Gambler avoiding friends after a big win.

[Lida93]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

It would have been nice to know how much money is what that person won in terms of dollars as that will give us a clearer view about his reasons for avoiding his friends.

Because if that amount is high in terms of dollars, it is possible the reason he is avoiding them is that he does not want to listen to the loan requests of his friends, as he will have to reject them directly, probably putting an end to the friendship right there, or he will have to accept the request, and most likely he will never get his money back.

 
In same vein $1million is a big money to an average US citizen that's how 1million in any local currency would seem big to a citizen of that country to which that currency is designated irrespective of exchange rate difference in the international market.

 It doesn't have to be in dollars for it to worth his reasons for the avoidance.  Giving loans to family members or friends is a risk that any one would like to avoid because the ending part about getting back that loan in 10 out of 8 cases has never ended pleasantly for both parties.

For it's not difficult to get back a loan from strangers as you will be willing to apply every force necessary to getting it back without a feeling of sympathy for them but for family and friends sympathy and affinity usually gets in our way while trying to device forceful means to regain the loan from them.

[abel1337]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

That guy who won the money just showed his true self. Using his friend for his own convinience and abandoning them after the success. Money can be gone in an instant but true friendship last forever. I believe that true friends is more valuable than millions. Though not all has the same mindset as mine and we can't blame that friend because it might be his true nature. Luckily I don't have friends like that, in fact they helped me in making me join in their hussle which makes us all benificial with each other.

[Docnaster]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

It would have been nice to know how much money is what that person won in terms of dollars as that will give us a clearer view about his reasons for avoiding his friends.

Because if that amount is high in terms of dollars, it is possible the reason he is avoiding them is that he does not want to listen to the loan requests of his friends, as he will have to reject them directly, probably putting an end to the friendship right there, or he will have to accept the request, and most likely he will never get his money back.

 
In same vein $1million is a big money to an average US citizen that's how 1million in any local currency would seem big to a citizen of that country to which that currency is designated irrespective of exchange rate difference in the international market.

 It doesn't have to be in dollars for it to worth his reasons for the avoidance.  Giving loans to family members or friends is a risk that any one would like to avoid because the ending part about getting back that loan in 10 out of 8 cases has never ended pleasantly for both parties.

For it's not difficult to get back a loan from strangers as you will be willing to apply every force necessary to getting it back without a feeling of sympathy for them but for family and friends sympathy and affinity usually gets in our way while trying to device forceful means to regain the loan from them.

It is the avoidance of loan requests from family members and close friends that most gamblers does try to stay away from them whenever they win big and that I think is absolutely understandable judging by the fact that these requested loans aren't paid back in most cases and when they try to pay back, it always ends in big fights and quarrells.
It takes a lot of patience from gamblers before they can win big after several losses and that's why it is very important to wisely put to use any proceed they make from huge winnings . Allowing themselves to be accessed by family and friends after winning big increases the chances that the proceeds from the winnings are gonna be shared among friends and family instead of investing the proceeds.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

Yes, if it can cause problems then you better consider it carefully, none other than for the good of our friendship too. I am the same as you, I also tell the victory to one of my friends who is very close to me, who indeed we have the same thoughts and understand each other. The point is that before I tell about the victory, I will first look at the character of some people, if the possibility of unwanted things can happen, it is better for me to keep it a secret and use the money for my personal needs.

It would be even better if they don't know we gamble, so there is no need to tell them about your gambling experience, whether you win or lose from gambling, so you can enjoy it yourself.

For people whose friends already know that you gamble, and see the character in your friends is very bad when you get a win in gambling, it should indeed be a step that needs to be taken is not to tell it to your friends, it can be told but you should know what your friends will do when you get a win, whether your friends ask or borrow or something else, when you have the intention to tell your friends it should already be a consideration for yourself sir.

Yes, as I said above, it's better to hide it than to tell people or friends around, because of course at least there will be ugliness that they might talk about behind saying that we are one of the stingy friends. whether it's a misunderstanding or whatever the point is, there will definitely be ugliness in friendship because of problems that should not be a problem.

