2. I request a small commission to share the link that I spent my good time in finding. If you were too poor you could just say so and I'd give you the link. Is it this part that paints me as rude or insolent?
You were holding the link hostage you weren't asking for donations you wanted to be paid. I also feel like you had no intention of giving up that link for free or you'd have lost your bargaining chip.
3. A couple courteous persons request the link by pm, send me a donation, and find it doesn't work. No problem, I refund their money. Sounds pretty rude to me...
Again a donation is paying some one for something thats free not paying first then receiving a service. Also it's shady because lets be honest you have to pay for a link that most likely wont work for you. Regardless of the fact that you may or may not have refunded them. They paid for a service that wouldn't work for them because you weren't honest that it was a Canada only site.
3. I get called a "Dumbfuck" in two threads as well as a "douche" by a troll who has a crappy life and needs someone to take it out on. Who is the rude one here? Really?
To be fair the dude might have gotten carried away lol
4. The deal [THAT WORKED FOR ME BTW] is called shady by a crapload of people who wouldn't get the balls to even click the link. Erm, rude? Me?
No one said the deal wouldn't work but it is a Canadian site. Did you expect the majority of people to be able to use it? As to clicking the link part I have no clue what your talking about I actually checked to see if it had shipping to the US.
Regardless of my view of asking for donations(which I think is pathetic unless your releasing major software that took 8-10+ hours to make) you weren't asking for a donation.