Blame Game in gambling

[kaya11]

Same is our stance on everything in life including gambling. We do whatever we like but we do not want our children to do the same things. If parents didn't gamble in the first place, there are fewer chances of their children doing the same.

Damn true, that is why as much as possible we show to them good sides and not the bad ones. This starts when they are little kids, they save memories and what comes to their mind at that age will be remembered for a lifetime. If your children sees you as a gambler, possibility is, they would also be gamblers in the future, so teach them not to be at the young age and the chances would be minimum. I know someone, a hard gambler and his parents are not. So another factor is the community where you raise your children, they could get the habit of gambling with friends and other people they mingle with. Really better to try being a strict parent and see what they up into.

[Rruchi man]

I would consider it a negligence on parents behalf as it was their first duty to keep an eye on their children.

You know some kids are really good at hiding their habits, they know their parents see them as innocent and play pretence to still be innocent even when they are now far from it. So we can't completely push blame the way of the parents. They failed in their role to be observant and keep close tabs on their child, but many others as well including the individual that took his life deserve equal portions of the the blame.

If your children sees you as a gambler, possibility is, they would also be gamblers in the future, so teach them not to be at the young age...

You can't be a gambler and just be teaching your child not to gamble. How is the child suppose to take you seriously if you don't give them critical reasons why it may not be safe for them. Children need reasons these days as they are far too exposed to just tell them not to gamble and they follow you blindly like before. l hope you understand.

[carlfebz2]

Same is our stance on everything in life including gambling. We do whatever we like but we do not want our children to do the same things. If parents didn't gamble in the first place, there are fewer chances of their children doing the same.

Damn true, that is why as much as possible we show to them good sides and not the bad ones. This starts when they are little kids, they save memories and what comes to their mind at that age will be remembered for a lifetime. If your children sees you as a gambler, possibility is, they would also be gamblers in the future, so teach them not to be at the young age and the chances would be minimum. I know someone, a hard gambler and his parents are not. So another factor is the community where you raise your children, they could get the habit of gambling with friends and other people they mingle with. Really better to try being a strict parent and see what they up into.

All matters on how you do guide them but showing them on what you are or on what you are doing is typically a strong influence which would really be result in most likely they would be following your same path.

Only a few would really able to realize up things that they should not do on what their parents are doing.It is a matter of realization and its better to make them realize when they are just still
young and its true that those things would really remain into their minds forever and wouldnt really be able to forget it.

[BitcoinAccepted]

Same is our stance on everything in life including gambling. We do whatever we like but we do not want our children to do the same things. If parents didn't gamble in the first place, there are fewer chances of their children doing the same.

Damn true, that is why as much as possible we show to them good sides and not the bad ones. This starts when they are little kids, they save memories and what comes to their mind at that age will be remembered for a lifetime. If your children sees you as a gambler, possibility is, they would also be gamblers in the future, so teach them not to be at the young age and the chances would be minimum. I know someone, a hard gambler and his parents are not. So another factor is the community where you raise your children, they could get the habit of gambling with friends and other people they mingle with. Really better to try being a strict parent and see what they up into.

All matters on how you do guide them but showing them on what you are or on what you are doing is typically a strong influence which would really be result in most likely they would be following your same path.

Only a few would really able to realize up things that they should not do on what their parents are doing.It is a matter of realization and its better to make them realize when they are just still
young and its true that those things would really remain into their minds forever and wouldnt really be able to forget it.

Parents can play a vital role in a child's environment. It might also be a good idea to discuss something like this. Sooner or later a child will come into contact with gambling, it does not always have to be online. It can also start in a real land-based casino. But I think it's easier on that. The environment is also determined by a group of friends. If there are a number of friends among them who gamble, then you have to be strong.

[DoublerHunter]

Same is our stance on everything in life including gambling. We do whatever we like but we do not want our children to do the same things. If parents didn't gamble in the first place, there are fewer chances of their children doing the same.

