VIRGINITY before getting married

[hugoworld]

In some muslim cultures , virginity is still important but this is very ridiculous. Because of virginity issue, a lot of woman are being murdered in islamic countries. For that reason, something about virginity must be changed.

[Wiskeycrew]

Of course for man it's plenty of joy to be the first man for a woman. And it would also help in marriage cause ties between a wife and a husband will be more solid. But in western world a woman's virginity before marriage is never-never land

[gabmen]

Practically speaking, no. Its not that much of a big deal nowadays since sex is being practiced well before being married by a lot of couples. Now it depends if the couple's religion forbid it and how couples can control their urges but i don't think a lot of people take virginity into consideration anymore.

[princess.tyche]

It depends, i guess.. But yeah, virginity isn't something that you can buy at department store. It is important. In my country, virginity is a MUST. Because our parents taught us not to lose our virginity until you get married to someone since we were teenagers. Not only based on religion but also by culture. We believe that once the girl has lost her virginity, she got less value than the virgin one. It would be hard for the girl to get new guy (if she broke up with the first one) because she'll live in fear, wondering if the guy would accept her for her past, and not to bring up the past whenever they fight. It actually happened here in my country. The guy won't respect the girl that much. But, at the end of the day, it is up to the person itself. Whether youre giving it up or not.

[hula hula]

yes, in my opinion virginity is a very important thing. because I think virginity is like a seal of a package. "DO NOT ACCEPT IF SEAL IS BROKEN"

[bulls3y3]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

For me it is yes. You will only give your virginity to the one you love, to the person you want to be with the whole of your life. But nowadays virginity is not important anymore. As long as you are happy to your partnet, no matter what his/her past you dont care about it because you love him/her.

[Cassy14]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Virginity is just a word now though many women are still having it and reserving for their future husband. but for me, i don't care as long as I love the girl and will be having the forever!

[Xerox101]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Yes it is,because losing virginity before marriage is  big deal, let me justify it why, as a guy/girl you would have expectation about your would be(salary,job,height weight etc..),if that expectation is with regard to virginity that's nothing wrong,People who say losing virginity is not a big deal,I am completely with you PROVIDED you DON'T LIE ABOUT YOUR PAST when asked about your previous relationship's,stuffs that are too personal for you may be some one else's priority.

[drawoh14]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

It is really important for those Holy people and living in religious country because they were taught what is right and wrong but if you lived in liberated country VIRGINITY is regardless before marriage

[Windy_logan]

There is a saying not to buy a pig in a poke, so it's better to check before marriage.

[ElisaWoods]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

It seems to me that this is a complete nonsense and a relic of the past

[Frustrated]

I think no. As long as you love your woman. And you are faithful to her for the rest of your life.

[rainmaximo]

In my own opinion, NO because the most important factors or elements in getting married are LOVE, FAITHFULNESS and LOYALTY. Marriage is the union of the two people bind with love. So virginity is secondary only. We get married because we truly deeply madly in love with the person and we want to share our whole life with him or her. We look at the attributes and personality of the person we want to pend the rest of our lives and so
virginity is not that so important. Nowadays, people are given much important to the trait a person has in order for a relationship to last a lifetime So the next time you fall in love don't get focus on virginity  but to the characters that makes you happy and if ever u meet a person and is still a virgin....it is a bonus !!!

[Lecam]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

In our society today, premarital sex is seen to be normal though some seems to disagree. Virginity must be given to the person you love after marriage. However, our society today accepts the fact that the generation of youth these day choose to give their body first before entering marriage. Our society today aren't that old fashion anymore.

[LadyBB]

Virginity before married is good,but it's very rare to see a lady or a guy who is virgin before married.

[bctm]

it's old world superstition. so no. it isn't.

[bumoranty]

This issue is relative but I think it varies due to cultures around the world. Some place huge importance on virginity while some didn't place importance on it.

[Vod]

Does not being a virgin make you any less of a person?  Does it make you love your other any more or less?  Is there an inherit value in marrying a virgin? 

In the old days, when people still believed in religion, being a virgin was worth a lot.  Rich camel traders would pay handsomely for a virgin.

Today, we know better.

[zedkiel08]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

I do not think this days that virginity is still important before getting married. And its only depends in the situation where the couple is conservative or not. Those who are conservative makes the virginity important to them but for those who is open minded about sex is no problem with virginity.

[Zanuar003]

I think back to each of us when we are married is still a virgin? When not, why should we question the virginity.