gambling winner identity

[BlackRexuz]

A very good action in my opinion as a father, who doesn't want his family to know that his father won the jackpot from several games, maybe this person doesn't want his son to follow in his father's footsteps, as a gambler or lottery enthusiast, because it will damage the future of his children or also his wife, in my opinion that is what is natural as the head of the household who is obliged to protect against crime after they get a very big jackpot..

[Cookdata]

This isn't fair to the man's family. I really don't know the financial background if the man's family before the winning but $30 million is a whole lot of money not to make someone lazy and if thinking your family will be lazy because of the money then that isn't reasonable enough.
I would have accepted an excuse that the money might make his family go wide not lazy because you don't expect a family who might not have had a good financial record before now and maybe struggling to make ends before the win to still work extremely hard after winning such amount of money.
$30 million when converted to my local currency is a whole lot of money and also a life and destiny changing amount of money and certainly I wouldn't have to see my family having to work so hard after such a huge winning.

Do you know what I hate about people and money that s not theirs? Entitlement! Don't feel entitled to people's money, if they win an amount and they give you a share, they did it for some reason, don't feel you have a part in people's life because you are with them as long as you didn't contribute ideas or some effort when they had nothing or in their struggling stage and even if you were there, if they don't give you a share, you have no right to feel entitled because you have no legal documents to supports your claim.

I believe everyone should learn to achieve wealth regardless of anybody's place in the family. It was his decision to remove the family from the calculations, either to protect them or to ensure they wouldn't feel they would want to quit their previous existence after he won a jackpot.

[darewaller]

We may think it is unfair to the man's family, but maybe there is some truth in his thoughts. He may want to teach his family to keep trying even though they already have a lot of money and do nothing but enjoy their winnings. Hopefully, he can tell his family about his big win so they can celebrate it and change his life for good. He can also advise his family not to waste his winnings and try to prepare better for his future. The money was very much and could support the man's family well, but if not used properly, it would not give any results.

To some rich families, they also teach their kids to work hard and to not totally depend on their parents. This is a great because kids will learn how to value money and this will also improve their life more evenly, making them more rich.

If we are lazy and we will only spend, no matter how big is that money it will always be drained out. What will happen to them after that? Winning in lottery is not easy and it can only happen once in a blue moon or one in our lifetime so it's important that we must value the money that came through it. It will also be a good idea to use it in setting up a business to grow it more and let your family involved in it.

[ethereumhunter]

We may think it is unfair to the man's family, but maybe there is some truth in his thoughts. He may want to teach his family to keep trying even though they already have a lot of money and do nothing but enjoy their winnings. Hopefully, he can tell his family about his big win so they can celebrate it and change his life for good.

lying is wrong, it doesn't matter if people in the family are people but, they are people who would spend all the money, they are people who could rob him or even kill him for money, he cannot lie to them, that is wrong. This is the point I disagree with his attitude. the instant he lies then he is teaching his family members to lie, if his family members won the money and didn't tell him anything? would he be happy the day he found out? this is another point. I believe this guy just doesn't like his family, he wanted to eat his money alone because he has the bad thought that he shouldn't spend his money with his family

If he uses his money for himself without thinking about his family, that is a big mistake, especially not thinking about his child's future. He shouldn't have to lie to his family because that can teach his son to lie too. But I also feel he doesn't like his family to the point of not telling the truth that he has won a lot of money. After all, family is something we all have and he grows old with them unless he plans to marry another woman.

He can also advise his family not to waste his winnings and try to prepare better for his future. The money was very much and could support the man's family well, but if not used properly, it would not give any results.

if he was an honest person he could have done that, because the money is in his bank account so how the hell would the family spend so much if he controls all the money himself? and that makes no sense and leads me to think that this guy doesn't like his family and that this was his opportunity to leave the family, he wanted the family to live badly because then they would get tired and leave, this trick has been played by many bad people and when they are discovered they always use arguments that they were hiding to protect the family because they would spend all the money, it's all a lie

If he wanted to do so, he had to remember that what he did now could come back to him in the future and he could suffer even worse consequences. The responsibility of a husband is to look after his family and share everything with his family. But we can't do anything about it and just hope that he doesn't do that and tells his family the truth. Who knows, he and his family can plan better for their family so that his life and that of his family can be even better. But indeed, humans can act like that and will not think about their families.

We may think it is unfair to the man's family, but maybe there is some truth in his thoughts. He may want to teach his family to keep trying even though they already have a lot of money and do nothing but enjoy their winnings. Hopefully, he can tell his family about his big win so they can celebrate it and change his life for good. He can also advise his family not to waste his winnings and try to prepare better for his future. The money was very much and could support the man's family well, but if not used properly, it would not give any results.