True, I also like to look first at the character of the friends around me, if indeed they are very good to me in any case then at least I will definitely leave a little money from the victory to give to him. Unless like you said, if they have a bad character and lack solidarity in friendship then I will definitely hide it, don't care about them, for sure I will behave well to people who are also good to me and know the sign of gratitude.

      -  I also get the point, on the other hand, somehow, because sometimes we have the mentality that we think that our friend's behavior is like that, so we prefer to avoid them. Now, in a situation like that, if I know that the friends I'm with are not really close to me, I would rather keep quiet and not make it obvious that I'm avoiding them.

And apart from that, I will tell them the value of the win first, and if I tell it for sure to someone who knows that I trust completely and who is considered family and important to me,

[Z390]

Everyone has their opinions about friends and families and believe me mine is very cruel, while growing up I changed too many friends because they betrayed me and I don't want the same to happen to me after forgiving them, they expected things we go back the way it was before but I moved away from them.

Money reveals the true self of people that's why we have to be careful with people around us, you won't know what they are capable of until it comes to money issues, I have learned a lot and I so much prefer to move alone right now compared to a few years back.

It's a shame we won't be able to know why this gambler decides to avoid his friends but some people are good at watching you very well, once they see some bad attitude in you they will wait for the perfect time to let go of you.

My opinion about this topic is that this gambler must have a good reason for doing this, maybe he never trusted his friends before but still decided to move around with them because he had nothing to lose but now that he has, he is better off alone.

[Blitzboy]

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They wont really be that so dumb if you do make those loan to be paid which would really be your main reasoning specially if the amount is big then it is really that safe to say that it would really be just more than enough for the said loan. You cant really blame them on the time that they would be saying that you are just simply avoiding them because you are afraid that they would really be asking some bonus or some money because you have won something significant. You cant really be able to avoid those kind of approaches considering that we are talking about money on here.
Reactions would really be that so common or be known and if you are someone who is selfish and totally dont consider out even giving some small amounts then its your choice. Its your
money then its just that your right that you will really be having choices whether you would be giving one or not.

One things for sure that on the time that you would really be making some approach again into your friends then you would really be that ignored just because
you have ignored them earlier. Not all friends would really be coming after for the money because there are ones who dont really care that much about on the money
you had won.

Large-scale borrowing has an unwritten code of ethics. Honoring the loan payback is crucial, but remembering human conduct in financial transactions is too. Emotional expectations accompany the financial transaction. If someone becomes wealthy and avoids their debts, lenders may feel deceived or used. This goes beyond debt settlement; it honors trust.

Like you said, how one manages their money winnings might affect their relationships. You have the right to allocate your money. However, ignoring former supporters might backfire. Relationships are mutual. If money changes a relationship, was it genuine? However, dont our behaviors, especially financial ones, indicate our true character?

[Viscore]

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will not blame anyone in that situation and if we think logically I appreciate the person efforts to avoid his friends after a big win because in my experience history when a friend finds out another friend has a lot of money and tries to borrow a large amount promises to return it but in In the end, they did not return the money and the two parties quarreled and broke off their friendship. so if that person avoids his friends to avoid this situation, I really appreciate it because he wants to maintain his friendship with other friends because money can break someone good relationship.

but if we think instantly we will think how bad that person is when it is difficult and happy they are always together but when they win they disappear and avoid other friends and should win big amounts at least give tips whatever the amount to the people closest to them to give them a feeling of gratitude for getting a big win but after all, it was a decision he had taken and as a friend he did not have to think badly.

For me, there’s no need to avoid your friends because you are just afraid that they will try to borrow you and won’t be able to return the money. Instead, face them and tell them the truth that you are also in need of that money so that they will also understand your point. At least, giving them some tips regardless of the amount will make them feel that they are not forgotten and are still important to you. If they are really your friends, they will understand you and won’t never criticize your decision.

