Bully Problem

[surahmat1223]

In fact the problem of bully is a problem that means severe in the community even some who have died because of this problem. Who do this bully actually should also know what if they are in bully condition just like the people they bully

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[shakeeup]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

In some kind of friendship, involving personal life is just normal for them that's how deep the relationship they have. But in your situation, when they involved your parents in bullying you and you became emotional only means that your relationship with them is not too strong in order to outdo what they have done. They are not true friend to you are as you to them. You should ask them first what the problem is before posting it in this forum. And now you can call it even.

[Shamie1002]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

Good friends are natural bullies, but hurting your feelings do not make them a friend of yours especially involving your parents. What you do is tell first to your parents. Parents should always know what their son or daughter is going through. This situations should always end up in stoinger relationship with our parents. Your life will be more fruitful rather than going with friends that is talking nonsense just to laugh at someone else.

[Sithara007]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

Good friends are natural bullies, but hurting your feelings do not make them a friend of yours especially involving your parents. What you do is tell first to your parents. Parents should always know what their son or daughter is going through. This situations should always end up in stoinger relationship with our parents. Your life will be more fruitful rather than going with friends that is talking nonsense just to laugh at someone else.

Rather than parents, I would suggest him/her to contact the other relatives, such as cousins or uncles. They will be a bit more open to discuss the real issues involved. There is nothing wrong in telling this to the parents, but decide whether you want to get them alarmed or not.

[Tubig]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

At the first line I thought it was just bullying like joking around sarcastically the normal trashtalking  but since they involve your parents I think its alarming. They are not your true if that so, but just one more chance try to jam with them understand and if it doesn't work try to  not get close or friends with them.

[Nakakapagpabagabag]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

If you think they are your really true friends, talk to them and release your problem with them. I'm not favor to your friends but talking to them is the only solution in your problem. Explain that you didn't want they do you and to parents. They will understand and realize they are wrong.

[Logan.Amber913]

You gotta find better friends if you think you're 'true' friends are people who are bullies and making you cry. First, friends don't make friends cry. That's not cool, enjoyable, healthy or something that happens in a normal life. Stand up for yourself man! You got this!

[Supreemo]

You gotta find better friends if you think you're 'true' friends are people who are bullies and making you cry. First, friends don't make friends cry. That's not cool, enjoyable, healthy or something that happens in a normal life. Stand up for yourself man! You got this!

,might as well you just wanted ti get bullied then continue, but those people who you called "friends" are toxic. They are not considering the feeling of their bullied friend, and the worst is that, they are including the parents of the bullied one, so do you think it is still healthy for you to say on that situation? Well i guess not..

[skymberloh]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

They are not your true friends. If they are your true friends they woudnt make you feel that way and they even involved your parents.True friends respect each others love ones especially your parents.To get rid of them is to fight back and get out of their circle. Just think that the best or true friends are yet come.

[gabmen]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

They are not your true friends. If they are your true friends they woudnt make you feel that way and they even involved your parents.True friends respect each others love ones especially your parents.To get rid of them is to fight back and get out of their circle. Just think that the best or true friends are yet come.

Yeah. If that's what they're doing to you, that's probably gonna get worse. Well unless you learn how to fight for yourself  and teach those bullies that they're bullying the wrong guy. Sometimes these people need to be put in their proper places since they may very well be doing this to others also.

[1DC]

Bullies are a huge part of growing up you'll see many of them the best thing to do is when he calls you a name try to turn it around into something funny. Don't let anything he says get to you. If you show him you're bothered by it he'll keep it up. With fights, don't go there. In a fight, if he throws the first punch immediately tell a teacher, if you punch back you're going to get in trouble, self-defense or not. I was called names, spat on, cursed at even shoved into a wall, bullies bully to feel better about themselves. If possible try to be his friend.

[kodes88]

Do not think that they bully you and have even invaded your parents are your true friends. They do not even deserve to be called friends. I've gotten bully, and I'm really getting bully all the way until I really do not care about what they do to me. I used to fight, I used to get angry, but they're getting crazy, until I'm tired, I let them bully me as much as they want. My silence also made them silent.

[Xester]

Do not think that they bully you and have even invaded your parents are your true friends. They do not even deserve to be called friends. I've gotten bully, and I'm really getting bully all the way until I really do not care about what they do to me. I used to fight, I used to get angry, but they're getting crazy, until I'm tired, I let them bully me as much as they want. My silence also made them silent.

I totally agree with you.  When they are trying to mock you or bully you and as if they are making fun of you because they think they are perfect it is better to be silent.  If you will become silent and stop fighting back the tendency is they will be ashamed of themselves.  That is what I am doing right now everytime one of my officemate who I really don't like say things that I am not.  I just keep quiet and then she will stop.  I want to fight back but we are not of the same level.

[bebejhen]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

Good friends are natural bullies, but hurting your feelings do not make them a friend of yours especially involving your parents. What you do is tell first to your parents. Parents should always know what their son or daughter is going through. This situations should always end up in stoinger relationship with our parents. Your life will be more fruitful rather than going with friends that is talking nonsense just to laugh at someone else.

Rather than parents, I would suggest him/her to contact the other relatives, such as cousins or uncles. They will be a bit more open to discuss the real issues involved. There is nothing wrong in telling this to the parents, but decide whether you want to get them alarmed or not.

My younger sister bullied by her friends years ago. But rather to tell them to our parents she tell it to me and to my older sister. Your sister or brother knows what to do. In fact they are our real bestfriend. So let your sister or brother take care of your so called true friends.

[jaibster]

If they are your friends then pour your heart out to them. If they understand then they fit the title, if they don't then you are better off without them.

[helars2008]

If they were your true friends then you wouldnt even need to be posting such thread....
My advise to you is to directly say to them that you do not want the bullying they do to you especially ones that involves your parents...
If they still do not stop after this, then i think its time to let them go...
Why would you cling on to someone whom you dislike its attitudes?

[Lm2e4]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

A true friend never hurt a friend, so I guess they are not your true friend, I've been there before, so I guess all you need to do is fight back and show them you are not the guy to mess up with. I'm sure they will stop.

[Igebotz]

this really a big problem of child or teens. and the children now is more bully then my generation . they are not scared of people bigger than them. a you can you 13 years old know are drinking alcohol or using illegal drugs and same time  if don`t have money they rob other people. for me  government should have a law that more hairdryer than that we have now.

[Buttercup123]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

As I read the earlier post, i found that you are doing thesis, and if all of the advice to you is stay away from them, fight back and others, then i guarantee you that you, together with your group-mates will fail your thesis, the best way for you to get through is let out your side, try telling them whats bothering you, tell them that they should limit their jokes, and not to make fun of your parents. If they are your true friends then they will understand, if not for the best with regards to your thesis, act professional, don't change your attitude towards them, talk to them if necessary and if you are bullied again, the first thing to do is IGNORE them, let them know that they will not hurt you anymore, act tough but not to the extent that it will lead to fighting. Always remember thesis is much more important than your friends (so-called). On the other hand, find new better friends. One more thing, try playing with them by being sarcastic when they are making fun out of you. If they are your only friends, and you can't leave them then learn how to pass the topic to others. When they are making fun out of you try to redirect the topic to someone else.

[yojodojo21]

Bullying is a serious problem and I consider it as a Crime, even thou they are bullying in mental or physical, they are not Helping Earth.