pikin wey go spoil, go spoil and nothing anybody go really do about am
But in all, parents just wan make sure say their children Dey introduce cold conduct always and like the major reason wey go make parents expose children to these earlier
My broda nah who never be father or raise children even if no be their own at least watch the pikin grow go say pikin no they retrain in self or believe say nah upbringing they affect pikin, you go calm down raise pikin when the child grow up eh go change like say eh they different from other children way you raise.
There will always be a difference in children that was raised properly compared to children that was allowed to do to there own will. So many things affects the child.
Upbringing, parenting influence
Environment
Friends
Remember that the parents, upbringing is the first place where the children learns. So I wouldn't agree to the fact that children whom are well raised can become totally opposite of what they raised.. nope. It's us who fail to raise them well, thinking we are doing the job of rasing them well, not knowing we are only feeding them and not Training.
If the parents do there job propel, the child tends to be influenced by the environment and his friends. At this point, he has to make decisions on which way to follow, and 90% will follow there upbringing.
For those who were not trained, once these influencers come, they are open to choosing anyone. It's either they decide to be good and become children. Whole some decides to become bad, and 90% goes wrong.
Training has a great impact on the society, we can't talk down on it
I'm a father and I don't think I can do more than what I'm already doing to raise my kids and tomorrow if children decide to go a different way from what they were taught, will you blame me for not raising them well considering the fact that, I'm doing all the best I know I can do as a father ?
My bro I will use my immediate family as reference in this situation. Me I come from family of 7 children and out of the 7 na 2 girls and 5 boys but only ome of the boys wey be our first son Dey live a totally different lives style against what the other 6 of us are living and will you to blame my parents for raising the 6 of us well and failing to raise our first some well?
