Don't let Your Kids Deprived from anything

[Fragrance1122]

While I was a teacher in a private school back in 2021 , I noticed that among the defaulter students there were two brothers and by face and personality both of them were princess but in the eyes it felt like they are broken. Always calling the students who didn't submit there fee, they were there even after 6 months. I met there father in secret and asked him , your kids lack even the basic necessities, there uniform do not meet the requirements , there teeth Had not been brushed since years and I don't think you have a shoe polish at your home. He told me that he has seven kids and his earning was less than 100 dollars. And once his daughter waited for just a piece of pencil until evening because there wasn't even a cent in home that she could buy it.

I was very disappointed and angry at the same time. I told him that first tell me why you got married when you haven't enough even for your own survival and getting married was also fine. Your wife could have managed some how but why did you produce kids and 7 kids. What a shame. He said it is fate. I said wow and I came back. But the thing that I assume because of their financial crises were.
They didn't have enough to eat and could not fulfill even their basic necessities.
They became weak , Lean , ethically and morally. There attitude was totally different than the other boys.
They use to think too much and the deprivation in there eyes was very clear.
The mother wouldn't be happy with so many kids but I think the father compelled her to do so.

Have you ever seen such kind of situations that are heart wrenching..

[Karl_3000]

I was very disappointed and angry at the same time. I told him that first tell me why you got married when you haven't enough even for your own survival and getting married was also fine. Your wife could have managed some how but why did you produce kids and 7 kids. What a shame.

You can rudely blame them but you did not contribute anything than blaming nhe parents. What has your blaming solved? Your blaming solved the problems the children are having? Do not forget you are just a teacher and learn how to talk.

Have you ever seen such kind of situations that are heart wrenching..

There are some countries that parental care is very low.

[Fragrance1122]

I was very disappointed and angry at the same time. I told him that first tell me why you got married when you haven't enough even for your own survival and getting married was also fine. Your wife could have managed some how but why did you produce kids and 7 kids. What a shame.

You can rudely blame them but you did not contribute anything than blaming nhe parents. What has your blaming solved? Your blaming solved the problems the children are having? Do not forget you are just a teacher and learn how to talk.

Have you ever seen such kind of situations that are heart wrenching..

There are some countries that parental care is very low.

Yes Sir! Thank you for your suggestion but it was just a message and the way you post a statement and a verbal scenario does make a difference. Many people on this forum are still unmarried and are planning to get married but they should keep these things in mind. Parental education and family planning is necessary , I agree with that but some literate and well qualified People has also half a dozen children. And the blaming hasn't solved his life but I give example of this scenario everywhere , that anticipation is very necessary before getting married and producing offsprings.

[Bd officer]

These are very common in our country. One of my cousins ​​had 8 children and 6 are alive. My cousin's husband works as a daily wage labourer due to which he has to struggle to run his family, sometimes they go without food. But unfortunately, he is not able to admit any of his children to school. I feel very sad to see this and ask them why they gave birth to so many children? I sometimes help them by giving them some money. I feel very sad to see these, if I had more money I would have helped more. This year I will admit some of his children to school at my expense.

So before having children, you should think about the future and have children accordingly so that your children can grow up well.

[Nothingtodo]

I live in a densely populated area where there are countless such families. Most families have more children than they can afford to feed and support, resulting in starvation and deprivation. They have never received proper education, nor even proper food and good clothing. This is mainly due to the ignorance of the parents and the father often forces the mother to have more than one child. In this case, it has been seen that most of the children do not receive nutrition from the mother, as a result of which they suffer from malnutrition at an early age. Children who suffer from malnutrition do not grow up to have mental development and quality talent. As a result, they lag behind in education and even in all aspects of life. There are hundreds of incidents like this in my locality.