To some rich families, they also teach their kids to work hard and to not totally depend on their parents. This is a great because kids will learn how to value money and this will also improve their life more evenly, making them more rich.

If we are lazy and we will only spend, no matter how big is that money it will always be drained out. What will happen to them after that? Winning in lottery is not easy and it can only happen once in a blue moon or one in our lifetime so it's important that we must value the money that came through it. It will also be a good idea to use it in setting up a business to grow it more and let your family involved in it.

Winning the lottery can certainly change a person's life and he can buy all necessities in his life but if he doesn't think about doing the best for his family and just spends all his money, he won't be able to change his life. But sometimes we will get greedy by buying a lot of things when we have a lot of money and won't think about what tomorrow is sure to happen.

[Tumanggor]

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To some rich families, they also teach their kids to work hard and to not totally depend on their parents. This is a great because kids will learn how to value money and this will also improve their life more evenly, making them more rich.

If we are lazy and we will only spend, no matter how big is that money it will always be drained out. What will happen to them after that? Winning in lottery is not easy and it can only happen once in a blue moon or one in our lifetime so it's important that we must value the money that came through it. It will also be a good idea to use it in setting up a business to grow it more and let your family involved in it.

the boss where I work currently educates his children very hard and firmly, his three children are taught to work hard and work together in company operations, they are never spoiled by my boss because my boss built the company from scratch

then the lottery winner only gives reasons that don't make sense, if he really loves his child, he will definitely send his child to the best, most expensive place, besides that he will definitely make a business for his wife to manage, then the reason is to hide the winnings so his family doesn't get lazy sounds fake to me

[Maestro75]

As for why he hid his winnings from his family, it could be that he had evil intentions with the money he got,

It could also be that he has extravagant wife and children and did not want them to waste his lucky fortune. The lucky gambler does not want to return to days of want and lack. If am the gambler I will also behave the same way and hide my identity. Mine will not be from my family but for security reasons from outsiders. People are ready to kill you if they know fortune smiled on you.

[Jemzx00]

We may think it is unfair to the man's family, but maybe there is some truth in his thoughts. He may want to teach his family to keep trying even though they already have a lot of money and do nothing but enjoy their winnings. Hopefully, he can tell his family about his big win so they can celebrate it and change his life for good. He can also advise his family not to waste his winnings and try to prepare better for his future. The money was very much and could support the man's family well, but if not used properly, it would not give any results.

To some rich families, they also teach their kids to work hard and to not totally depend on their parents. This is a great because kids will learn how to value money and this will also improve their life more evenly, making them more rich.

If we are lazy and we will only spend, no matter how big is that money it will always be drained out. What will happen to them after that? Winning in lottery is not easy and it can only happen once in a blue moon or one in our lifetime so it's important that we must value the money that came through it. It will also be a good idea to use it in setting up a business to grow it more and let your family involved in it.

It is great to teach your family a lesson especially your children, however, being secretive about your winnings especially this kind of amount to your own family isn't the correct action to do so. You can still teach them to be the same person and work hard without being secretive about your winnings. Just like what you've said, "rich" families teach their children to work hard and not be dependent on them.

I might understand if that person would like to plan or budget first his winnings such as investments, business, home, or even cars before telling his family.  Just to make sure that the money will not be wasted and instantly banished after a while which commonly happens to lottery winners. However, if it is not the case, I don't think that he is on the right side and probably plans something just for himself.

[serjent05]

A very good action in my opinion as a father, who doesn't want his family to know that his father won the jackpot from several games, maybe this person doesn't want his son to follow in his father's footsteps,

I don't think the father don't want his son to follow his footstep of being a gambler.  If he doesn't want  his son to follow his footstep as a gambler then he must quit gambling and set himself as an example.

as a gambler or lottery enthusiast, because it will damage the future of his children or also his wife, in my opinion that is what is natural as the head of the household who is obliged to protect against crime after they get a very big jackpot..

This is nonsense, the father is already engaged in gambling, and not hiding his wealth from his son and wife will destroy their lives?  I do not think the father is protecting his family from crime by keeping his winnings a secret.  That is a twisted reasoning just to prove the father's action of not informing his family about the wealth that they should enjoy.  Not informing them means the father intention is to keep the winnings by himself.