Damn true, that is why as much as possible we show to them good sides and not the bad ones. This starts when they are little kids, they save memories and what comes to their mind at that age will be remembered for a lifetime. If your children sees you as a gambler, possibility is, they would also be gamblers in the future, so teach them not to be at the young age and the chances would be minimum. I know someone, a hard gambler and his parents are not. So another factor is the community where you raise your children, they could get the habit of gambling with friends and other people they mingle with. Really better to try being a strict parent and see what they up into.

^ Both of you are definitely right, it starts with us as parents, we should raise them in a good manner and teach them not on the bad side, let us show them as a good model. If you are not a gambler of course they will not too. You can also control if you are not home about their internet activities like using phone that could be lead to gambling, in your internet router there is a parent control on the device which is you can set there when they will have an internet and it will automatically disconnected the device that they use in time of bed time to in time of studying.

[AmoreJaz]

Parents should accept full responsibility and don't blame external factors that caused this suicide. Parents have to keep control over activities of their children and check his mental health that can be hurt by addictive activities. Twitch gamblers are great example, governments don't want to ban gambling streams for obvious reasons but addicted gamblers get burnt in this trap almost new victim every day. Hopefully, no more suicide news on media related to gambling addiction.

like it or not, parents have great responsibility in molding their kids. discipline starts from home. there are reasons why kids are going into vices and the parents should understand why their kids are behaving that way. they need to address the situation as early as they can. because the truth is, you can't blame it to someone else, like friends or teachers. because it is your responsibility to guide your kids to the right path. no one else will provide unconditional support to your kids but you, as parents.

[blockman]

Parents can play a vital role in a child's environment. It might also be a good idea to discuss something like this. Sooner or later a child will come into contact with gambling, it does not always have to be online. It can also start in a real land-based casino. But I think it's easier on that. The environment is also determined by a group of friends. If there are a number of friends among them who gamble, then you have to be strong.

Not just 'can' but they really play an important role in the growth of their children. They are the parents and they are the ones that are active in the development of their children.
As long as those children are not on the right age, they'll still remain to be children and they cannot enter the premises of the casino. Not unless they've been planning it all along that when they grow up, it's one of their goals to enter the physical casinos.

[harizen]

Even how strict the parents are or put pressure on their child to limit a specific activity, there's no way someone can avoid encountering any related stuff involving gambling. That's already part of society and gambling is everywhere. At an age, roughly 16-year old isn't closely followed now by their parents on their every day's doing. With just a conversation with their friends, there's a chance that gambling might be discussed. Or maybe during their school. And with technology today, everything is on the internet already.

Instead of blaming game, if parents saw their child is acting strangely, have a good talk with them. That's being responsible.

Twitch gamblers are great example, governments don't want to ban gambling streams for obvious reasons but addicted gamblers get burnt in this trap almost new victim every day. Hopefully, no more suicide news on media related to gambling addiction.

That doesn't make sense. Who is the one that needs to adjust? Them or us?

[TelolettOm]

Heartbroken parents say Hull teacher was victim of 'predatory' gambling industry. Whom to blame for this sad incident ?

First of all, what is the regulation about gambling in the country? COmmonly, it may be different for eachcountry to allow kids to play gambling i=at certain age.
16YO is still a child in my country and still under the control of parent responsibility, but maybe it is different in the other country.
Sometimes, we cannot control our children 24 hours per day. But at least, we should know what they are doing commonly, especially in their own room or even outside. Because sometimes, they are expert in hiding their secret activities when we are not there.
And about his case, a kid that is addicted to gambling, we should also see from several points of view.
If they are still under the control of parents or responsible from the parents of course, here, parents are the one who is responsible for what happened to the kids. We cannot blame others.
But if the child is considered as a teen with their own responsibility, may be it will also depend on their own responsibility, but I think that parent must also know about this.
The most impriatnt thing is not for blaming each other, ut trying to get the problme solving and solution of the problme, AN dmake this as anevalutaion for all parties.

