Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

[decodx]

Oh boy, that's quite the loaded question! If the person I end up marrying ever asks me to give up gambling completely, they better have some truly amazing ideas lined up to fill that void.
A strong marriage is built on compromise, am I right?

If not it might just be easier to go find a new spouse! 

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[Sanugarid]

Of course, I love my wife more than gambling. Gambling really destroys relationships, especially if your partner doesn't want to, because if you insist, you'll always fight and it will affect your family, that's for sure.
I also know someone like this, his wife told him about his gambling that he should stop because it is not really good for them and they already have 4 children, but the man didn't listen and continued gambling until he ran out of money money he holds and their car was staked because he wanted to make up for the loss. They never broke up or separated, but there was a big wound in their relationship and his children resented him.
If your partner doesn't want you to gamble, just avoid it, there are other hobbies to do or other things to focus on.

[edmundduke]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

If my wife found it to be an issue, sure, i wouldnt even think twice about it. I take gambling as entertainment that i indulge in once in a while, im sure i would find something else to do

[Oshosondy]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

I am not gambling like an addict, so I will not expect my fiancee to determine what I will do or not. But I noticed women correct when they know their boyfriend is affected by gambling, but I am not that type of person.

For people that are addicted, if their wife or fiancee or girlfriend tell them to quit gambling, I will dice them to do so.

[Juse14]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

This is quite a troublesome question, especially for me as a single man who likes to gamble...

Talking about gambling is my hoby and talking about marriage is something that I really and really dream of. However, if in reality it is like that where the woman asks me to stop gambling as one of the conditions before marriage, then I will fulfill these requirements and immediately give up gambling without having to think twice. because in my opinion gambling is not something that is important to consider and think about.

However, on the other hand, I also really understand that the temptation to gamble is very strong and whether it is a temptation from outside or from myself, but I hope I can be consistent and still respect the decision not to return to gambling.

[shogun47]

Oh boy, that's quite the loaded question! If the person I end up marrying ever asks me to give up gambling completely, they better have some truly amazing ideas lined up to fill that void.
A strong marriage is built on compromise, am I right?

If not it might just be easier to go find a new spouse! 

That's a question that can't be answered without context at all... Let's assume that the spouse knows it is the only way to save the relationship, what then? What if the husband is going crazy, gambling away family savings and being a bad father maybe? Wouldn't the only right way to go about it be to set an ultimatum as a wife? She could be reckless and just let the husband flush his life down the toilet or she would be going all out and try to save him. It really depends on how bad the situation is and what is at risk, but a brutally honest wife would sometimes do the right thing if she is brave enough to say "either gambling or me". When compromise doesn't help, what other options would she be left with?

[topbitcoin]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Everything can be discussed, friend.. But it seems that when it comes to women it feels very difficult to talk about it and it seems like OP knows very well that a man's weakness is in women. Where a woman is one of God's creatures who is quite stubborn and when she wants something or forbids something, like it or not, we as men who love her so much have to obey it, and if not, maybe something we don't want will happen.

And if later the prospective bride demands that I give up gambling before continuing with a wedding, then as much as possible I will try to leave gambling and I do this not because I am afraid of being abandoned by the woman, but I am just showing my seriousness. that I really intended to marry him. However, if in reality, after I try to leave gambling but in reality I can't, then for all decisions I will return it to the prospective bride and how grateful I will be if she is willing to accept it all, but if she is unable to accept it So I thought that he was not a suitable partner for me because he couldn't accept all the shortcomings that I had. And indeed there is a saying "when a woman gives many conditions to accept you, then in fact the woman really doesn't want you to be her life partner."

[Wexnident]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Hmm depends? I mean I'd try to meet halfway if possible, especially if my gambling habits don't really do anything to damage our finances or whatnot. I'd still spend money for my entertainment on something no matter what after all, so stopping gambling is not going to add what I spend there to our savings. I mean ofc I'd prioritize her opinions, but only if they make sense. I mean before marriage I'd probably tell my partner that I gamble for her to judge after all. It's harder to tell after the marriage, who knows, that may just be her ultimatum of sorts for a relationship.

