VIRGINITY before getting married

[balintong15]

virginity. so lets talk about it. they say that it is the best gift that you can give to your husband if you will get married. but nowadays, virginity is just a simple thing that you can give easily to the one you love even if you do not know if you will live together forever. young ladies now can give it off easily. because of so much emotion and love to someone, they can give everything even if they do not what will be the effect of that in the future. being a virgin before marriage is good on the ground that you are pure before marriage. but its not only virginity that has issues, also marriage. even if people get married, they want something more, someone more i do not know if that is just for lust or love. but the most important thing is, we must be pure before and after marriage. no number two. no going back to past and stay in love with our partner.

[suyanico]

Virginity is not very important for me, because it does not determine the nature of a woman has good or bad personality. The relationship should be based on our personality that matches each other.

[lealyn18]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Nowadays Virginity isn't important before getting married,because if you love the person you will accept what he/she have on the past. If you're concerned on the virginity of the person you because you two will getting married and you are mad because you're not first person on her or isn't a love it is you just love the virginity.

[RAMSHIVDEEPAK]

No I don't think.there are other then sex by which verginity can be lost.Or relationship or love is not crime or sex before the marriage also not a crime.it is choice of individual.

[ThreeForty]

There was no one else before the marriage I think

[youbees1st]

I think virginity is a sacred thing and concerns honor, it must be kept for a special person (husband)

[salinizm]

In general it depends on the subculture. Someone from a really conservative Christian background will probably want their spouse to be a virgin. However, those people tend to get married fairly young anyway and usually to others with the same beliefs. Among average people I don't think it matters. If anything a lot of people don't want to get with virgins.

You are quite right . Conservative religious people have a tendency to get married to virgins. This is their choice . On the other hand, most of the new generation are not care about virginity before getting married.

[jsarce]

Some women prefer to keep their virginity to their husbands as a gift after marriage. If it's their choice then I would gladly respect it. But if a woman lost it before marriage then let's not judge them. If you, as a man, really love your partner, won't judge her present with her past.

[Mayor20]

Actually, norms ,cultures and traditions highly constitute parameters for ladies when talk of virginity  because in some places violation brings penalty and punishment from gods.

[omonuyak]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Virginity is dignity and vature. God wants us to live a life of purity and holiness. Most people loss that vature because of social media and what happens in our school and society. The church has turned their back on the preaching of virginity and they members see sex before married a normal thing. I have pray this morning that our generation should know the importance of virginity and preach to condemn early sex and pornography.

[Sithara007]

Some women prefer to keep their virginity to their husbands as a gift after marriage. If it's their choice then I would gladly respect it. But if a woman lost it before marriage then let's not judge them. If you, as a man, really love your partner, won't judge her present with her past.

What difference is it going to make? If I was a male, then I would prefer a girl who is well-behaved and nice to me (even if she is not a virgin) over some virgin girl who is rude and arrogant. But the point is not to cheat your partner after the marriage. But having sex before the marriage doesn't matter much. It is personal freedom.

[Nagibator007]

I think virginity before marriage is already past,as choosing a girlfriend and especially a wife,dolzhney know how she us

[sp564]

It's important in some ways; as has been pointed out, some partners will expect it (leaving aside the question of whether they would ever know the difference). But in many other regards I would say that it is important NOT to be a virgin when you get married (unless you're one of those lucky people who know their soul-mate since you were both kids) because you need to figure out that there are many differences between potential spouses and you need to know how to evaluate them before you get married -- of course you can do this without sex, but that kind of intimacy is really beneficial for getting to know a person.

[CGShiba]

It depends on how the person treasure it's virginity. People that still have their virginity are rare nowadays.

[DukeCrypt]

The preference for marrying virgins has a profound meaning. Indeed a woman will really love only the "first" man, he and only he specifically for it will be just this semi-mythical "alpha male" and without love and respect for her husband by the wife no marriage will last long.

[Lionfortis178]

No it's not. Having sex is a totally normal naturally thing, people shouldn't be forced to do some culturally appropriate thing first before. And what if your partner has sexual wishes or fantasies that you don't want to indulge in (or vice versa) its much better to know before. And I think that it's a good thing that people are waiting to get married untill later in life, keeps them from jumping in too early and maybe (often) regretting it.
I'm not saying that you should sleep with everybody (but that's your choice) but if you love someone and want to lose your virginity to him/her, what difference does it make if you're married or 'just' in love?
Fuck arround guys, you can always get married later!

[martina14]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

this is just like an old testament that the church dont use anymore! we are not loving our wife to be for he virginity but the way she loves you or his attitude. viriginity is just a V now and nothing will change!

[Lionfortis178]

I think virginity is a sacred thing and concerns honor, it must be kept for a special person (husband)

So only the women's virginity is sacred? Because you say (husband)?

[reyzel27]

I think it is still relevant. But in our day No matter if Virgin you married or not. not that This matters as long as important love between a couple.

[Tuyok]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

As a Christian, my answer will be yes. Yes, there are temptations here and there but just stand still and control yourself.