VIRGINITY before getting married

[@darkangel]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

[reymartH]

In general it depends on the subculture. Someone from a really conservative Christian background will probably want their spouse to be a virgin. However, those people tend to get married fairly young anyway and usually to others with the same beliefs. Among average people I don't think it matters. If anything a lot of people don't want to get with virgins.

[james23]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

As of today as we live in a material and new generation I observe some virginity now  days is not important as long you will me happy to each other have a strong relationship at all time

[adam205611]

Does not being a virgin make you any less of a person?  Does it make you love your other any more or less?  Is there an inherit value in marrying a virgin?  I never understood people fascination with not having sex before marriage.

[Sithara007]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Nope.. Nowadays most of the individuals are getting married in their mid 30s. A good part of the biological peak will be over by that time and it will be foolish to abstain from sex during your teens and 20s. I am not saying that you should be promiscuous and have sex with whomever you want. But there is no harm in having sex with someone with whom you are in a relationship.

[bengca84135120]

Premarital sex has now developed into a normal thing, if disagree but will be old-fashioned, but should limit age, my own view, middle school students now are most sex, can have influence on future body, not in the best interests of learning, too early to have sex, only a lost no harvest

[Flamedyr]

Uh what??

[ryanwalker389]

I think it's still important. But, premarital sex is now a norm in this generation of ours.

[dongyi17]

For me it is still important although pre-marital sex now a days are norms but purity is the best things you can give to your spouse or your partner...it means you love her/him that you respect each body before God and man... engaging into pre marital sex sometimes loses the excitement. when a woman gave up his virginity over a man.. man tend to withdraw after he gets what he wants, and worse is when she get pregnant out of plan.. and when they're not ready yet..outcome is separation, the woman then will raise their baby alone than man will look for another woman again... and the rest is...not happily ever after

[Sithara007]

I think it's still important. But, premarital sex is now a norm in this generation of ours.

Here in India, I will not say that it has become a norm, but definitely premarital relationships are now quite common when compared to what we had a couple of decades back. In many cases, it is not even regarded as a taboo. If a girl and boy is in a serious relationship, then their parents also doesn't object them spending time together.

[El Il-mythos]

Virginity symbolize the dignity of a woman, her true love and respect to her future husband shows with this thing. But I don't believe that this kind of majority of ladies in our society have this thinking even the majority of men. But this is understandable to those who fall in love with each other specially if both have same past.

[mylifeisorandom]

For me it is still important. It's like that one gift you could give your husband/wife that you cannot give to anyone. It's so special for newly weds because you get to learn and experience it together.

[anggoro manise]

Virginity is a symbol of the sanctity of women, it would be nice women to keep virginity until they get married. Really hard to maintain, cause times have started to change, therefore the woman can still keep the virginity she is a great woman

[agus_sna]

Most in Indonesia questioned that because if the lost keprawanan means that the woman has committed adultery, and is considered a dirty woman,
, I apologize if there is a word error,
Thank you

[stronghandsdeeppockets]

For me it is still important. It's like that one gift you could give your husband/wife that you cannot give to anyone. It's so special for newly weds because you get to learn and experience it together.

I can only agree with you on that, but this premarital sex is mostly about fun. I can't see people developing serious relationships <18y. So basically it's just sex, not "making love" to someone.

[killcoin]

I pray for that on daily basis

[Iamdavid]

Virginity dosent guarantee a good marriage or means your woman won't still cheat after getting married...These days,people just live to enjoy their lives

[Ondongeric18]

Time had change the people around and maybe these things had become so unimportant to a man. But as for me I do believe it is still important like in a given situation like when the girl would pretend she is still virgin but she isn't. So there is a possibility that she might eventually lie about something because she practiced dishonesty. Being trustworthy is important for me.

[hacking13]

Im indifferent about this subject matter....


If a lady chooses to be a virgin till marriage.. fine. Some men don't even like it.

[CoinOnTheBeach]

totally depends on how you were brought up.
on your culture, religion, system of values.

for me either way, being or not being a virgin, would not discourage me from marrying the right person.