[paxmao]

It is a complex issue because is a matter of individual choice. It is not as much as the problem being excessive gambling as it is the personality of some people that are more prone to get into a number of situations because they have issues with control. And it can be violence, it can be drugs or anything, it is just that their brain is wired that way and there is not that much anyone can do.

[kawetsriyanto]

I would consider it a negligence on parents behalf as it was their first duty to keep an eye on their children.

Agree. Don't blame the gambling companies, gambling companies didn't force anyone to gamble. It is the parents' responsibility to monitor and educate their children to stay away from dangerous things for children. Most gambling companies only allow mature people to gamble, which means minimizing the addictive cases and making sure the gamblers have sufficient knowledge + self-control. So, the gambling companies actually have done a good regulation in filtering out decent gamblers.

[Rengga Jati]

It is a complex issue because is a matter of individual choice. It is not as much as the problem being excessive gambling as it is the personality of some people that are more prone to get into a number of situations because they have issues with control. And it can be violence, it can be drugs or anything, it is just that their brain is wired that way and there is not that much anyone can do.

Yes, it is complex, it is not only seen from one side mistake that is the parents. But we must consider the early condition why the child is interested in gambling, from where it is, and how he can play gambling. This needs special attention from the parents and also other parties such as the medical treatment are necessary. N need to blame each other. We need to find the solution from the root.
Because, if we only blame the parents because of their responsibility of their own children, we will also not know exactly how parents have tried the efforts to control the children. And we cannot also blame the children because they are playing with joy. Moreover the gambling companies, may give certain advertisements where children can also access it, so they are interested to play.
As parents, we must not also blame others to be responsible. this is complex, this is the responsible also from the parents that should know the exact condition of their children. This needs some evaluation why the chlder ins attracted in gambling and being addicted to gambling. Moroever to kids, this may be difficult to recover, but needs supports from every elemnt, the parents, the kid himslef, and all parties related.

[ajochems]

Not we blame the gambling simply.No one force you to do gambling at any concerns.Doing gambling at your own risk.It's just a luckbased game.Sometimes it bases on a statics.When people with good gambling statics, they can easily win the game.But losing at the game is also a part of it.In some gambling games.Their was a good static and you ca easily learn it. Once you learn it, all the betting is all your success.

[Saisher]

Not we blame the gambling simply.No one force you to do gambling at any concerns.Doing gambling at your own risk.It's just a luckbased game.Sometimes it bases on a statics.When people with good gambling statics, they can easily win the game.But losing at the game is also a part of it.In some gambling games.Their was a good static and you ca easily learn it. Once you learn it, all the betting is all your success.

Casinos have done their part issuing warning to those who signed up and play, they have strong warnings against those who exceed time and pour a lot of money into their casinos, they even had features to protect their players but unfortunately, players will always find a way to ignore and get past those features, in the end, if they suffer from losses they will blame the casinos when everything is pointing to their own action.

[yazher]

Casinos have done their part issuing warning to those who signed up and play, they have strong warnings against those who exceed time and pour a lot of money into their casinos, they even had features to protect their players but unfortunately, players will always find a way to ignore and get past those features, in the end, if they suffer from losses they will blame the casinos when everything is pointing to their own action.

This happened before when a player who gets addicted and lost everything got revenge on the casino he was playing and bring a gun with him shooting anyone he sees there and finally he commits suicide. This is why the casinos nowadays are taking care of their players by issuing those warnings and precautions to avoid such deadly incidents in the future but most players ignored those precautions and proceed to play even though the money is saved for something else.

[traderethereum]

Not we blame the gambling simply.No one force you to do gambling at any concerns.Doing gambling at your own risk.It's just a luckbased game.Sometimes it bases on a statics.When people with good gambling statics, they can easily win the game.But losing at the game is also a part of it.In some gambling games.Their was a good static and you ca easily learn it. Once you learn it, all the betting is all your success.