[Sandra_hakeem]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Oh my days!!!!!! What's really happening that y'all in bitvest keep making this crappy one-liner post?? After a long period of inactivity??.. I mean, if there's actually a way to avoid this thread and the gambling board in general, I will.
I won't leave gambling ( that's if I were a gambler already) except my partners gives valid reasons why I should do so... But If it's actually gone to an extent of terminating the relationship, then I'd put a stop to it.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

[danherbias07]

Someone will only tell a person to stop if he is either abusing it or he is doing it the wrong way. So, yes.
It's not like our partners in life are crazy to just tell us to stop a thing that we habitually do just because they like to. It's because they spotted something wrong and if it can be saved as early as possible then they must talk.
I'd do the same if my partner's gambling habits were uncontrollable anymore, the same goes with other things like if she is getting stressed with the new work or other stuff that makes her uncomfortable and I will be the one obliged to listen to all the cries.
That's just basic instinct and reaction to the people that you love, you don't want them being harmed so you suggest to stop whatever he is doing wrong.

[maydna]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Perhaps not if we weren't married. I can still freely gamble because I am not yet responsible for my family, meaning my nuclear family, where there is a husband, wife, and children. But if we were married, I would stop gambling if my partner told me to do this. There is no reason for me to stop because, after marriage, I will have responsibilities towards my family. I also don't want my finances disturbed because I gamble even though I'm still learning to control myself. But I'm just worried that if I don't stop gambling, I could lose self-control, which could cause me to spend money that should be on my family.

[Ever-young]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

If that will save my marriage then I will do just that, if one truly love their partner and they want to go into marital life with the person and the last request from the person was for me to leave gambling, if that what it will cost me to save the marriage then i will do just that.

Looking at it as someone who is about to enter a new life which means my expenses and things I need to spend money on will increase removing gambling from the budget will really help me stand out from not entering any debt in the future, and another thing is that I also need to do some savings for the family and prepare for some unforeseen circumstances that might arise anytime in the future,  my wife to be definitely saw something which make her suggest I leave gambling and I will do that without hesitation.

[lionheart78]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

My future wife is way more important than my gambling habit so I will surely leave gambling if she requested me to do so.  Removing one of the activities that require funds can give us more funds to spend on our plans or goals.  So the funds I allocate for gambling can be saved and maybe used to fund businesses that we want to establish.  Come to think of it, it is not a bad thing to give way to our partner's request as long as it can give us a good result.

[qwertyup23]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

It depends on the reason on why my future spouse tells me to quit and leave gambling behind.

Obviously, if my future spouse tells me to quit gambling, she must substantiate it with enough reason for her to justify it. Personally, I view gambling as a form of entertainment and not a money-making venture. With this perspective on mind, I know my limits and I always make sure not to go beyond the initial money that I have allocated for this venture.

Though this may be the case, I WILL personally quit gambling if I have family commitments that I must exercise. Instead of using the allocated expenses for gambling, I would definitely focus it more on to the family rather to this dangerous habit that can explode any time.

[Accardo]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

And why did you decide to use future wife/husband don't you know that most members here are married already?
Well to answer your question. if gambling has began to affect me negatively. Then I guess my wife(I'm not yet married) can tell me to stop gambling. We shouldn't allow gambling to create a negative impact on our life as well as on our relationships.

He may be reffering to those who are yet to get married. As the married men here rarely share their experiences with the spouse they married, regarding gambling. So, if in future such thing happens. Speculating. I'd look for a means to save the marriage. She could be right at a point. And if any problem arises through gambling she won't take sides with me. Which would be a huge family problem. But, my best move is not letting her find out about my gambling activities. Maybe play games when she's not around. Because she could be scared, her husband can gamble away all the money meant for the family. Women can't trust men when it's about sports betting or other gambling activities. In my response, it's not a bad idea to keep it at a minimal. Then give it a break. Or if the woman reasons alike, she can drop her listening ear on what I'll have to tell her about my gambling habit. If she does listen, she'll find herself getting interested in gambling. It's mainly about mutual understanding between the couple. And when we both are on a similar page, the relationship bond gets stronger day to day. Husband and wife can become gambling duos, watching their performances not to make big financial mistakes. It's also right if we try our luck on her, as gamblers, by trying to defend ourselves. If she insists, then I'll think of stopping. At least to stay in peace and harmony with the woman in my life. Because if gambling is not providing me fun and happiness in my home, then no point of engaging into gambling.

