Don't let Your Kids Deprived from anything

[Fragrance1122]

While I was a teacher in a private school back in 2021 , I noticed that among the defaulter students there were two brothers and by face and personality both of them were princess but in the eyes it felt like they are broken. Always calling the students who didn't submit there fee, they were there even after 6 months. I met there father in secret and asked him , your kids lack even the basic necessities, there uniform do not meet the requirements , there teeth Had not been brushed since years and I don't think you have a shoe polish at your home. He told me that he has seven kids and his earning was less than 100 dollars. And once his daughter waited for just a piece of pencil until evening because there wasn't even a cent in home that she could buy it.

I was very disappointed and angry at the same time. I told him that first tell me why you got married when you haven't enough even for your own survival and getting married was also fine. Your wife could have managed some how but why did you produce kids and 7 kids. What a shame. He said it is fate. I said wow and I came back. But the thing that I assume because of their financial crises were.
They didn't have enough to eat and could not fulfill even their basic necessities.
They became weak , Lean , ethically and morally. There attitude was totally different than the other boys.
They use to think too much and the deprivation in there eyes was very clear.
The mother wouldn't be happy with so many kids but I think the father compelled her to do so.

Have you ever seen such kind of situations that are heart wrenching..

[Karl_3000]

I was very disappointed and angry at the same time. I told him that first tell me why you got married when you haven't enough even for your own survival and getting married was also fine. Your wife could have managed some how but why did you produce kids and 7 kids. What a shame.

You can rudely blame them but you did not contribute anything than blaming nhe parents. What has your blaming solved? Your blaming solved the problems the children are having? Do not forget you are just a teacher and learn how to talk.

Have you ever seen such kind of situations that are heart wrenching..

There are some countries that parental care is very low.

[Fragrance1122]

I was very disappointed and angry at the same time. I told him that first tell me why you got married when you haven't enough even for your own survival and getting married was also fine. Your wife could have managed some how but why did you produce kids and 7 kids. What a shame.

You can rudely blame them but you did not contribute anything than blaming nhe parents. What has your blaming solved? Your blaming solved the problems the children are having? Do not forget you are just a teacher and learn how to talk.

Have you ever seen such kind of situations that are heart wrenching..

There are some countries that parental care is very low.

Yes Sir! Thank you for your suggestion but it was just a message and the way you post a statement and a verbal scenario does make a difference. Many people on this forum are still unmarried and are planning to get married but they should keep these things in mind. Parental education and family planning is necessary , I agree with that but some literate and well qualified People has also half a dozen children. And the blaming hasn't solved his life but I give example of this scenario everywhere , that anticipation is very necessary before getting married and producing offsprings.

[Bd officer]

These are very common in our country. One of my cousins ​​had 8 children and 6 are alive. My cousin's husband works as a daily wage labourer due to which he has to struggle to run his family, sometimes they go without food. But unfortunately, he is not able to admit any of his children to school. I feel very sad to see this and ask them why they gave birth to so many children? I sometimes help them by giving them some money. I feel very sad to see these, if I had more money I would have helped more. This year I will admit some of his children to school at my expense.

So before having children, you should think about the future and have children accordingly so that your children can grow up well.

[Nothingtodo]

I live in a densely populated area where there are countless such families. Most families have more children than they can afford to feed and support, resulting in starvation and deprivation. They have never received proper education, nor even proper food and good clothing. This is mainly due to the ignorance of the parents and the father often forces the mother to have more than one child. In this case, it has been seen that most of the children do not receive nutrition from the mother, as a result of which they suffer from malnutrition at an early age. Children who suffer from malnutrition do not grow up to have mental development and quality talent. As a result, they lag behind in education and even in all aspects of life. There are hundreds of incidents like this in my locality.