Why Do Marriages End in Divorce?

[Tungbulu]

That excuse of because one of them stopped communicating and to warrant the other to go and cheat is just pure nonsense. I believe the core belonging and values of marriage has been lost that people just do as they like. But it is beyond yourselves. Coming together to form a family is something huge and that is fact. But people do like it is just not worth the effort and sacrifice that they do as they like. The core values of marriages has been lost, that's why you see many divorce today.

Right, but the way some people live their lives is so annoying as some of them don’t really care about building their marriage in a way that it will benefit the both parties. They act in ways that disrespect their spouses, as some people get married because of the financial benefits that come from it and when they get what they want, they start acting in ways that go against the principles of marriage. That is why they don't make sacrifices or put in any effort to rebuild their marriage. Instead, they will support divorcing their spouse.

[jahead]

The best example of why married couples get divorced can currently be seen in Germany.
A famous German YouTube star named JP Performance beat his wife for years, and a video of it was recently leaked to the media. Statistically, domestic violence against women is a very common reason why divorces happen.
You have to imagine, this guy is a multi-millionaire with massive social media success and had everything, stilll an asshole. Violence against women is a huge problem worldwide, and everyone should do their part to prevent it, just as a side note.... 

[programmer3666]

The number of divorced marriages nowadays is alarming and it got me thinking is it that people easily fall out of love or is that they aren't patient enough to work out issues. Maybe it is because they stop communicatin one of them cheated. Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

Lots of marriages fails these days because the law has made it easy to just wake up one morning and you can decide to cancel or leave a marriage, it is not long like the old good days where marriage was considerd a sacred institution and it was seen as a shameful thing to leave a marraige and there is always a forum for couples to sit down and iron out their difference in order to maintain and preserve the marriage. But now the whole thing is being treated like a mere contract that can be pulled out of without any penalty. like couples can now just walk to a court, sign some papers and claim to be happily married and few months later they have a huge diagreement and boom the walk back to the court and file for divorce.

[DYOR+BTC]

That excuse of because one of them stopped communicating and to warrant the other to go and cheat is just pure nonsense. I believe the core belonging and values of marriage has been lost that people just do as they like. But it is beyond yourselves. Coming together to form a family is something huge and that is fact. But people do like it is just not worth the effort and sacrifice that they do as they like. The core values of marriages has been lost, that's why you see many divorce today.

Right, but the way some people live their lives is so annoying as some of them don’t really care about building their marriage in a way that it will benefit the both parties. They act in ways that disrespect their spouses, as some people get married because of the financial benefits that come from it and when they get what they want, they start acting in ways that go against the principles of marriage. That is why they don't make sacrifices or put in any effort to rebuild their marriage. Instead, they will support divorcing their spouse.

Of a truth marriage building is a very important thing needed to have a good and peaceful marriage but many fails to do it maybe because of lack of knowledge or other related factors but I will say that is a very good step required to have a lasting marriage. 
Many puts there blames on so many different reasons and fails to understand that the first and best way of handling marital issues is through gently and gradual building of the union. 
Although at times one among both parties maybe willingly to build but the other may not accept the idea without knowing it is a very good strategy for a lasting marriage.

[bakasabo]

Lots of marriages fails these days because the law has made it easy to just wake up one morning and you can decide to cancel or leave a marriage, it is not long like the old good days where marriage was considerd a sacred institution and it was seen as a shameful thing to leave a marraige and there is always a forum for couples to sit down and iron out their difference in order to maintain and preserve the marriage. But now the whole thing is being treated like a mere contract that can be pulled out of without any penalty. like couples can now just walk to a court, sign some papers and claim to be happily married and few months later they have a huge diagreement and boom the walk back to the court and file for divorce.

Then "signing some papers" should become expensive and whoever was the initiator of the divorce should compensate second half all the expenses. Then people would think twice before making everything official. From those "papers" clause about sharing everything into half should be removed, then people would stop marrying for selfish and financial purposes.

[BALIK]

The best example of why married couples get divorced can currently be seen in Germany.
A famous German YouTube star named JP Performance beat his wife for years, and a video of it was recently leaked to the media. Statistically, domestic violence against women is a very common reason why divorces happen.
You have to imagine, this guy is a multi-millionaire with massive social media success and had everything, stilll an asshole. Violence against women is a huge problem worldwide, and everyone should do their part to prevent it, just as a side note.... 

There may be many reasons which can bring divorce and it may not have to be the man or the woman who is responsible.

Most big reason include cheating, falling out of love, financial pressure and domestic violence, which is also a major one, with women making up most of the victims.