[romero121]

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will not blame anyone in that situation and if we think logically I appreciate the person efforts to avoid his friends after a big win because in my experience history when a friend finds out another friend has a lot of money and tries to borrow a large amount promises to return it but in In the end, they did not return the money and the two parties quarreled and broke off their friendship. so if that person avoids his friends to avoid this situation, I really appreciate it because he wants to maintain his friendship with other friends because money can break someone good relationship.

but if we think instantly we will think how bad that person is when it is difficult and happy they are always together but when they win they disappear and avoid other friends and should win big amounts at least give tips whatever the amount to the people closest to them to give them a feeling of gratitude for getting a big win but after all, it was a decision he had taken and as a friend he did not have to think badly.

For me, there’s no need to avoid your friends because you are just afraid that they will try to borrow you and won’t be able to return the money. Instead, face them and tell them the truth that you are also in need of that money so that they will also understand your point. At least, giving them some tips regardless of the amount will make them feel that they are not forgotten and are still important to you. If they are really your friends, they will understand you and won’t never criticize your decision.

Just because we've won, we should not try to be away from the friends who had done good for us. Similar incidents can be seen all around, however it is the people's mind. If we see the winning of the person next to us to be our winning then there is no problem. Here most of us don't have such a mentality, when one had won our minds will start thinking, how can he/she can win. This mentality is really bad and serve to be the reason to make the friends break the relation.

[Westinhome]

Just because we've won, we should not try to be away from the friends who had done good for us. Similar incidents can be seen all around, however it is the people's mind. If we see the winning of the person next to us to be our winning then there is no problem. Here most of us don't have such a mentality, when one had won our minds will start thinking, how can he/she can win. This mentality is really bad and serve to be the reason to make the friends break the relation.

The gambler after the win should not stay away from the friends who did the good things for them.Because not all the friends are same,some of the friends are good.Some of them are bad by their character.So the gambler can stay away from the person who try to cheat their money after the win.But he can help the friends who stay with him during the hard times of their life.The good people won’t stay away from their good friends,because the money doesn’t affect their feelings.The gambler should not change his mentality after the big win from the gambling.He should keep their good heart after the big win and try to help the poor any needy from the winnning from the gambling.

[Spaceman1000$]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

I can think of only 3 reasons why that colleague would behave in this way.

1. He wants to stay low because he doesn't want many people to know about his winning. We know that lots of money brings unwanted attention and may be that's why he is keeping distance from everyone until he figures out what to do with this money.

2. He would be thinking that his colleagues would ask him for money and he doesn't want to give them any.

3. He might be busy enjoying his reward elsewhere.

 Funny enough, I see some reasons in your line of thought. But if it was his friend that won that money and not him, i believe he would be complaining of the Same thing if his friend is giving him this same attitude he currently dishing out. Money some times brings out some hidden characters in people, and the guy has shown to be that kind of person to his friends. There is nothing wrong in giving his friends some amount of money to share within themselves, at least to cheer them up for their friendship over the years, doing that wouldn't make him go broke.

[bittraffic]

Just because we've won, we should not try to be away from the friends who had done good for us. Similar incidents can be seen all around, however it is the people's mind. If we see the winning of the person next to us to be our winning then there is no problem. Here most of us don't have such a mentality, when one had won our minds will start thinking, how can he/she can win. This mentality is really bad and serve to be the reason to make the friends break the relation.

The gambler after the win should not stay away from the friends who did the good things for them.Because not all the friends are same,some of the friends are good.Some of them are bad by their character.So the gambler can stay away from the person who try to cheat their money after the win.But he can help the friends who stay with him during the hard times of their life.The good people won’t stay away from their good friends,because the money doesn’t affect their feelings.The gambler should not change his mentality after the big win from the gambling.He should keep their good heart after the big win and try to help the poor any needy from the winnning from the gambling.

Whatever his reason for staying away from his friends is his reason. I'm not sure how common this is but all the time, a Sudden Wealth Syndrome (SWS) always affects the being of a person. I think the money he won is not enough to share with his friends so he just avoids instead. Or maybe he just learned these 2 friends talked behind him.