It is great to teach your family a lesson especially your children, however, being secretive about your winnings especially this kind of amount to your own family isn't the correct action to do so. You can still teach them to be the same person and work hard without being secretive about your winnings. Just like what you've said, "rich" families teach their children to work hard and not be dependent on them.

I highly agree a husband must not keep a secret from his wife.  They are couples and considered as one.  The family should enjoy the blessing the father received.  And he can do guidance to his family without keeping his wealth a secret.  As a matter of fact, the father will have more authority over his family because he is the person who provides great wealth and easy lives to his family.

I might understand if that person would like to plan or budget first his winnings such as investments, business, home, or even cars before telling his family.  Just to make sure that the money will not be wasted and instantly banished after a while which commonly happens to lottery winners. However, if it is not the case, I don't think that he is on the right side and probably plans something just for himself.

Same suspicion here.  I think the father wanted to solo spend his winnings.  Probably to sponsor his friend and enjoy his vices.  Who know maybe this guy has already a mistress whom he wanted to share his new found wealth.

[wxa7115]

It is great to teach your family a lesson especially your children, however, being secretive about your winnings especially this kind of amount to your own family isn't the correct action to do so. You can still teach them to be the same person and work hard without being secretive about your winnings. Just like what you've said, "rich" families teach their children to work hard and not be dependent on them.

I might understand if that person would like to plan or budget first his winnings such as investments, business, home, or even cars before telling his family.  Just to make sure that the money will not be wasted and instantly banished after a while which commonly happens to lottery winners. However, if it is not the case, I don't think that he is on the right side and probably plans something just for himself.

His intention is great as I doubt there is anyone that wants to see their family spoiled due to the sudden wealth, however the way he has chosen to try to do this is mistaken.

Now his fears are not unfounded as there are many lottery winners which at the end wish such wealth did not came their way, as they lose everything just a few years down the line or there are family tragedies caused by the money, but since he is aware of those effects it would be easier to try to remind his family about them and teach them how to use that money responsibly, but by hiding his wealth he is risking they will find out one day and then he will lose his family anyway.

[Chato1977]

As for why he hid his winnings from his family, it could be that he had evil intentions with the money he got,

It could also be that he has extravagant wife and children and did not want them to waste his lucky fortune. The lucky gambler does not want to return to days of want and lack. If am the gambler I will also behave the same way and hide my identity. Mine will not be from my family but for security reasons from outsiders. People are ready to kill you if they know fortune smiled on you.

maybe this is the big reason because if it is what he stated in the post? I think that is exaggerating reaction to hide like that.
and besides why need to be broadcasted if you win? in lottery they try to hide each the winner completely for security purposes.
but giving all these? if I am lucky enough to win like this? i will let my family know the winnings but will teach them how to save the funds and with complete terms.

[Crypt0Gore]

I think someone else have created a topic about this before 🤔

A man understands his family more than anyone, if he said that they will become lazy then he is saying the truth, you as a husband should know what your child and wife is capable of when it comes to money.

I won't blame this man, this is a very good move.

[Maestro75]

A man understands his family more than anyone, if he said that they will become lazy then he is saying the truth, you as a husband should know what your child and wife is capable of when it comes to money.

I won't blame this man, this is a very good move.

Thank you. Like I said before I would do the same thing also. You do not want to be careless with your jackpot when you know the implications of wasting it. Poverty is not an experience anyone wants to have again once you escaped it the first time. We have cases of families suddenly turning lazy and wasteful when they suddenly become rich and that is what the lucky gambler fears happening to his family.

[Slow death]

an interesting fact that has been happening in my country, for a long time, whenever someone won the lottery prize, they showed that person's face, there was no problem and that person received his prize and there was no risk to his life, people did not have a problem talking about playing the lottery, but with the increase in kidnappings in recent times and murders now when the prize is a lot of money, when someone wins a lot of money, that person doesn't show his face and they don't even say the person's name, which means that lottery organizers do not want to risk the lives of winners

[rahmad2nd]

an interesting fact that has been happening in my country, for a long time, whenever someone won the lottery prize, they showed that person's face, there was no problem and that person received his prize and there was no risk to his life, people did not have a problem talking about playing the lottery, but with the increase in kidnappings in recent times and murders now when the prize is a lot of money, when someone wins a lot of money, that person doesn't show his face and they don't even say the person's name, which means that lottery organizers do not want to risk the lives of winners

And that is a terrible thing if what you say is true. I don't know which country you are from. however, related to what you said. I can't imagine, how the kidnapping happened and the extreme one is disappearing someone, in this case for the lottery winner.  and if we refer to the title of this thread, as long as the lottery draw platform doesn't mind when a winner of the lottery wants to keep their identity secret. it is perfectly legal, if not against the license and against the rules they have as a lottery draw platform.