[krishnaverma]

Advice to stop doing something is a common occurrence if the thing has become a bad thing. Regardless of the actual purpose of gambling to get entertainment, if the gambling I do has led to bad things, then I will accept and try the advice to stop gambling.

Especially in my country (Indonesia), quite a few people have had their lives ruined because of gambling, of course, this all happens because of a lack of understanding about gambling and greedy behavior. People in this country (Indonesia) think they can get rich from gambling and can control everything there .

Same mentality in all developing countries mostly. The people is developed countries have different thinking, they take gambling as fun activity mainly.

[zuzie]

Of course it will stop, because in a marriage relationship there must be a commitment that must be mutually agreed upon, there are no lies to cover up, so if one partner can accept his partner gambling then he will be lucky but don't gamble carelessly. This means, don't gamble too much so that your partner doesn't experience disappointment. Take advantage of the opportunity to get permission from your partner by gambling well and correctly, by placing small bets and just for entertainment in your free time, because the most important thing is your partner's happiness.

[Mahanton]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

For the better good then definitely YES! if my wife would really be telling about quitting then i would really be doing such thing.Better to make yourself that obedient as his husband.
Nothing beats out on having a life with a happy wife. If your wife is really just that fine on the things that you are getting involved into then thats good but if she forbids out and telling you to quit then fine
and dont tend to argue knowing that gambling could really mess up someones life when it comes to finance which it is really just that normal that your wife would really be minding about your finances
or even if you arent that still married but if she had plans on marrying you then earlier the better on telling you on what are the things that she does like and not.If you do love someone then you would really be
that prepared on sacrificing on the things that you have get used to it.

On the time that you do have a happy wife then you would definitely be having a happy life and this is what we do prefer most. We do know that not all would really be that
too open even they had just got married. They would really be secretly be still doing gambling and on the time and once you do get caught then you do
know on whats next. Whether its a divorce or a severe discussion and quarrels on which this is something that i dont really like.

[piebeyb]

Though this may be the case, I WILL personally quit gambling if I have family commitments that I must exercise. Instead of using the allocated expenses for gambling, I would definitely focus it more on to the family rather to this dangerous habit that can explode any time.

Yes, because our wives can be an alarm to help us get out of bad habits, it should be like that but sometimes there are also those who don't want to listen to suggestions and advice from their wives because they have become heavy addicts, it's definitely difficult to hear the people around them, the danger of gambling is when you fall because you went bankrupt in gambling but there are no people around you to encourage you and give you encouragement from your closest family like a wife, it will be difficult to get out.

Always respect our partner, but if we want to gamble, it's best to be open with him and talk about the bad gambling behavior that we've had so far or at least convince our partner that the gambling we do is just for entertainment and that it can be controlled well, for example I'm allowed My wife only gambles on weekends and even then her budget is limited because I entrust her with my finances so everything is well controlled. stop when the money runs out of gambling. Being honest and open with your partner is very good for building trust.

[Wakate]

Of course it will stop, because in a marriage relationship there must be a commitment that must be mutually agreed upon, there are no lies to cover up, so if one partner can accept his partner gambling then he will be lucky but don't gamble carelessly. This means, don't gamble too much so that your partner doesn't experience disappointment. Take advantage of the opportunity to get permission from your partner by gambling well and correctly, by placing small bets and just for entertainment in your free time, because the most important thing is your partner's happiness.

It is very important for us to try and keep our gambling lifestyle oru habit to ourselves. It is unprofessional for us to allow our family or wife to find out that we have this gambling lifestyle which can be very discouraging to them especially if we are spending too much money and always complaining that we don't have money with us. Women always see through things and the way they interpret things can be very different from the males entirely. Gambling need to be secretive and we need to make sure that people we value a lot do not have knowledge about our gambling lifestyle.