[Taricoins]

Looking at this sad event, alot of people are at fault here and the one i would focus on more is the government for once again neglecting the basic needs of citizens of a state, if things like free education cannot be implemented, I don't even know what they are using taxes for, am not saying giving birth to more than you can carry I'd good but things like that shows how terrible the government is, another thing that I see that's not working in your area is social services, I just wander the living conditions of that family and agencies like earlier stated should just relieve them

[Halifat]

Looking at this sad event, alot of people are at fault here and the one i would focus on more is the government for once again neglecting the basic needs of citizens of a state, if things like free education cannot be implemented, I don't even know what they are using taxes for, am not saying giving birth to more than you can carry I'd good but things like that shows how terrible the government is, another thing that I see that's not working in your area is social services, I just wander the living conditions of that family and agencies like earlier stated should just relieve them

You have definitely call out the right person that needed to be called in most of these issues, if the government is an honest and sincere person i don't think this will not be a problem because just as you said given them free education with the money that belong to citizen will solve all this problem. The most painful part is that during the time of this same government, they went to school free, meaning free education, they all benefited from government sponsorship during when they are at this age, but instead of them to make things right for the citizens they are governing, they decided to divert attention to another thing entirely.

[atookz]

I told him that first tell me why you got married when you haven't enough even for your own survival and getting married was also fine. Your wife could have managed some how but why did you produce kids and 7 kids. What a shame.

Yeah, I have seen some of those types of things and it's devastating. Children are born into circumstances of which they have little control and are saddled with consequences they never anticipated.

But I'd not be too hard on the fathers. There are some people who do not have access to family planning, and some who have no education on family planning. Having a lot of children is considered normal in some communities, even as a form of "insurance" against old age. It doesn’t make it right, but it explains why it happens.

The mother wouldn't be happy with so many kids but I think the father compelled her to do so.

We can't really know that. It's just an assumption.

The real question isn’t why he had 7 kids, because that’s already done. The question is what can be done for those kids now? If a teacher sees and cares, he makes a difference. It's the little things that make a difference, such as covering a few school supplies, assisting with a scholarship application or connecting the family with a local charity.

[Mr Reporter]

I live in a densely populated area where there are countless such families. Most families have more children than they can afford to feed and support, resulting in starvation and deprivation. They have never received proper education, nor even proper food and good clothing. This is mainly due to the ignorance of the parents and the father often forces the mother to have more than one child. In this case, it has been seen that most of the children do not receive nutrition from the mother, as a result of which they suffer from malnutrition at an early age. Children who suffer from malnutrition do not grow up to have mental development and quality talent. As a result, they lag behind in education and even in all aspects of life. There are hundreds of incidents like this in my locality.

And in most cases in that same locality of yours, more children would be going through starvation, no education, no good clothes and most time I would think is this how bad the level at which poverty is now…or maybe it just a cycle that timeless repeats itself…

And as for the parents I think they are the reason of all this issues of giving birth to so how children, how would a gateman at my estate have up to 10kids…? But you pointed out to something that many people are afraid to say it out loud and for most people it would not be lack of money just like you have put it, it might be ignorance…

Just imagine when the father forces the mother to keep having children, the mother suffers twice she doesn’t even have that time to rest no nutrition for the mother talk more the children that what we call ignorant….

[programmer3666]

Those kids didn't ask to be born poor or be heavenly appointed poor parents. They didn't choose the life of no shoes and certainly didn't choose to wait all day long for a common pencil. Their parent made choices and all they do is to wake up everyday into the choices made by the both parent. That undeniable shame that was evident in their eyes is not theirs because it is a collective shame for every single adult who saw through their struggles and chose to do nothing. A child should not have to carry such weight in life.

[Frankolala]

I think that country is a third world country because that's the only places where a man and his wife will give birth to many children and the government wouldn't show any concern. Some people think that getting married is all about giving birth to as many children as they wanted legally, but they forget that you have to train this children and give them good education. Family planning is very important, the man and the woman needs to plan on how many children to give birth to with the consideration of their current financial state and future inflation.