The case of domestic violence between Tina and Ike Turner was the one most well known in history and was used for the film 'what's love got to do with it'.
Tina's 16 year abuse related story has become an international symbol for women surmounting domestic violence. I guess those who keep blaming women for divorce and claiming they're the main reason probably don't even know about this movie.

https://www.amazon.com/I-Tina-My-Life-Story/dp/0061958808
https://reelgood.com/us/movie/whats-love-got-to-do-with-it-1993

[Female King]

Marriage doesn’t last these days because of so many reasons, it may be lack of patience, cheating, poor communication, lack of respect and misunderstanding. Many couples give up so quick In one another, instead of coming together in love to solve their problems.
 
 I always think that with effective communication, patience, love, and honesty,  it can reduce the rate of divorce in our society. Couples need to understand themselves and they also need to understand that marriage isn’t easy so they need to bring out their minds to work together when  there’s challenges.

I'm convinced most of the cause of divorce today will always be the fault of the women, most marriages is just working now because the man still have money to provide everything the family needs, it's money that is keeping most marriages today, it's just few women that are willing to be with a man at his worst time, they are always patience understanding that marriage is for better and for bad.
 
Cheating is also a major reason while some marriages didn't last till date, it only few men that can stay with a woman that has cheated on him before and those men are seen as weakly because a cheating woman will always be a cheating woman.

[WhoYouCantKill]

Then "signing some papers" should become expensive and whoever was the initiator of the divorce should compensate second half all the expenses. Then people would think twice before making everything official. From those "papers" clause about sharing everything into half should be removed, then people would stop marrying for selfish and financial purposes.

I believe in some part of the world that law is already revisited because it has already become some sort of a lucrative business for a lot of people, especially the young women, they consent to marry a wealthy man even when they know very well that they don’t have even the slightest intentions of living with them, but solely for them to file for a divorce after a few years and get half of their wealth. Like this just doesn’t make any sense at all, and it has made a lot of people, especially wealthy people fear marriage as they no longer the intentions of their partners.

[jahead]

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There may be many reasons which can bring divorce and it may not have to be the man or the woman who is responsible.

Ähm, yeah, of course only one person can be to blame and take full responsibility for a breakup. 
I could give you several examples from my own life. And surprisingly, in 80% of those cases, it was the man who messed up.

[...]
The case of domestic violence between Tina and Ike Turner was the one most well known in history and was used for the film 'what's love got to do with it'.
Tina's 16 year abuse related story has become an international symbol for women surmounting domestic violence. I guess those who keep blaming women for divorce and claiming they're the main reason probably don't even know about this movie.
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I have to admit, I dont know the Turner story, and Im not really into her as an artist in any kind, but it still sounds interesting.
I will read up on it. Thanks mate! 

[Jasmyne]

Why are marriages failing today and what can we do to better?

There are so many reasons marriage are failing including the reasons you mentioned and it just has to do with the individuals involved, some can actually work it out, if it is something workable to avoid divorce, while some just fall out of love and refuse to come to an agreement. The major thing that holds a union together is trust and understanding and without that a union will surely fall apart.

[Swordsoffreedom]

I'm convinced most of the cause of divorce today will always be the fault of the women,

It would be biased to blame women for most divorces without any specific data or evidence to back it up.

most marriages is just working now because the man still have money to provide everything the family needs, it's money that is keeping most marriages today, it's just few women that are willing to be with a man at his worst time, they are always patience understanding that marriage is for better and for bad.
 

Based on my own experience, I agree that money plays an important role in marriage. But don't overstate the importance of money or the man's role.

How is a husband supposed to focus on making money without a woman taking care of the kids, cooking, and handling things at home so he can focus on work? So saying money is the main thing keeping a marriage together, or that only a few women are willing to stay with a man when things get tough is pretty wrong.

Cheating is also a major reason while some marriages didn't last till date, it only few men that can stay with a woman that has cheated on him before and those men are seen as weakly because a cheating woman will always be a cheating woman.

Do you want to know the cheating rates among men and women?
https://www.southdenvertherapy.com/blog/infidelity-statistics-2026

[Bitcoin-Forever]

When both partners could not afford to disagree and agree, the finally resulted in separation and this is why diverse is on an increasing Verge over the relationships you see today, many are not talking about how compatible the partners are and what each one of them is doing to ensure that they are in support of how the Union could work, it takes sacrifice, hard works and perseverance to ensure that both are all in the same reasonings, with sense of responsibility to live together.