VIRGINITY before getting married

[lsokalski]

It doesn't matter. The important is how much you love each other. You can gave each others some respect and trust. The important is the present. You can learned about your past relationship to be more better people in the future.

[ElusivePhantom]

Only the most disciplined women stay virgins until they're married.

Personally I believe they should be, but I'm old school.

It's a personal choice for people to remain that way, and a choice for someone to accept the status of a persons virginity upon marriage.

In this day and age, you would be challenged to find anyone who is still a virgin at marriage.

Society has changed, and the importance and stigma attached to the notion is well obsolete.

[RAmondragon]

Virginity is really something you would want to praise a girl if she's able to keep it. Its pride and honor to celebrate. But nowadays, people only look at the person and the love they have.

[Zack14]

virginity before marriage? Previously, yes it is a big issue for men and women. Previously men and women prefer to be their partner is a virgin. This is more issues with men. but right now? it's no big deal in the same sex. now ? the more dominant the heart is in love. as long as they like they do not think they're still virgin or not. Maybe it's a bonus and they're lucky to have a virgin yet. but if they like and love them, then they will follow them more. love prevails over virginity.

[Sophia Audley]

I think it's still important. But, premarital sex is now a norm in this generation of ours.

[Bonskimo]

As long as i know... virginity never existed (generally in most teens) nowadays and if do so.... it will do slowly going to extinction. But yes for me about virginity before getting married.

[Maheysa]

Bagi saya keperawanan itu penting. Karena dari situlah komitmen seorang manusia khususnya muslim dalam menjalankan perintah yang dilarang dalam agamanya yaitu berhubungan seks di luar nikah. Namun, di zaman sekarang mahkota emas milik perempuan itu dipermainkan tidak sewajarnya. Baik dari posisi laki-laki maupun perempuannya. Mungkin karena kedua belah pihak tidak mampu menghormati segala aspek kebutuhan spritual dengan aspek biologi. Jadi, tinggal tergantung dari orangnya. Ingin mempertahankan kehormatan atau malah sebaliknya. Jika kita tinjau dari perspektif agama Islam.

[0k0l0g]

Personally, I do not think virginity before marriage is important. But then, who I am to say what is important in such a personal matter? I do not think there are any right or wrong answers here. I do wish that people have the freedom to choose for themselves how to lead their lives and whether waiting until marriage is the right approach. I can imagine, though, that some societies pressurise young men and women into particular "traditions" one way or the other. That's a shame.

[jahmes123]

To be honest it doesn't really matter to me if my partner is still a virgin or not before we get married .
Because for me if you truly loves your partner you would accept them no matter what they did in the past .
It is all part of their past as long as you know that they wouldn't cheat on you and you have faith in them then their is no reason for you to think about their virginity.

[zeref22]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Nope.. Nowadays most of the individuals are getting married in their mid 30s. A good part of the biological peak will be over by that time and it will be foolish to abstain from sex during your teens and 20s. I am not saying that you should be promiscuous and have sex with whomever you want. But there is no harm in having sex with someone with whom you are in a relationship.

i'll be honest, i made a mistake when i was young and lost my virginity. i regretted it immediately and haven't done it again since, i am now waiting until marriage. my boyfriend isn't a virgin but he understands that i want to wait. being a virgin isn't a major issue for me (it is a preference as they'll understand my feelings a bit better), as long as they understand that i don't want to be intimate until after we wed.

[janecho25]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Preserving VIRGINITY before marriage is still important even now a days.  Though most of people  may say they doesn't really minding about it.  

Because that's the best gift you can offer or give to your partner.  Even you  say "that virginity doesn't matter at all if you love him/her", offcourse in reality there is the best feeling when you find out that your partner preserves her/his virginity just to give it to you.

[Btcjoglyn]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

For some people yes, virginity really matters to them before getting married. But for me, I doesn't matter as long as the couple understand  and love each other. Some of the people think that it is there  forever and they give everything to but it doesn't work. So they end up there relationship.

[Danzu]

there is no right answer to that question. people prefer different partners. i think bigger problem is that now girls from 12-15 dont think seriously about it and they just lost their virginity too early.

[eann014]

It differs from which country you are because there's a lot of belief regarding in losing someone's virginity and different culture. But still its the important present to your husband if you are a conservative Christian here in the Philippines.

Not all girls are conservative now here in the Philippines. There are now a lot of young girls getting pregnant nowadays. Maybe we have wrong thinking about having a baby because some young girls that are getting pregnant at the young age are aborting their child which is wrong. That is not also a good decision because that is also considered as killing a person.

[nereidkeck3eh]

No, it’s not important at all and it also depends on your choice.

[Hube950]

It depends on some factord... Culture, religion and upbringing part of it. Whoever chooses to keep his/her virginty is choice shouldnt be a mandatory action. Times have changed.... people are not looking for virgins before they can marry

[fleecedamp]

It is not something that people should be worried about in today’s world.

[betchay22]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

In my own opinion,  yes. Virginity is important. That is one thing you can be proud of to your husband. If a man is searchng for a girl to marry,  look for a girl who fear the Lord and has an intimate relationship with God. Most probably they are the woman who obey the Lord and will not go into pre marital sex.

[Sithara007]

there is no right answer to that question. people prefer different partners. i think bigger problem is that now girls from 12-15 dont think seriously about it and they just lost their virginity too early.

Earlier, it was quite rare for the girls within the 12-15 age group to be promiscuous. But now the situation has changed, and smartphones are playing an important part in this transformation. Social media tools such as WhatsApp are making the kids more promiscuous.

[diegz]

Not an issue to me and would never be. I don't see any problem marrying a non virgin woman. What I would hate is when my partner would commit adultery while committed.

Ask yourself, didn't you think of having sex with someone else before? Then why think of virginity as an issue, most of the men are thinking the same when it comes to sex.