Even so, on the contrary there will be various questions from fans of this lottery draw. is the win real, or just a setting from the lottery platform. and in my opinion, there will always be pros and cons regarding keeping the privacy of the lottery winner a secret. note : related to criminal cases that occurred in your country, in this case the lottery winner. authorities such as the police should be able to deal with things like this for the comfort and safety of the community.

[348Judah]

A very good action in my opinion as a father, who doesn't want his family to know that his father won the jackpot from several games, maybe this person doesn't want his son to follow in his father's footsteps, as a gambler or lottery enthusiast, because it will damage the future of his children or also his wife, in my opinion that is what is natural as the head of the household who is obliged to protect against crime after they get a very big jackpot..

Let's make things applicable in it appropriate manners, gamblers privacy is very important especially when it comes to revealing identity to the public, but what is not good is intransparency to the family, why should a gambler hide gambling frombhis family since that's what he does either for a living or not, that means he can as well go ahead hiding other important things away from the family, let's be real to ourselves and others and stop hiding under a vail espec to where we belong, family first no matter what, being a gambler does not mean being irresponsible.

[AicecreaME]

an interesting fact that has been happening in my country, for a long time, whenever someone won the lottery prize, they showed that person's face, there was no problem and that person received his prize and there was no risk to his life, people did not have a problem talking about playing the lottery, but with the increase in kidnappings in recent times and murders now when the prize is a lot of money, when someone wins a lot of money, that person doesn't show his face and they don't even say the person's name, which means that lottery organizers do not want to risk the lives of winners

Way back, this was really rampant in winning the lottery. People were not afraid of showing their faces to the national television because criminal activities and its rate were really low back then. Illegal activities that involve great risk toward someone that were filed were only few. Perhaps the way of living before is still attainable and manageable compared to today wherein people have to resort to doing bad stuff just to survive and put food on their mouths.

Nowadays, you can really see the transition and changes from how they do things. Today, people are more wary of their actions. Most people are becoming self-conscious and are now prioritizing their privacy over anything else because of security reasons and having inner peace. In this modern time, you can barely see a lottery winner publicly announcing they have won. This is because anonymity is becoming more and more preferable. People will hide their identity to spare themselves from being vulnerable to those people who want to take advantage of them. Since money attracts unnecessary attention of the bad guys (robbers, murderers, and the likes) you would rather keep your mouth shut instead of bragging. In addition, to ensure that their winnings will not be recklessly given away to anyone who will borrow from them or ask help from them.

[CryptoYar]

The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

There can be three reasons for this in my personal opinion.
 
1) The thought crossed his mind that he and his family might be in danger if people know that he had won such a huge amount of money.

2) He would like to surprise them with a cheque of this huge amount when he returns home.

3) He used to gamble secretly and does not want to let his family know.

[flipme]

Someone who makes big money from gambling may want to hide his identity. This is a very natural right and a natural situation. We can all want to do this. The hero of the subject also used this right. Also, we may want to hide it not only from our spouse and children, but also from our more distant relatives and acquaintances, but he made a very funny image using a strange costume. He could try using a simpler method. I would not prefer to hide the money I have won from gambling or elsewhere. I would be honest with them about this because every lie we tell, regardless of the subject, damages our family ties. I believe we must continue to act honestly to have healthy relationships. Of course, I respect other people's choices.

[Distinctin]

As for why he hid his winnings from his family, it could be that he had evil intentions with the money he got,

It could also be that he has extravagant wife and children and did not want them to waste his lucky fortune. The lucky gambler does not want to return to days of want and lack. If am the gambler I will also behave the same way and hide my identity. Mine will not be from my family but for security reasons from outsiders. People are ready to kill you if they know fortune smiled on you.

It’s definitely the best thing to do to hide your real identity but only for those big scammers waiting in the corner, and not from your own family. Regardless if the wife and child are extravagant or not, but as a husband and a father to his child, he should be honest to them especially in big matters like this. Money is very important to ensure the bright future of his own family, at least he should have thought of that before giving them all.

[gagux123]

I was a little thoughtful when I saw this photo, but in my humble opinion, I found this "tactic" to not be recognized interesting lol
I believe that in a way, if a certain person wins a reasonable amount in an award, he may have the right to preserve his image. (it's up to the winner whether or not to show their image) Of course, this is just my opinion regarding of this topic!