I would probably offer beer to this friend if I were one of the two. Just so they can chat again. If they were friends surely they could laugh again at whatever they always talk about.

[Frankolala]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

I can think of only 3 reasons why that colleague would behave in this way.

1. He wants to stay low because he doesn't want many people to know about his winning. We know that lots of money brings unwanted attention and may be that's why he is keeping distance from everyone until he figures out what to do with this money.

2. He would be thinking that his colleagues would ask him for money and he doesn't want to give them any.

3. He might be busy enjoying his reward elsewhere.

 Funny enough, I see some reasons in your line of thought. But if it was his friend that won that money and not him, i believe he would be complaining of the Same thing if his friend is giving him this same attitude he currently dishing out. Money some times brings out some hidden characters in people, and the guy has shown to be that kind of person to his friends. There is nothing wrong in giving his friends some amount of money to share within themselves, at least to cheer them up for their friendship over the years, doing that wouldn't make him go broke.

Staying away from his friends, wouldn't increase the money, if he doesn't invest it, the money will still finish and when it finishes will he still be able to see those his abandoned friends as people that he can mingle with again..No.

Sometimes I wonder why some people allow money to control their thinking. Who knows if tomorrow one of those his friends will win a bigger amount of money than what he won, and would also treat him the way he treated them. I don't see any reason why we are to stay far from our friends when we are somebody but embrace them when we are nobody.

[Fortify]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Some people are just looking for that lucky break in order to get out of a destructive cycle and that sounds a lot like what's happened here. It depends how far a million goes in the local currency, but in most western countries that would symbolize a very hefty win and possibly enough to retire on if it was invested wisely. There may also be a hint of jealousy that comes in from certain friends, who might talk about it but would possibly do exactly the same thing. If someone wanted to leave gambling, or any addiction behind, then often that means cutting off people that you used to associate with in that arena. It's a shame when friendships like that break down and there is inevitably going to be some hurt feelings, but they'll move on.

[Cookdata]

My father always says and I quote, "when you become successful, your friend circle will shrink, and when your friends become successful, if you are not successful, you won't be their friend".
I have experienced this in real life, so now I know how the person who is avoiding their friends is feeling. You are a villain in other's stories, and someone else is a villain in your story. From both of their perspective, they are right but when you see from the opposite perspective they are both wrong.

If you accept that life is all about changes, you will worry less about some things, that's what you can not change about life, changes happen and you should likewise expect people to do the same. It's a normal thing you see people change their cycle when they unlocked a great financial level, they will likely want to change everything about them. You can't blame them for that, that's how life is, it occur everytime.

Now imagine this, you are friends with gamblers and you gamble together. So you know how they gamble. Now you have on a big amount of money by gambling. And those friends haven't won anything. When you have the money, people will come to you asking for money for no reason. Even if they have reason, if you don't give them money you are a bad person to them. On the other hand if you keep giving them money they will keep coming back. And being a gambler, it is hard to keep money in your hand if you are an addict.

So I don't blame the man who has won the prize and decided to avoid those who haven't won anything. But it also makes sense not to avoid them and ask before doing so. If he is ignoring them for no reason then that's bad. But it is his personal choice right? So who are we to judge?

I don't think a gambler should take that far, how much did they win that will warrant that kind of treatment. The money he won will finish at some point and when that happens, if he is the type that cannot mingle alone, he will be feeling lonely and will want to regroup with the same guys he left when he had a minor change with him.

I think the guy is only stingy type that thinks his friends are after his money that will finish one day. Only few people use gambling money for serious things, most likely pay bills and enjoy for some couple of days and then go back to how they are use to been broke. As long as he didn't win a jack pot of money, by the time the money finish, he will comr back to the street.

[Lanatsa]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

I can think of only 3 reasons why that colleague would behave in this way.

1. He wants to stay low because he doesn't want many people to know about his winning. We know that lots of money brings unwanted attention and may be that's why he is keeping distance from everyone until he figures out what to do with this money.

