gambling winner identity

[Vaskiy]

As for why he hid his winnings from his family, it could be that he had evil intentions with the money he got,

It could also be that he has extravagant wife and children and did not want them to waste his lucky fortune. The lucky gambler does not want to return to days of want and lack. If am the gambler I will also behave the same way and hide my identity. Mine will not be from my family but for security reasons from outsiders. People are ready to kill you if they know fortune smiled on you.

It’s definitely the best thing to do to hide your real identity but only for those big scammers waiting in the corner, and not from your own family. Regardless if the wife and child are extravagant or not, but as a husband and a father to his child, he should be honest to them especially in big matters like this. Money is very important to ensure the bright future of his own family, at least he should have thought of that before giving them all.

Hiding the identity will safeguard the winners from the scammers and hackers that were focusing on the winning amount. As mentioned money is important and for that reason we should share the winning with family members. Because, when we keep our winning securely without the knowledge of family members sometimes we might land into wrong investment/spending.

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[qwertyup23]

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The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??

Well, given that he has a family already, then his obligation must be centered around providing for his family. The fact that he wore a disguise and reasoned  that his wife/children may get his money speak on his overall lifestyle- but maybe there are reasons more than meets the eye in this situation.

Remember that Chinese people are notorious for their money tactics. They love businesses and money-making schemes where they are well-known around the globe for their thirst for money. Maybe this father has to discipline his family in order not to fall from the greediness on resources. Though the reasoning he provided is shallow, I still believe that he has other justifiable reasons for doing so.

[shinratensei_]

A very good action in my opinion as a father, who doesn't want his family to know that his father won the jackpot from several games, maybe this person doesn't want his son to follow in his father's footsteps, as a gambler or lottery enthusiast, because it will damage the future of his children or also his wife, in my opinion that is what is natural as the head of the household who is obliged to protect against crime after they get a very big jackpot..

His reason was quite clear being explained in the thread. He just wanna make his family will not become lazy as you can imagine how lazy his child and wife when they hear if their father was getting a big jackpot from doing gambling. Im sure that his wife will be stopping to work and then she will be only using money that being won from lottery to make her live become even more luxurious than before. His reason was actually make sense at all.
That's why some people who have been winning the big amounts of money from lottery was hiding their identity due to the various reasons. They have their own personal reason and that's look good at all.

[QueenVera]

The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??

This man's reason is truly reasonable but not excusable enough because his family is supposed to be his first and utmost priority as well. His family deserves to have all tye the good thingsife has to offer and I don't also know why he feels his family might be lazy but whatever his reasons are, they aren't justified and isn't acceptable to me.

$30 million dollars is a huge sum of money and rather than keeping the entire money away from his family, he should better still being out a portion and also educate his family harder just as OP suggested in his post and he should try as much as possible to get them engaged rather than just conclude conclude that his family might be lazy.

[piebeyb]

actually it's still a question mark that the man in the public photo doesn't mean the man won't tell his wife and child, it could be that he doesn't want his extended family to know or his friends so he closes himself to his victory, if I was in his position I would do the same thing the same and only tell my wife and children so they can know the money I have but still teach them to be thrifty and not to waste money so as not to stand out from the people around me 

[Lida93]

The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??

I strongly believe this very man must have a good reason to have taken up such decision of anonymity even up to his family members, who knows, maybe he has children that are not well behaved when it comes to money management and a wife that probably he must have tried her with financial responsibility at different intervals but couldn't do well at it.
It becomes so frustrating having family members that are not meticulous in money spending and it can make a person to decide to hide his or her financial income from them so they don't come tasking you now and then knowing that you actually have the money the are tasking you for.

Another is that maybe this very man must have had a budget for this money on a project he wants to use the money to execute and family members interference into it might hinder him from achieving it on time.
Even as this man must taken up such decision of anonymity I still think that he still assist his family with the money

[len01]

this is a good topic [Gambling house responisbilty to protect people data] and it should be mandatory for gambling houses to keep user privacy safe but there is something interesting that I saw in a tweet;


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The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??

the act of the man in costume when it was published was the right action for me.
How can someone be happy if it is publicly published and earns a lot of money? wouldn't that just make the criminals target him?
this man really has a wise way to protect himself and his family from the targets of criminals who know if he gets a lot of money from the lottery. $30 million is not a small amount of money.




I would reply, if that happened to me, I would do the same as that guy.
it's not about responsibility but it's about educating the family so they don't become lazy when they know their family members have a lot of money.
because out there are many wives and children who are lazy when a husband has a lot of money and only relies on money from his husband.

[Mauser]

I strongly believe this very man must have a good reason to have taken up such decision of anonymity even up to his family members, who knows, maybe he has children that are not well behaved when it comes to money management and a wife that probably he must have tried her with financial responsibility at different intervals but couldn't do well at it.
It becomes so frustrating having family members that are not meticulous in money spending and it can make a person to decide to hide his or her financial income from them so they don't come tasking you now and then knowing that you actually have the money the are tasking you for.

Another is that maybe this very man must have had a budget for this money on a project he wants to use the money to execute and family members interference into it might hinder him from achieving it on time.
Even as this man must taken up such decision of anonymity I still think that he still assist his family with the money

I agree with you, if you see that your children and wife are already struggling to be financial responsible with managing their own finances, then how is it going to be when they find out about the lottery win. Having access to large sums of money without doing anything can ruin every motivation to achieve something in life. His decision might have been morally wrong, but it's hard to. Judge without knowing his whole family situation. Winning big in a lottery only happens to very few lucky people, and the people who are doing well with their winnings we will probably never hear about it. What we hear about is the stories of lottery winners who manage to spend all their millions in a few years and are broke again. There are so many articles online about people who lived above their means and are poor now. In my opinion secrecy is everything when it comes to dealing with a big lottery win. Once the word gets out who won the millions, then all the people who you have known in life will come back. It becomes difficult to distinguish between real and fake friends. Can't blame someone to try and stay anonymous, even from our own family.

[ethereumhunter]

actually it's still a question mark that the man in the public photo doesn't mean the man won't tell his wife and child, it could be that he doesn't want his extended family to know or his friends so he closes himself to his victory, if I was in his position I would do the same thing the same and only tell my wife and children so they can know the money I have but still teach them to be thrifty and not to waste money so as not to stand out from the people around me 

By telling them about our victory, we have told the truth and must emphasize that we must continue to live as usual and not spend excessive money. We should live as usual and be able to save the winning money for our family life in the future than waste it now. But many winners feel rich compared to others and use the money to buy the things they want. This will make their family stand out from other people's families but everything has a limit and when that limit is almost gone or even gone, we won't be able to do it anymore.

[piebeyb]

actually it's still a question mark that the man in the public photo doesn't mean the man won't tell his wife and child, it could be that he doesn't want his extended family to know or his friends so he closes himself to his victory, if I was in his position I would do the same thing the same and only tell my wife and children so they can know the money I have but still teach them to be thrifty and not to waste money so as not to stand out from the people around me 

By telling them about our victory, we have told the truth and must emphasize that we must continue to live as usual and not spend excessive money. We should live as usual and be able to save the winning money for our family life in the future than waste it now. But many winners feel rich compared to others and use the money to buy the things they want. This will make their family stand out from other people's families but everything has a limit and when that limit is almost gone or even gone, we won't be able to do it anymore.

yes, everything depends on ourselves, if I win the lottery I will educate my children and wife to open a business and from there I can start a new life without people knowing I have a lot of money from winning the lottery and besides teaching my family to don't waste money on something unnecessary, everything goes back to how we educate our families