I'm beyond baffled by the stupidity displayed in this mindset.
Human beings are pretty damn good at directly saying "No, stop"
and making sex into a "Can I do this?" "May I do that?" Takes literally every single ounce of primitive attraction out of the question. It turns sex from a sensual and intimate process into a scientific, awkward flurry of weird questions..
Ages ago I watched the Three Stooges. One of them wanted the other to stop. So he said, "Don't. Stop. Don't. Stop." The other one thought he meant, "Don't stop." So he didn't stop.
I don't know why , but I just found that to be extremely hilarious. This reminds me that the world we live in is full of Stooges.
Couldn't I ask complicated tricky questions in the heat of the moment, tricking a girl that I know blatantly doesn't want me into "agreeing" to sex?