2. He would be thinking that his colleagues would ask him for money and he doesn't want to give them any.

3. He might be busy enjoying his reward elsewhere.

 Funny enough, I see some reasons in your line of thought. But if it was his friend that won that money and not him, i believe he would be complaining of the Same thing if his friend is giving him this same attitude he currently dishing out. Money some times brings out some hidden characters in people, and the guy has shown to be that kind of person to his friends. There is nothing wrong in giving his friends some amount of money to share within themselves, at least to cheer them up for their friendship over the years, doing that wouldn't make him go broke.

Staying away from his friends, wouldn't increase the money, if he doesn't invest it, the money will still finish and when it finishes will he still be able to see those his abandoned friends as people that he can mingle with again..No.

Sometimes I wonder why some people allow money to control their thinking. Who knows if tomorrow one of those his friends will win a bigger amount of money than what he won, and would also treat him the way he treated them. I don't see any reason why we are to stay far from our friends when we are somebody but embrace them when we are nobody.

Once you do leave and abandon those friends then it would really be final and there's no turning back but if you are lucky then there are really friends who are really that willing or ready to forgive you but of course this is something that cant be known until it would happen. Come to think that there's no such thing about permanent on this world and we do know on how relevant on having a friend is but its not shocking that for the sake of money then anyone could really changed up an instant and this is something not really that good to look at on which you are really that making yourself getting that controlled with the love of money or simply being greedy on which you are really that prepared or willing to surrender anything for the sake of it on which it isnt really that a good quality of a certain person.

Good thing if you do able to make those amounts to be able to make it big or something that could sustain you but we know that it wont really be that easy specially on investment or whatever business you would be making. Once you do able to fail then you would really be coming back into those basic things on which meeting up with friends and hanging out again? It wont really be that the same ever
again after you have abandoned them.This is why its never been that ideal on taking up such action specially when it comes to relationship because money cant really be able to
exchange or replace that loyalty and friendship.

[beerlover]

Avoiding a gambler friend after a big win doesn't look like a bad thing to me, the person who follows such aware of the outcomes if he tries to make a fortune with the money he won, so he probably settled to do other things than just gambling, probably clear the loan or thinking of investing them in the best possible way.

If you are on the receiving end, it may look like the person tore his mask mask but also think from the other perspective and come to a conclusion before judging anyone.

I agree with you if you didn't include the word " friend ". So for me, I also see it wrong. I can relate to this as I have friends like this who I won't see when they have something but they approach me if they have nothing. It is very annoying. They are lucky that I didn't confront their behaviors but I never let them abuse me anymore.

If the gambling friends are those people whom we only meet in the casino, and our places are far away from each other, they shouldn't feel bad and think their friend are avoiding them but it was only the gambling is the ones that he avoid. We don't know the reasons but he might be doing those examples you mentioned. There is still a chance for him to play again soon.

[Stable090]

That guy who won the money just showed his true self. Using his friend for his own convinience and abandoning them after the success. Money can be gone in an instant but true friendship last forever.

I always expect any behaviour from people, both friends and strangers, so I am not always surprised whenever things like this happen. Not everyone we call our friends is truly our friend, some of them are just pretending, and the easiest way to know someone’s true character is when they have money. Any of your friends who doesn’t change after being richer than you are the true people we should call friends, and I'm sure just a few percent of people won’t change after having money.
 
After winning, what the boy was supposed to do was just give his friends some money for them to take care of themselves, and I am sure if he has done that, then his friends wouldn’t even ask him for money, and they would maintain their friendship. But maybe he doesn’t want to share the money with any of his friends, and he knows that they will keep asking him for money if he continues to associating himself with them. That’s why he just decided to start avoiding them.
 
All I know is that if he finishes the money, then he will have nobody to meet, he has already chased away his friends, and I am sure they will never accept him back even if he goes back to them.

[khiholangkang]

It would be even better if they don't know we gamble, so there is no need to tell them about your gambling experience, whether you win or lose from gambling, so you can enjoy it yourself.

