I see that you've had a bad experience attempting to purchase from an untrusted newbie and failing to use escrow on the transaction.
I can certainly understand if you are no longer interested in purchasing given your frustrating experience, but I'm willing to sell 1 BTC for BitStamp+5%. You can pay with cash sent via USPS or you can send a USPS money order.
While I have significant reputation and history on this forum, I'd still be happy to use trusted escrow for both our protection if you like. I'm willing to work with any of the top 8 escrow providers on this list:
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=276897.0If you choose to use escrow, you'll have to pay the fees charged by the escrow provider (if any).