Indeed. For what it's worth, I'd have voted Qh4.
Finally, someone else can see sense.
Qc2 is really too conservative. It seems to me like we skip a beat...
Isn't the White supposed to play the game (with the Black acting consequently) in the first moves?
Exactly. Although the traditional idea behind the Réti opening is to wait for Black to mess up the centre before you do, that only applies to pawn structure.
A question for all:
if offered the chance, would you swap the Queens at this stage? (yes for me)
Absolutely not! All else being equal, never trade an active piece for an inactive one! Our queen is well-placed (Black isn't forcing it away just for the fun of it!) while his isn't doing much at all, and this is a situation we want to maintain as long as possible. Conversely, Black will likely want to trade queens when he can, and may try to force the issue.
I would trade queens if we had a chance and would support Qh4 if you can show me how that would lead to a trade. My guess is that he would play Be7 before moving the knight on f6 so we would never get the chance to trade our h4 queen for his on d8.
We can after Bg5 and trading the bishops, but why would you want to trade queens in the first place?
No matter what we do I bet he plays Bb7 next. Otherwise we can play Ne5 and open up our bishop on the long diagonal attacking his rook. He cannot escape with Rb8 or Ra7 because we can play Nc6 forking his rook and queen. So he would have to just take our knight with his and allow us to take his rook.
Huh? No, he can always just block the bishop with Nd5.