For people whose friends already know that you gamble, and see the character in your friends is very bad when you get a win in gambling, it should indeed be a step that needs to be taken is not to tell it to your friends, it can be told but you should know what your friends will do when you get a win, whether your friends ask or borrow or something else, when you have the intention to tell your friends it should already be a consideration for yourself sir.

Yes, as I said above, it's better to hide it than to tell people or friends around, because of course at least there will be ugliness that they might talk about behind saying that we are one of the stingy friends. whether it's a misunderstanding or whatever the point is, there will definitely be ugliness in friendship because of problems that should not be a problem.

True, I also like to look first at the character of the friends around me, if indeed they are very good to me in any case then at least I will definitely leave a little money from the victory to give to him. Unless like you said, if they have a bad character and lack solidarity in friendship then I will definitely hide it, don't care about them, for sure I will behave well to people who are also good to me and know the sign of gratitude.

      -  I also get the point, on the other hand, somehow, because sometimes we have the mentality that we think that our friend's behavior is like that, so we prefer to avoid them. Now, in a situation like that, if I know that the friends I'm with are not really close to me, I would rather keep quiet and not make it obvious that I'm avoiding them.

But sometimes there are also people who already know that their friends have such traits, instead do deliberately showing their victory, but when asked he does not give it, but what I observe their friendship is still ongoing and there is no quarrel or whatever happens to their relationship.

Instead, I think that people who are too close will be more courageous to show their attitude and behave like that to the winners, rather than distant people who can be skeptical of the victory we have gotten, psychologically the person who is the closest will associate it with feelings, which when a friend Near his request was not fulfilled, it would make a rebellion and feel disappointed to his friend who did not give what he asked. So it's better not to say it, even though it's your close friend, sir.

And apart from that, I will tell them the value of the win first, and if I tell it for sure to someone who knows that I trust completely and who is considered family and important to me,

It would be nice for you to not say the nominal winning you win, if you want to share though, share without having to answer specifically the nominal victory you get.

[ethereumhunter]

But sometimes there are also people who already know that their friends have such traits, instead do deliberately showing their victory, but when asked he does not give it, but what I observe their friendship is still ongoing and there is no quarrel or whatever happens to their relationship.

Instead, I think that people who are too close will be more courageous to show their attitude and behave like that to the winners, rather than distant people who can be skeptical of the victory we have gotten, psychologically the person who is the closest will associate it with feelings, which when a friend Near his request was not fulfilled, it would make a rebellion and feel disappointed to his friend who did not give what he asked. So it's better not to say it, even though it's your close friend, sir.

Yes, there are people like that and we also can't do anything because it all depends on each person. That means their friendship is not affected by anything and that is very rare for many people to experience.

These close people already know a person's temperament and character, so they won't feel anything if someone gets a big win and considers it normal. However, we cannot equate it with other people because the situation and conditions will differ, so we must understand it well. And if there is someone who wins a lot of money but instead deliberately distances himself from his friends, that is also up to them and his close friends may already understand why he did that.

[Outhue]

 I think this person did the right thing because if the money the one is very big it could make his dear friends to betray him, I believe the gambler is just scared for his life, there are too many betrayers happening now, and you can't even trust anyone when it's about money, the one you don't even expect to betray you will do it.

 It is also possible that this Gambler is a very stingy man maybe he get away from his friend to avoid giving them some part of the money there are some people who are like this they are hiding their real self because they don't have money and once they get access to some money that is where they will start avoiding people who was with them right from the beginning when they are nobody but all in all I don't want to judge this Gambler because it is unclear what really happened why they decide to make such decision.

 There are some people who keep some friends just because they don't want to be alone and there are some people who keep friends because those friends are genuinely good friend to them so let's not judge anybody you can be in the same position where has the friends you keep you cannot be trusted and there is a part in you that believe that you can't trust them so once you eat a money and they're aware that you eat that money you won't want to stay around such friends since you never trust them right from the beginning so I believe this story looks something like this but I'm not really sure.

Whatever the case might be, there is something we can learn from this story, do not trust people that you never trusted right from day one when you have access to some valuable things or money, they can be the end of you, and do not betray your good friend simply because you are now richer than they are.