Because for women , the goal has been achieved ie , getting the man to put the ring on the finger. The chase is done. My experience?
I have seen my friends and neighbours get married and it happens to them.
For the guys , normally the women takes HALF of his assets. I'm sorry but if that doesn't make you want to swear and scream , then idk whats wrong with you.
Marriage is prostitution. Any rational male if reviewing marriage will see that it is not in his benefits but only the woman.
This happens because they don't know each other well enough. They get married while they're intoxicated, in love. When you're in this first stage you cannot think straight and you don't want to show your true nature. When your loved one wants something you agree without thinking. Let's go shopping - sure, let's buy a new car - sure, let's eat out- sure, leave work early - sure!
Then it's -let's go to my parents for Christmas -no let's go to my parents! -But I don't like your mother! -She doesn't like you too!