Casinos have done their part issuing warning to those who signed up and play, they have strong warnings against those who exceed time and pour a lot of money into their casinos, they even had features to protect their players but unfortunately, players will always find a way to ignore and get past those features, in the end, if they suffer from losses they will blame the casinos when everything is pointing to their own action.

That's because players forget the time they have spent playing gambling so subconsciously, they spend more money on gambling.
If players have a good level of control, they will not be affected by anything that happens to them because they know that winning and losing is normal in gambling.
They will stop immediately if they see their playing time is over but that only happens to some players.
Casinos have done their job of warning players.
Now, it is up to the players whether they want to protect themselves from any consequences that will arise from gambling or continue to gamble regardless of the consequences.

[ralle14]

It is a complex issue because is a matter of individual choice. It is not as much as the problem being excessive gambling as it is the personality of some people that are more prone to get into a number of situations because they have issues with control. And it can be violence, it can be drugs or anything, it is just that their brain is wired that way and there is not that much anyone can do.

Yup, i'm not sure if it was posted here in the gambling discussion but I remember stumbling upon a thread back then that mentioned how most gamblers are vulnerable to excessive gambling since they tend to chase losses or usually look at recovering losses as an objective instead of moving on with it.

Their was a good static and you ca easily learn it. Once you learn it, all the betting is all your success.

There are things that you can quickly learn but applying them is difficult since there are times when you make small mistakes that could lead to bigger ones.

[zidanw]

This happened before when a player who gets addicted and lost everything got revenge on the casino he was playing and bring a gun with him shooting anyone he sees there and finally he commits suicide. This is why the casinos nowadays are taking care of their players by issuing those warnings and precautions to avoid such deadly incidents in the future but most players ignored those precautions and proceed to play even though the money is saved for something else.

It is actually not the casinos problem but the person itself however the casinos can prevent it if they are going to be a little strict in regards with their players but due to competitions like here in the forum gambling sites that is not strict is more favorable than those who implement rules in regards with KYC. It is just a game and a leisure but if we don't managed to control our self and did not become a responsible gambler I don't think this will be the last time that this kind of incident will happen.

[Maestro75]

I would consider it a negligence on parents behalf as it was their first duty to keep an eye on their children.

Because the story ended sadly everyone is looking for who to blame. If the deceased gambler had hit a jackpot we would have called him a gem or clever. Gambling is like smoking or drinking or humanising, people are warned of the dangers in them but they do not pay heed to warnings. Once they get addicted, staying off it or stopping it becomes very hard. I do not blame anyone but the gambler himself. He knew what he was doing and allowed it to consume him, not his parents.

[coin-investor]

Not we blame the gambling simply.No one force you to do gambling at any concerns.Doing gambling at your own risk.It's just a luckbased game.Sometimes it bases on a statics.When people with good gambling statics, they can easily win the game.But losing at the game is also a part of it.In some gambling games.Their was a good static and you ca easily learn it. Once you learn it, all the betting is all your success.

Casinos have done their part issuing warning to those who signed up and play, they have strong warnings against those who exceed time and pour a lot of money into their casinos, they even had features to protect their players but unfortunately, players will always find a way to ignore and get past those features, in the end, if they suffer from losses they will blame the casinos when everything is pointing to their own action.

That's because players forget the time they have spent playing gambling so subconsciously, they spend more money on gambling.
If players have a good level of control, they will not be affected by anything that happens to them because they know that winning and losing is normal in gambling.
They will stop immediately if they see their playing time is over but that only happens to some players.
Casinos have done their job of warning players.
Now, it is up to the players whether they want to protect themselves from any consequences that will arise from gambling or continue to gamble regardless of the consequences.

It's not really on the rules but on the character of the player, the warnings are useless unless you have good control over how you play, the warnings and the rules are there because it needs to be there for government and regulation compliance if you are a responsible with good character, and you have a strong character you can take that character to casinos and you will come out safe.