Secondstrade has no power of the confirmation of the transaction. It has to be confirmed by all the miners out there. But currently only one node is broadcasting it. So maybe we have to wait a few days to get the money. But there is a likely chance this happens in the next 3 days. I think something went wrong with either the transaction fee or something else.
im sorry, the fact is i dont really know about this
Yeah. For some reason now, most miners dont want to mine anymore, so you'd have to pay a higher fee to make a transaction of 1+ bitcoin.
secondstrade, why dont you just use a bigger tx fee?
just let secondstrade choose the best he want
it's not good to force someone if he/she dont want it